Hello all...I been with this my Nigerian guy for 4 years distance relationship..I was doing all for him.cooking cleaning.even sometimes financiall help.He was totally broke...but i didn't care.He never talked about future with me.but when he thought that he could achieve documents from me for pernanent stay in Europe.he started talking about marriage...Usually he was pushing me to go to work and earn money.Anyway when he realised he cant gain nothing from me as in documents coz my country is not Europe Union,he throw me out of house and hit me in my face..after that he told me that i deserved it.N he also hit me coz I didnt close the food in kitchen.He will usually abuse me with domestic work.If i dont wash floor good.he wil tell me to do it again...After all that.i forgave him everything coz i love him.But many times after that he was telling me he will go to other woman for documents.coz as he said he didnt come to Europe to search for love but to achieve documents.Now he is in better country and he found a woman that can give him all that...Documents and money...What did i do wrong??And i am sorry if i sound stupid but i am very inteligent person but maybe i did something wrong so he treated me like that...pls tell me??

hmmmm, what can i say .........some guys are like that . keep calm and wait for the guy God has prepared for you

Is it dat ur old BF abi dis one na new one... he finally tru u out...uh shit happen sumtimes datz life 4u...

Smartguy001:
Is it dat ur old BF abi dis one na new one... he finally tru u out...uh shit happen sumtimes datz life 4u...

why u say finally??

ratchy:
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ratchy:
hmmmm, what can i say .........some guys are like that . keep calm and wait for the guy God has prepared for you

so what r u trying to say??that is ok what he done to me?

Europija:
so what r u trying to say??that is ok what he done to me?

babe! is not only hoes that aren't loyal these days , niggas don join the club ...

I can't stop SMH here

Europija:
why u say finally??

because u ain't thinking clearly...u build ur world around him n he didn't do dsame 4u

Smartguy001:


because u ain't thinking clearly...u build ur world around him n he didn't do dsame 4u

......ur right....so who is the one that did mistake in that my relationship?

Europija:
......ur right....so who is the one that did mistake in that my relationship?

look out for sum1 dat will appreciate u 4 who u n stop chasing shadows...sum1 dat will reciprocate ur love...mistake r done 4 we learn 4rm it

he is not the right one .don't worry every disappointment is a blessing in disguise.

I thought this was a joke... I was waiting for pics

Smartguy001:


look out for sum1 dat will appreciate u 4 who u n stop chasing shadows...sum1 dat will reciprocate ur love...mistake r done 4 we learn 4rm it

.....why he never apreciated what i done for him??

Please remove that your last comment "I am a very intelligent person"

You are definitely not intelligent from the evidence in your story. Yeye

charlemon:
Please remove that your last comment "I am a very intelligent person"

You are definitely not intelligent from the evidence in your story. Yeye

loool....i am but not in relathionships i guess...

Europija:
.....why he never apreciated what i done for him??

because he was probably not right 4 u, so no mata wot u do he will still not appreciate it, because his hrt is out der searchin 4 sumtin else...it doesn't make u any less, u r perfectly made 4 sum1 dat will appreciate u jst open ur eyes

Europija:
loool....i am but not in relathionships i guess...

Well I didn't mean to insult you but the whole story is annoying. How can you allow someone to use you like a tool. Hopefully, you have learnt your lesson. Wish you the best

Smartguy001:


because he was probably not right 4 u, so no mata wot u do he will still not appreciate it, because his hrt is out der searchin 4 sumtin else...it doesn't make u any less, u r perfectly made 4 sum1 dat will appreciate u jst open ur eyes

...searching for what??

Europija:
Hello all...I been with this my Nigerian guy for 4 years distance relationship..I was doing all for him.cooking cleaning.even sometimes financiall help.He was totally broke...but i didn't care.He never talked about future with me.but when he thought that he could achieve documents from me for pernanent stay in Europe.he started talking about marriage...Usually he was pushing me to go to work and earn money.Anyway when he realised he cant gain nothing from me as in documents coz my country is not Europe Union,he throw me out of house and hit me in my face..after that he told me that i deserved it.N he also hit me coz I didnt close the food in kitchen.He will usually abuse me with domestic work.If i dont wash floor good.he wil tell me to do it again...After all that.i forgave him everything coz i love him.But many times after that he was telling me he will go to other woman for documents.coz as he said he didnt come to Europe to search for love but to achieve documents.Now he is in better country and he found a woman that can give him all that...Documents and money...What did i do wrong??And i am sorry if i sound stupid but i am very inteligent person but maybe i did something wrong so he treated me like that...pls tell me??

