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| Is It Advisable To Keep Your Ex As A Friend? by Godswillnwaoma(m): 9:40pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Since we broke up last year october, my ex girlfriend is still contacting me on phone and still visit me atleast once in a week just to know how i was doing. I,m not agaist it at all untill yesterday when my guy i.e my lodge mate saw us together when she visited. So after she left, my guy i ask me what i was still doing with her that he thought we are no more together. I told my guy that we are just friends now and nothing is stil going on between us again. Naa him my guy come say its not advisable to keep one ex as friend that i dont knw her inner motive of her being so close to me again despite the fact that we are no more dating. So i thought about it very well that yesterday and still thinking about it today so that why i decided to bring the issue here on nairaland. So is it advisable to keep once ex as friend or to let him or her go completely. Your comments will be so usefull to me to decide on what to do, so dear moderator i need lots of comments please. |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Keep Your Ex As A Friend? by Pineapp: 9:42pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
If the parties involved aren't kids And your current partner is mature enough. We shouldn't become enemies because we stopped fuc::k!!!iing  |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Keep Your Ex As A Friend? by xpac01(m): 9:43pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Breaking up does not make her your enemy you know. |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Keep Your Ex As A Friend? by Godswillnwaoma(m): 9:49pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
xpac01:i think as much |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Keep Your Ex As A Friend? by Emac34: 9:54pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
xpac01:nailed |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Keep Your Ex As A Friend? by naijaboiy: 9:56pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Do you have a girlfriend now? If yes, then you really need to keep the distance from her in order to avoid any troubles. It's quite clear she's still a bit interested in your life and how you've moved on and that explains her constant visits. I don't really know how you people manage to keep a strong relationship with your exes after a break up though. It's always awkward to me.  What are we gonna be talking about? 1 Like |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Keep Your Ex As A Friend? by Nobody: 10:03pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
You can still be casual friends with your ex, if you want to, but the both of you should keep your distance and set boundaries, so your friendship doesn't intrude in your relationship with either of your spouses. |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Keep Your Ex As A Friend? by Godswillnwaoma(m): 10:09pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
naijaboiy:you sound so matured, well i dont have a gf now due to the fact that i decided not to have any because of the breakup. |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Keep Your Ex As A Friend? by Kingsasian(m): 10:18pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
naijaboiy:exactly. |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Keep Your Ex As A Friend? by naijaboiy: 10:22pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Godswillnwaoma:Okay that's cool bro. What I think you both should focus on now is moving on with your lives and clearly the way your ex keeps coming to see you constantly,it means she is not ready to move on. If you let this go on,it may cause a bit of a problem when you are ready for a relationship. So keeping a distance is the sure bet. |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Keep Your Ex As A Friend? by ZeeAfrica(f): 10:24pm On Jan 30, 2016 |
Being friends with an ex is a bad idea |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Keep Your Ex As A Friend? by Godswillnwaoma(m): 6:06am On Jan 31, 2016 |
naijaboiy:thanks dear |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Keep Your Ex As A Friend? by Godswillnwaoma(m): 6:07am On Jan 31, 2016 |
ZeeAfrica:I concur |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Keep Your Ex As A Friend? by Medunah: 6:29am On Jan 31, 2016 |
ZeeAfrica:Exactly, its jzt like a kidnapper asking to keep in touch after letting u go |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Keep Your Ex As A Friend? by lanre147(m): 6:36am On Jan 31, 2016 |
for a guy yes kuz dere is still chance of sex once more...buh for my girl to keep in touch with her ex is a no no...wetin una wan dey talk,.. dere will still be a feeling even if na small and it can be dangerous... pardon my reasoning |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Keep Your Ex As A Friend? by Maxi112: 7:03am On Jan 31, 2016 |
i dont buy in to d idea of keeping in touch with my ex's. .. once is over, is over... I don't want a situation where she will try or want to jeopardized my new relationship.... my opinion tho |
| Re: Is It Advisable To Keep Your Ex As A Friend? by Godswillnwaoma(m): 1:42pm On Jan 31, 2016 |
lanre147:hmmm |
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