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Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by robosky02(m): 5:03pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
Contrary to what you might think, most guys aren't looking for a supermodel. They're just looking for their perfect match: a woman who's down-to-earth, sweet and sensitive to his needs. Here are ten attractive traits that every man keeps in mind when deciding if the woman (i.e. you) sitting across the dinner table at that first date is girlfriend material. #1. She's Got Confidence Take it from the guys, nothing is sexier than a woman who's comfortable in her own skin. If you're guilty of meekly asking lines like: "Does this skirt make my thighs look fat?" …stop asking. If you're constantly needing his reassurance that you're beautiful, he may start asking questions himself. #2. She's Intelligent Acting like a bimbo loses its novelty to men after high school. What men want in a girlfriend is a woman who can stand as his equal. So be the smart, savvy woman you are! To him, it's a total turn-on. #3. She's Not Materialistic Yes, he wants to be your knight in shining armor. And yes, he wants to treat you like the princess you are … but that doesn't give you license to act like one. Allow him the luxury of treating you with romantic dinners and surprise baubles without having to demand them of him. He'll be relieved that he doesn't have to try so hard and surprisingly, this will inspire him to rise to the occasion when he doesn't have to dedicate his whole paycheck to lavish tokens of his love for you. #4. She's Spontaneous One of the first things to go in a relationship is the spontaneity. You get stuck in your Friday night dinner dates and you lose that spark you had when you first started dating each other. Don't lose it! Men love a woman who can do things spur-of-the-moment. #5. She's Laid-Back What's one of the best things you can do for your relationship with him? Relax. Just relax. When you come home from a long, hard day at work and see those dishes piling up in the sink, we know you have the urge to lash out at him. Instead, try to let it go for the night. No man likes a nag and every man likes a woman who can let her hair down and doesn't sweat the small stuff. We're not saying to just kick back and bro out with him, but a relationship is solid when you're able to relax with each other. #6. She's Playful Guys like a girl who laugh at their jokes, but isn't mindless and isn't always serious about everything. Just as we mentioned that men like a woman who can forgo nagging him about the dishes, they like a woman who can joke about the dishes too. Biting remarks and snappy comebacks are just the witty repartee to keep the spark between you in your relationship. And hey, isn't laughter the best aphrodisiac? #7. She's Sensual We've already mentioned before that it's not all about your looks (albeit, that's a good motivator for some men) — it's more about an air of sexiness and confidence that will draw his eyes to you when you enter the room. Embrace your femininity. Ditch the sweatpants for date night and take the extra ten minutes to pull the LBD from the back of your closet. You shouldn't feel pressured to strut around the bedroom in lingerie and high heels like a Victoria's Secret angel every night, but you should feel comfortable in your own sexuality…and expressing that sensually to your man. #8. She's Honest If he can't trust you — how can he ever see you as his girlfriend … and eventual spouse? Keep things open and honest in your relationship. A little white lie over flirty texts with an old guy friend from college can spiral out of control very quickly into a full-blown fight … and breakup. #9. She's Independent Dating a driven, passionate woman? So hot. Babysitting a stage five clinger? Not so much. No man wants a girlfriend they have to reassuringly text, call or visit every five minutes. Give him his poker night with the boys. Let him go golfing on a weekend. Learn to give your guy his space — or he may break up with you to get it. #10. She's Supportive As clichéd as it is, some men want to be caretakers … but even the strongest of men want a soft place to fall. He wants to know that you'll support him and stand by him in his life choices, whether it's changing careers or moving to a new city. Show your support in small gestures with a quick "I love you" text when he heads off for his morning commute and listen to him after a hard day's work. Be supportive — but not suffocating. The last thing you want is to remind him too much of his mother cc:lalasticlala http://magazine.foxnews.com/love/top-10-qualities-men-are-secretly-looking-women
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Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by INTROVERT(f): 5:03pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
#11. She's a god... All the above characteristics mentioned are summed up in this one point. 2 Likes |
Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by Nobody: 5:04pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
#3. She's Not Materialistic |
Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by robosky02(m): 5:07pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
ladies if you are tired of been single then take this serious let come for your wedding this year |
Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by ajademola2000(m): 5:08pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
You are right. I would like to find a woman with all these attributes |
Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by Nobody: 5:10pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
Eyah
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Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by ZeeAfrica(f): 5:11pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
do u mind sharing the top 10 qualities ladies look for in guys? 1 Like |
Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by wtfCode: 5:13pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
exactly
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Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by Godfullsam(m): 5:15pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
11. She is beautiful. We all know that men are attracted with what they see. Any ,an who says he don't like beautiful women is a big liar. 12. She is a good cook. I don't need to talk more about this, the easiest way to a man's heart is through his stomach. We all love good foods |
Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by goldbim(f): 5:16pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
Good attributes tho,but some guys'll still dump a girl that has all these qualities and marry a badly behaved chic...what will be will be!!we can only try.no perfect babe out there.. |
Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by prideofscience: 5:17pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
Women are camelion in Nature. U cant study them |
Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by CaroLyner(f): 5:20pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
please just be yourself. Who will love you will love you. 1 Like |
Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by tubouncen(m): 5:40pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
If she is 42DD, with backyard, can cook all kind of dishes and not materialistic with an average beauty and can be a good mother for my kids... I have got all i want 1 Like |
Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by Nobody: 6:32pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
The earlier guys realize all these attributes can be faked the better it is just get someone you can read like your palm |
Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by cruzita(f): 6:41pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
to every well mannered girl there is a gentleman and to every olosho there is a motherfurka .so any which way na way |
Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by robosky02(m): 7:55pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
MzMayD: no matter how you fake men can know the real once |
Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by Favoye2(m): 7:56pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
You are very right my guy...dats it |
Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by Favoye2(m): 7:57pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
You are very right my guy...dats just it |
Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by robosky02(m): 8:04pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
CaroLyner: it not by just been yourself oh if you dont have it upgrade or.... guys will just be passing you |
Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by CaroLyner(f): 8:52pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
CaroLyner: 1 Like |
Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by Michellla(f): 8:55pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
robosky02:bullshit. seems you've not met some good actresses 1 Like |
Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by ajademola2000(m): 8:57pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
Michellla:I concur 1 Like |
Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by robosky02(m): 8:57pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
Michellla: lol for every actress there are 7 actors lol the teacher was once a student |
Re: Top 10 Qualities Men Are Secretly Looking For In Women by Michellla(f): 9:00pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
robosky02:whatever that means. 1 Like |
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