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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 11:47pm On Feb 01, 2016 |
martoz:thankS for stopping by bro. Yea dats d logic. Lots of girls wana run things with u, but when you do sth that triggers the bf-question, her auto responses gets de-activated. That thrilling feeling she was once experiencing with u dwindles with the thought of her wondering abt her bf. Its better not to ask. This method keeps u away from d friendzone. If u ask, and she gives the ultimate reply " sorry, i av a bf".....she just opened the dreaded door of "friendzone" for u to go through. But if u dont ask, and u show potential, not normal friend potentials, she will pick up on it. Its an attraction signal. Some girls dont like "jjc/newbie" kind of question. Its better to asumme than ask outrightly smtimes. She will feel the attraction, den if she has a bf, she will bring it up herself. Not by u asking, and wen she does, u can simply wave it aside with " oh, dts cool, am just jealous dearie..switch convo to sth else and continue ur normal game". She wont feel guilty for her actions. In most cases, she wont even bring d bf issue up if ur acting like a bf-soji kind of guy already. Not like jjc nice friendly guy. U grab bro. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by fxbot: 6:52am On Feb 02, 2016 |
xxxtedyxxx:hey bro, Assumption didn't work for me o. Na assumption land me for igbobi oooo. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by martoz(m): 7:40am On Feb 02, 2016 |
xxxtedyxxx:tnkx for d reply,no b say I ask if she gt a boyfriend,Aldo we no dey c too much lyk DAT..hv given her nickname ,even move tru d rapport stage,and I tot mk i move fast as u used,and I use some trust techniques...and normal I told ha how feel..I know I misuse d game dier...xo d assuming u talking about z I shud assume I don dey date her?calling her swithat,Huging her and kissn hervwen I c her..I swear dis xxxtedyxxx:tnkx for d reply,i no say ma own too much for here,wnt get tired of learning...cos i must fix dis issue n ma lyf...no b say I ask if she gt a boyfriend,Aldo we no dey c too much lyk DAT..hv given her nickname ,even move tru d rapport stage,and I tot mk i move fast as u used,and I use some trust techniques...and normal I told ha how feel..I know I misuse d game dier...xo d assuming u talking about z I shud assume I don dey date her?calling her swithat,Hug her and kiss her wen I c her,holding ha hand,lolz...Somone wu CNT even go out on a date wit me,lolz...I swear she go tink say I don high...baba expanciate more pls. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by dtyla(m): 4:14pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
Djboosting: |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by dtyla(m): 4:19pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
@DJboosting i couldnt pm u,if u do email-dokwechime@ymail.com or whatsapp 08168731069 Peace JD |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Kredz(m): 7:23pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
@djboosting and tedyxx, you havent replied my question oo |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Eleniyan15: 10:14pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
still following since B.C read page 1-13 after that you ain't getting think consult dah boss...teddy nd d newbie on this thread Buh boss #PUA and mak Una reduce dis long quoting...I go swear for Una oooo 2 Likes |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by TSoul(m): 11:21pm On Feb 02, 2016 |
xxxtedyxxx, I met a gal last year and we started dating. though, i don chup her pomo twice o cuz it's a distant relationship. Now wat surprised me is, i ask her how val will b, she say if i no bring gift and money for her..........nothing like val cuz she need money she told me earlier that she will b in church on val day for a program in d afternoon after service by 2pm (i wonder if pastor dey celebrate val for youths ) meaning she won't b around............. What surprise me most is she keep repeating abt the money she need.........I dey resume skul next week me self need money and she knows this, bt it's like she don't care even if steal it What i can draw from her action now is, No money, no love, no romance Boss, I want to ask.........is this gal truly in this relationship or na business gal cuz we live in two different cities so i can't watch her.........bt she fit call me like ten times a day |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by tr3y(m): 12:30am On Feb 03, 2016 |
TSoul:She might just be one of those babes for Pekas, hope you used protection sha |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:00pm On Feb 03, 2016 |
TSoul:. U don chop pomo finish, u no wan act caring . Weigh in on her acts before she said she needed money.... Can u give her credits for her behaviour before she asked for d cash? If yes, send d cash baba. however if u don't have the cash, no need sending it bro, u sef need money. U can as well forget d whole van, and meet with her someoda time. D puna still sure. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:10pm On Feb 03, 2016 |
