Addicted2Women:


Shut up fool.
Is it that a Nigerian marriage license ??
You're a scam
He got his visa with that fake ass license ??

Fucck out of here

Damn! Seems like she got caught by leutenant colombo adddicted2women. haa! Good job leutenant!

Addicted2Women:
With your written English, i know fully well you ain't no goddam American.

I know how Americans write.
Secondly, you want to know if the marriage certificate is fake or not ??
If it's fake, you said you will contact your lawyer and have your alleged husband deported because he used you.

OK, what if we tell you the marriage certificate is genuine, what will you do ?? Still go after him ?? Or will you allow him stay in America ??
So, why do you wanna know if it's fake or genuine if you will still get him deported the end of the day.

I know your ulterior motives, you want to potray Nigerian men as evil.

You claim to be an American but the Nigerians here are telling you how your laws work in America.

Fucck out of here.
Only dogs and goats will fall for this scam

GBAM! She prolly thought that every nigerian is naive or uneducated or trying to accquire cheap publicity on nairaland

EgunMogaji:




You guys don't read these threads before responding.

She already said that he's on Facebook but not responding to her. So "whites" haven't lynched him.

well... not responding sounds like DEAD to me o! so its possible whites may have lynched him *sarcasm*

FemoLondon:


Very good point .... you have exposed a possible scam here by the OP .....

Though, I do not think you are a lawyer in America ... no self respecting lawyer will put a picture like you have on your DP ... a selfie with your shirtless body, sticking your tongue out and grabbing your junk .... good grief lad

LOL! not a problem what he is wearing so long as he can win cases in court. Have you seen my dp? I am also training to be a lawyer *sarcasm*

LAjibade:
tafrica Are you outta your mind? Addicted2Women just posted a threat to strangle me to death if he can only see my face, and I am just gonna help him? One thing is "Come find me and try" and another is putting myself in his hands.....I'll just sit here and wait to see how he gonna find me...

listen! Lady! Just turn up at the chicago police station as requested, i doubt the police as incompetent as they may be, would just stand and watch while you are being strangled. If you are who you claim to be

Addicted2Women:


I will strangle you to death at the Police station ?
How foolish are you ??

i wonder o! While the police watch

tafrica:


I won't trade insult with you but I'm sure you could read "Chicago police Station" I wasn't asking you to give him your home address.

The onus lies on you to prove your story is not fake. You sound like a scammer and I won't join other Nigerians to help you achieve your missions of painting us black in our faces and also getting the potential clients you want to scam by faking American woman.

Tell us the court where the wedding took place in Nigeria.

Did any member of your family partake in the wedding?

Did any member of your 'claimed husband' partake?

Post your wedding pictures?

With which certificate did you petition for him to come over to USA? if it is what you posted, you as well know US won't honour it.

Untill you clear our doubts, you're a scammer.

AGAIN, I CHALLENGE YOU TO GO MEET ADDICTED2WOMEN AT CHICAGO POLICE STATION.

agreed %1000000!

LAjibade:
Is up to each individual whether he/she chooses to believe me or not, to label me a scammer, etc. God knows my story is genuine. I don't blame anyone who choose to not to believe me. I tried to clear some doubts but many of you chose to insult me, to label me, to threaten me and to speak harshly and abusively. Simply because I refuse to post personal details and photos here. Even though I am the victim and my husband the scammer, posting his personal information such as photos and so on, it's against the law in America. I won't do it. I just wanted to know if a Nigerian marriage lisence has expiration date or not....OMG!! I married him in ikoyi at a registry. Anyway, never mind. At least I had many ones who clarified the issue through private msgs.

chai! Yea! So you were aware of all these? Yet still happy portraying him as a scammer who dissappeard after a short while marriage to you

OP Write to homeland security and post his information to them to track him down and deport his ass down to his village. For coming under false pretence and conducting a scam marriage.

U need to do this fast so that does not become a stumbling block for you wen serious minded suitors come for you.

Dont mind does folks here that have nothing in dere brains only to insult people they do not know and i bet wen u meet them they will deny dey ever did such.I keep wondering were Nigerians learnt to insult people at will unprovoked. I guess is inferiority complex and envy, when dey cannot be like you dey insult you at will.Its indeed shameful as they think of insults rather than thinking of solutions to problem.

