naijaboiy:
He probably cheated because they don't "bleep".

Maybe they didn't define their relationship at the start and now he can't go on without sex.

And just so you know,being beautiful or having a curvy shape is not what will keep a guy.

Julietcutie:

hmm but u guys make it seem like wen one is beautiful or curvy he wont cheat any how sha d guy dont deserve her

Lool which guys?

Guys are just merely attracted to those features and nothing more. So don't misunderstand when a guy says he will like his girl to be shapy and all that. Despite that some guys will still cheat.

Like I said earlier I think he cheated because they weren't having sex and he probably wasn't satisfied. So he got it outside.

Maybe he didn't talk to her about it before cheating,or maybe he did and she stood her ground on no sex but yet he continued to stay with her and still cheat.

czarr:
She is wicked! Why?...how does she expect him to relieve sexual tension?..
In this case....cheating is inevitable

kaziblake:
Cheating in nigeria becoming a normal stuff.
Be as beautiful as beyonce or as curvy as kim kadarshian,they will still cheat.

Tell your friend to take heart.

cruzita:
Because they are controlled by that tool in between their legs .men can be disgusting to the core.

cruzita:
Because they are controlled by that tool in between their legs .men can be disgusting to the core.

octopusfreaky:
@ naijaboiy,that's a lie,,even if she agrees to have xxxxxxxxxxx with him, he will still cheat. At times, you hear funny excuses like can you watch one tv station without getting bored..

They were not having sex and to me that was why he went outside.

You cannot just assume out of the blues. You don't know the guy in question personally.

And hey,I'm not trying to defend the boy before you get me wrong totally as most of you Nairaland females have a penchant for that.

czarr:
She is wicked!
Why?...how does she expect him to relieve sexual tension?..

In this case....cheating is inevitable

2 words: self-service.

OP in what way did he cheat?
How did your freind find out about the cheating?
Did she catch him in the act?
Did the boyfriend admit to cheating?
OR...
.....................did your friend assume because he had a female friend he had to be doing something with her?

cruzita:
Because they are controlled by that tool in between their legs .men can be disgusting to the core.

If i ask about your father now you will say I'm being insultive,but here you are generalizing all men to be the same.

Well if you will stick to it then include every man you've ever known.

Deuces.

tommychow:


Goes both ways.

QueenValerie:
2 words: self-service.

naijaboiy:

They were not having sex and to me that was why he went outside.

You cannot just assume out of the blues. You don't know the guy in question personally.

And hey,I'm not trying to defend the boy before you get me wrong totally as most of you Nairaland females have a penchant for that.

octopusfreaky:
meaning if you were in this guy's shoes,you would do same?

Don't put me in the spot and face the fùcking topic.

What I would do in that situation is Inconsequential to you or the topic at hand.

czarr:
lol...then why have a girlfriend?
What's the need?...company?he has his friends for that!!,support?his mom and sisters are there..

Sex is the gain here

QueenValerie:
2 words: self-service.

OP in what way did he cheat?
How did your freind find out about the cheating?Did she catch him in the act?
Did the boyfriend admit to cheating?

OR did your friend assume because he had a female friend he had to be doing something with her?

QueenValerie:
You asked how the op's the friend expected her man ta ease his sexual tension and I offered a option/solution.