Eleniyan15:I see you bro thanks for the headsup |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:18pm On Feb 03, 2016 |
Kredz:don't ignore her, doing that only makes things difficult for u. Don't say yes or no to her requests, and don't even bring up d close friend ish. Talking about it or saying yes gives u an instant passport to the dreaded friendzone territory. All u need to do is make her miss u, make her do d work, only check in on her once in a while, act normal, not like sth happened, and don't try to give her advice on what's pestering her. U r not her therapist. Listening to all her tales and giving her advice will get u friendzoned. Make her miss u, sound excited n fun when u talk to her, and don't lower ur sef to the level of the "close friend" she wants. Continue ur romance as usual, but sparingly, make her miss sth. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 3:42pm On Feb 03, 2016 |
martoz: fxbot: Nice replies there Xxxtedyxxx. I love them. Wow, wow, wow.. It's like you guys are still missing something here, about the "ASSUMPTION" thingy. Do you really understand what assumption is? Do you? No? I should lecture you? Alright, cool. Let's ride. The assumption concept is deep, not just a flimsy string like a g-string bond of ; I assume, I assume, I assume.... First of all, what is assumption? Assumption is a state of assuming something as being real without a prove, isn't it? Assumption again is synonymous to being presumptuous. Now, what is PRESUMPTUOUS? (This is where we are really going) Are you following? Good. Presumptuous means "the art of demonstrating something because of an excess of self-confidence." Now combined Assumption + Presumptuous together, what definition do you get as our new definition of "assume" now? New definition of Assume :- means "the art of demonstrating something as being real without a prove combined WITH Over-confidence." If you didn't grab that, re-read till you get it.. Now that means - You can't assume without SELF-CONFIDENCE. **** Now let me ask you a question, and i require a very honest answer. Are you confident in yourself? Really? Don't lie. Don't use your ego to decisive yourself here, we're all learning. Are you really really confident in yourself? If you are not having a full confidence in yourself, how the fvck are you prepared to lead others? ***** When you don't have full confidence, how can you assume to someone else that something is real? Then before you can assume that to another person something is real, that means you yourself must believe in that thing to be real. You want to act "my boyfriend" now, and the way you are talking, the way you are expressing yourself is not in anyway qualified to me, then how do you expect me to believe in you as my boyfriend? No.......fvcking......way. Ain't gonna happen. Why? Because you lack the qualities. Then when you don't even have the basic attraction qualities to attract me, then how do you want me to regard you as my boyfriend? Do you really see what the word "assume" means now? You can't assume someone is going to follow you without you having the leadership qualities. Then ULTIMATELY, you can't allow that girl to regard you as her wonderful handsome boyfriend when you don't even have the attraction quality in you to get her attracted. Now look at this statement of truth this guy made here which I know is happening to you too.. .Somone wu CNT even go out on a date wit me,lolz...I swear she go tink say I don high. See? When the girl can't go on a date with you, can't hug you ..etc.. Then something should tell you some ingredients are lacking in your dish. Just because a girl is friends with you does NOT mean she's attracted to you. Being a friend is a gateway to many things like Friendzone, boyfriend, sexmate, etc... Now this is where you should start dropping your attraction trigger to her brain. Now when the attraction trigger is ON in her brain, then she's receptive to you "now assuming" of boyfriend role. **** Your question now will be, "JD, how can I be dropping the attraction trigger to assume the role and get to the home base (sex) ?" I would have love to answer that in deep details, but that's a training program product on its own. Then as someone intelligent, you'll agree with me that it's not something I can start typing. But let me just give you little basic... Most, if not all, of my private team members know this. When you tell a girl something along the lines of : "You know I was thinking about what it's going to feel like for us, if I cook for you right now, it will be really interesting you know and believe me you'll be asking for more and you wouldn't want to go home again, BUT, it's too bad, lailai, I'm not cooking for you, because you're too gentle for me." You see that? Now see the breakdown.. 