Not everyone loves to cheat on their spouse but they end up being a cheat because of the way they relate with the opposite sex.

You don't want to cheat yet, you look at other opposite sex lustfully.

You don't want to cheat and you give other opposite sex the opportunities you cannot even give your spouse.

You don't want to cheat yet, you are not contented in what ever you share with your spouse.

One thing we humans fail to remember as fast as possible is that no one is perfect. The area of your spouse's imperfection is the starting point of another person's.

The best thing is to utilise your period of courtship to understand each other's imperfection.

Once the relationship is sealed no more try and error, because it is a complex school where no one graduates till death comes according to the oath.

Once you are not satisfied with what she cooks, her mood, and the intimate time with her then you are lost.

Also, there will be issues when a woman is not satisfied with the intimate time with her man and some other things he does.

If you keep reminding yourself of the qualities that got you attracted to your spouse, there is tendency of you not cheating on your spouse each time you mistakenly want to.

You also need to be careful of the friends you keep as many of them can lead you to do what you will otherwise not do provided you are not firm.

It is not easy to stay glued to one person for a long period of years, it is like eating one type of food all the time, but if it is your best food i am sure you can keep eating it on and on.

Though it is not easy as humans that we are, but try as much as you can to make your spouse the best thing in your life and you will keep giving your all to him/her each time.

Source: http://www.bamisepeter
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It's unnatural and impossible for me not to look the way of other women just coz I'm in a relationship or even married.

I have eyes that can't just stay detached from other women apart from the one I'm seeing and in any event they become readily 'available' then it's up to my hormones to act or not but I'm inclined to think it will betray me more of the time.

I also do think a man can love their girlfriend/wife and still have a fling with another lady. All these if a man truly loves you he won't cheat on you isn't true.

ronald4lif:
It's unnatural and impossible for me not to look the way of other women just coz I'm in a relationship or even married.

I have eyes that can't just stay detached from other women apart from the one I'm seeing and in any event they become readily 'available' then it's up to my hormones to act or not but I'm inclined to think it will betray me more of the time.

I also do think a man can love their girlfriend/wife and still have a fling with another lady. All these if a man truly loves you he won't cheat on you isn't true.

You're just playing right ?

YourMain:


You're just playing right ?

No, not playing this time. Free men na, ehh miss. Why the attempt to curtail our God given amatory relations freedom?

ronald4lif:


No, not playing this time. Free men na, ehh miss. Why the attempt to curtail our God given amatory relations freedom?

lol no ones stopping you from being free though. If you want to be free then you may. But when you've chosen to be with someone faithfully... You can't really be "free" can you?

ronald4lif:
It's unnatural and impossible for me not to look the way of other women just coz I'm in a relationship or even married.

I have eyes that can't just stay detached from other women apart from the one I'm seeing and in any event they become readily 'available' then it's up to my hormones to act or not but I'm inclined to think it will betray me more of the time.

I also do think a man can love their girlfriend/wife and still have a fling with another lady. All these if a man truly loves you he won't cheat on you isn't true.

It is better u speak 4 urself

skywalker240:



It is better u speak 4 urself

Did I speak on your behalf before?

God we save us from karishika