Who woos ladies now? That was in d 80s, not now. Many chicks i hv had a romantic ordeal with, i never wooed them.
Well, i never wooed my fiancee, i just saw her in a public transport, that was 3yrs ago. We striked up a convo, i succeeded in collecting her digits before alighting frm d car. One thing led to the other and we are in love. Our traditional/white wedding is coming up on february and march this year.

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donholy28:
Na touch and follow juju me dey use

Make una come hear ooo

repogirl:
Sincerity is it.... Every good girl appreciates a sincere guy but the bad ones see a sincere guy as maga, so be careful.

I see this statement coming from the females themselves, it's real! Most guys these days are afraid of those girls. They would meet a sincere guys and still friend zone them. Females are the real reason behind their unmarried predicament. I was turned to a player by a lady who only want my money and rest stories goes......

Thumbs up....you nailed it. my type.

gabinogem:
How I started wooing girls was kinda easy... I just replace the thought of them being females, so whenever I approach any, I see her as my fellow guy hence, it flows smoothly. This way, u are always original & in control. Most times they tend to be shy especially when they are having friends around. U can kill the shyness by introducing humour into ur conversation.... Cheers

cruzita:
*spreads mat*waiting to catch liars

Seriously some gals gat influence,I nearly fainted the first day I approach here,imagine a 2nd level bobo asking a lady the name of the VC.well she made things easier by just laughing.
I just told her I like her,she never replied and left.
The next day she send me a text saying "please who is our Hod" then it all began like play..

Though shes now another man"s wife but those memories are still fresh and sweet in my mind.

Last year she wanted to continue "I said madam you are now someone's wife" abeg oooo

danbrowndmf:
How did your boyfriend woo you.please come tell ous.even if you are currently not dating,tell ous about how your ex woo you.


Laveda
Pinkbarbie
Prettythicksme
Pinkycute
Amusaopeyemi

I woo guys,dey dont woo me

abbiecutie:
very funny but unfortunately no

Lol. i wasnt referin to the word "THIS COULD BE US IN FUTURE". i was just asking to know your take from a woman's perspective if such word could pierce a heart.

7footre:

Op, this is the best advice you can get from this thread!!!

Yes, but you can't expect a smart girl to believe you love her when you barely know her. You can say "I'd like to be your friend", "I like you". Or better still you should start by telling her exactly what you like about her such as her smile, natural hair, eye colour, etc. The best way to go about it is not to rush. Just be friends and let the love come naturally so when you say it she doesn't doubt you and at the same time you're not uncomfortable saying it. Goodluck bro.

Not every friendship ends with being friend zoned...the whole thing is confusing though cause once I had a friend who probably wanted to date me but went through all the friendship wahala before he finally asked me to be his gf, guess what...I accepted! Just for the guy to leave me in a very heartless and unforgivable way.

So for me I don't know if I will accept my friends request that we take the relationship a step further or a guy who is meeting me for the first time ever and is already trying to make moves....

xpac01:

And get stucked in the friendzone... Forever!

not mine...it takes a lot to pierce my heart bro

KINGinVAHALA:

Lol. i wasnt referin to the word "THIS COULD BE US IN FUTURE". i was just asking to know your take from a woman's perspective if such word could pierce a heart.

prettythicksme:
I woo guys,dey dont woo me

looools.sharap & be serious for once...

danbrowndmf:
looools.sharap & be serious for once...

U dnt believe me? ok dey there!

cruzita:
*spreads mat*waiting to catch liars

I'm also spreading my mat to listen to your own 'sweet' lie...

Ok.

abbiecutie:
not mine...it takes a lot to pierce my heart bro

lol. even a female soldier's heart has been pierced with just HELLO. so mayb i shud say you havent had a convo with a bros who could nt only pierce but kiss your heart and make it weak.

madridguy:
Just tell her : I love you love you, talk your own.

My best toasting line, its works like magic.

Yesoooo. If magic really works... Merlin

Akuneshiobike:
Who woos ladies now? That was in d 80s, not now. Many chicks i hv had a ronantic ordeal with, i necer woo them.
Well, i never wooed my fiancee, i just saw her in a public transport, that was 3yrs ago. We striked up a convo, i succeeded in collecting her digits before alighting frm d car. One thing led to the other and we are in love. Our traditional/white wedding is coming up on february and march respectively

abbiecutie:
Not every friendship ends with being friend zoned...the whole thing is confusing though cause once I had a friend who probably wanted to date me but went through all the friendship wahala before he finally asked me to be his gf, guess what...I accepted! Just for the guy to leave me in a very heartless and unforgivable way.
So for me I don't know if I will accept my friends request that we take the relationship a step further or a guy who is meeting me for the first time ever and is already trying to make moves....