1. I let her imagine me cooking for her and let her believe she'll ask for more (meaning I'm assuming a role here, like we have a DEEP bond between us which no one knows) 2. I said I won't cook for her because she's too gentle for me (meaning I'm disqualifying her, pushing her away, that she's not on my fun level yet, she's still boring......, that tells her that if she's going to be fun around me, I'll cook for her) Want to hear a secret? Alright bring your eyes close to the screen. The secret is... That line that I wrote up there, that is exactly what I said to one hot girl I just met yesterday afternoon in a social function. I said it playfully but with EXCESS SELF-CONFIDENCE. What do you think she did when I say that to her, She bursted out laughing really hard that she punched me on my arm, playfully of course. Like what did I mean by "you're too gentle for me?" She told me not to be deceived by her cool face. (**now her fun mode has been activated, no more gentleness** she's very much attracted to me now) What did I do again here? I challenged her. I told her, "Hey, all girls say that alot, they're just trying to pretend to say that they're fun when they are not." Again she said something along the line that she's different. Now NOTE another extreme assumption of boyfriend's role that I did here.. I said, "Okay, we'll play a fun game right now for me to be sure, for 5mins, we'll play couples, you'll be my girlfriend for just 5mins. Hey, it's just for 5mins o, after 5mins, we'll breakup again". Lol... She laughed so hard Then she agreed. (Ofcourse, 99.99% times the girls will agree, because it's fun, playfully and again I'm saying it with full SELF-CONFIDENCE) I'm not fidgeting, I am not asking, I am ASSUMING. It is not what I said, it is really how I'm saying it that matters After she agreed, I'm like "You know what, I have an idea, follow me". Then immediately I stood up from the chair in the social venue and I started leaving, AND she followed. Why? Because I'm leading with full ASSUMPTION and CONFIDENCE that she'll follow me. Then off we go....... Left the venue and went to my place. To do what? To CLOSE THE DEAL. According to Kiss Daniel, we left - To do the do the do. You can imagine anything else you want, you are right. (This is not a sêx post, I repeat, not a sêx post) Lol. Okay... Okay.... Okay....... Enough of my secrets... Now did you see what happened there? In the little interaction there, did you see anywhere of me talking about her 'boyfriend'? Never.... At all. You HAVE to attract her first before you assume anything with her. I ASSUMED from the beginning of the interaction to the end. And I didn't just do it for the sake of doing it....., I did it with FULL SELF-CONFIDENCE. Women love it when you lead with full confidence, it shows that you know what you are doing Sometimes you say things to her playfully, sometimes you're serious... It creates tension, and it's that tension that create the motherfvcking sexual attraction, and the sexual attraction is what creates the mindblowing sex. What I just breakdown in a little phase, (because some things cannot be revealed here) is exactly how to act a boyfriend. You assume roles... "If I am her boyfriend right now, how would I act?" How would I talk? How would I feel? How would interact with her? What would be saying to her? What would I do with her? Will I be calling her 3times a day? Will I be taking her on numerous dates? Will I be sending cards to her most of the times? Ask yourself all these and give yourself the honest answers. Then start acting according to your answers with confidence. Do what you want. Say what you want. Call her when you want. Don't apologise for what you don't do. Don't send card when you don't feel like. Do something for her at your own accord, because you want to, not because to make her like you. THAT is exactly how to act like a boyfriend. My team members know all this. And that's why if you think you need help to be the best, you need a coach who is a genius. If you think you have what it takes to be in my badass team, Team-Diamond. Send me a PM. And I'll reply you. I know what you are capable of. I believe in you. I believe in my team, Team-Diamond. And I believe in Myself. Gotta hit the gym. I'm out. Peace beast. JD. Try visiting www.joshuniverse.com 8 Likes |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by gsparks01(m): 8:50pm On Feb 03, 2016 |
see epistle o.. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by AarewaMafia: 10:33pm On Feb 03, 2016 |
xxxtedyxxx: Tnks teddy, but one more thing.....i need help on what to discuss with her when i eventually meet her 1 on 1...i need something that will get her interested..i am a shy guy nd i am nt too good with convo, so i am gonna need all the help i can get... Abeg pros in the room can help as well.. Tnks 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by oluwadanie1(m): 7:39am On Feb 04, 2016 |
xxxtedyxxx: good morning sire. You're really doing a very good job. Thanks. Okay, i met this girl here in school and even though i made the mistake of asking if she had a boyfriend, we av forgoten about that. Recently, i was avin a convo with her in which i told her i loved her and in that same convo, she told me she has neva been free with anyone as she is with me. In another convo, i asked if she felt same way abt me but she neva gave a 'yes' or 'no'. She only kept saying 'am sorrry' that she's not thinkin in that direction. Pls wat step do i take next? |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 7:52am On Feb 04, 2016 |
