Before you start back lashing me I have been leaving with this for over 5yrs.my husband takes money from my bag and were ever I keep it without telling me and no matter how little it is it can be as small as 100naira.on one occasion I went out and got stranded cause I put money in my bag only to get to were I was to use it and discovered it was not there . sometimes when I ask him he denies it and at times he says he took it. I have resulted to hiding money in my own house. Pls what can I do? Mature advice pls

Keep hiding your money dear, that's the best solution for now. Give him pocket money once in a while too.

The day u got married u became one, u cannot steal from u... Stop hiding the money, keep it in the open and tell him what u wanna do with it, dat way u won't look 4 it whenever u need it.


Afterall his money is ur money and urs his... I wonder why u're saying he's stealing it.

Just pray for your husband that he should be able to leave up to the value of good and responsible father to your family.

Remember all u have belong to him. Hiding your money for him can't help your marriage. Who knows may be that is the reason y God is providing for you.

Good luck

mercenary:
The day u got married u became one, u cannot steal from u... Stop hiding the money, keep it in the open and tell him what u wanna do with it, dat way u won't look 4 it whenever u need it.


Afterall his money is ur money and urs his... I wonder why u're saying he's stealing it.

Gbam!

mercenary:
The day u got married u became one, u cannot steal from u... Stop hiding the money, keep it in the open and tell him what u wanna do with it, dat way u won't look 4 it whenever u need it.


Afterall his money is ur money and urs his... I wonder why u're saying he's stealing it.

Have you forgotten the saying "my husband's money is our money, while my money is my money..."



Ahh no need to look far, see one of the believers here sef..

FynBabe:
She should give him pocket money?
Why? Does the man not have a source of income?

She should give him pocket money?
Why? Does the man not have a source of income?

amtaken:
Keep hiding your money dear, that's the best solution for now. Give him pocket money once in a while too.

So OP ur husband na Anini?

This one is strong. You talked to Him yet? Don't Hide the money. You Just need to talk. And by d way, he Has no source of income?

My problem is the man taking without permission o!
I can never take my husband's money without telling him first, it's not nice.

crackhaus:

Have you forgotten the saying "my husband's money is our money, while my money is my money..."



Ahh no need to look far, see one of them here sef..

@crackhaus, why should the man be given pocket money by the wife?

Firstly ur husband no get work ni wey na common #100 him dey move

FynBabe:
My problem is the man taking without permission o!
I can never take my husband's money without telling him first, it's not nice.

Okay o

FynBabe:
@crackhaus, why should the man be given pocket money by the wife?

The same reason some men give their wives pocket money, that's why...

From my observation, ur husband z jobless and
from experiment, he is anini jr
and conclusion, call police to arrest him

Its “OUR“ money remember?

Lol
this is serious.
Btw,is he working?

No vex, it's funny and strange to me

crackhaus:

The same reason some men give their wives pocket money, that's why...

If he does will he be stealing his wife's N100.00? Think.

FynBabe:
She should give him pocket money?
Why? Does the man not have a source of income?

My dear, only if the man does not have a source of income will I support such o! (Temporarily)
Maybe the man drinks and smokes because I don't even know what N100 can do for him.

amtaken:
If he does will he be stealing his wife's N100.00? Think.

Na him abi the children!

Any way the best solution is to hide your money and continue praying for him and talking in a nice manner to him

From your post it seems your husband is jobless.Instead always try to find him pocket money

I was thinking in the same line too. He probably smokes but the woman should support him as much as he can. Some men can be lazy eh, but not my brothers biko.

FynBabe:
My dear, only if the man does not have a source of income will I support such o! (Temporarily)
Maybe the man drinks and smokes because I don't even know what N100 can do for him.

I feel ashamed, can't hide it.

Best Advice, stop hiding your money.

Whenever you get home, take all the money you have with you, count it, say the amount openly and put it in an open place where he is... Be it in the sitting room or the bedroom.

there is nothing you can do about it. it is both of you guys' money. he is not stealing, cos you have access to his just as much as he has access to yours. Next time, go to his pocket/wallet and take the money there. he has no room to complain about it.

Young03:
From my observation, ur husband z jobless and

from experiment, he is anini jr

and conclusion, call police to arrest him

Chisos nairaland nawa. Madam does he have a job if no freely give it to him. Or ask him to keep the money for you doing this you are safe with your money.

Enigift:
Before you start back lashing me I have been leaving with this for over 5yrs.my husband takes money from my bag and were ever I keep it without telling me and no matter how little it is it can be as small as 100naira.on one occasion I went out and got stranded cause I put money in my bag only to get to were I was to use it and discovered it was not there . sometimes when I ask him he denies it and at times he says he took it. I have resulted to hiding money in my own house. Pls what can I do? Mature advice pls

For over 5 years your husband has never had a job?

If he doesn't then it explains why but if he does then there is no worry. Anytime the money is missing,just go to his trousers and help yourself.

The only thing i don't like is the denial. He doesn't need to deny that he took the money.

Thats if the money still dey there to help yourself with...
With such scenarios, money no dey wait for trouser or shirt

Like someone said.... give him pocket money every week.

Keep hiding your stuff o!
Once a thief, always A THIEF!!!!

Enigift:
Before you start back lashing me I have been leaving with this for over 5yrs.my husband takes money from my bag and were ever I keep it without telling me and no matter how little it is it can be as small as 100naira.on one occasion I went out and got stranded cause I put money in my bag only to get to were I was to use it and discovered it was not there . sometimes when I ask him he denies it and at times he says he took it. I have resulted to hiding money in my own house. Pls what can I do? Mature advice pls

Why would anyone lash at you?

Only thieves take what doesn't belong to them and deny it when asked. Question is: what does he use it for? Has he got a job? If not, then who foots the bills & is responsible for keeping the family above water?

Have you got kids? If you do, then madam be smart and put the bulk of your money in the bank. The little you hold in hand for day-to-activities, keep well out of his sight.

And DON'T give him pocket money either. Doing so would only increase his laid back attitude and encourage him sponging off you. Five years is a long time. Let him get off his backside and get to work. Like a real man.