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Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by AVISENNA: 2:46pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
they have all spoken well. if you want to assist her please do. If you nurse any ambition of marriage by virtue of sponsorship , you will regret it. the chance are like one in one thousand. 4 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Sunnypar(m): 2:48pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Joavid:Ijebu people stingy...... True! They are enterprising. 1 Like |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by FTBOY: 2:51pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
joseph1832:but, boss, on a more serious note, that's the only sure way. marrying her is not enough.......she can drop the ring in her handbag. but with the pregnancy, niggas would stay clear off her. it's even a favour for her coz she'd be enjoying special treatments from lecturers and fellow students 3 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Faith111: 2:52pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
holyokoto: Well I didn't create a thread to give Credence to my Hubby...I only commented on a Thread that provided a platform to share my personal experience... If you feel jealous about the Credence, wait till you get Married. I love my Hubby, im Happily Married, earn well, and a mother at that..so i wonder what hidden agenda i have on a blog like NL. Not looking for Date...Married Not Seeking for a Job....Employed Not In Need of Children... A Mother Learn To Trust People...Not everyone has an hidden agenda. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Sunnypar(m): 2:54pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
FTBOY:You no do NYSC wey married women dey fling ring inside bag! My brother, the surest way na belle! If not, OYO lo wa o. 1 Like |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by FTBOY: 2:55pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Sunnypar:LOL! we're saying the same thing 1 Like |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Olabestonic001(m): 2:56pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Faith111: A girl is not "Entitled" to anything save love and concern from her man. And the man is also not "Entitled" to anything save love and respect from his lady. The Word ENTITLEMENT is the problem here. Anything you see as your Entitlement, you'll never be grateful on it; simply because you think its your right. Any lady or man should be "Appreciative" if her man gives her anything. A woman that not a gold digger will appreciate things done by her sweetheart and not demand it of him. As a man, I learnt NEVER to allow my lady see me as her ATM machine (thank GOD, she's even a bunch on her own). But, sincerely, the fundamental thing a man owes his lady (before she become his wife) is to ensure she reach her full potential not sex, money or such material or ephemeral things. 3 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Damfostopper(m): 2:58pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Faith111:I don't remember quoting you..... IDGAF what you think.... U ain't paying my bills |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by richylee(m): 2:59pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Cammo:every step we take in life is a risk, if u have the money help her, no matter what you we be her hero for life. As for you marring her is 50/50. |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by kaziblake(f): 3:00pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
FTBOY:I'm not suprised. 1 Like |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by FTBOY: 3:01pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Sunnypar:yeah, but young girls with husbands hardly identify their marital status in public.......so dat dem go fit twist waist and fvck the fine boys around. IRANU! 2 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by FTBOY: 3:02pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
kaziblake:I never intended to surprise you, honey |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by scachy(m): 3:03pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
FTBOY: ![]() ![]() |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by kaziblake(f): 3:03pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
FTBOY:ok. |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by eddyscof(m): 3:05pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Cammo:Bro abeg, there's no way you would help her and your mind won't be there so, it's either you don't attach your feelings to the help or tell her your plans for her before making any decisions and hear what her reply would be. But you can help her in this case not that you become the one paying her fees all the time. God help you bro! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by FTBOY: 3:05pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Toks2008:she would definitely hide that ring. pregnancy can't stop her from learning 3 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Lovelynature(m): 3:09pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Cammo:If you are sure there's mutual love between you and the girl and you are well to do. The best advice I can give you is to propose to her, while you sponsor her. Or you can sponsor her for God's sake. But hoping to marry her because of the sponsorship is actually what nobody, no even her can guarantee you as life is prone to change. |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by noblegrex: 3:09pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
emerged01:exactly. Your head dey there.best advice of the week.just exactly my thought + experience. What a candid advice. Do it and forget what follows.if you end up marrying her,fine.if not, althoug very painful but cool and be wise.Above all,do it for humanity sake and don't stop being good. |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by FTBOY: 3:10pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
