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Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Damfostopper(m): 1:20pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
All these married and single yeye creatures of bitches saying my husband did dis n dat.... I dump him cos of arrogant n bla bla bullshit.... If u ask dem if d will allow their brother do it.... Dia answer will b No..... Op.... D earlier ur realize wassup d beta.... Rule 99 says... Marry a gal n sponsor ha... In fact impregnate her in d process.... Not doing something u will live to regret 7 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by UjSizzle(f): 1:24pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Considering the things i saw in school, what you intend doing is not safe. And I don't assume you're running a charity organisation. So you can try insuring yourself by marrying her first... please don't use sending her to school as leverage. Marry her because you want to and she wants to also. But if you can manage it, don't get her pregnant until she's done with school. I know how people are saying they've seen pregnant students before, but trust me studying, handling school runs and being pregnant is not easy at all. Perhaps the pregnant girls do not talk to guys about the challenges, but they tell their female friends. Don't be selfish enough to put her through a pregnancy just because you want to make her unfit for other people. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by olac21(m): 1:25pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
kaziblake: See your mouth like Love your neighbor as yourself!btw,what else was I expecting you to say b4? 3 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by masciano77: 1:27pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
My friend before you start commiting marry her, A lady is not your responsibilty untill when you are legaly married to her. O boy shine your eyes Cammo: 4 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by nairaman66(m): 1:27pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Cammo: This is the game of love it is usually based on probability. Help her if you want to, but also accept the consequences after 4 years.. Your choice! 2 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by olac21(m): 1:32pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Joavid:2million dislikes for you biatch! 1 Like |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Iamsheriff(m): 1:33pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Cammo:√Yeah......it's much. |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Boeing777pilot: 1:33pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
If you really help her, give her money to start a business, she can fund her education from it and you supplement when necessary. It's a win win situation. Don't do it because you expect something in return. |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by erumena(m): 1:33pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
emerged01: That's the truth right there! Don't expect anything in return, that way when she disappoints, you won't hurt so much. |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by samyswit: 1:35pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Its a 50/50 chance my bro, u can help her if u have what it takes but dont put ur trust or hope that she is going to be ur wife because u could be heartbroken and torn apart at the end of the day. Life is all about risk . 1 Like |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by holyokoto(m): 1:35pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Faith111: Beauty or whatever, most of us are mature and understands the Principles of our contemporary time. Any lady that came out Giving false credit to a man He has married to as you are doing in this blog has a serious hidden agenda. No one is jealou.s you before you come to a wrong conclusion. Just that someone like me can't inhale all your fabricated Lies! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by AJboi(m): 1:35pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
too Why u no show us ur face make we see who dey talk.Mtchewwww....Abeggi, make we hear word! |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by prissyluv(f): 1:36pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Eberex: bros,how many year course did your girl read in school? |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Nobody: 1:37pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
kaziblake:she is important actually!.....but my mother ,sister and aunty are [b]MORE[\b] important... ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by glossy6(f): 1:37pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Cammo:1. Marry her, she is not too young if she's 18 and above 2. Sponsor her 3. She may have 2 kids for you before graduating 4. Good for both of us. 5. If she changes her mind after graduating with 2 kids, you still have something to hold on to. Good luck |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by betterABIAstate: 1:38pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
My specialty in school then was snatching such girls, they are very easy to get. 1 Like |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by donephi(m): 1:38pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Considering all the comments by ladies, they are all telling you to pay with the aim of not getting married to her, this alone should give you a mindset how their "hearts" or "mind" work. In summary of what they said " if you want to help her, do that without the intention for marriage. The question is can you train her without expecting her to become your wife" food for thought. Nwanne, Odikwa risky 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Topman0001(m): 1:38pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
emerged01:I guess u're speaking from experience. I did it and i suffered so much in the hands of that small girl. When she was a kid, i was her sunday school teacher, now that she has grown up, i was assisting her parents in financing her edu. When she got to her final year, she called me on fone that she can't date a man who is 14 yrs older. Omo i nearly cried. What a loss. Pls dude don't do it except u will accept whatever happens. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by AJboi(m): 1:38pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
[color=#000099][/color] Faith111:. Why u no show us ur face make we knw who dey talk?Mtchewwww.... U hide face dey lue for us.BETTER RESPECT URSELF ON DIS PLATFORM. We don hear plenty stories, ok?! 5 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Olabestonic001(m): 1:39pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Cammo:Irrespective of what naysayers say, it's really a function of the type of people you BOTH are. You know who you are and you have an idea of who she is. Is she very impressionable? Does she have firm principles. What of you?[/quote] To drive it home, I will say the op holds the ace here. Do you know that if despite your help for her you decide to go on sex-fasting, your relationship will blossom more? If you can Intentionally withhold sex from the relationship pending marriage and you never dance to her sexual "come-and-get-me", you'll be more than a gold to her. She'll help you beyond anything otherwise she's an irresponsible girl. The problem is always introducing premarital sex to relationship, it normal breed things that are more imagined than spelt it. 1 Like |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Nobody: 1:40pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
My Brother, my answer is YES. I don't want to read other comments BUT I well know that all are not same, I strongly advise you NOT to unless you both are married already even at that its too risky amd telling you this be two/three experinces of mine. Better watch your step, wome are evil. May I ask what's your own level of education, such was on me before I went to school she said am not educated and I cursed her till date with her education/money no man has ask her out. So be warned!!!!!!!!! 3 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by iwatchandlisten(m): 1:40pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Love gives without demanding anything in return. Dont make it look like you will only sponsor her education in exchange for marriage. The Bible says: "cast your bread upon the waters, after many days you shall find it". Help her for Christ sake, if you both end up in marriage, good. If not, be sure that God will give a better wife and you'll be glad. Also note this: "Give and it shall be given unto you good measure, pressed down, shaken together shall men add to your bossom". That's God's word - from my experience, it is true. An aside: Somebody you claim to love, to help her you are forming this kind panel on Nairaland to advise you whether to do or not to do? Do you really love her? If you really love her, your friends wont even hear of her challenge. And which kind quality of friends you de keep sef? None of una de fear God? In late Chaz B's voice: love just because... |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Fongido(m): 1:42pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
emerged01:The best answer. thumbs up |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Blessed4al(m): 1:43pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
I'd advice you to marry her first before proceeding with training her in school. She's 21, she's come of marriageable age. Opting to train her in school before marrying her is not really the best thing to do considering the fast pace life school offers. 3 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Silas0(m): 1:44pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Relegate that sort of thought to the background except you want to do it for charity sack. 2 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by emerged01(m): 1:44pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Topman0001: Not that I really sponsored her. I assisted her in the little way I could then. Thank God we got married with a kid and she is the one assisting me now. 1 Like |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by kaziblake(f): 1:48pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
olac21:Like your own. |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by kaziblake(f): 1:49pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
JESUSBOIY:chai!!! See confession. |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by betterABIAstate: 1:53pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
iwatchandlisten:rubbish, does love also say you should risk breaking your heart? Ask for wisdom and understanding from the lord before you type gibberish here 4 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Topman0001(m): 1:53pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
emerged01:Wow! You're lucky to have choosen from the good ones 1 Like |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by dahmie2013: 1:56pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
olac21:Nope! |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Nobody: 1:58pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
sukkot: ![]() 1 Like |
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