LewsTherin:
She was my girl and she had a need. I funded the last two years of her University and her youth service. We had a long distance no sex relationship at that! Today, she's my wife. 5 years now. I did it because she was my girl and she needed help.

Irrespective of what naysayers say, it's really a function of the type of people you BOTH are. You know who you are and you have an idea of who she is. Is she very impressionable? Does she have firm principles. What of you?

Faith111:
Please! Please!! Please!!!
I am a graduate today because of my Hubby....
He trained me from purchasing my jamb form to my final year project WITHOUT EVER HAVING SEX WITH ME talk less of pregnanting me...
Today I'm pillar in his house and that singular act makes my home a heaven...We've been married for 4yrs nd very soon we'll be counting 3kids..but it all looks like we got married yesteday..Since we got married, things have turned around for both of us...I am now that classical wife even young boys trip 4..I work and earn very well...He earns very well too. Today, I'm proud of him. together we can acquire assets, pay bills and plan as 1...
My hubby gave me the rent his bros gave him so he could hussle for job for my year1 fees n slept in an uncompleted apartment, his salary was 40k and he gladly sends me 25k having nothing but Tfare and a little to eat from the bukka..He would never buy clothes nor shoes for my sake..But today we can give 40k to a needy without itch..
Op please Love believes all things...
My hubby's friends and family envy him and wish they had me 4 a wife without knowing what sacrifice he made in the past...
Follow ur HEART

Camoo pls don't mind this ppl oo there case is jst 1% of success. it cmpletely dpends on both parties involved and circumstances surrounding their cases My clear point here is that secure the variables of your chances(loosing or winning) go to her family or relatives house and make your point clear of marrying her before even thinking of spending a dime (and since you say she agree to marry you too) that's my take oo Goodluck on ur decision.

Yes my girlfriend is NOT important... the moment she becomes my wife then she becomes EXTREMELY important to my mental, physical, financial and emotional well-being.

kaziblake:
so your girlfriend isn't important?

I learned a lot 2day.

Faith111:
Please! Please!! Please!!!
I am a graduate today because of my Hubby....
He trained me from purchasing my jamb form to my final year project WITHOUT EVER HAVING SEX WITH ME talk less of pregnanting me...
Today I'm pillar in his house and that singular act makes my home a heaven...We've been married for 4yrs nd very soon we'll be counting 3kids..but it all looks like we got married yesteday..Since we got married, things have turned around for both of us...I am now that classical wife even young boys trip 4..I work and earn very well...He earns very well too. Today, I'm proud of him. together we can acquire assets, pay bills and plan as 1...
My hubby gave me the rent his bros gave him so he could hussle for job for my year1 fees n slept in an uncompleted apartment, his salary was 40k and he gladly sends me 25k having nothing but Tfare and a little to eat from the bukka..He would never buy clothes nor shoes for my sake..But today we can give 40k to a needy without itch..
Op please Love believes all things...
My hubby's friends and family envy him and wish they had me 4 a wife without knowing what sacrifice he made in the past...
Follow ur HEART

Then I would say that u one of the few that remembers good deeds.u n ur husband are luckily meant for each other. Every one can't be as lucky as u guys. Some have a bad story to tell on this same topic. Our regards to ur loving hubby.

TeOwl:
Yes my girlfriend is NOT important... the moment she becomes my wife then she becomes EXTREMELY important to my mental, physical, financial and emotional well-being.

Guys aren't to be trusted.

sukkot:
let me give you the best advice anyone can ever give you and it will be mutually beneficial for the both of you. and my advice will be approached from a biblical point of view. now in the bible ' sex ' is the seal of a marriage. all that ceremonial stuff is just human tradition. the person you have sex with is your wife. so this is my advice. pay for her school fees but make sure you are getting your matrimonial sex from her. now look at it this way ? all men pay for sex one way or the other so just accept that your paying her school fees is your own payment for sex. now when she graduates if she finds a better man and decides to leave you the curse will be on her head cuz she left the marriage to commit adultery with another person while you are in the clear and all throughout the time you were with her you got your moneys worth anyway so you are the winner

False doctrine

The issue is not about whether he really loves her, if he doesn't love her this issue would not bother him because he would not just pay.

What he is confused about is the fact that she might not really love him and in future after spending his time and money on her she would dump him just like that.

