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Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 9:01pm On Jan 28, 2016
Nubian113:


Wow grin grin grin hmmm Amsterdam grin Paris kiss Venice cool baby take me with cry cry

[size=2pt]is it a romantic one wink[/size]

I would choose only one of the cities on this list over and over again. smiley cool

[size=3pt]I am not romantic at all. [/size] grin

Help me back up hun a man zapped my energy.

As if you don't have enough energy. smiley wink

I want my space back because he's over riding my thoughts.

Focus your thoughts on what you want in him / a man. wink
You cannot do away with thoughts but you can decide to think of something else, something that feels better.

I'm watching and observing the pain without identifying with it. I feel so alive but I want my head room back so that I could create. I created him and then I tainted it with negative thought and feeling.


You didn't create him, you attracted him. You don't need to recover. You are where you need to be and to me you are perfect. kiss
Let it be. Allow it to be as it is. It shall come to pass. It is ALL right.

He triggered my abandonment pain. How do I recover? I'm meditating. I need to shake off this triggered pain. Hope I'm making sense...

Honey, the fear of abandonment has been one of my GREATEST teachers. Allow it to be. Don't fight. Flow with it. You are in the perfect place to grow.
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 9:42pm On Jan 28, 2016
Mindfulness:


I would choose only one of the cities on this list over and over again. smiley cool

[size=3pt]I am not romantic at all. [/size] grin



As if you don't have enough energy. smiley wink



Focus your thoughts on what you want in him / a man. wink
You cannot do away with thoughts but you can decide to think of something else, something that feels better.



You didn't create him, you attracted him. You don't need to recover. You are where you need to be and to me you are perfect. kiss
Let it be. Allow it to be as it is. It shall come to pass. It is ALL right.



Honey, the fear of abandonment has been one of my GREATEST teachers. Allow it to be. Don't fight. Flow with it. You are in the perfect place to grow.

Thank you.... cry cry cry

You so get me... I will attract the good in him wink

Ok the flowing is hard to do because it brings up so much emotions and I don't wanna get carried away with the emotions that come up. I can control the thoughts but the feelings and emotions are trickier to control. I get that I should be just observing but.... Lol emotions are harder to observe than thoughts without involvement coming in.

Again thank you hun cheesy cheesy

Have an amazing time wink


[size=3pt] and I loves you!!!! cheesy grin kiss [/size]

#99.99% charged
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 9:43pm On Jan 28, 2016
Mindfulness is it Amsterdam you'd choose again and again grin grin grin lipsrsealed

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Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 10:48pm On Jan 28, 2016
Nubian113:


Thank you.... cry cry cry

You so get me... I will attract the good in him wink

Ok the flowing is hard to do because it brings up so much emotions and I don't wanna get carried away with the emotions that come up. I can control the thoughts but the feelings and emotions are trickier to control. I get that I should be just observing but.... Lol emotions are harder to observe than thoughts without involvement coming in.

Again thank you hun cheesy cheesy

Have an amazing time wink


[size=3pt] and I loves you!!!! cheesy grin kiss [/size]

#99.99% charged

But honey, your emotions are a reflection of what you are thinking. So if you can control your thoughts, you can control how you feel.
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 10:49pm On Jan 28, 2016
Nubian113:
Mindfulness is it Amsterdam you'd choose again and again grin grin grin lipsrsealed

grin cheesy
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 10:56pm On Jan 28, 2016
Mindfulness:


But honey, your emotions are a reflection of what you are thinking. So if you can control your thoughts, you can control how you feel.



Ok. I see undecided I love to over sabi grin I get ya kiss





[size=2pt]R U 4Rm 9Ja [/size]
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 11:02pm On Jan 28, 2016
Nubian113:


Ok. I see undecided I love to over sabi grin I get ya kiss


[size=2pt]R U 4Rm 9Ja [/size]

I am really curious about the guy. cheesy


[size=3pt]Si[/size]
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 11:17pm On Jan 28, 2016
Mindfulness:


I am really curious about the guy. cheesy


[size=3pt]Si[/size]

Nice... Which guy
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 11:22pm On Jan 28, 2016
Nubian113:


Nice... Which guy

The object of your thoughts. tongue
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 11:29pm On Jan 28, 2016
Mindfulness:


The object of your thoughts. tongue



Hmmmmmmm. lipsrsealed



[size=3pt]he's an artist. So creative, intelligent, fun... And That's just a few days in. Now you must see where abandonment raised it's ugly head[/size]
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 7:04am On Jan 29, 2016
Nubian113:



Hmmmmmmm. lipsrsealed



[size=3pt]he's an artist. So creative, intelligent, fun... And That's just a few days in. Now you must see where abandonment raised it's ugly head[/size]

cheesy

[size=3pt]I had the same problem some years back. It is gone. And you can get there too and you will. [/size]
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 7:28pm On Jan 29, 2016
nice dimple. embarassed
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 9:43pm On Jan 29, 2016
sonOfLucifer:
nice dimple. embarassed

I have 5 of them lipsrsealed
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 9:44pm On Jan 29, 2016
Kingtom smiley hws your day?





