Stats: 3,189,599 members, 7,937,688 topics. Date: Monday, 02 September 2024 at 10:27 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? (31884 Views)
Woman Who Wants To Marry Her Son's Friend In Gombe Sent To Prison / My Husband Snatched My Company, Sold My Property To Marry Our Salesgirl (pic) / Man To Pay N800,000 To Marry Dead Woman As Wife (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) ... (14) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by demexy: 12:47pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Do it bro it might work out. After all, people still invest in HYIP 1 Like |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Nobody: 12:48pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Op never try to buy love cos you will end up buying a hoe…. Consider her situation as a test of love. If she loves you then she’ll stay weather you pay her school fees or not but if you wan be father Xmas then pay and enjoy while it last…. 3 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by sukkot: 12:48pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
ify84:thats tradition. not necessary. the LORD is not the author of confusion. when he slept with her is when she became his wife. in america in ancient days all you had to do was jump over a broom. that was their tradition. people have different customs and traditions but in the eye of GOD, sex is the marriage Ruth 4:13 So Boaz took Ruth, and she became his wife; and he went in unto her, and Jehovah gave her conception, and she bare a son. |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by omegatwelve: 12:49pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
If you love her to that extent, why don't you marry her first then take full charge of sponsoring her education as your wife. And don't forget to give her belle because she fit dey give campus guys the thing. 4 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Bamz(m): 12:53pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Cammo: I believe she's a bit matured at this age. So going by what you're saying, Are you willing to wait 3+ more years before getting married? Is she willing to wait for that long also? What's stopping you guys from getting married before she finishes since you seem a buoyant and quite futuristic? I don't want to talk about you sponsoring her because God sends even strangers to bless people they are unrelated to, so as a Christian (or even Muslim) I feel that would be an obligation that your faith and pocket can withstand. Life is simple. Don't complicate it. 2 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Nobody: 12:53pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
If your girlfriend is a woman or lady,please don't pay her tuition. Don't waste your money. This is not a matter of God's rewarding you. If you insist on wasting the money, go ahead with the tuition payment. 2 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Nobody: 12:54pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
I would help you... you are NOT my friend so I would forget about your case. I have helped some of my friends that are UniAbuja students without expecting anything... they are guys, I don't even call them. It is COMPLETELY different when you are in love with a girl and you are spending money with the EXPECTATION that in the future you would marry her and she would be faithful to you. daddynasa: 3 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Nobody: 12:55pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Cammo:Guy marry her first or ur case will be that of Christiana's and her Maga. 2 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by beebat22: 12:55pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Cammo:assist her if u are meant for each oda either u help her or not you will find each oda n get married so help her telling a friend u want to help ur gf dey will give u a ill-advice,she is ur second pls hlp her nobody no 2moro. |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by 2tek: 12:56pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Bros, DONT TRY IT except u dont mind being disappointed. 99% percent of dem won't appreciate it. My friend is battling WT such issue currently. BE CAREFUL. 2 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Nobody: 12:57pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
DeMekus:I know that WOMAN IS a lier! 1 Like |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Bamz(m): 12:58pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
kaziblake: Everyone is single until they're married Get with the program young woman. 3 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Nobody: 12:59pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Bad market... You are not responsible for her education if you are not married to her. You want to marry a graduate? Up your game! You want to help? Help and don't cry like a baby. Only give what you won't regret later. You truly love her? Feelings change. Last Bullet: Up your game. Be sure she is your only option. You owe her nothing. Situations may change and you may not have the upper hand. Always be prepared for disappointments, this way your life would be easy. You can't be to sure. You might be her only option now... in four-years time... ![]() Who says you can't get married right now? 2 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Nobody: 12:59pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
kingofchess:...she is doing course SEX101- Sex and Mr. Mugu in the contemporary Nigerian society... |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by donephi(m): 1:00pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
kaziblake: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Very funny 1 Like |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by GodofGrace(m): 1:03pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