Nigerians are nice people but the kids here dat manage to by data and come online with no job to do will result to insults out of life frustration. It look like you married a yoruba man. Avoid the yoruba folks from nigeria over there they cant be trusted dey are sellout people they give you all the hope and dissapoint you after wards.Probably he is with one yoruba lady dere in the US camping with he and laughing at how stupid u are. Even in Nigeria we avoid them cos of their erratic nature. Tell your friends to watch out for people from dere other tribes in Nigeria are ok.

Lastly teach the dude a lesson to be honest and stop decieving innocent americans as good dudes with honest intentions exist. Would have meet you if i knew you. Will be visiting states in the summer.I love to marry a nice american lady out of love i have meet many during my trips but their character did not match wat i wanted so am not in a hurry if you have nice friends u could recomend that are serious for marriage not 419 scam marriage PM me.

Bus ticket lol

LAjibade:
Hello everyone. I have a question and was hoping you could shed me some light in a matter. I am in America. I went to Nigeria in 2011 and married my husband. I petition for him in 2012 and he arrived to America in 2013. Three months later he left. He is here in America, just not with me. He just left once he received his social security number, his permanent visa and a job in two months of being here. I haven't heard from him nor seen him again. I been wondering for a long time if my marriage to him is valid. In the marriage license it says it expired in 2013. I don't understand that.

Was our marriage set up or arranged to be temporary? I don't really understand Nigerian law or customs concerning marriage. (I am not Nigerian) I know my husband was rushing me to get him here before that expiration date. I am very confused. I also went to the office of public records here in America and they couldn't find any marital records of me and my husband, nothing. On the back of my marriage license issued in Nigeria, there is a website of marriage records, I entered my name and his name and didn't find anything. It just says no records found. Am I married to him or was it all fake? Can you please help me find out? I'd appreciate it. Even if it was all a scam, I still have Nigeria in my heart and will never have anything against Nigeria and Nigerians. Just my husband. Thank you in advance.

my cousin brother had the same issues with yours.he married a girl he knew from cameroun that base in usa now.this girl persuaded him for marriage proposal,so that she could get residential permit,visa or social security/benefit or whatever.the cameroun girl who base in US came to nigeria for the wedding arrangement set in place by my relative.they even spend money to put things in place.however, my cousin wedded her. The next day,she travelled to usa and from then,we didnt hear anything from her again and the family of my cousin re wondering what kind of marriage arrangement was that?
Pls this is base on what my other cousin told me.if i have knew,i wouldnt have attended.
But my dear, men in this world re desperate and eagar to do whatever means to survives.
Its so unfortunate you re a victim of circumstances here but i just wish you seeks advise before engaging in an illicit marriage with him.
Dont worry God is alive,tender your problems with him and he shall take away your burden from you.
Some people enjoys living a fake life but their punnishment is not far them.
Be strong dear...it s well...cheers.

taryour:


Stop calling him your husband already. He is gone and dont expect him back soon except he comes begging to decieve and lure you into using you again as a gateway to another of his wicked plans.

He is just one of the bad Men and Nigerian who has spoilt the good ones. Some women too are like that.
Move one with your life and forget you ever meet him. Karma will deal with him.

stop discouraging her! what if he was kidnapped?

FTBoi:
stop discouraging her! what if he was kidnapped?

Na you kidnap am abi and kept him in your closet i guess

LAjibade:
Is up to each individual whether he/she chooses to believe me or not, to label me a scammer, etc. God knows my story is genuine. I don't blame anyone who choose to not to believe me. I tried to clear some doubts but many of you chose to insult me, to label me, to threaten me and to speak harshly and abusively. Simply because I refuse to post personal details and photos here. Even though I am the victim and my husband the scammer, posting his personal information such as photos and so on, it's against the law in America. I won't do it. I just wanted to know if a Nigerian marriage lisence has expiration date or not....OMG!! I married him in ikoyi at a registry. Anyway, never mind. At least I had many ones who clarified the issue through private msgs.

Well I choose to believe you, haven't seen anything to doubt your very common story.

I'm glad you're getting the assistance you seek via PM. On NL you need to be an expert in separating the chaff from the wheat.

I still say that you file a divorce, serve him in absentia and move on with your life. If you do not file a divorce, get married again and petition someone else then the embassy will find out.

otiigba1:
i wonder o! While the police watch

Many assaults and murders have occurred right in front of LEOs here and one particular case inside the PD.