Dust him off babe! Be smarter next time, another dude is definately gon be better.

Europija:
...searching for what??

Documents of course...abi u said it ursef

Smartguy001:


Documents of course...abi u said it ursef

...ok but do u think he is good guy?

Europija:
...ok but do u think he is good guy?

I suspect u still love him afta everything he has done...good guy hmmmm

Smartguy001:


I suspect u still love him afta everything he has done...good guy hmmmm

good guy?!

Jadekitana:


Dust him off babe! Be smarter next time, another dude is definately gon be better.

....do u see him as good guy?

Europija:
good guy?!

you deserve the beating you got because you are still wondering if a man who abused you and dumped you to get papers is a good guy.

he is not a good guy he never loved you, he only was nice to you because he wanted papers and money. He left you for someone who can give him what he was searching for. Move on with your life and never let any other man or woman treat you as bad as that SOB did.

Europija:
Hello all...I been with this my Nigerian guy for 4 years distance relationship..I was doing all for him.cooking cleaning.even sometimes financiall help.He was totally broke...but i didn't care.He never talked about future with me.but when he thought that he could achieve documents from me for pernanent stay in Europe.he started talking about marriage...Usually he was pushing me to go to work and earn money.Anyway when he realised he cant gain nothing from me as in documents coz my country is not Europe Union,he throw me out of house and hit me in my face..after that he told me that i deserved it.N he also hit me coz I didnt close the food in kitchen.He will usually abuse me with domestic work.If i dont wash floor good.he wil tell me to do it again...After all that.i forgave him everything coz i love him.But many times after that he was telling me he will go to other woman for documents.coz as he said he didnt come to Europe to search for love but to achieve documents.Now he is in better country and he found a woman that can give him all that...Documents and money...What did i do wrong??And i am sorry if i sound stupid but i am very inteligent person but maybe i did something wrong so he treated me like that...pls tell me??

If I happen to be your friend or sister, I won't hesitate to slap you, just to bring back your common sense.

Op which country are you? Coz i will love to pay you a visit...... Everything is gonna be okay

Europija:
Hello all...I been with this my Nigerian guy for 4 years distance relationship..I was doing all for him.cooking cleaning.even sometimes financiall help.He was totally broke...but i didn't care.He never talked about future with me.but when he thought that he could achieve documents from me for pernanent stay in Europe.he started talking about marriage...Usually he was pushing me to go to work and earn money.Anyway when he realised he cant gain nothing from me as in documents coz my country is not Europe Union,he throw me out of house and hit me in my face..after that he told me that i deserved it.N he also hit me coz I didnt close the food in kitchen.He will usually abuse me with domestic work.If i dont wash floor good.he wil tell me to do it again...After all that.i forgave him everything coz i love him.But many times after that he was telling me he will go to other woman for documents.coz as he said he didnt come to Europe to search for love but to achieve documents.Now he is in better country and he found a woman that can give him all that...Documents and money...What did i do wrong??And i am sorry if i sound stupid but i am very inteligent person but maybe i did something wrong so he treated me like that...pls tell me??

he not for u dear ....he has stated his objectives that he need document and not luv so why on earth will u still be hanging around

Europija:
....do u see him as good guy?

Sweetheart from what you wrote up there, he was never a good guy! He was just using you and when he found out you couldn't be of help anymore,he left!!! Be grateful he did ontime, just move on.

Alikote:
he not for u dear ....he has stated his objectives that he need document and not luv so why on earth will u still be hanging around

Yes but he is a bad guy coz he knew from start that i love him n he didnt tell.me at beggining what he needs...but he let me to do all for him and after 4 years of relation he said he need document n not love

Any man that leaves you, is not meant for you.

Europija:
Yes but he is a bad guy coz he knew from start that i love him n he didnt tell.me at beggining what he needs...but he let me to do all for him and after 4 years of relation he said he need document n not love

Hello.
Where u from pls?