[size=1pt]Y R U cry[/size]
Re: Tea With Lola by KingTom(m): 9:45pm On Jan 29, 2016
Nubian113:
Kingtom smiley hws your day?





[size=1pt]Y R U SUCH A PERVY DOC cry[/size]
my day was good and da Bleep? undecided
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 9:50pm On Jan 29, 2016
Mindfulness:


cheesy

[size=3pt]I had the same problem some years back. It is gone. And you can get there too and you will. [/size]

Today was hard because of that pain energy. I feel like my feelings are creating my thoughts. I kept changing and observing today. Only feeling I could use to describe it is an upset tummy feeling. I took my anxiety pills today for the first time this month. The bright side is I went nearly a month without them.



kiss

[size=1pt]I love you so much. I trust that you are having the time of your life in that amazing city this weekend. That makes me smile. Thank you beautiful [/size]
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 9:51pm On Jan 29, 2016
KingTom:
my day was good and da Bleep? undecided

I read a comment u made about your job. shocked

Old women and their old lipsrsealed
Re: Tea With Lola by KingTom(m): 10:02pm On Jan 29, 2016
Nubian113:


I read a comment u made about your job. shocked

Old women and their old lipsrsealed
oh so you saw that cry you see what I gotta deal with everyday cry
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 10:05pm On Jan 29, 2016
KingTom:
oh so you saw that cry you see what I gotta deal with everyday cry


Aaaaaaaaaah comon embarassed undecided cry grin
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 10:48pm On Jan 29, 2016
Lezz come here now! undecided
Re: Tea With Lola by Lezzlie(m): 12:49am On Jan 30, 2016
Nubian113:
Lezz come here now! undecided
How long does it last? How long do we dance under the shade of mentions before you get to send me your number?

Allow me to call you.
Let me see if I could hear through your voice the emotion you hide, like I saw through your eyes the passion you hide.
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 3:13am On Jan 30, 2016
Lezzlie:
How long does it last? How long do we dance under the shade of mentions before you get to send me your number?

Allow me to call you.
Let me see if I could here through your voice the emotion you hide, like I saw through your eyes the passion you hide.



Sorry I follow lezz not you undecided
Re: Tea With Lola by KingTom(m): 6:34am On Jan 30, 2016
Nubian113:



Aaaaaaaaaah comon embarassed undecided cry grin
situation critical embarassed
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 6:48am On Jan 30, 2016
KingTom:
situation critical embarassed
Real talk.... I can't imagine doing your job in Africa lipsrsealed





[size=1pt] I prepare for my female gynecologist more than my boyfriend. Well... they call it a test! shi I come clean shaven and smelling fresh[/size] why is that? What's wrong wiv me doc embarassed
Re: Tea With Lola by KingTom(m): 6:55am On Jan 30, 2016
Nubian113:

Real talk.... I can't imagine doing your job in Africa lipsrsealed





[size=1pt] I prepare for my female gynecologist more than my boyfriend. Well... they call it a test! shi I come clean shaven and smelling fresh[/size] why is that? What's wrong wiv me doc embarassed
you may be bi grin
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 6:59am On Jan 30, 2016
KingTom:
you may be bi grin

Nooooooo shocked I be considerate undecided
Re: Tea With Lola by KingTom(m): 7:08am On Jan 30, 2016
Nubian113:


Nooooooo shocked I be considerate undecided
yeah that's true some are not that considerate coming here after sweating it out the stench can knock Amir Khan out
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 7:10am On Jan 30, 2016
KingTom:
yeah that's true some are not that considerate coming here after sweating it out the stench can knock Amir Khan out

*pukes* that's why I do what I do. Lol. Please just don't let it put you off cats all together.
Re: Tea With Lola by KingTom(m): 7:22am On Jan 30, 2016
Nubian113:


*pukes* that's why I do what I do. Lol. Please just don't let it put you off cats all together.
It can't grin
Re: Tea With Lola by Nobody: 7:23am On Jan 30, 2016
KingTom:
It can't grin

I thank Hallah for dis smiley
Re: Tea With Lola by KingTom(m): 7:30am On Jan 30, 2016
Nubian113:


I thank Hallah for dis smiley
Alhamdulillah smiley

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