Never underestimate the tenacity of a deranged mind. Many have been maimed or worse killed for doing just that.

emmysoftyou:
my cousin brother had the same issues with yours.he married a girl he knew from cameroun that base in usa now.this girl persuaded him for marriage proposal,so that she could get residential permit,visa or social security/benefit or whatever.the cameroun girl who base in US came to nigeria for the wedding arrangement set in place by my relative.they even spend money to put things in place.however, my cousin wedded her. The next day,she travelled to usa and from then,we didnt hear anything from her again and the family of my cousin re wondering what kind of marriage arrangement was that?
Pls this is base on what my other cousin told me.if i have knew,i wouldnt have attended.
But my dear, men in this world re desperate and eagar to do whatever means to survives.
Its so unfortunate you re a victim of circumstances here but i just wish you seeks advise before engaging in an illicit marriage with him.
Dont worry God is alive,tender your problems with him and he shall take away your burden from you.
Some people enjoys living a fake life but their punnishment is not far them.
Be strong dear...it s well...cheers.

1) Your Cousin Brother is based in the US.
2) Cameroon Girl is based in the US.
3) With the overabundance of marriage opportunities in the USA, even Las Vegas 5 minute drive thru weddings where you don't even have to get out of your car to get married and for maybe $50, they flew to Nigeria as great expense to have a wedding.
4) I don't believe this particular story because it's out of the norm. If anywhere they would have gotten married in Cameroon.

you are the one who does not read,when you send someone a message and he doesn't respond what does that mean,did you hear her say he was online,if you haven't seen somebody since 2013 and you know he has just spent 3 months in that country,shouldn't you be worried if you were married to the person.the law says after 48hrs a missing person's report should be filed.the problem with Nigerians is slave mentality rather than worry for the life of your countrymen,you all are there worrying about a leaving woman,most of you haven't traveled when you do racism would educate you all on what really goes on

EgunMogaji:




You guys don't read these threads before responding.

She already said that he's on Facebook but not responding to her. So "whites" haven't lynched him.

ChynoBEATS:



He used you to get a permanent Entry ....


Sue him if you have too


...... And 2ndly which registry did you Guys register your marriage?

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This is so unfair ...he used you

Some men ehn..

Relax and learn so. Something new

onoja12:
you are the one who does not read,when you send someone a message and he doesn't respond what does that mean,did you hear her say he was online,if you haven't seen somebody since 2013 and you know he has just spent 3 months in that country,shouldn't you be worried if you were married to the person.the law says after 48hrs a missing person's report should be filed.the problem with Nigerians is slave mentality rather than worry for the life of your countrymen,you all are there worrying about a leaving woman,most of you haven't traveled when you do racism would educate you all on what really goes on

Okay fine, I'm wrong, you read but your mental capacity doesn't allow you to comprehend. Double wahala.

Go and read what she wrote again and ask a kindergartner to explain what it means to you

Astute fellow (believe that you'll believe anything), I've lived in the USA for longer than you've probably been alive and have never experienced racism. Stop trying to make "whites" or Americans to be bad people. You asshats line up as early as 5AM at USEL to beg for our visas yet you will come on here and paint us as bad racist folks. Have you heard the term hypocrite? Nigerians are the worst racist I know. Just look at the threads on here about Ibos and Yorubas.

Now Foxtrot Oscar.

emmysoftyou:
my cousin brother had the same issues with yours.he married a girl he knew from cameroun that base in usa now.this girl persuaded him for marriage proposal,so that she could get residential permit,visa or social security/benefit or whatever.the cameroun girl who base in US came to nigeria for the wedding arrangement set in place by my relative.they even spend money to put things in place.however, my cousin wedded her. The next day,she travelled to usa and from then,we didnt hear anything from her again and the family of my cousin re wondering what kind of marriage arrangement was that?
Pls this is base on what my other cousin told me.if i have knew,i wouldnt have attended.
But my dear, men in this world re desperate and eagar to do whatever means to survives.
Its so unfortunate you re a victim of circumstances here but i just wish you seeks advise before engaging in an illicit marriage with him.
Dont worry God is alive,tender your problems with him and he shall take away your burden from you.
Some people enjoys living a fake life but their punnishment is not far them.
Be strong dear...it s well...cheers.

