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Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by greatness22(m): 7:47pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
When a woman cheats on the husband,
Nigerians brings the bible in and remind
you that the bible accepts divorce when a
partner cheats. But when a man cheats
on the wife and contact HIV from his
numerous lovers, Nigerians tell the wife to show him more love, they tell her
marriage is for better for worse, they tell
her to make love to him with a condom,
they tell her not to leave because God
hates divorce. Why are we like this nah?
why the double standards? what exactly is their offence in this country? Being
women? Jesus!!! .
What the fvck is all these? 13 Likes |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by jmoore(m): 7:52pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Cos you are one of them>> https://www.nairaland.com/2921309/some-nigerian-women-ungrateful 1 Like |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by Pidggin(f): 7:58pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
greatness22: Don't be surprised that some ladies will come on here and criticize you along with your fellow men. Lack of exposure is the major problem. 7 Likes |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by Tallesty1(m): 8:06pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Pidggin:So you actually believed all the "nonsense" that the op said? 2 Likes |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by greatness22(m): 8:07pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Pidggin:Indeed, lack of exposure is one of the problem... They are free to criticize. 1 Like |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by Pidggin(f): 8:09pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Tallesty1: Why not? Everything he said is true. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by Elosky20: 8:11pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
greatness22:we are in the world of men. also the curse that was laid on eve by God has a big role to play towards gender bias around the world. |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by Tallesty1(m): 8:13pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Pidggin:So all these women that divorce their cheating husbands both in court and outside the court are foreigners? 2 Likes |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by greatness22(m): 8:15pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Elosky20:World of men? Pls explain |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by Elosky20: 8:26pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
greatness22:Genesis 3:16 To the woman He said, "I will greatly multiply Your pain in childbirth, In pain you will bring forth children; Yet your desire will be for your husband, And he will rule over you." 1 Like |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by Pidggin(f): 8:33pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Tallesty1: Did you read what he wrote? He said "They tell her not to" this is very true. Most women that end up divorcing their spouse, often do it despite criticism and stigmatization 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by greatness22(m): 8:42pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Elosky20:Hmm, ok sir. |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by greatness22(m): 8:44pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Pidggin:you nailed it. 1 Like |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by Elosky20: 9:00pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
greatness22:are u convinced |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by greatness22(m): 9:10pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Elosky20:Not totally convinced. |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by Miami11: 9:31pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Poster I agree, am not Nigerian and this was the first concept i realized as soon as I joined this forum. Unfortunately you will find a lot of women that have believed this is how it's supposed to be. It is sad. 11 Likes |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by greatness22(m): 9:42pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Miami11:Those women who think that way lack exposure.... I pray they see the "light" 2 Likes |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by Nobody: 9:58pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Pidggin:the same thing happens on the men's side. |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by crackhaus: 10:00pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
greatness22:It's just how it is, and its how it's gon be for a very long time... The earlier people deal with this reality, the better for them. Why blow a gasket over who's allowed to cheat and who's not... I think it's women who have the intention to cheat that worry about this. ![]() |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by greatness22(m): 10:06pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
[quote author=crackhaus post=42745246] It's just how it is, and its how it's gon be for a very long time... The earlier people deal with this reality, the better for them. Now, this is a very wrong ideaology. 1 Like |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by Miami11: 10:07pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
greatness22:It is culture, lack of exposure, ignorance among many other factors, education and financial status are also culprits 4 Likes |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by crackhaus: 10:10pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
greatness22:Wrong according to who? You? 1 Like |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by crackhaus: 10:12pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Miami11:Bullshiit! Even in the beloved western countries like USofA, it's the same attitude towards cheating husbands vs cheating wives...don't kid yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by greatness22(m): 10:12pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Miami11:Very correct.... Especially education 3 Likes |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by Miami11: 10:17pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
crackhaus:I thought we were talking of Nigeria collectively Wonder why you are bringing up US, am sure you've not leaved in the states per se. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by crackhaus: 10:29pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
greatness22:Very wrong.. It's everywhere and not particular to Nigeria. http://www.m.webmd.com/men/features/our-cheating-hearts http://madamenoire.com/437862/ask-a-very-smart-brotha-why-dont-men-forgive-cheating-women/ Those aren't Nigerians. |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by greatness22(m): 10:34pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
crackhaus:So what's your point sir? 1 Like |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by crackhaus: 10:36pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Miami11:This was your post: It is culture, lack of exposure, ignorance among many other factors, education... Were you or were you not implying that the way Nigerians view cheating is as a result of culture, lack of exposure, bla bla blabbity bla? I simply made reference that the beloved western nations of which I named USA as one, still generally have the same thinking. Whether you're so sure of where I've lived or where I've not lived, is only a construct of your defensive mind and a diversionary tactic employed to shift focus...totally irrelevant to the discussion. Same way I could be so sure that you've not lived in Miami per se, but chose to name your moniker after the city above all else...but who cares? Still totally irrelevant to the discussion. ![]() ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by Miami11: 10:43pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
crackhaus:You have your opinion I have mine. We don't have to agree or disagree on anything, deuces! 8 Likes |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by crackhaus: 10:50pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
greatness22:My point Sir is that your point as quoted form your topic heading "Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" and your subsequent opening post which cites how Nigerians view cheating, is totally, completely, and irrevocably wrong...not to mention also uneducated, short-sighted, and very limited due to the scope of knowledge and information available to you at the time before I posted those links to broaden your myopic horizon. Now do you understand, Sir? 3 Likes |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by crackhaus: 10:55pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
Miami11: ![]() ![]() "You are not entitled to your opinion. You are only entitled to your informed opinion. No one is entitled to be ignorant." - Harlan Ellison Deuces! 6 Likes |
Re: Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils" by cococandy(f): 10:58pm On Feb 08, 2016 |
While you're right OP, It is like that for those who want it to be. If it was only in the case of cheating, it would even be good. There's active oppression of the female gender in Nigeria and only those who don't like the truth claim it is otherwise. While the others will tell you it is supposed to be so. (According to their God of course) whom they've never seen but believe he endorses such. Those who the status quo favor will look for every means and reason to ensure it is perpetuated with support form those who it doesn't favor but are too timid to go against the crowd. That's why the ![]() 5 Likes |
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