She came back from lecture this evening to the news that a girl visited my boyfriend in our lodge. (They live together). She asked my female neighbours who gave her the gist if they spent time inside and they said the girl even took her bath because they saw her walking to the tap to fetch water. She confronted him and he told me that the girl was just a course mate who came around to chill. He denied she
actually took her bath but agreed that he asked her to help
him fetch a bucket of water. She was livid because he would
never allow any male friend to visit me. She was very angry and she may have said some hurtful things to him because she was the one who paid the house rent this semester. She got the shock of my life when he told her in a very insulting yet calm voice that they are in a relationship and not marriage and that he owes her nothing in sense of faithfulness. He told her that he is not cheating not because he is under any obligation. She was dumb struck. She mean she get nothing from him yet she has remained faithful because they were in a commited relationship. He left the house and is yet to return but what he said got me thinking. Is faithfulness
only for marriage and not for people in a committed
relationship?

danduchi:
She came back from lecture this evening to the news that a girl visited my boyfriend in our lodge. (we live together). I asked my female neighbours who gave me the gist if they spent time inside and they said the girl even took her bath because they saw her walking to the tap to fetch water. I confronted him and he told me that the girl was just a course mate who came around to chill. He denied she
actually took her bath but agreed that he asked her to help
him fetch a bucket of water. I was livid because he would
never allow any male friend to visit me. I was very angry and I may have said some hurtful things to him because I was the one who paid our house rent this semester. I got the shock of my life when he told me in a very insulting yet calm voice that we are in a relationship and not marriage and that he owes me nothing in sense of faithfulness. He told me that he is not cheating not because he is under any obligation. I was dumb struck. I mean I get nothing from him yet i have remained faithful because we were in a commited relationship. He left the house and is yet to return but what he said got me thinking. Is faithfulness
only for marriage and not for people in a committed
relationship?

are u gay? are you the lady in the relationship?....am confused with the She and i

Faithfulness should be all encompassing.

...

He is just bin sincere that he can't stay faithful to you. He's indirectly letting you know he will cheat on you regardless

BTW, a cheating boyfriend is a cheating husband!

kallmemrB:


are u gay? are you the lady in the relationship?....am confused with the She and i

cmon sense is suppose to tell u am narrating her story

If u both "exclusively" dating ,then faithfulness is part of the foundation of the relationship unless u both agreed to be in an "open relationship" ...

Nowadays, it's really hard to find a partner who can be a faithful & honest in an entire relationship..everyone has it's own secrets..

KashyBaby:
If u both "exclusively" dating ,then faithfulness is part of the foundation of the relationship unless u both agreed to be in an "open relationship" ...

Nowadays, it's really hard to find a partner who can be a faithful & honest in an entire relationship..everyone has it's own secrets..

Faithful and honest guys still plenty,only that we have been friendzone

he is been sincere to u and I concur to his ideology of faithfulness in a relationship is just noise making. ...God Almighty never in any case f His books recognises committed relationship without or before marriage... Both of u are doing d wrong thing for now....only in marriage when he cheats he alone will be doing d wrong thing. ... its a word for the wise... don't give urself headache over wat he told u but rather wait until both of u r married then u will use his words of today against him tomorrow. ..

my opinion though.

Yes ooo. Faithfulness is just for marriage. We are all single and dating. We will settle for the best. Quote me, say lubbish and I will lubbish you

HateU2:
Yes ooo. Faithfulness is just for marriage. We are all single and dating. We will settle for the best. Quote me, say lubbish and I will lubbish you

lubbish

favoured234:

lubbish

Is she not Choping outside?

Akkord4gov:


Faithful and honest guys still plenty,only that we have been friendzone

Lol...who friendzone u?

KashyBaby:




Lol...who friendzone u?

I was friendzone for close to 2yrs ,thank God for a tread here on nairaland that opened my eyes
Most times,na ladies dey push faithful and good guys to do the unexpected and at the end,they will still be at the receiving end

No lady can friendzone me again o
Will you try it?

HateU2:
Yes ooo. Faithfulness is just for marriage. We are all single and dating. We will settle for the best. Quote me, say lubbish and I will lubbish you

i dey always feel you.

HateU2:
Yes ooo. Faithfulness is just for marriage. We are all single and dating. We will settle for the best. Quote me, say lubbish and I will lubbish you

i dey always feel you.

u better withdraw now .a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

hoebamaa:
i dey always feel you. i dey always feel you.

Tanks pap

There are still faithful young men just like me.