Story for the gods

hold you mouth,how old are you.you live in america and there was no racism,which part of america was that and in what year?

EgunMogaji:


Okay fine, I'm wrong, you read but your mental capacity doesn't allow you to comprehend. Double wahala.

Go and read what she wrote again and ask a kindergartner to explain what it means to you

Astute fellow (believe that you'll believe anything), I've lived in the USA for longer than you've probably been alive and have never experienced racism. Stop trying to make "whites" or Americans to be bad people. You asshats line up as early as 5AM at USEL to beg for our visas yet you will come on here and paint us as bad racist folks. Have you heard the term hypocrite? Nigerians are the worst racist I know. Just look at the threads on here about Ibos and Yorubas.

Now Foxtrot Oscar.

EgunMogaji:


1) Your Cousin Brother is based in the US.
2) Cameroon Girl is based in the US.
3) With the overabundance of marriage opportunities in the USA, even Las Vegas 5 minute drive thru weddings where you don't even have to get out of your car to get married and for maybe $50, they flew to Nigeria as great expense to have a wedding.
4) I don't believe this particular story because it's out of the norm. If anywhere they would have gotten married in Cameroon.

i dont care if anyone of you believe me or not,am not here to convince anybody cos i ve nothing to lose.
the op experience reminded me of what happened to my cousin and i still have the wedding picture with me till date but i cant post the picture of my cousin here. For what na..
Bro listen to me very well, my cousin base in cameroun,and that s where she knew the girl b4.
he came to nigeria because the lady in question told her that she will prefare to do the white wedding in nigeria and not cameroun where she came from.(reason best know to them).

note; he knew this girl from cameroun b4 she travelled to usa. maybe she doesnt have residential permit or social benefit or whatever? I dont know. But is like the USa gave her condition that b4 you can get some requirement done. She must be a married woman before she can benefit or recognised as a citizen there or whatever. Etc.
pls,i dont know the full details yet.i have not being there(Us).I dont know how their system work there.
And i dont care if you believe me or not.
is not my business ok..tanx.
but men/women of the world re desperate this days to do anything to survives..
May God help the innocence ones..thank q.

emmysoftyou:
i dont care if anyone of you believe me or not ,am not here to convince anybody cos i ve nothing to lose.
the op experience reminded me of what happened to my cousin and i still have the wedding picture with me till date but i cant post the picture of my cousin here. For what na..
Bro listen to me very well, my cousin base in cameroun,and that s where she knew the girl b4.
he came to nigeria because the lady in question told her that she will prefare to do the white wedding in nigeria and not cameroun where she came from.(reason best know to them).

note; he knew this girl from cameroun b4 she travelled to usa. maybe she doesnt have residential permit or social benefit or whatever? I dont know. But is like the USa gave her condition that b4 you can get some requirement done. She must be a married woman before she can benefit or recognised as a citizen there or whatever. Etc.
pls,i dont know the full details yet.i have not being there(Us).I dont know how their system work there.
And i dont care if you believe me or not.
is not my business ok..tanx.
but men/women of the world re desperate this days to do anything to survives..
May God help the innocence ones..thank q.

That settles it then, I don't believe your story because it doesn't make sense to me.

Have a nice day.

onoja12:
hold you mouth ,how old are you.you live in america and there was no racism,which part of america was that and in what year?

I'm actually using my fingers to type and not my mouth.

Have a nice day.

PS: I was in London, USA

sorry ehh,go and ask your elders what it means

EgunMogaji:


I'm actually using my fingers to type and not my mouth.

Have a nice day.

PS: I was in London, USA

onoja12:
sorry ehh,go and ask your elders what it means

Ask them what exactly? My elders don't speak gibberish.

Think first before you type

do you even know watin be elders?i no sure.you no even get .new generaqtion children.it shall be well with una

EgunMogaji:


Ask them what exactly? My elders don't speak gibberish.

Think first before you type

Lets follow the time line from the information OP presented:

I have a different perspective on this story and I will say why.As the OP stated, if they got married in 2011 and she filed for him in 2012 and he arrived US in 2013, that makes it less than two years of marriage before his petition was filed. Going by this information, is it certain that he was given a CONDITIONAL PERMANENT RESIDENCE and not permanent residence.

