My elder sister doesn't sleep, she goes to work by 8am but wakes up by 3 am (we are not in lagos dat she has to wake up early to beat traffic) the problem is when she is awake, every other person in the house must wake up willingly or forcefully. Not that we have a lot of work to do in the house but she just want you to be busy @ all times. She sleep late @ night and wake up early. Today she woke up by 2am and her noise won't let me sleep. I finally got up by 4am (come and see my sister's face). I was forced to start moving around looking for smtin to do. I'm not actually a fat gal but now, I'm becoming skinny due to lack of rest. When I complain, she says I'm too lazy. What should I do?

Speak with her politely

MoonChildng:
Speak with her politely

She will never listen, even the hubby is is tired of talking

She may be depressed ,she needs a break or a vacation

JVgal:


She will never listen, even the hubby is is tired of talking

that's my type. She's not suppose to enforce that on you. Try to be waking up early and keep yourself busy.

She is your cross, carry it

MoonChildng:
She may be depressed ,she needs a break or a vacation

She can't go a day without working, even wkends wen she doesn't go to work, she is always complaining of idleness. She still wake up early even when she has no Whr to go.

It may look simple but she needs help ,she needs to see a psychologist

JVgal:


She can't go a day without working, even wkends wen she doesn't go to work, she is always complaining of idleness. She still wake up early even when she has no Whr to go.

seunlayi:
She is your cross, carry it

How is she my cross, is it my fault dat she love work more dan her health?

JVgal:


She will never listen, even the hubby is is tired of talking

the hubby is not doing well
Tell the hubby to engage her well, she is bored, and therefore, putting her frustrations on u guys.

Hubby should do the needful

You r too lazy

CircleOfWilis:
the hubby is not doing well
Tell the hubby to engage her well, she is bored, and therefore, putting her frustrations on u guys.

Hubby should do the needful

If only u know the number of times they fight over this issue. Na my dey the house, the man don try my brother

boboLIL:
You r too lazy

Ok, I accept. Can't she just allow the lazy girl sleep?

Op by statistics she is a work addict, find out if she is smokes or drinks maybe it had gotten into her modula obulanga and check her psyche cos the earlier you have found out this issues with her the better, I have been a victim to this b4 now

go marry and leave the house, I like your sister maybe she got the habit from school, too much reading.

Put sleeping medicine in her food every night...


She will love sleep by force.

JVgal:


If only u know the number of times they fight over this issue. Na my dey the house, the man don try my brother

I meant he should sex her well to fatigue, she won't have that energy to be waking up that early

Ritababe u are here, how was ua nite

ojay2053:
that's my type. She's not suppose to enforce that on you. Try to be waking up early and keep yourself busy.

Ok thanks. But I must confess, dis 3 am waking up is draining all d fat in me.

JVgal:


Ok, I accept. Can't she just allow the lazy girl sleep?

dats y she is disturbing you now.... Laziness is a disease

ritababe:
go marry and leave the house, I like your sister maybe she got the habit from school, too much reading.

My sister, nor be me Go marry myself na

ucnwafor:
Ritababe u are here, how was ua nite

na Godwin

ritababe:

na Godwin

thy God!! All hail thee queen of sexuality mothers

JVgal:


My sister, nor be me Go marry myself na

will thou take my hand in marriage oh! Jvgal

ucnwafor:
will thou take my hand in marriage oh! Jvgal

Ur sis needs help. Like some1 said, she is depressed. That is 1 of the signs of depression.

She is always quick to engage her mind so that she won't wallow and get lost in her thought.

I repeat, she shld get help. Smtin is bulging her mind.

lumzybo:
Ur sis needs help. Like some1 said, she is depressed. That is 1 of the signs of depression.

She is always quick to engage her mind so that she won't wallow and get lost in her thought.

I repeat, she shld get help. Smtin is bulging her mind.

Thanks, I will have to tell sm1 older than her and who she respect to tell her, cos I dare not say that to her

JVgal:

am serious, wilt thou or will thou not and I canst caress thy life in my dwelling place, so we wilt tangle

JVgal:


Thanks, I will have to tell sm1 older than her and who she respect to tell her, cos I dare not say that to her

Someone other than her husband?

RobinHez:


Someone other than her husband?

I said sm1 older than her (not her husband)

@op

This is a psychological case... And as it stands she no longer works because she needs to get a task done or because there are some things to be done... But she now works just to fulfil a "physiological need to work"


I know this may sound stupid, but just wait till the marriage is almost tearing apart (cuz it will if she's not careful)... She'd come to her right senses. http://www.projectknow.com/research/work-addiction/

Or better still, get her to a psychologist.

RobinHez:
@op

This is a psychological case... And as it stands she no longer works because she needs to get a task done or because there are some things to be done... But she now works just to fulfil a "physiological need to work"


I know this may sound stupid, but just wait till the marriage is almost tearing apart (cuz it will if she's not careful)... She'd come to her right senses. http://www.projectknow.com/research/work-addiction/

Or better still, get her to a psychologist.

Alright, thanks