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Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Nobody: 12:29pm On Jan 28, 2016
Estharfabian:
I'm not boring Michael!angry

NEVER!
Sometimes, a girl gotta be super serious! undecided tongue


Okay...I'm enjoying your essays chronicles
though. It's soothing literature for the mind, body & soul.
Mrs Déckér grin
Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Nobody: 12:52pm On Jan 28, 2016
darkenedrebel:


Okay...I'm enjoying your essays chronicles though. It's soothing literature for the mind, body & soul. Mrs Déckér grin
Alright.angry

I'd start trolling around then. causing controversies everywhere.grin You seem to like that kind of "Esther".. the bogeyman!wink

Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Nobody: 1:03pm On Jan 28, 2016
Estharfabian:
Alright.angry

I'd start trolling around then. causing controversies everywhere.grin
You seem to like that kind of "Esther".. the bogeyman wink


More like Esther the spineless chicken grin


No, I prefer this Esthar!
I said carry on with the essays na. I wasn't dissuading you. Don't you know this is exactly how the likes of Chinua Achebe & Edgar Allen Poe started?
From writing epistles on NL, you'd transcend to writing for columns in big-time tabloids, and mags like Don Diva...Continue jaweh
Hehe..this girl don teach me slangs - @jaweh grin
Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by robosky02(m): 1:16pm On Jan 28, 2016
and dont be moved by emotion but real love...not pity

cruzita:
don't rush into a relationship with her,take your time with her and see how far it goes
Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Babacele: 1:25pm On Jan 28, 2016
wordbank:
Love is blind but never knew it's dumb n deaf too
hahahaha!
Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Nobody: 1:27pm On Jan 28, 2016
darkenedrebel:


More like Esther the spineless chicken grin


No, I prefer this Esthar!
I said carry on with the essays na. I wasn't dissuading you. Don't you know this is exactly how the likes of Chinua Achebe & Edgar Allen Poe started?
From writing epistles on NL, you'd transcend to writing for columns in big-time tabloids, and mags like Don Diva...Continue jaweh
Hehe..this girl don teach me slangs - @jaweh grin
angryLoL!grin


Gaawwd, I hate You!grin

I sensed an hint of sarcasm in Your comment, the reason I said I'd continue being the bogeyman!embarassed

This Esthar is boring.
I'd keep trolling jaweh! I've made up my mind!cool
Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Babacele: 1:40pm On Jan 28, 2016
Estharfabian:
cryAs touching, emotional and sweet as this story is...

I hate to be the Spoiler here, I'm not a big fan of Love at first sight. I think it's Cosmically IMPOSSIBLE to feel Love for someone You just met. It could be Lust (Obviously, You were driven by her smile and Facial attributes), Then Admiration And Pity(You felt this because U found out She was deaf mute)..And you probably had the burning desire to takecare of her? (like finding a lost puppy or sth?)



My Advice is, You should get to know this girl. in and Out...don't Ask for A relationship yet. things might get messy.
Learn if You'd be able to cope with her shortcomings.. don't just rush into things coz of what You felt for like 3mins.


After doing all these and You still feel the same Way towards her? then, I'd say Go for it! date her!!cheesy

it sure is gonna be A Bumpy ride! And i can't wait to hear the rest of the story! Please Update us lerra abeg.!grin
I beg to disagree dear. My father saw my mum in a dream for the first time without her knowing about him before. The next morning the of two them met n they said when they saw each ,the bio electricity they felt kept them magnetically speechless n glued for few minutes. today they are still married. I have listened to others' similar stories. the cosmic is beyond the known physical world. what about the feeling of havn experienced some events or things that are happening to us presently?

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Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Nobody: 2:00pm On Jan 28, 2016
Estharfabian:
angryLoL!grin

Gaawwd, I hate You!grin
I sensed an hint of sarcasm in Your comment, the reason I said I'd continue being the bogeyman!embarassed
This Esthar is boring.
I'd keep trolling jaweh! I've made up my mind!cool


@bolded__you saw a hint? It was a plethora of sarcasm cheesy
If you didn't notice the plenitude, then i suggest you pay your optician a weekend visit.

