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Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by otiigba1(m): 9:51am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Addicted2Women:Damn! Seems like she got caught by leutenant colombo adddicted2women. ![]() ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by otiigba1(m): 9:53am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Addicted2Women:GBAM! She prolly thought that every nigerian is naive or uneducated or trying to accquire cheap publicity on nairaland |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by otiigba1(m): 10:02am On Jan 25, 2016 |
EgunMogaji:well... not responding sounds like DEAD to me o! ![]() ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by otiigba1(m): 10:12am On Jan 25, 2016 |
FemoLondon:LOL! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by otiigba1(m): 10:18am On Jan 25, 2016 |
LAjibade:listen! Lady! Just turn up at the chicago police station as requested, i doubt the police as incompetent as they may be, would just stand and watch while you are being strangled. If you are who you claim to be |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by otiigba1(m): 10:19am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Addicted2Women:i wonder o! While the police watch ![]() ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by otiigba1(m): 10:21am On Jan 25, 2016 |
tafrica:agreed %1000000! |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by otiigba1(m): 10:27am On Jan 25, 2016 |
LAjibade:chai! Yea! So you were aware of all these? Yet still happy portraying him as a scammer who dissappeard after a short while marriage to you ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by OTEGA1: 10:42am On Jan 25, 2016 |
OP Write to homeland security and post his information to them to track him down and deport his ass down to his village. For coming under false pretence and conducting a scam marriage. U need to do this fast so that does not become a stumbling block for you wen serious minded suitors come for you. Dont mind does folks here that have nothing in dere brains only to insult people they do not know and i bet wen u meet them they will deny dey ever did such.I keep wondering were Nigerians learnt to insult people at will unprovoked. I guess is inferiority complex and envy, when dey cannot be like you dey insult you at will.Its indeed shameful as they think of insults rather than thinking of solutions to problem. Nigerians are nice people but the kids here dat manage to by data and come online with no job to do will result to insults out of life frustration. It look like you married a yoruba man. Avoid the yoruba folks from nigeria over there they cant be trusted dey are sellout people they give you all the hope and dissapoint you after wards.Probably he is with one yoruba lady dere in the US camping with he and laughing at how stupid u are. Even in Nigeria we avoid them cos of their erratic nature. Tell your friends to watch out for people from dere other tribes in Nigeria are ok. Lastly teach the dude a lesson to be honest and stop decieving innocent americans as good dudes with honest intentions exist. Would have meet you if i knew you. Will be visiting states in the summer.I love to marry a nice american lady out of love i have meet many during my trips but their character did not match wat i wanted so am not in a hurry if you have nice friends u could recomend that are serious for marriage not 419 scam marriage PM me. |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by amparas(m): 11:07am On Jan 25, 2016 |
Bus ticket lol |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by emmysoftyou: 11:42am On Jan 25, 2016 |
LAjibade:my cousin brother had the same issues with yours.he married a girl he knew from cameroun that base in usa now.this girl persuaded him for marriage proposal,so that she could get residential permit,visa or social security/benefit or whatever.the cameroun girl who base in US came to nigeria for the wedding arrangement set in place by my relative.they even spend money to put things in place.however, my cousin wedded her. The next day,she travelled to usa and from then,we didnt hear anything from her again and the family of my cousin re wondering what kind of marriage arrangement was that? Pls this is base on what my other cousin told me.if i have knew,i wouldnt have attended. But my dear, men in this world re desperate and eagar to do whatever means to survives. Its so unfortunate you re a victim of circumstances here but i just wish you seeks advise before engaging in an illicit marriage with him. Dont worry God is alive,tender your problems with him and he shall take away your burden from you. Some people enjoys living a fake life but their punnishment is not far them. Be strong dear...it s well...cheers. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by FTBoi: 12:12pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
taryour:stop discouraging her! what if he was kidnapped? ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by taryour(f): 12:16pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
FTBoi: Na you kidnap am abi and kept him in your closet i guess ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Nobody: 4:10pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
LAjibade: Well I choose to believe you, haven't seen anything to doubt your very common story. I'm glad you're getting the assistance you seek via PM. On NL you need to be an expert in separating the chaff from the wheat. I still say that you file a divorce, serve him in absentia and move on with your life. If you do not file a divorce, get married again and petition someone else then the embassy will find out. |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Nobody: 4:18pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
otiigba1: Many assaults and murders have occurred right in front of LEOs here and one particular case inside the PD. Never underestimate the tenacity of a deranged mind. Many have been maimed or worse killed for doing just that. |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Nobody: 4:22pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
emmysoftyou: 1) Your Cousin Brother is based in the US. 2) Cameroon Girl is based in the US. 3) With the overabundance of marriage opportunities in the USA, even Las Vegas 5 minute drive thru weddings where you don't even have to get out of your car to get married and for maybe $50, they flew to Nigeria as great expense to have a wedding. 4) I don't believe this particular story because it's out of the norm. If anywhere they would have gotten married in Cameroon. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by onoja12: 4:35pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
you are the one who does not read,when you send someone a message and he doesn't respond what does that mean,did you hear her say he was online,if you haven't seen somebody since 2013 and you know he has just spent 3 months in that country,shouldn't you be worried if you were married to the person.the law says after 48hrs a missing person's report should be filed.the problem with Nigerians is slave mentality rather than worry for the life of your countrymen,you all are there worrying about a leaving woman,most of you haven't traveled when you do racism would educate you all on what really goes on EgunMogaji: |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by erico2k2(m): 4:36pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
ChynoBEATS:Relax and learn so. Something new |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Nobody: 4:39pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