bigskygold:so the mom didn't know u were ijebu when u were spending money on her daughter ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Olabestonic001(m): 3:12pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
dahmie2013: You can't fault the guy ma'am . You can't! He only decided against shouldering the responsibilities of a whole family which ended up making you a better woman. I'll tell you, if he had decided to shoulder you and your families problems, you guys would have hated each other and you won't be a better you as you have now. I once dated a lady and her mom floated the idea that her daughter must shoulder the responsibility of her younger siblings and I was unhappy that with my meager salary then someone will table an agenda that will make my prospective future family a recipient of some people's anger when their "Entitlements" are not done (even if we had a huge financial responsibility). In all honesty, I was still ready to go ahead despite that red flag but the young lady also wanna "bargain" for her own terms and conditions both psychological and material apart from that floated by her mom. Interestingly, I gave her an option to be permanently committed( No sex before marriage rules) but she capitulated and the relationship ended. I would have willingly do many things but whenever my "help" is seen as my "duty", I don't take it as duties are compulsory while helps are necessary. 3 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by mamaafrik(m): 3:12pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Faith111:hmmmm,you are right but dont generalize it oooooo,girls....or people's reliability has dropped to zero these days,op,u urself is the one who can tell abt d type of love existing between you people,if you ar certain(i mean dead certain cos people can pretend,ennnh?,especially wen they are searchin for an "awin ebaoo...." ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by bejeria101(m): 3:13pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
No risk sir,when she leaves you for the next guy,na dia the risk dey lol! |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by bb6xt(m): 3:16pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Cammo: Is there any risk in giving to charity? I tell you there is absolutely no risk. But don't ever think for a second that contributing to her education entitles you to anything if you do that'd be the death of you. So if you are going to do it at all do it like you would to your biological sister with absolutely no strings. Otherwise you'll just be setting yourself up for "stories that touch" if not high blood pressure. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Sunnypar(m): 3:19pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
kaziblake:why are you surprised? Would you date a man without demanding? Please be truthful. 1 Like |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by alaskido(m): 3:24pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
PLEASE I BEG YOU, DO NOT TRY IT O. I WAS A VICTIM. IF YOU DO IT, YOU WILL NOT ONLY LOOSE AN ELECTION,YOU WILL LOOSE ERECTION. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Eddodoh(m): 3:27pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Sunnypar:He's probably a learner. I can see a snake & stand still but If a woman tell me to wait/stand, I will run wit my legs touching my head. 3 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by mamaafrik(m): 3:27pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
FTBOY:no mind them,na so my elder bro.,meet one the other time,spent money and time ,everyone don dey hope only for her to start misbehaving afta he paid for her final project,ma brother and every were shocked to deir bile,tell her abt it,if she cant agree to marriage and pregnancy now,oh boy waka,guys don too wakeup to dey form one kind beast of burden for ladies.if u r familiar with ladies we suldnt be telling u all these. 4 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Sunnypar(m): 3:33pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Olabestonic001:More money to your pocket........ Smart move..... I dated a girl like that, that refused to work and wanted me to shoulder her schooling responsibilities.... I adviced her to get a job, she rejected a minimum wage salary, I suffered to do her resume, opened her an email address....I did a lot but unfortunately she did not see it as anything..... As I dey now, even if you want me to help I would refer you to your aunty, uncle and relatives 3 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Allosaurus: 3:45pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
sukkot:That moment you see a troll quoting the scriptures ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Allosaurus: 3:46pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
kaziblake:Discouraging or telling him the fact? 3 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by chicent2k3(m): 3:50pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
I swore in my life time never to date, talkless of marrying a student. My guy, this is how it will end; she will keep giving excuses as to why she can't come home; u will not be able to get her on phone because she will claim her phone ain't good; or that an urgent excursion came up etc. My guy, I have seen it all, I am also a victim. I beg u!!!! Don't try it!! Just end that relationship now and friendzone her. If u want to help her then, no wahala. But still there are some good and faithful ones out there but it's like trying to pick out just a tiny stone among 10,000 bean seed. Thank me later. ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Is There Any Risk Sponsoring The Education Of A Girl You Want To Marry? by Allosaurus: 3:56pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
TeOwl:*Expectation* That's the keyword. There's nothing more heartbreaking that disappointment from a lover 3 Likes |
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