gsparks01: You see that too? Lol.. I can't believe I typed all that. At least it cleared something up for some people. But does it matter? "The more fvcks you give, the less fvck you're going to get." So fvck it. 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by fibial: 10:28am On Feb 04, 2016 |
@JD feel u man...did that stuff sum donkey years ago,asked a pretty churchy damsel 2date me for 1week and guys she refused 2break up after d 1week,sure we did d usual..I bliv we all have our strong selling points as guys,u just have to discover wat is urs. And d truth b told you can't always get every lady sum would slip away....t s nature way of balancing the equation,even the lion misses he's kill sometimes,so wen u miss urs don't feel bad,move on to the next kill. 1 Like |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Arlexxx: 1:47pm On Feb 04, 2016 |
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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by tr3y(m): 3:49pm On Feb 04, 2016 |
^^ Talk is CHEAP! |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Kredz(m): 4:41pm On Feb 04, 2016 |
xxxtedyxxx:Thanks boss |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Kredz(m): 4:45pm On Feb 04, 2016 |
Kredz:She even called and said shez worried about the way i relate with her dat watz wrong |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Arlexxx: 7:01pm On Feb 04, 2016 |
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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Pharmumar(m): 7:52pm On Feb 04, 2016 |
Help ooooo...Am 22 but have neva had a gf...I believe no girl will fall for me because of my luks. Am not bad nor very good looking but I always have dat believe. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by tr3y(m): 8:07pm On Feb 04, 2016 |
Arlexxx: Try to read between the lines next time you feel like crossing to the other side. Less talk, More Action. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Arlexxx: 8:48pm On Feb 04, 2016 |
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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 9:07pm On Feb 04, 2016 |
Op, I sent you a mail. Please respond |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by tr3y(m): 9:47pm On Feb 04, 2016 |
Arlexxx: Ayam chilled na, I dey inside freezer sef. What I have been trying to communicate is you should be progressing physically with her and from what you posted it seems you be the chatty chatty type (no offense). I might be wrong though but it seems she is not investing and only sees you as her feel good medicine and enjoy chatting with you. What you missing is just the investment part. Something similar happened during my NYSC, I just dey rapport with the babe, na rapport we dey for more than a month till she just got bored and start flirting with other guys. You have to move her fast and smartly, I'm not an experienced guru so unto oga OP. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by bulldogpuppy(m): 10:53pm On Feb 04, 2016 |
I just had did new babe how do I initiate sex wen she comes visiting I need help |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Arlexxx: 11:40pm On Feb 04, 2016 |
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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by tr3y(m): 11:41pm On Feb 04, 2016 |
bulldogpuppy:I love seeing comments like this, I can show you but it will be practically. PM your address and I will come over to show you how its done and of course na your babe I go use do practice. On a serious note though, assuming you have built tension between the two of you using sexual innuendo, teasing etc, just go with the flow and don't rush. Use Push-Pull, start with simple touch then progressively and smoothly take her cloth off a piece at a time. If she says stop make you stop oo and do something else then resume again. I believe I no need show you where you go put am but if so I dey available this weekend Tedy and dj dey try sha. |
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by cassyrooy(m): 12:15am On Feb 05, 2016 |
Hi xxxtedyxxx, hi Djboosting, hello tr3y. I great y'all fam both active and ghosting members. Guys your advice is needed. I met this gal over 2yrs ago at my work place, infact i supply goods to her on demand, we clicked and we grew feelings for eachother that it was noticed all around. Made a move but she said 'NO' and 'ZONED' and made me her 'BESTIE'. We were to continue like that until september 2014 when i 'BROKEOUT' out of her 'ZONE'. I got her in my 'ZONE' after settling with her months later. Due to my programs(work and studies) i limited my roles in her life, she complained, kicked and wailed but i wouldn't bulge. Got admitted last September, she helped me when an unfortunate mess happened, i was thankful, discussions between us were what we did when i was i her ZONE. Told me about her feelings for me. We started dating last Dec, with full knowlegde of my limited time at home and the duration of our relationship #not a fan of long distance shii#. NOW, i've got just about 8days to resumption, i love her but how do i end things with her cus she's more fragile than Chinas. Thanks |
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