onoja12: Okay fine, I'm wrong, you read but your mental capacity doesn't allow you to comprehend. Double wahala. Go and read what she wrote again and ask a kindergartner to explain what it means to you ![]() Astute fellow (believe that you'll believe anything), I've lived in the USA for longer than you've probably been alive and have never experienced racism. Stop trying to make "whites" or Americans to be bad people. You asshats line up as early as 5AM at USEL to beg for our visas yet you will come on here and paint us as bad racist folks. Have you heard the term hypocrite? Nigerians are the worst racist I know. Just look at the threads on here about Ibos and Yorubas. Now Foxtrot Oscar. |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by erico2k2(m): 4:40pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
emmysoftyou:Story for the gods 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by onoja12: 5:05pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
hold you mouth,how old are you.you live in america and there was no racism,which part of america was that and in what year? EgunMogaji: |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by emmysoftyou: 5:54pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
EgunMogaji:i dont care if anyone of you believe me or not,am not here to convince anybody cos i ve nothing to lose. the op experience reminded me of what happened to my cousin and i still have the wedding picture with me till date but i cant post the picture of my cousin here. For what na.. Bro listen to me very well, my cousin base in cameroun,and that s where she knew the girl b4. he came to nigeria because the lady in question told her that she will prefare to do the white wedding in nigeria and not cameroun where she came from.(reason best know to them). note; he knew this girl from cameroun b4 she travelled to usa. maybe she doesnt have residential permit or social benefit or whatever? I dont know. But is like the USa gave her condition that b4 you can get some requirement done. She must be a married woman before she can benefit or recognised as a citizen there or whatever. Etc. pls,i dont know the full details yet.i have not being there(Us).I dont know how their system work there. And i dont care if you believe me or not. is not my business ok..tanx. but men/women of the world re desperate this days to do anything to survives.. May God help the innocence ones..thank q. |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Nobody: 6:11pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
emmysoftyou: That settles it then, I don't believe your story because it doesn't make sense to me. Have a nice day. |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Nobody: 6:13pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
onoja12: I'm actually using my fingers to type and not my mouth. Have a nice day. PS: I was in London, USA ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by onoja12: 7:39pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
sorry ehh,go and ask your elders what it means EgunMogaji: |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Nobody: 7:41pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
onoja12: Ask them what exactly? My elders don't speak gibberish. Think first before you type ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by onoja12: 7:50pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
do you even know watin be elders?i no sure.you no even get .new generaqtion children.it shall be well with una EgunMogaji: |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by sonnie10: 7:53pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
Lets follow the time line from the information OP presented: I have a different perspective on this story and I will say why.As the OP stated, if they got married in 2011 and she filed for him in 2012 and he arrived US in 2013, that makes it less than two years of marriage before his petition was filed. Going by this information, is it certain that he was given a CONDITIONAL PERMANENT RESIDENCE and not permanent residence. For conditional permanent residence, he would need to remove the condition after two years, that is in 2015 or face removal proceedings (deportation) . Usually, about 3 month to the end of the two years (2013-2015), the authorities would write him to come forward and proof that he meets certain conditions. These conditions can not be met if he is no longer in that relationship because the spouse would be totally involved. If he did walk away in 2013, three month after arrival, how did he remove the condition on his papers in 2015? The lady in this case has nothing to worry as the laws are there to protect her and ensure justices for her. The reason is that his papers expired in 2015, and their is no indication that it has been renewed, as this can not be done without the spouse consent. The bottom-line is that if OP's story is true which I doubt, then the men is as good as a Vagabond roaming the streets because he is living undergrounds with no prospect or means of survival. Unfortunately for him, that is how the system is set up, he won't even be able to get employment because his papers are expired. Worst still, nobody would take him in because he is now illegal, even landlords won't rent to him. This is 2016, one year after 2015, believe it or not his case must have been decided. 2011 - 2016; 5years wasted in senseless act. |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Nobody: 7:56pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
onoja12: Put down the bottle and compose yourself in company ![]() |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Nobody: 7:59pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
sonnie10: Completely untrue. You are apparently somewhat savvy on the matter. Please instead of responding with an argument please spend some time on USCIS.Gov to add to your knowledge base. +++++++++++ From USCIS.Gov Remove Conditions on Permanent Residence Based on Marriage Your permanent residence status is conditional if it is based on a marriage that was less than 2 years old on the day you were given permanent residence. You are given conditional resident status on the day you are lawfully admitted to the United States on an immigrant visa or adjustment of your status to permanent residence. Your status is conditional, because you must prove that you did not get married to evade the immigration laws of the United States. To remove these conditions you must file Form I-751, Petition to Remove Conditions on Residence. Eligibility Criteria Generally, you may apply to remove your conditions on permanent residence if you: Are still married to the same U.S. citizen or permanent resident after 2 years. You may include your children in your application if they received their conditional-resident status either at the same time or within 90 days as you did; Are a child and, for a valid reason, cannot be included in your parents’ application; Are a widow or widower who entered into your marriage in good faith; Entered into a marriage in good faith, but the marriage ended through divorce or annulment; or Entered into a marriage in good faith, but either you or your child were battered or subjected to extreme hardship by your U.S.-citizen or permanent-resident spouse. Note: Refer to Form I-751 for more specific eligibility requirements |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by sonnie10: 8:08pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
EgunMogaji: I understand the area you are pointing to, but there is a twist here because you are dealing with an aggrieved party who wants justice to be served. |
Re: Nigerian Marriage, Fake Or Real? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
sonnie10: Hmmm.. Maybe I'm missing something. She has impressed me as simply looking to ascertain her marital status. |
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