Panzerfaust:
You deserved more than a slap. Never ask a girl for her number immediately. The trick about asking for numbers is that you must first chat her up, then tell her you'll like to see her again. At that point, she will give you her number herself. You did not even talk to her, you were already asking for her number. You be stalker?

After the whole lot of impressions to gain her..


Two weeks later or a month later,u have her in Ur bed.. What happens again That's why I hate relationships whole heartedly..
Tomorrow, another man tries impressing d lady n d lady might fall again for him just cos she needs one or two things from him.



Love doesn't work out. Make money n see love upon love,anything less than that is fake

I bought her wrist watch during one val day & rest is history

I don't think there is a lay down strategy for this....what worked for me might not work for u...as we are all different in our make up...so simply put....just tell her how u feel, what u want and never lie to her...all the best sire....

Sincerely I don't woo ladies, they woo me with their body language.
its a matter of understanding their body language and knowing the right time to make a move.

Lesson 1: When u see her showing body language, just take a moment, study her and know the right time to make a move. If she doesn't show any sign of body language, show to her that you like her by engaging ur eyes in contact with hers.

Lesson 2: say hi to her, if she doesn't reply u, walk to her, let her know she is damn beautiful and u can't let her walk away without exchanging pleasantries. She would smile at you and don't forget to smile back o!

Lesson 3: if she replies ur hi, walk to her and say "beautiful may I have a moment with u please?" if she stops, take a deep breath, introduce urself confidently and be soft speaking. Don't ask too many questions, reserve too many questions for another time. Probably when u invite her for a date that's when u get to know her properly. just engage her in a little conversations during the first meeting and make sure u grab her contact very important. Yes! Its a link to her.

Finally, I bet u now u are good to go! Every lady would fall sway to ur spells if u are that guy who is confident and knows what he truly wants.

prettythicksme:
U dnt believe me? ok dey there!

lols.gbenu dake joor.

Was preparing for my first year second semester exams when I noticed her. We were having a discussive class in a grassy area beside unn stadium. After that we were walking our different ways when a discussion about women came up and I said "women are necessary evils". She fumed up almost quarelling me but I don't talk much so I made my point and went ahead hearing behind me all her arguments. One day I was eating abacha when this girl said she wants to eat and I said ok. She said it is just my meat she wants so I let her have it and ate my abacha without meat. Her friend was like aah but I smiled and didn't mind. I could see her one time talking and her voice will always be high but the next minute she is sleeping. We were majoring in same department. Most times she walks on the road you see her full of life and exubberance. On her short gowns she could jump up and down. There were times she could see me and say lift me up on the way. Once I did and just laughed over it and we continued our journey on our different routes. Finally exams finished and first year was over. I went to my room still in school hostel then-zik flat- for those who know unn. I was dressed on my suit about to attend rotaract meeting. Proudly a rota-lion. I had a bang on my room door. A girl entered and another followed suit. The first girl is also in my department and was close to me as I helped her in her studies, nothing more mind you. The second was this very girl I have been talking about since. I was like what! How can you people badge into my room like that, no prior information of your coming sef? They were like aah you won't even ask us to sit down? I said look I am on my way out as you can see. You people should have called first. The second girl was like oya let's go nah. He is chasing us from his room and they left. I sat down on my bed thinking. I was already falling for this girl and had wished severally for her visit. The first time she came I have not welcomed her in. Well it isn't my doing. A principled man cannot cancel his meeting for uninformed visitors. So I went to meeting. Days after I met her at the ziks gate and we exchanged numbers and I apologised to her telling her why it had to be like that. She said that's my worries o and it doesn't bother her. Fast forward I went home to ph and one day a female friend sent me one of these messages if I kiss you what will you do and all that. There was no better person to forward this message to but the very girl I chased and that exactly I did. She replied in her jovial way she would kiss me till I beg and start running. It was mtn free messages. We kept exchanging messages till I called and we spoke for a while. I later searched for her on facebook and we were the best of chat mates. We asked ourselves questions about the other and how the first year in school had been. We continued talking and I told her that I would hug her the first time we met and she was like humm let's wait and see. We were just talking as friends o. I was jokingly telling her my mind and feelings. I knew her to be jovial and easy going so certainly she wasn't taking my words to heart and I told myself I will ask her out once school resumes. This is 2012. On the 8th of october we both returned to nsk. I was shocked when someone hugged me in the market. I was embarrassed I could hug back. It was the same girl I had told I would hug the first time I saw anywhere. I was buying foam because I had rented a room off k while exams were on. The driver of the taxi I took for a drop was like guy this girl love you oh and you are just there. I was speechless until I asked what she was doing in the market so soon. She was smiling and that reminded me I had failed in what I said and has confirmed what she said that I won't be able to do that. After saying what she came to buy I told her to then hurry up and join my cab. I waited for a while she wasn't fot coming so I told the driver to move and that was it. I called her that I have moved after waiting for a while and she said no p. I told her to call me let me show her my place later in the day. Around five I got a call it was her her. Shock and unbelief ran through me. I went and met her and we walked to my place. On our way she reminded me I couldn't fulfil my sayings of hugging her at first sight. I am a shy person though and don't talk with girls much how much more hugging them. I tried to give excuses of we are in public. Anyway we got to my house and we ate and she actually past the night with me. Since then we have been together. Getting a good girl you love and who loves you doesn't take any specific thing. Just be yourself. We have future plans together. She brought me into nairaland.