Trolling doesn't suit you, no matter how hard you try.
Some people are just natural manic-depraved trolls.
Fortunately for me, you don't fall into that category. grin
Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by ochardbaby(m): 2:29pm On Jan 28, 2016
EriSaho:

You said she go to normal school so her hearing level is okay (assuming she wear hearing aids). 3 Things you should be aware of:

1) They rely on lipping. Don't talk soft normal as you do with normal people.

2) Raise your voice a bit and don't talk in distance. Always keep close.

3) You can practice hand sign language. Depends where you live, every country have different sign language. It only takes you a month to finish the basics.

When you know her well, you will understand her hearing level meaning you can determine whether if she is able to do that, this or hear etc and she will get used to your voice.


***(4)
Lots of hearing

Hearing aid sizes


INVISIBLE IN THE CANAL (IIC)


COMPLETELY IN THE CANAL (CIC).... @ Affordable prices I mean cheaper than love! Real love is priceless!!
Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by buoye1(m): 2:37pm On Jan 28, 2016
Babacele:
Dear Op, your story I just can't resist. it is obvious she loves you
.
I think most folks who talk abt love don't really understand it, but You are getting d best definition by the chemistry between u n d DD girl. You are feeling it the way she's feeling it . wonderful! a million words couldn't have explained the inaudible communication that went on between d two of you. so your first lesson :

1.Love is more audible than our speeches which make her disability NOT a barrier. she respects u more cos u are not held by any prejudice from appreciating her d way she is.
2. Of course become her friend n if possible her best friend ever. it ll make u understand her traits n background, wat she likes n dislikes. n opportunity to let her know abt u too. often u 2 may disagree but it s OK.

3 . pls every human, even worst criminals, carries a spark of God - a wonderful n creative energy that is beyond d limits of any disability. so learn d sign language n flo wt yr baby. go to places, play n work together, even if u 2 dont marry eventually, u would ve learnt a skill.

4. op stay faithful to her . a clear conscience helps u heal quickly even if she runs.... but if she trusts n love u, she may die for u. isn't that wat all noble men want?
Woow!


I can't agree less!

I love what you wrote Bro cool
Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Nobody: 2:50pm On Jan 28, 2016
darkenedrebel:


@bolded__you saw a hint? It was a plethora of sarcasm cheesy
If you didn't notice the plenitude, then i suggest you pay your optician a weekend visit.

Trolling doesn't suit you, no matter how hard you try.
Some people are just natural manic-depraved trolls.
Fortunately for me, you don't fall into that category. grin
LoL@plethora of sarcasm.
Alright! I really need to see An Optician...


LoL!grin I don't try hard. it comes almost Naturally. One of my undisputable Inherent Abilities.cool
fortunately for You? Seriously?



Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by eitsei(m): 2:52pm On Jan 28, 2016
Sometimes in my wilderness I think of things like " what if I fall in love with a deaf and dumb or blind person? "
I even think what if I have a sibling who is deaf and dumb or blind, I wonder how life will be.... Though I pray against this what if I have a child who has this kind of disabilities, I Sha won't kill the child..
Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Nobody: 3:02pm On Jan 28, 2016
Estharfabian:
LoL@plethora of sarcasm.
Alright! I really need to see An Optician...


LoL!grin I don't try hard. it comes almost Naturally. One of my undisputable Inherent Abilities.cool
fortunately for You? Seriously?


Fortunately for me, because, I'm currently having talks with Buhari concerning the merging of Nigeria with Eritrea. I plan on adding you to my fine collection of harem...I can't afford to wed a manic troll is the punchline of it all grin
Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Nobody: 3:03pm On Jan 28, 2016
Babacele:
I beg to disagree dear. My father saw my mum in a dream for the first time without her knowing about him before. The next morning the of two them met n they said when they saw each ,the bio electricity they felt kept them magnetically speechless n glued for few minutes. today they are still married. I have listened to others' similar stories. the cosmic is beyond the known physical world. what about the feeling of havn experienced some events or things that are happening to us presently?
Uh...The dream thingy has a hint of superstition innit.
If that's actually true....Then, i stand corrected?smiley


i believe there Are Certain Things that are inexplicable to mankind..But i honestly do not see Any Atom of pertinence to the Comment I posted initially.



Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Nobody: 3:05pm On Jan 28, 2016
darkenedrebel:


Fortunately for me, because, I'm currently having talks with Buhari concerning the merging of Nigeria with Eritea. I plan on adding you to my fine collection of harem...I can't afford to wed a manic troll is the punchline of it all grin
Michael...

"Eritea"
That name keeps popping Up On every thread...I think I'm getting a bit sloppy? Gist me, will yah?


What's it? a name of a country, perhaps?sad


Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Nobody: 3:14pm On Jan 28, 2016
Estharfabian:
Michael...

"Eritea"
That name keeps popping Up On every thread...I think I'm getting a bit sloppy? Gist me, will yah?
What's it? a name of a country, perhaps?sad

When your mates were busy reading newspapers or watching CNN, you were busy reading from L•••••••••ca.com grin

Yes, it's a sovereign state(Asmara). It gained independence from Ethiopia not too long ago.

Why you've been seeing it in every thread is because it was posited that a bill was passed into law, that every man in Eritrea must marry "two wives" or more(They're underpopulated due to the loss of lives in civil wars) Some sort of state-imposed polygamy.
Although, I read from somewhere that it's a hoax sha. I always thought it wasn't credible anyway

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Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Nobody: 3:21pm On Jan 28, 2016
darkenedrebel:


When your mates were busy reading newspapers or watching CNN, you were busy reading from ••••••••••.com grin

Yes, it's a sovereign state(Asmara). It recently gained independence from Ethiopia.

Why you've been seeing it in every thread is because it was posited that a bill was passed into law, that every man in Eritrea must marry "two wives" or more. Some sort of state-imposed polygamy.
Although, I read from somewhere that it's a hoax sha.
LoL!grin


Thankyou... Thankyou... Thankyou!kiss

I'd choose Novels over newspapers Anytime, any day..cheesy
sorry, Buh I ain't sorry.cool
I still got people like YOU to recapitulate for me huh?tongue


Oh! so, that's What the jabbering Is about huh? the polygamy ish? How Disappointing!angry
Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Babacele: 3:26pm On Jan 28, 2016
buoye1:
Woow!

I can't agree less!
I love what you wrote Bro cool
I love your sincerity . thanks
Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Nobody: 3:33pm On Jan 28, 2016
Estharfabian:
LoL!grin
Thankyou... Thankyou... Thankyou!kiss

You're welcome.

Estharfabian:
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I'd choose Novels over newspapers Anytime, any day..cheesy
sorry, Buh I ain't sorry.cool
I still got people like YOU to recapitulate for me huh?tongue


Uhhhhh..you'd have to start paying for my services. No service rendered is for free - not even in Freetown cheesy

Estharfabian:
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Oh! so, that's What the jabbering Is about huh? the polygamy ish? How Disappointing!angry

Yeah, that's what the yapping was all about. You've probably been seeing some pictorial innuendos about Nigerian men migrating to Eritrea? - the pseudo source also said the govt. promised to cater for the families of the men that adhere to the 2-wifey rule. Who doesn't want free bread?
mumu people grin ..
Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Babacele: 3:42pm On Jan 28, 2016
Estharfabian:
Uh...The dream thingy has a hint of superstition innit.
If that's actually true....Then, i stand corrected?smiley


i believe there Are Certain Things that are inexplicable to mankind..But i honestly do not see Any Atom of pertinence to the Comment I posted initially.



