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Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by Nobody: 1:09am On Feb 06, 2016 |
KanwuliaExtra: ALL IS WELL WITH US. |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by KanwuliaExtra: 1:28am On Feb 06, 2016 |
Mindfulness: Amen!!!! |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by 100Cents: 1:31am On Feb 06, 2016 |
OEmiohe: Do u have another husband for her ? The next man, won't he be human too ? |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by yemi15(m): 1:48am On Feb 06, 2016 |
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Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by Nobody: 2:39am On Feb 06, 2016 |
Compensation wedding indeed And so what if your sister is 32, that dude got no job and all your sister could think of is planning wedding . They are getting into something that is undefined because the future is not secured. People are so obsessed about what the society says about wedding ...Your sister and mom desperately wants a wedding but the young man mind is occupied . How much does it cost for a court wedding? People don't think , it's so unfortunate. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by mikolo80: 4:05am On Feb 06, 2016 |
cococandy:nope not my thing. legs hips ass maybe but not make up and fake add-ons |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by akankemi1(f): 4:36am On Feb 06, 2016 |
Fanirandele:pls don't mind ur business as the other people are telling you to. she is your sister and you should care. I will very much appreciate my brother telling me. tell her ,and let her make her decision. atleast you know you have done your part. if you do not like her choice of husband , let her know. state your reasons. its left for her to make the final decisions and she isn't too old. marriage is not even the ultimatum. don't understand why women think it is. 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by akpur1(m): 4:49am On Feb 06, 2016 |
OEmiohe:He's an Igbo Man? Then tell your sister to quit. Na so them be later them go reach village marry their sister |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by Lincolnburrows(m): 5:45am On Feb 06, 2016 |
kingofchess:King of chess- if you are in ph, let's hook up for a game of chess over a bottle of champagne |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by drnoel: 6:00am On Feb 06, 2016 |
OEmiohe: amebo! is worrying you shey? Best u mind ya Business cos what u want to do does not concern u |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by davidif: 6:18am On Feb 06, 2016 |
OEmiohe: Wow! What a story! |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by linearity: 6:22am On Feb 06, 2016 |
'Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are' goes the popular adage, plus it's twin that goes...'Birds of the same feathers flunk together'. My point? If your sister has been with this guy for 5 years to the extend of forcing marriage on him, when he is obviously not ready says a lot about your sister. Plus, you have layed out a lot negatives about this guy, you need not say anything about your sister as anyone can write a book about her characters. Sometimes people don't learn from other people's mistakes, despite the best efforts and warnings of caring friends and families; experience is still the best teacher, even if those experiences are painful, bitter or irreversible. You might not want to hear this, but the truth is; they truly deserve each other, mind your own business and leave them alone. |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by Obi1kenobi(m): 7:22am On Feb 06, 2016 |
I don't understand the clowns that keep saying "mind your business". Are you guys like brain-dead or something? Who in their right minds would allow their sibling make a tragic error that could plague them for life without speaking their minds? You must hate your own siblings. 5 Likes |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by baywatch84(m): 8:42am On Feb 06, 2016 |
PresVA:so what's wrong in that? So man should do everything for a woman even if the woman is capable of doing this things, the mentality of Africans is the reason why you people will remain single or marry a wrong man because you always look for a ready made things in a man, because he can't afford marriage now doesn't mean he won't be successful tomorrow, think about that 1 Like |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by baywatch84(m): 8:48am On Feb 06, 2016 |
Obi1kenobi:did you even know what it means to love somebody, it means you will not mind the outcome of what's coming, bad mouth, quarrels, argument even fight are the ingredients of a good relationship, si vis percem parabellum |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by baywatch84(m): 8:52am On Feb 06, 2016 |
OEmiohe:very soon you will understand, when it's your turn, your family might have money and the person you want so bad, her family will see your shortcomings it's not always about the money, it's about who you love this is not about the age or the money but the happiness they share, very soon you will understand |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by baywatch84(m): 8:55am On Feb 06, 2016 |