danbrowndmf:
lols.gbenu dake joor.

prettythicksme:

..

danbrowndmf:
..

Lemme oo

Best way for me, I just tell am say, I roft you. If she smile, hope dey, if she slap , an run I dey....thank me later. Greatwhite

gabinogem:
How I started wooing girls was kinda easy... I just replace the thought of them being females, so whenever I approach any, I see her as my fellow guy hence, it flows smoothly. This way, u are always original & in control. Most times they tend to be shy especially when they are having friends around. U can kill the shyness by introducing humour into ur conversation.... Cheers

I do that too sometimes. But if the girl too fine e no dey work

Just tell her I Luv u .Yes or no cuz tym is going ...

Wow nice story. Abeg cc her Nairaland moniker biko

veraiyke:
Was preparing for my first year second semester exams when I noticed her. We were having a discussive class in a grassy area beside unn stadium. After that we were walking our different ways when a discussion about women came up and I said "women are necessary evils". She fumed up almost quarelling me but I don't talk much so I made my point and went ahead hearing behind me all her arguments. One day I was eating abacha when this girl said she wants to eat and I said ok. She said it is just my meat she wants so I let her have it and ate my abacha without meat. Her friend was like aah but I smiled and didn't mind. I could see her one time talking and her voice will always be high but the next minute she is sleeping. We were majoring in same department. Most times she walks on the road you see her full of life and exubberance. On her short gowns she could jump up and down. There were times she could see me and say lift me up on the way. Once I did and just laughed over it and we continued our journey on our different routes. Finally exams finished and first year was over. I went to my room still in school hostel then-zik flat- for those who know unn. I was dressed on my suit about to attend rotaract meeting. Proudly a rota-lion. I had a bang on my room door. A girl entered and another followed suit. The first girl is also in my department and was close to me as I helped her in her studies, nothing more mind you. The second was this very girl I have been talking about since. I was like what! How can you people badge into my room like that, no prior information of your coming sef? They were like aah you won't even ask us to sit down? I said look I am on my way out as you can see. You people should have called first. The second girl was like oya let's go nah. He is chasing us from his room and they left. I sat down on my bed thinking. I was already falling for this girl and had wished severally for her visit. The first time she came I have not welcomed her in. Well it isn't my doing. A principled man cannot cancel his meeting for uninformed visitors. So I went to meeting. Days after I met her at the ziks gate and we exchanged numbers and I apologised to her telling her why it had to be like that. She said that's my worries o and it doesn't bother her. Fast forward I went home to ph and one day a female friend sent me one of these messages if I kiss you what will you do and all that. There was no better person to forward this message to but the very girl I chased and that exactly I did. She replied in her jovial way she would kiss me till I beg and start running. It was mtn free messages. We kept exchanging messages till I called and we spoke for a while. I later searched for her on facebook and we were the best of chat mates. We asked ourselves questions about the other and how the first year in school had been. We continued talking and I told her that I would hug her the first time we met and she was like humm let's wait and see. We were just talking as friends o. I was jokingly telling her my mind and feelings. I knew her to be jovial and easy going so certainly she wasn't taking my words to heart and I told myself I will ask her out once school resumes. This is 2012. On the 8th of october we both returned to nsk. I was shocked when someone hugged me in the market. I was embarrassed I could hug back. It was the same girl I had told I would hug the first time I saw anywhere. I was buying foam because I had rented a room off k while exams were on. The driver of the taxi I took for a drop was like guy this girl love you oh and you are just there. I was speechless until I asked what she was doing in the market so soon. She was smiling and that reminded me I had failed in what I said and has confirmed what she said that I won't be able to do that. After saying what she came to buy I told her to then hurry up and join my cab. I waited for a while she wasn't fot coming so I told the driver to move and that was it. I called her that I have moved after waiting for a while and she said no p. I told her to call me let me show her my place later in the day. Around five I got a call it was her her. Shock and unbelief ran through me. I went and met her and we walked to my place. On our way she reminded me I couldn't fulfil my sayings of hugging her at first sight. I am a shy person though and don't talk with girls much how much more hugging them. I tried to give excuses of we are in public. Anyway we got to my house and we ate and she actually past the night with me. Since then we have been together. Getting a good girl you love and who loves you doesn't take any specific thing. Just be yourself. We have future plans together. She brought me into nairaland.

