When a woman cheats on the husband, Nigerians brings the bible in and remind you that the bible accepts divorce when a partner cheats. But when a man cheats on the wife and contact HIV from his numerous lovers, Nigerians tell the wife to show him more love, they tell her marriage is for better for worse, they tell her to make love to him with a condom, they tell her not to leave because God hates divorce. Why are we like this nah? why the double standards? what exactly is their offence in this country? Being women? Jesus!!! . What the fvck is all these?

Cos you are one of them>> https://www.nairaland.com/2921309/some-nigerian-women-ungrateful

greatness22:
When a woman cheats on the husband,
Nigerians brings the bible in and remind
you that the bible accepts divorce when a
partner cheats. But when a man cheats
on the wife and contact HIV from his
numerous lovers, Nigerians tell the wife to show him more love, they tell her
marriage is for better for worse, they tell
her to make love to him with a condom,
they tell her not to leave because God
hates divorce. Why are we like this nah?
why the double standards? what exactly is their offence in this country? Being
women? Jesus!!! .
What the fvck is all these?

Don't be surprised that some ladies will come on here and criticize you along with your fellow men. Lack of exposure is the major problem.

Pidggin:


Don't be surprised that some ladies will come on here and criticize you along with your fellow men. Lack of exposure is the major problem.

So you actually believed all the "nonsense" that the op said?

Pidggin:


Don't be surprised that some ladies will come on here and criticize you along with your fellow men. Lack of exposure is the major problem.

Indeed, lack of exposure is one of the problem... They are free to criticize.

Tallesty1:
So you actually believed all the "nonsense" that the op said?

Why not? Everything he said is true.

greatness22:
When a woman cheats on the husband,
Nigerians brings the bible in and remind
you that the bible accepts divorce when a
partner cheats. But when a man cheats
on the wife and contact HIV from his
numerous lovers, Nigerians tell the wife to show him more love, they tell her
marriage is for better for worse, they tell
her to make love to him with a condom,
they tell her not to leave because God
hates divorce. Why are we like this nah?
why the double standards? what exactly is their offence in this country? Being
women? Jesus!!! .
What the fvck is all these?

we are in the world of men. also the curse that was laid on eve by God has a big role to play towards gender bias around the world.

Pidggin:


Why not? Everything he said is true.

So all these women that divorce their cheating husbands both in court and outside the court are foreigners?

Elosky20:

we are in the world of men. also the curse that was laid on eve by God has a big role to play towards gender bias around the world.

World of men? Pls explain

greatness22:
World of men? Pls explain

Genesis 3:16 To the woman He said, "I will greatly multiply Your pain in childbirth, In pain you will bring forth children; Yet your desire will be for your husband, And he will rule over you."

Tallesty1:
So all these women that divorce their cheating husbands both in court and outside the court are foreigners?

Did you read what he wrote? He said "They tell her not to" this is very true. Most women that end up divorcing their spouse, often do it despite criticism and stigmatization

Elosky20:
Genesis 3:16 To the woman He said, "I will greatly multiply Your pain in childbirth, In pain you will bring forth children; Yet your desire will be for your husband, And he will rule over you."

Hmm, ok sir.

Pidggin:


Did you read what he wrote? He said "They tell her not to" this is very true. Most women that end up divorcing their spouse, often do it despite criticism and stigmatization

you nailed it.

greatness22:
Hmm, ok sir.

are u convinced

Elosky20:
are u convinced

Not totally convinced.

Poster I agree, am not Nigerian and this was the first concept i realized as soon as I joined this forum.

Unfortunately you will find a lot of women that have believed this is how it's supposed to be.

It is sad.

Miami11:
Poster I agree, am not Nigerian and this was the first concept i realized as soon as I joined this forum.

Unfortunately you will find a lot of women that have believed this is how it's supposed to be.

It is sad.

Those women who think that way lack exposure.... I pray they see the "light"

Pidggin:


Did you read what he wrote? He said "They tell her not to" this is very true. Most women that end up divorcing their spouse, often do it despite criticism and stigmatization

the same thing happens on the men's side.

greatness22:
When a woman cheats on the husband,
Nigerians brings the bible in and remind
you that the bible accepts divorce when a
partner cheats. But when a man cheats
on the wife and contact HIV from his
numerous lovers, Nigerians tell the wife to show him more love, they tell her
marriage is for better for worse, they tell
her to make love to him with a condom,
they tell her not to leave because God
hates divorce. Why are we like this nah?
why the double standards? what exactly is their offence in this country? Being
women? Jesus!!! .
What the fvck is all these?