it is pertinent cos sincere questions open d portals of knowledge. dreams are part of the virtual world n not everything is real , n unreal. Think somebody is waiting for you - one dark rebel . I swear he bet everything to b wt u in a lonely alley....
lols
Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Nobody: 3:43pm On Jan 28, 2016
darkenedrebel:


You're welcome.
smiley


darkenedrebel:

Uhhhhh..you'd have to start paying my for my services. No service rendered is for free - not even in Freetown cheesy
've never tried this double Quoting whatever...I hope I pull it off...sad


darkenedrebel:
Yeah, that's what the yapping was all about. You've probably been seeing some pictorial innuendos about Nigerian men migrating to Eritrea? - the fake source also said the govt. promised to cater for the families of the men that follow the 2-wifey rule.
mumu people grin ..
Damn! it's Hardwork!shocked

I ain't trying it No more!sad

darkenedrebel:
Are You gonna answer me or not woman?
Okay, You didn't write that...cool I did!tongue

uh...About Watcha wrote?
I really do hope All the dickheaded Nigerian Men Migrate there. We've got One less Gobshites to worry about.!cool very Auspicious!

Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Nobody: 3:49pm On Jan 28, 2016
Babacele:
it is pertinent cos sincere questions open d portals of knowledge. dreams are part of the virtual world n not everything is real , n unreal. Think somebody is waiting for you - one dark rebel . I swear he bet everything to b wt u in a lonely alley....
lols
Alright.

it stands to reason...wink you make a fair point.

LoL! grin you're hilarious! He's just kidding around jaweh.tongue

Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Nobody: 3:53pm On Jan 28, 2016
Estharfabian:
smiley've never tried this double Quoting whatever...I hope I pull it off...sad
Damn! it's Hardwork!shocked


Yeah it is...











Only if you are using a Sagem flip phone grin

Estharfabian:

I ain't trying it No more!sad[/font]
Okay, You didn't write that...cool I did!tongue


Why did you change my words? I'm altering yours....wait for my reprisal attack.

Estharfabian:

uh...About Watcha wrote?
I really do hope Darkrebel's bangs the numerous evil spirits out of me tonight..In Jesus name I pray...

Amen grin
Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Nobody: 3:57pm On Jan 28, 2016
Babacele:
it is pertinent cos sincere questions open d portals of knowledge. dreams are part of the virtual world n not everything is real , n unreal. Think somebody is waiting for you - one dark rebel . [s]I swear he bet everything to b wt u in a lonely alley[/s]
lols

I am not a rapist, neither am i into incést.
Esthàr is just one of my numerous illegitimate daughters grin
Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Nobody: 4:20pm On Jan 28, 2016
darkenedrebel:


Yeah it is...

Only if you are using a Sagem flip phone grin
Dumbass!undecidedangry


darkenedrebel:

Why did you change my words? I'm altering yours....wait for my reprisal attack.
You wanna play dirty huh?cool
I'm down! two could play the game.wink

darkenedrebel:
Do You have A Date for February?
Uh....No, not really. why?
darkenedrebel:
I really do have feelings for You babe.
Now's not the time Michael...I'm not into You like that.
Please go away!grin

darkenedrebel:
I'm heartbroken.embarassed
Jump into A Lagoon!cool
Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Nobody: 4:39pm On Jan 28, 2016
Estharfabian:
Dumbass!undecidedangry


You wanna play dirty huh?cool
I'm down! two could play the game.wink

Uh....No, not really. why?
Now's not the time Michael...I'm not into You like that.
Please go away!grin

Jump into A Lagoon!cool

I will catch you later grin
Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Babacele: 6:32pm On Jan 28, 2016
darkenedrebel:


I am not a rapist, neither am i into incést.
Esthàr is just one of my numerous illegitimate daughters grin
hahahaha......Lols.. ... I can see ,baba Esthar
Re: I'm In Love With A Deaf And Dumb Girl, Please Advise by Babacele: 6:33pm On Jan 28, 2016
Estharfabian:
Alright.
it stands to reason...wink you make a fair point.
LoL! grin you're hilarious! He's just kidding around jaweh.tongue
lols

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