powerfulsettingz:
I never woo I just date by chance however I am in the same situation with op now, there was this girl I was trying to woo 4 nights ago, we had never talked before, so she came out to buy something and I followed her, stopped her then she said what's my problem, I was like see this stewpid thing, but I had to swallow my pride and I said my problem is her digit, i need it, she looked at me and said I don't have a phone and if u follow me again I will slap you, that's how all the feelings fly off the I told her slap me and then tell ur people to arrange how u want ur funeral to go....... She looked at me and was shocked......
I hate abusive and insulting ladies

Bros you need more patience o

prettythicksme:
Lemme oo

Pele

veraiyke:
Was preparing for my first year second semester exams when I noticed her. We were having a discussive class in a grassy area beside unn stadium. After that we were walking our different ways when a discussion about women came up and I said "women are necessary evils". She fumed up almost quarelling me but I don't talk much so I made my point and went ahead hearing behind me all her arguments. One day I was eating abacha when this girl said she wants to eat and I said ok. She said it is just my meat she wants so I let her have it and ate my abacha without meat. Her friend was like aah but I smiled and didn't mind. I could see her one time talking and her voice will always be high but the next minute she is sleeping. We were majoring in same department. Most times she walks on the road you see her full of life and exubberance. On her short gowns she could jump up and down. There were times she could see me and say lift me up on the way. Once I did and just laughed over it and we continued our journey on our different routes. Finally exams finished and first year was over. I went to my room still in school hostel then-zik flat- for those who know unn. I was dressed on my suit about to attend rotaract meeting. Proudly a rota-lion. I had a bang on my room door. A girl entered and another followed suit. The first girl is also in my department and was close to me as I helped her in her studies, nothing more mind you. The second was this very girl I have been talking about since. I was like what! How can you people badge into my room like that, no prior information of your coming sef? They were like aah you won't even ask us to sit down? I said look I am on my way out as you can see. You people should have called first. The second girl was like oya let's go nah. He is chasing us from his room and they left. I sat down on my bed thinking. I was already falling for this girl and had wished severally for her visit. The first time she came I have not welcomed her in. Well it isn't my doing. A principled man cannot cancel his meeting for uninformed visitors. So I went to meeting. Days after I met her at the ziks gate and we exchanged numbers and I apologised to her telling her why it had to be like that. She said that's my worries o and it doesn't bother her. Fast forward I went home to ph and one day a female friend sent me one of these messages if I kiss you what will you do and all that. There was no better person to forward this message to but the very girl I chased and that exactly I did. She replied in her jovial way she would kiss me till I beg and start running. It was mtn free messages. We kept exchanging messages till I called and we spoke for a while. I later searched for her on facebook and we were the best of chat mates. We asked ourselves questions about the other and how the first year in school had been. We continued talking and I told her that I would hug her the first time we met and she was like humm let's wait and see. We were just talking as friends o. I was jokingly telling her my mind and feelings. I knew her to be jovial and easy going so certainly she wasn't taking my words to heart and I told myself I will ask her out once school resumes. This is 2012. On the 8th of october we both returned to nsk. I was shocked when someone hugged me in the market. I was embarrassed I could hug back. It was the same girl I had told I would hug the first time I saw anywhere. I was buying foam because I had rented a room off k while exams were on. The driver of the taxi I took for a drop was like guy this girl love you oh and you are just there. I was speechless until I asked what she was doing in the market so soon. She was smiling and that reminded me I had failed in what I said and has confirmed what she said that I won't be able to do that. After saying what she came to buy I told her to then hurry up and join my cab. I waited for a while she wasn't fot coming so I told the driver to move and that was it. I called her that I have moved after waiting for a while and she said no p. I told her to call me let me show her my place later in the day. Around five I got a call it was her her. Shock and unbelief ran through me. I went and met her and we walked to my place. On our way she reminded me I couldn't fulfil my sayings of hugging her at first sight. I am a shy person though and don't talk with girls much how much more hugging them. I tried to give excuses of we are in public. Anyway we got to my house and we ate and she actually past the night with me. Since then we have been together. Getting a good girl you love and who loves you doesn't take any specific thing. Just be yourself. We have future plans together. She brought me into nairaland.

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