It's just how it is, and its how it's gon be for a very long time... The earlier people deal with this reality, the better for them.

Why blow a gasket over who's allowed to cheat and who's not...
I think it's women who have the intention to cheat that worry about this.

[quote author=crackhaus post=42745246]
It's just how it is, and its how it's gon be for a very long time... The earlier people deal with this reality, the better for them.
Now, this is a very wrong ideaology.

greatness22:
Those women who think that way lack exposure.... I pray they see the "light"

It is culture, lack of exposure, ignorance among many other factors, education and financial status are also culprits

greatness22:
Now, this is a very wrong ideaology

Wrong according to who? You?

Miami11:

[s]It is culture, lack of exposure, ignorance among many other factors, education and financial status[/s] are also culprits

Bullshiit!

Even in the beloved western countries like USofA, it's the same attitude towards cheating husbands vs cheating wives...don't kid yourself.

Miami11:

It is culture, lack of exposure, ignorance among many other factors, education and financial status are also culprits

Very correct.... Especially education

crackhaus:

Bullshiit!

Even in the beloved western countries like USofA, it's the same attitude towards cheating husbands vs cheating wived...don't kid yourself.

I thought we were talking of Nigeria collectively
Wonder why you are bringing up US, am sure you've not leaved in the states per se.

greatness22:
Very correct.... Especially education

Very wrong..

It's everywhere and not particular to Nigeria.

http://www.m.webmd.com/men/features/our-cheating-hearts

http://madamenoire.com/437862/ask-a-very-smart-brotha-why-dont-men-forgive-cheating-women/

Those aren't Nigerians.

crackhaus:

Very wrong..

It's everywhere and not particular to Nigeria.

http://www.m.webmd.com/men/features/our-cheating-hearts

http://madamenoire.com/437862/ask-a-very-smart-brotha-why-dont-men-forgive-cheating-women/

Those aren't Nigerians.

So what's your point sir?

Miami11:

I thought we were talking of Nigeria collectively
Wonder why you are bringing up US, am sure you've not leaved in the states per se.

This was your post:

It is culture, lack of exposure, ignorance among many other factors, education...

Were you or were you not implying that the way Nigerians view cheating is as a result of culture, lack of exposure, bla bla blabbity bla?
I simply made reference that the beloved western nations of which I named USA as one, still generally have the same thinking.


Whether you're so sure of where I've lived or where I've not lived, is only a construct of your defensive mind and a diversionary tactic employed to shift focus...totally irrelevant to the discussion.
Same way I could be so sure that you've not lived in Miami per se, but chose to name your moniker after the city above all else...but who cares? Still totally irrelevant to the discussion.

crackhaus:

This was your post:

It is culture, lack of exposure, ignorance among many other factors, education...

Were you or were you not implying the way Nigerians view it is as a result of culture, lack of exposure, bla bla blabbity bla?
I simply made reference that the beloved western nations of which I named USA as one, still generally have the same thinking.

Whether you're so sure where I've lived or where I've not lived, is only a construct of your defensive mind and a diversionary tactic employed to shift focus.
Same way I could be so sure that you've not lived in Miami per se, but chose the nick above all else...but who cares?

You have your opinion I have mine. We don't have to agree or disagree on anything, deuces!

greatness22:
So what's your point sir?

My point Sir is that your point as quoted form your topic heading "Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" and your subsequent opening post which cites how Nigerians view cheating, is totally, completely, and irrevocably wrong...not to mention also uneducated, short-sighted, and very limited due to the scope of knowledge and information available to you at the time before I posted those links to broaden your myopic horizon.

Now do you understand, Sir?

Miami11:

You have your opinion I have mine. We don't have to agree or disagree on anything, deuces!

"You are not entitled to your opinion. You are only entitled to your informed opinion. No one is entitled to be ignorant." - Harlan Ellison

Deuces!

While you're right OP,
It is like that for those who want it to be.

If it was only in the case of cheating, it would even be good. There's active oppression of the female gender in Nigeria and only those who don't like the truth claim it is otherwise.
While the others will tell you it is supposed to be so. (According to their God of course) whom they've never seen but believe he endorses such.

Those who the status quo favor will look for every means and reason to ensure it is perpetuated with support form those who it doesn't favor but are too timid to go against the crowd.

That's why the debate fight will always go on until one there's equilibrium or one side gives in.