Seriously, if a man invests so much in a girl and she later dumps him, he is going to feel hurt... that is what his uncertainty is about.

daddynasa:
Bro check ur heart very well. If ur friends can actually talk u to being confused on weda to help or not then I must say u really shud check if u luv her. Wen u luv sm1 u dnt contemplate on weda or not to help or do what makes the person happy cus their happiness makes u happy. My advice to u is help her as u would ve helped anyone in need and dnt expect anythin frm her be it marriage. Welcome to the world of love. **please dnt listen to some comments above** I think they re frm adult babies

Beadex1:
galfriend fire .....let me tell u a story. There Is this girl I hunted down back in school, at a point I stayed in her house for weekend from Friday To Monday morning enjoying myself but my spirit kept playing insecurity I had To investigate about her more and behold that house I slept was rented for her by her boyfriend I also learnt that the boyfriend started taking responbility of her academic since GCE level till level 300 of that moment. I warned her To stay clear from me because she Is a bloody killer

Na wa oo.

ify84:


False doctrine

genesis 24 vs 67 And Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah's tent, and took Rebekah, and she became his wife; << SLEPT WITH HER AND SHE BECAME HIS WIFE. SLEEPING WITH A WOMAN YOU DROP A PART OF YOU IN HER THAT STAYS WITH HER FOREVER. YOUR DNA-ANTIGENE-ANTIBODY. THATS THE SEAL. THATS HOW GOD CREATED IT, WHICH IS WHY WOMEN WHO HAVE SE-MEN OF SEVERAL MEN IN THEM ARE CURSED ( MEN ARE CURSED TOO ) UNTIL THEY REPENT AND CHANGE THEIR WAYS. MANY WOMEN ARE WALKING AROUND WITH THE ANTIGENE OF SEVERAL MEN PERMANENTLY ENCODED IN THEIR DNA. THIS WHY THEY LOOK OLD FASTER CUZ ITS CONSTANTLY FIGHTING IN HER SYSTEM

idu1:
my brother, just help her because she need help. If she come dump you na she go carry the curse. All d ppl wey I know who sponsor their babe go school na cry dey cry at last.....


I even know one wey sponsor this very fine babe from ss1 to hnd. Na after nysc dey(I mean she and her mum) dump my guy. Hehehehehehehehehehe


I pray your own no go be like that sha....

his family members need help more than her!

that is not his cross!

don't go and carry another's person cross and forsake ya family members all in the name of love!

even if she break his heart at the end of the day no amount of curse will affect that woman because he was FOOLISH at the very beginning.

I am here to check if they are still mumu out there. To tell you the truth, i wasn't disappointed.

BuddhaPalm:


If you can assist her without obligation, do it. But if it's predicated upon marriage...banking on a woman's promises is fool's gold.

A girl in 100L is still a baby, and is yet to discover herself.

300 - 400L when she's near her peak sexual-market-value, and there are guys from all angles, would she still consider you a good deal? She doesn't know this yet.

U a Real G with lots of wisdom. U made my day.

From my infant to few yrs back, I did a lot of things because I felt it's good, but lately, I use my head wether its good or bad because people ll never treat u d way u treat them, n they ll always have reasons to defend their heartless acts or at most put d blame on d devil.

everything about it is wrong. you just bought your self high blood pressure and a rope in preparation for suicide

Cammo:
I have a girlfriend that I plan to marry. She's a 100 Level student in UNILAG but is having difficulties paying her up school fees. Her mom, a widow, is doing her best but it's not enough. Since I'm a graduate and now working, I feel like helping out. It's an obligation I earnestly wish to take but my friends keep telling me that she would eventually dump my sorry ass for another guy before graduation, and there's nothing I can do. Very confused. I love her and I know she loves me too.
Please advice.

You have to understand that moral has little or no place again in our society. Conscience is dead, therefore one good turn doesn't deserve another. If you must engage in this risky business, you must take off your mind from the possibility of marrying her after graduation. This will save you from heart attacks and subsequent life mistakes should your plan fail.

Nobody is to be trusted... keep your enemies close BUT keep your friends and associates closer... they are the ones with the really power to destroy you NOT an outsider.

I would NOT even trust my own wife 100%...

kaziblake:
Guys aren't to be trusted.

