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Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by agarawu23(m): 9:10pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
Medunah:lol You can see I told the op to come to Nigeria and face his wife. |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by jashar(f): 9:12pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
have it strictly by Invitation. If you're doing a 'church' wedding, serve food and drinks after the service. No reception. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by ronald4lif(m): 9:12pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
Medunah: Na by force? |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by colosa: 9:12pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
Don't be a selfish man,let whoever want to celebr with u to come and preparation base on your pocket because is not compulsory that everyone that come must take something except you want to kill yourself. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by ADENIKETINA2015(f): 9:14pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
Pull a TOOLZ on the OLUMOFINs Though I don't buy the idea as wedding is a time for celebration & as such anybody is welcome if you can handle it the expenses. Success! |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by GeniusDavid(m): 9:16pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
Sell Wedding tickets 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by quin9(f): 9:16pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
. Just make it Strictly by invite . better still go on with ur expected number,who no see food no go beat you after . Plan to return to your base as soon as possible after the wedding,that way you won't hear their complains. . Have a colour code and make sure YOUR guest adhere to it,your bouncers can work with that. . Make sure you have bouncers . Do not give them too much time to invite the world,pick a date not too far away. Pick any of the listed options 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by gpmorgan: 9:17pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
Hiring security guards and option of strict by invitation will cost u more and also attract much displeasure from both families. After all ur wife have being eating other peoples wedding rice. Guy my advise is, just budget how many people u want and find a good caterer, rent a venue, form a strong committee and arrange tables according to people of interest. Note: two families must have their own spot. Start to serve ur drink and food their. If it didn't get to d uninvited guest it is not ur fault. Go home and enjoy ur marriage. Wedding is just for a day. Remember, no best wedding and no worst wedding. U can chat me for more advise. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by martineinstein(m): 9:18pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
MyLady11:haha don't be wicked o |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by Nobody: 9:18pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
Did this successfully in Ibadan and my Wife is a church goer too (she's here in the US with me now too). Look, be the man right from the start and guide your family. If you don't then I'm afraid others will guide and rule it for you. Print out 200 invitations, give your Wife 125 for he friends and family, take 75 for your friends and family. Spend money to hire security with strict instructions to not allow entrance without IV. Done deal. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by ninodaniel(m): 9:19pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
tell everyone DT u hv cancelled d wedding. then carry ur woman go do d wedding for dt country wey u base. then lets knw weda d ppl wey gt flight ticket go even reach 50 talk more of 200. thank me later tell everyone DT u hv cancelled d wedding. then carry ur woman go do d wedding for dt country wey u base. then lets knw weda d ppl wey gt flight ticket go even reach 50 talk more of 200. thank me later 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by hglmkope(f): 9:20pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
Hello! I just could not pass by without saying a word about this. What if he does not plan to live in Nigeria? Would you prefer that they both stay apart after wedding. Although there are Nigerian women who will cheat on their spouse, history also has record of those that have remained faithful despite all odds (you attest to this yourself). At op, please only you can decide if you want her to come over there with you. You know her so well more than anyone here. Besides, I think if she is worth being your wife, then she is worth living with you wherever you are. Please don't make her wait for you. It does not always work out that way. agarawu23: 12 Likes |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by Medunah: 9:22pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
ronald4lif:Yes o, by fire sef 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by emerged01(m): 9:24pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
agarawu23: Lol! Na to curse you later o,make him use security for wedding,i forsee wahala o. More enemies! I think he should go for court wedding or do the wedding on Monday 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by hustla(m): 9:25pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
Put the reception for Sambisa, who born Maga wey go come 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by ronald4lif(m): 9:25pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
Medunah: Just hope he's not the type who doesn't care about facilitating his wife joining him. If he is, there's nothing you can do about it as you can't force him to release his paperwork needed for a visa. No be by fire matter. |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by Nobody: 9:26pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
Medunah: A man can plan and execute his plan, the person I blame are the women that wait in a perpetual way for whatever reason. |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by agarawu23(m): 9:26pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
emerged01:lol Abi na |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by Nobody: 9:28pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
Fix the wedding on a monday.....church program 8-10......reception 10-3pm lobatan 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by agarawu23(m): 9:28pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
hglmkope:well, it's left for the op to make his decision |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by Trustme2(m): 9:29pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
good4love:with Shekau as the Chairman of the ocassion, supported by his comanders, I bet u you'll have a quite wedding 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by Nobody: 9:30pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
Mcayofficial: The only reason you want a conservative wedding is because you dnt wanna spend much from your purse. So if that's the main reason, here is the solution..... Make your wedding "strictly by invitation" and if anybody, your wife's parents for example, thinks yur decision is not appropriate, kindly tell them to full your purse for you 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by Nobody: 9:32pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
If u absolutely cant just do a registry wedding/luncheon, the next best thing is to do your wedding on a weekday. One of my friends had hers on a wednesday afternoon/evening. Smallest, most intimate wedding i ever went for, from church, we all gathered under the most beautiful candle lit tent at that julius berger gun range/garden. Not even up to 100 pple showed up. Soooo beautiful. Only ur closest friends and family will take time off work and come for that wedding. Even ur cousins and extended family wont show up. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by pjetta007(m): 9:32pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
Simple.....no cook rice for d wedding! 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by Chukazu: 9:33pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
schedule your wedding on weekday instead of weekend and chose no reception.. after wedding it becomes "to thy tent oh Israel . alternatively don't bother doing wedding, is not by force 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by doveda: 9:33pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
agarawu23: Ode! 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by bigtt76(f): 9:34pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
Either you print exactly 200 IV and allocate them by ballot or take your wedding outside Naija after doing your registry stuff. |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by lozanni(m): 9:39pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
@Op, fix your wedding for a working day like Thursday. Attendance should strictly be by invitation card only. Also, let your wedding guests know you will prefer cash gifts since you are based abroad; the cash gifts maybe very handy to you after your wedding. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by princefunmmy(m): 9:39pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
If you can move the wedding to a place that is far... Only real well wishers will attend |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by yetseyi(f): 9:41pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
Someone is seeking for advice on how to cut down the number of guests, and the next thing is he should not take his wife abroad with him. I just don't understand how people cant stick to the topic. OP, fix your wedding on a weekday and make sure its not a public holiday. 7 Likes |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by Nobody: 9:42pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
Mcayofficial: First u need to realise that it's all about the two of u (both families) and its ur call, hence the need to buckle up and take some harsh decisions. U can cut cost by doing the following: 1. Arrange with both parents as regards ur intended decision to cut cost. 2. Carry ur wife along on ur plans. 3. Take a few key family members (carry ur inlaws along hence the need for them to do the same)and do all traditional rights in a day. 4. Next ur White Wedding / Trad in a single day. White in the morning and Trad after Church service and reception (in a field or other cheap venues/options) afterwards. 5. Invite few key individuals to the reception e.g both families, church and key friends. 6. Have a BUDGET in mind of the expected expenditure to be made and number of guests expected and STICK to it. NOTE: Ensure quality guests are invited in order to improve ur expected income (cash gifts). CONCLUSION: No matter the amount u spend u can never satisfy everybody. People will still complain. Therefore the sooner u realise that it balls down to having a reserve to take care of ur wife afterwards the better for u. Accept my congratulations bro. 7 Likes |
Re: How Do I Avoid Crowd In My Upcoming Wedding? by Nobody: 9:44pm On Feb 07, 2016 |
Wishing Op all the best, BTW lemme paint your house afterwards |
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