Stats: 3,186,935 members, 7,931,256 topics. Date: Sunday, 25 August 2024 at 08:08 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! (67782 Views)
"I Slept With This Lady, She Demanded For N200k But I Gave Her N20k" - Man Says / Praise Sam Ogan: "I Won’t Dump My Man Because He Can’t Satisfy Me In Bed" / Whatsapp Chats Exposed Lady Sending Nude Photos To Man Because She Needs Iphone (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by linusbnn(m): 9:59pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
EggovinMma: I don notice you,belike your own na 200+ |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by Nobody: 10:47pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
linusbnn:Na 500+ |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by blazer234: 10:57pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
HungerBAD: Then maybe you want to ask yourself why your Toto dick and INI edo are still spinsters at their ages. Do you think they are happy as they are? Far from it! |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by Nobody: 10:58pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
[quote author=MizMyColi post=42681459] Sis, I like you ![]() Humanly speaking, sleeping with 43 men seems a tad irresponsible. But what some people fail to see in this lady's story is that 1. She was grossly misguided to think that sex would keep the men. 2. At some point, she didn't consider sex as much of a big deal...perhaps, it was all for fun. 3. She truly desires to make a fresh start. If she didn't, that guilt she felt would not be dear. She could have gone all the way to tighten her vagina and claim Virgin Oku ![]() But she didn't. While I understand her frustration that women are lampooned for the same "offence" the men are equally as guilty of, I think that 40 is a tad too much. That said.... I believe that life throws a lot of chances our way...and that everyday is an opportunity to start fresh. First she needs to forgive herself and make peace with her past. Or else, she will be feeling guilt and fear, and that in itself will keep attracting to her the kind of men who will come into her life, hear her story and jilt her. I was on this thread when it was on page 2 or so... The empathy and compassion I felt for whoever it is that this post is meant for drew me back here. I might not have body counts or immorality as my own mistakes..but I do know what it feels like to take certain actions repeatedly out of ignorance, and selfishness (maybe) and then realize the need to be better....only for the world to throw different kinds of judgements at your face, as if you're condemned to keep erring forever. [I'm referring to my active days in Politics] If I saw that lady, I would hug her and comfort her. I would tell her to stay strong and change the messages that she feeds her consciousness. If she continues to think that despite her ills, that she is not worth a good man, and that people will still keep judging her, then that's what it will be. It might take time, but the results will definitely come. She should focus more on what she truly desires for her life and begin to do away with thoughts of what she doesn't desire. When she forgives herself completely, she will see no need to remind herself of any sordid past. She would have so become a new creation that at that point, she is fully able to say "I never was that type of person" If her creator has not given up on her, she is not in the best position to do so. Life is a teacher and we are learning everyday. As humans, if we follow the dictates of our truest nature, we will find it hard to judge her and say all sorts of ills against her. Instead, we will try to find a way to comfort her and let her know that there is hope for her future. It's the one thing that will never be taken away from us, except we choose to give it away. Where there is life; there is hope.[/quote You've said it all dear. In as much as the numbers are much,I don't she should continue to tell whoever that asks her such question? I believe she needs to forgive herself and keep such details a secret.Even the bible also preach that we should be careful with the secrets we let out.My advice to her is to learn to seal her lips,no be only her dey sin.Its not everything a boyfriend /husband tells his girlfriend /wife. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by blazer234: 11:01pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
EggovinMma: You too must have innumerable skeletons |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by Nobody: 11:25pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
blazer234: And mine stinks,big time!!! |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by globalnewsmag: 11:53pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
Smh....some women.s puu**zzy are like 100 wells combined together deep inside their mind...they know it...they feel it...but they won't tell....my advice to guys...don't ask if you don't want no problem |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by oodua1stson: 11:55pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
A 13 year old girl got pregnant in my area and when asked who got her pregnant she mentioned 45 men |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by blazer234: 11:57pm On Feb 06, 2016 |
EggovinMma: I won't be surprised |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by Nobody: 12:09am On Feb 07, 2016 |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by blazer234: 12:13am On Feb 07, 2016 |
EggovinMma: I Dont know what you mean about dat though. But ain't the end of the world |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by Nobody: 12:24am On Feb 07, 2016 |
blazer234: There's nothing like end of the world.Just like me,everybody as got his/her name inscribed on a bullet.Boom!When yours goes off!Enjoy! |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by Niyinficient(m): 12:24am On Feb 07, 2016 |
cutebobo: Werey re o! |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by blazer234: 12:29am On Feb 07, 2016 |
EggovinMma: Thwarted understanding, that |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by mikolo80: 12:38am On Feb 07, 2016 |
AfroKnight:meter de d tin ne? he should just say he was looking for excuse to ex |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by mikolo80: 12:38am On Feb 07, 2016 |
vault:so make konji kill am |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by Nobody: 12:40am On Feb 07, 2016 |
blazer234: Shallow reasoning,laced with unrealistic mindset,YOU! 1 Like |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by mikolo80: 12:40am On Feb 07, 2016 |
Blacksodje:and so. do prostitutes not get married? don't ask questions,answers of which you're not ready to deal with. |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by mikolo80: 12:41am On Feb 07, 2016 |
RichYoungNigga:see, intelligent nigga |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by blazer234: 12:45am On Feb 07, 2016 |
EggovinMma: It's clear you know how to describe yourself perfectly. Congrats 1 Like |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by Nobody: 12:56am On Feb 07, 2016 |
blazer234: Hahaha! You're too weak,a man! |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by blazer234: 12:58am On Feb 07, 2016 |
EggovinMma: Hahaha! Your upside down orientation about life requires restructuring 1 Like |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by Nobody: 1:04am On Feb 07, 2016 |
blazer234:And yet you are the one here more affected by it then me ![]() I don't fancy it when men spend their time castigating me.Most are perverts ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by Nobody: 1:12am On Feb 07, 2016 |
E be like say the ejune don run?! Kai!I'm not ready to sleep yet.Where the guy go? Blaze234 ! |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by blazer234: 1:14am On Feb 07, 2016 |
EggovinMma: Lolz....I don't do distance shiiit. I prefer playing home game..... I don't dig Watsapp cum phone call relationship. Face to face is the way to go, lady |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by Nobody: 1:16am On Feb 07, 2016 |
blazer234: Now,you're selling yourself! |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by blazer234: 1:23am On Feb 07, 2016 |
EggovinMma: At all.....just stating my preference |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by Nobody: 1:25am On Feb 07, 2016 |
blazer234: None of my business though.Enjoy! |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by blazer234: 1:32am On Feb 07, 2016 |
EggovinMma: Same to you! |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by Reallity: 1:41am On Feb 07, 2016 |
Each an evry1 of us has his/her problem, that is her own cross to bear. But seriously I pity her generation |
Re: I Lost My Man Because I Slept With So Many Men - The Real Reason He Left!!! by LadyAmaka(f): 2:21am On Feb 07, 2016 |
Sounds funny. 43 men for a single lady? Holy Jesus!!! But I don't understand why a man will be asking a lady how many men she have slept with? Well it depends on how one presents herself else I have never experienced such odd question. She must have given him.reason to believe she was loose |
(1) (2) (3) ... (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (Reply)
She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her / When She Does This On A First Date.(photo) / Man Holds His Woman "Tight" In Doggie Pre-Wedding Photoshoot
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 43 |