Seriously, many guys here make me sick. Do you really have to date a girl before you can help her Out? Does she really have you be a family, your woman or a gf? Why are you all thinking like a pauper?

What's so wrong with helping out someone you don't even know?

I will love to ask you all a concrete question. Good to know many of you guys are successful, but then she's needing help. Did she choose not to have or to be poor or unfortunate, and do you think that you scared through its by your doing? Nah, you're just fortunate

TeOwl:
The issue is not about whether he really loves her, if he doesn't love her this issue would not bother him because he would not just pay.

What he is confused about is the fact that she might not really love him and in future after spending his time and money on her she would dump him just like that.

Seriously, if a man invests so much in a girl and she later dumps him, he is going to feel hurt... that is what his uncertainty is about.

I get ur point man. Yes u re correct about uncertainties but sometimes we shud nt judge a person based on others she might b different. People re wicked does nt stop us from helping. He shud just help and considered the money as though he gambled on a bet whch can turn out to b win or loss.

Help her if you have the resources to do so, for the sake of God First.
Remember that a lady claimed on this postal that they (ladies) are unstable.You can't predit what they would do next.That is the fact.
It can come out to be the way you plan it though.

lexxyrule:
Seriously, many guys here make me sick. Do you really have to date a girl before you can help her Out? Does she really have you be a family, your woman or a gf? Why are you all thinking like a pauper?

What's so wrong with helping out someone you don't even know?

I will love to ask you all a concrete question. Good to know many of you guys are successful, but then she's needing help. Did she choose not to have or to be poor or unfortunate, and do you think that you scared through its by your doing? Nah, you're just fortunate

My bro that's my point. I tire for our generation sef. We dnt help again unless u knw we ll gain smtin. Its too too bad. I dnt even tink the OP tuely luvs this girl if he does then helping her shudnt be a thing to debate on it is suppose to come naturally. TRUE LUV knws no bound

The thing is, some people like the OP do NOT like gambling!

daddynasa:


I get ur point man. Yes u re correct about uncertainties but sometimes we shud nt judge a person based on others she might b different. People re wicked does nt stop us from helping. He shud just help and considered the money as though he gambled on a bet whch can turn out to b win or loss.

Cammo:
I have a girlfriend that I plan to marry. She's a 100 Level student in UNILAG but is having difficulties paying her up school fees. Her mom, a widow, is doing her best but it's not enough. Since I'm a graduate and now working, I feel like helping out. It's an obligation I earnestly wish to take but my friends keep telling me that she would eventually dump my sorry ass for another guy before graduation, and there's nothing I can do. Very confused. I love her and I know she loves me too.
Please advice.

Pay her dowry then sponsor your wife

johnson232:

u golddiggers will aways make up excuses for your selfish moves?

u dumped him because u thought he had dominion over u & forgot all he did for u?

ingrate!

Like seriously I was about replying her stupid comment!Thanks for repying her in own her coin but it goes to show how dumb some guys can be!paying a girls school fees?I think I should be the last person to do that!

lexxyrule:
Seriously, many guys here make me sick. Do you really have to date a girl before you can help her Out? Does she really have you be a family, your woman or a gf? Why are you all thinking like a pauper?

What's so wrong with helping out someone you don't even know?

I will love to ask you all a concrete question. Good to know many of you guys are successful, but then she's needing help. Did she choose not to have or to be poor or unfortunate, and do you think that you scared through its by your doing? Nah, you're just fortunate

Please comment on the issue at hand and don't bring in another thread in the name of anger.

Faith111:
Please! Please!! Please!!!
I am a graduate today because of my Hubby....
He trained me from purchasing my jamb form to my final year project WITHOUT EVER HAVING SEX WITH ME talk less of pregnanting me...
Today I'm pillar in his house and that singular act makes my home a heaven...We've been married for 4yrs nd very soon we'll be counting 3kids..but it all looks like we got married yesteday..Since we got married, things have turned around for both of us...I am now that classical wife even young boys trip 4..I work and earn very well...He earns very well too. Today, I'm proud of him. together we can acquire assets, pay bills and plan as 1...
My hubby gave me the rent his bros gave him so he could hussle for job for my year1 fees n slept in an uncompleted apartment, his salary was 40k and he gladly sends me 25k having nothing but Tfare and a little to eat from the bukka..He would never buy clothes nor shoes for my sake..But today we can give 40k to a needy without itch..
Op please Love believes all things...
My hubby's friends and family envy him and wish they had me 4 a wife without knowing what sacrifice he made in the past...
Follow ur HEART

"Love believes all things" God bless you and your family, you're a wise and sincere woman.