hmmm haven't read a lot of comments here and I come to this conclusion. impregnate a lady won't stop her from cheating if its in her blood, paying a lady bride price will not stop her from dumping you if she found a better person, so what is the way forward at op. in every business man lay hand on there is two possible outcome either gain or loss so my advice to you is that count her as business you are investing on she either bring gain or loss but never put much trust so that when it happened it won't affect you much. just count it as if you are helping one random girl. |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by lexxyrule(m): 1:04pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Excellentmind: Please remind me, what's the issue at hand? And Where's the diversion? Please take your time to read again. |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by horlus(m): 1:06pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
If it's in your heart to do it just go ahead you don't need anyone's permission. I did it and I'm happily married to her for 8 years now with two wonderful kids. april makes it our 9th anniversary. It isn't a bad idea but like all things has its own challenges. If you and the girl are meant for each other there is nothing you cannot work out when challenges arise. Today my wife is a graduate and a successful business woman.females can patronize her online store @sisiclothings on instagram or Facebook. The contacts for the physical store is there as well. Thanks |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by lexxyrule(m): 1:07pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
daddynasa: Lolz for real, he's not meant to wait to be further confused . he should ask himself what she'll do if she's in his shoes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Nobody: 1:07pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Faith111:...you are an ancient lady borne before 21st century. Ladies of the present age are tiger... 1 Like |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by orobs93(m): 1:07pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Yakzo: Why are u sounding like a forefather 1 Like |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by kaziblake(f): 1:08pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by shamooo: 1:08pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
My friend just do it,if u do it for God definitely nothing bad will happen even if she abandoned u God will bring a solution |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Eberex(m): 1:09pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
OP Let me share you my own experience which is still ongoing. I met my girl friend when i taught senior students during my nysc days. That was 2010. She got admission into school the next year, but we weren't dating yet. Just friends and we kept communication open. When she was in her 100 level i asked her out, knowing what i'm getting myself into. I help out in my own way because its just the right thing to do. Fast forward, she is in her finals. and graduating this year. So its not about how much you will spend on her. Its how much you love her and if it is real love, then no matter how long it is , you will wait. 2 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Nobody: 1:13pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Buddy,sponsor your siblings or any member of your family. 1 Like |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by topsquino(m): 1:13pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Op. Let me give you a candid advice. From your post, it seems you are afraid of losing the girl, an ingredient which is definitely not good for any relationship. Are you the pragmatic type, if so, DON'T DO IT. And if you want to do it, marry her now to avoid a story that touch. (but I see you doing it and I see the girl dumping your sorry ass) 2 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by mulattoclaro(m): 1:15pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Don't even try it. Girls are very ungrateful people. Use your head. 1 Like |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Ayauche(f): 1:15pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
[quote author=emerged01 post=42442027]Help her if you have the resources but don't be hopeful you will marry her. Don't do it for her,do it for God. Just don't expect anything good from her in return to prevent heart attack. U already said my mind. A perfect advice. |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Nobody: 1:18pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Cammo: Help her because she needs it not because she is going to end up with you Anything could happen tomorrow, you are still likely to be in love with her while she might not be due to circumstances beyond her control and I don't think you would want her to marry you out of pity. Another option would be to marry her now and visit a doctor to determine the best contraceptive method for her. Then you coudl wait till she is working before procreating. The added advantage is that you do not have to worry about fornication ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by olac21(m): 1:18pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
dahmie2013: Pardon my curiosity,are you married now?going by a thread I read concerning your mum's request for the name of your boo! 2 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by mimibright(m): 1:19pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
@OP am currently facing the same problem right now. She's a medical student and lives with her anti, her mom a widow can't pay her fees and her anti is saying its too much for her alone so she might drop out if NL one helps. In as much as I love her so much to marry her I just can't do that now cause am not ready to have kids, I have the resources to take care of a family but I don't want that now. Paying her fees is something I can do buh to be honest this girls ain't loyal. Am yet to figure a way to do this but definitely I won't fall a victim. 1 Like |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by pafunky: 1:19pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
THERE ARE A GREAT RISKS, THE BEST IS TO MARRY HER THEN YOU CAN TRAIN HER THE WAY YOU WANT HER TO BE FOR YOU, EITHER IN SCHOOL, ARTISAN, OR ANY HOW. 2 Likes |
(1) (2) (3) ... (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) ... (14) (Reply)
Meet Mrs. Olayinka Adeyemo – The Pregnant Tricycle (keke) Rider / Nigerian Lady Begins Search For Her Mother Who Went Missing 28 Years Ago. Photos / My Wife Pushed Me Into Another Woman's Arms
Viewing this topic: 1 guest(s)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 61 |