cooljist:did somebody pay for his wedding to, only God knows how you people think, what's the correlation between the topic of discussion, and you interesting contribution, you deserve serious flogging |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by LordReed(m): 9:05am On Feb 06, 2016 |
@OEmiohe In my opinion it is best to sit down with your sister and discuss some of these issues with her without revealing specific information. This is something you should have done before their wedding was fixed, it is however not too late but may not have the kind of impact it would have had earlier. If you do summon the courage to discuss with her remind her that you are ready to support all her decisions in the matter but you need to express your own doubts. Don't make it like you oppose her choice rather you want to know if she has properly weighed her options. 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by edwife(f): 9:31am On Feb 06, 2016 |
ephi123: Ermmm that's not only daily mail, the other one is New York Times. The newspaper side of daily mail is a good read with a natural stance when it come to politics,it 's their website that is loosing credibility by the day,only because people are rude and opinionated. I quoted it because everyday people write there and when discussing these kind of subject,it's better to have street opinions . So yes daily mail or any other news paper will do for me. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by ogawisdom(m): 9:48am On Feb 06, 2016 |
OEmiohe: If ur sister is nt complaining then shut up n mind ur own biz, five years of rship is nt 5months |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by Henrique4real(f): 10:14am On Feb 06, 2016 |
Can u imagine? Nigerians would never learn. Why not a quite wedding since they don't have money. Why dint d fiance brother help in securing an accomodation instead of giving them money to go and waste providing foods and drinks for pple who won't even wish them well? I smell a shameless bride to be and a useless and irresponsible husband. Nobody is thinking straight here. Msheew! Marriage sha! House available for sale at Goodhomes Estate, Isheri/Igando for affordable price. Check my signature for more locations n info. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by malachytochukwu(m): 10:19am On Feb 06, 2016 |
Quit this your argument please, we all know what is obtainable here. Mindfulness: |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by PresVA: 10:39am On Feb 06, 2016 |
baywatch84:Tell that to your sisters sir... I can't marry a jobless man! I'm not asking him to be rich, he should have something doing! Just as a woman getting married is expected to be good at home keeping. .. Imagine, the lady is sponsoring her own wedding. . Again, go advice your sisters, not me... |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by Meritocracy: 11:16am On Feb 06, 2016 |
The case is simple and you can help yourself, when they ask for the objection to the marriage raise up your hand and tell public your reasons or carry agbero to the venue |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by Duru009(m): 1:21pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
Juts cannt undersand y ladies are soo despartae des days....... |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by Duru009(m): 1:21pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
Juts cannt undersand y ladies are soo despartae des days. |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by kingofchess(m): 4:59pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
Lincolnburrows:hahahahaha...funny u. I don't base in PH.can u play chess well? |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by Dynamite02: 11:24pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
Duru009: Because society will never stop pressurising them , they castigate and ask and ask as if their own existence depends on it.... when will you have a bf/gf? ......... when will you engage him/her?..... .....when will the both of you get married?..... when will you start having kids?....God bless you with one the next thing you'll hear is "Born follow this pikkin naaaa!!!!!" 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by Fanirandele: 12:03am On Feb 07, 2016 |
Dynamite02: Exatcly and then when the problems start the same society will pressure her to stay in it,you'll be hearing; every man has his own vices, you just have to manage, what did you say to make him slap you, at least its one child he has outside, every man cheats, its a woman that sustain the home, if you divorce people will call you a prostitute...blah blah blah 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by KanwuliaExtra: 12:45am On Feb 07, 2016 |
Engaged for 5 years and still strangers? OP! Give your sister credit! The DEVIL she knows. . . . . She can FIX in marriage. Better than starting all over! The next one will be WORSE!!!! Let her CARRY her cross to CALVARY and NAIL HIM ON IT. At least he is smart enough to do it BEHIND HER BACK!!! Na so all of dem be abegggggi. Just choose one and HAVE YOUR CHILDREN with one SPERM-DONOR. Shikena!!!!! |
Re: Help My Elder Sister Is About To Marry A Man That Bad Mouths Her In Her Absence. by SenatorJames(m): 7:58pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Leave them alone, just be praying for them. You have very little thing you can do about your sister's relationship. |
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