For conditional permanent residence, he would need to remove the condition after two years, that is in 2015 or face removal proceedings (deportation) . Usually, about 3 month to the end of the two years (2013-2015), the authorities would write him to come forward and proof that he meets certain conditions. These conditions can not be met if he is no longer in that relationship because the spouse would be totally involved.

If he did walk away in 2013, three month after arrival, how did he remove the condition on his papers in 2015? The lady in this case has nothing to worry as the laws are there to protect her and ensure justices for her. The reason is that his papers expired in 2015, and their is no indication that it has been renewed, as this can not be done without the spouse consent.

The bottom-line is that if OP's story is true which I doubt, then the men is as good as a Vagabond roaming the streets because he is living undergrounds with no prospect or means of survival. Unfortunately for him, that is how the system is set up, he won't even be able to get employment because his papers are expired. Worst still, nobody would take him in because he is now illegal, even landlords won't rent to him.

This is 2016, one year after 2015, believe it or not his case must have been decided. 2011 - 2016; 5years wasted in senseless act.

onoja12:
do you even know watin be elders?i no sure.you no even get .new generaqtion children.it shall be well with una

Put down the bottle and compose yourself in company

sonnie10:
Lets follow the time line from the information OP presented:

I have a different perspective on this story and I will say why.As the OP stated, if they got married in 2011 and she filed for him in 2012 and he arrived US in 2013, that makes it less than two years of marriage before his petition was filed. Going by this information, is it certain that he was given a CONDITIONAL PERMANENT RESIDENCE and not permanent residence.

For conditional permanent residence, he would need to remove the condition after two years, that is in 2015 or face removal proceedings (deportation) . Usually, about 3 month to the end of the two years (2013-2015), the authorities would write him to come forward and proof that he meets certain conditions. These conditions can not be met if he is no longer in that relationship because the spouse would be totally involved.

If he did walk away in 2013, three month after arrival, how did he remove the condition on his papers in 2015? The lady in this case has nothing to worry as the laws are there to protect her and ensure justices for her. The reason is that his papers expired in 2015, and their is no indication that it has been renewed, as this can not be done without the spouse consent.

The bottom-line is that if OP's story is true which I doubt, then the men is as good as a Vagabond roaming the streets because he is living undergrounds with no prospect or means of survival. Unfortunately for him, that is how the system is set up, he won't even be able to get employment because his papers are expired. Worst still, nobody would take him in because he is now illegal, even landlords won't rent to him.

This is 2016, one year after 2015, believe it or not his case must have been decided. 2011 - 2016; 5years wasted in senseless act.

Completely untrue.

You are apparently somewhat savvy on the matter. Please instead of responding with an argument please spend some time on USCIS.Gov to add to your knowledge base.

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From USCIS.Gov

Remove Conditions on Permanent Residence Based on Marriage
Your permanent residence status is conditional if it is based on a marriage that was less than 2 years old on the day you were given permanent residence. You are given conditional resident status on the day you are lawfully admitted to the United States on an immigrant visa or adjustment of your status to permanent residence.

Your status is conditional, because you must prove that you did not get married to evade the immigration laws of the United States. To remove these conditions you must file Form I-751, Petition to Remove Conditions on Residence.

Eligibility Criteria

Generally, you may apply to remove your conditions on permanent residence if you:

Are still married to the same U.S. citizen or permanent resident after 2 years. You may include your children in your application if they received their conditional-resident status either at the same time or within 90 days as you did;
Are a child and, for a valid reason, cannot be included in your parents’ application;
Are a widow or widower who entered into your marriage in good faith;
Entered into a marriage in good faith, but the marriage ended through divorce or annulment; or
Entered into a marriage in good faith, but either you or your child were battered or subjected to extreme hardship by your U.S.-citizen or permanent-resident spouse.
Note: Refer to Form I-751 for more specific eligibility requirements

EgunMogaji:


Completely untrue.

You are apparently somewhat savvy on the matter. Please instead of responding with an argument please spend some time on USCIS.Gov to add to your knowledge base.

I understand the area you are pointing to, but there is a twist here because you are dealing with an aggrieved party who wants justice to be served.

sonnie10:


I understand the area you are pointing to, but there is a twist here because you are dealing with an aggrieved party who wants justice to be served.

Hmmm..

Maybe I'm missing something. She has impressed me as simply looking to ascertain her marital status.