Joromi1:

What kind of thrash advice is this? Anyways, the moniker reveals the person

o boy nah truth him dey yarn u o, I also 've seen a lot of cases like dat but later......story 4 anoder day

FTBOY:
do it and you're dead! she would not only dump you but deny ever knowing you! but if you still feel like helping out, fvck and impregnate her now to scare the boys away..........i've seen pregnant students, nothing new about it

This guy you Wicked oooooooo

There is nothing wrong if you believe she dwserves it

There is no risk sponsoring the education of any person at all.

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TeOwl:
The thing is, some people like the OP do NOT like gambling!

HMMM.. U ll come to understand someday.

Bros abeg if I dey in need and u dey in position to help, u no go help me?

Faith111:
Please! Please!! Please!!!
I am a graduate today because of my Hubby....
He trained me from purchasing my jamb form to my final year project WITHOUT EVER HAVING SEX WITH ME talk less of pregnanting me...
Today I'm pillar in his house and that singular act makes my home a heaven...We've been married for 4yrs nd very soon we'll be counting 3kids..but it all looks like we got married yesteday..Since we got married, things have turned around for both of us...I am now that classical wife even young boys trip 4..I work and earn very well...He earns very well too. Today, I'm proud of him. together we can acquire assets, pay bills and plan as 1...
My hubby gave me the rent his bros gave him so he could hussle for job for my year1 fees n slept in an uncompleted apartment, his salary was 40k and he gladly sends me 25k having nothing but Tfare and a little to eat from the bukka..He would never buy clothes nor shoes for my sake..But today we can give 40k to a needy without itch..
Op please Love believes all things...
My hubby's friends and family envy him and wish they had me 4 a wife without knowing what sacrifice he made in the past...
Follow ur HEART

Nice,you did that and that was good of you,but that is you...trust me not many ladies are like you,i for one won't send a girl to. School,presently as I write a friend of mine is in the same thing,having sent this girl to school,she dumped his ass,after all the money spent

][/i]y not marry her, then pay her fees?[/i]

sukkot:
genesis 24 vs 67 And Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah's tent, and took Rebekah, and she became his wife; << SLEPT WITH HER AND SHE BECAME HIS WIFE. SLEEPING WITH A WOMAN YOU DROP A PART OF YOU IN HER THAT STAYS WITH HER FOREVER. YOUR DNA-ANTIGENE-ANTIBODY. THATS THE SEAL. THATS HOW GOD CREATED IT, WHICH IS WHY WOMEN WHO HAVE SE-MEN OF SEVERAL MEN IN THEM ARE CURSED UNTIL THEY REPENT AND CHANGE THEIR WAYS. MANY WOMEN ARE WALKING AROUND WITH THE ANTIGENE OF SEVERAL MEN PERMANENTLY ENCODED IN THEIR DNA. THIS WHY THEY LOOK OLD FASTER CUZ ITS CONSTANTLY FIGHTING IN HER SYSTEM

Wrong understanding of that passage.. . Read earlier verses... Bride price had been fully paid... Before she came to isaac... "[ESV] Genesis 24:53 And the servant brought out jewelry of silver and of gold, and garments, and gave them to Rebekah. He also gave to her brother and to her mother costly ornaments." bride price fully paid by Abraham's servant...

Cammo:
I have a girlfriend that I plan to marry. She's a 100 Level student in UNILAG but is having difficulties paying her up school fees. Her mom, a widow, is doing her best but it's not enough. Since I'm a graduate and now working, I feel like helping out. It's an obligation I earnestly wish to take but my friends keep telling me that she would eventually dump my sorry ass for another guy before graduation, and there's nothing I can do. Very confused. I love her and I know she loves me too.
Please advice.

The only way u can go ahead with this u kind gesture is only if you can remove the reason that's making you do it,becus you will always regret it if you put that in mind...

I will just advise if the resources is there just take her as as younger sister at d sametime, sure you can continue ur affair with her but don't put too much expectation from her...just do it a freestyle tin.