cococandy:
While you're right OP,
It is like that for those who want it to be.

If it was only in the case of cheating, it would even be good. There's active oppression of the female gender in Nigeria and only those who don't like the truth claim it is otherwise.
While the others will tell you it is supposed to be so. (According to their God of course) whom they've never seen but believe he endorses such.

Those who the status quo favor will look for every means and reason to ensure it is perpetuated with support form those who it doesn't favor but are too timid to go against the crowd.

That's why the debate fight will always go on until one there's equilibrium or one side gives in.

Fanirandele:


Abeg don't mind those guys, they pick whatever part they want from the Bible to suit their evil intents forgetting the same Bible condems adultery. The thing is 9ja women have caught up with them and give as good as they get only they are even better at the game . That's why many women turn a blind eye, tehy are also doing their own thing and so don't care

crackhaus:

Bullshiit!

Even in the beloved western countries like USofA, it's the same attitude towards cheating husbands vs cheating wives...don't kid yourself.

raumdeuter:


You dey mind dem. Most of those who say that rubbish have never been to the US or any western world. Na God say make some of us dey US else dem for tell us say na head dem dey use waka for Yankee

Hillary Clinton must have been a Nigerian wife for not divorcing her cheating husband

raumdeuter:
^^ Its only in Nigeria that such happens. Where the men aka Bill Clinton are saints and the women Monica Lewinsky are devil

That kind of thing can never happen in the civilized world like USA its only in Nigeria that such can happen

greatness22:
When a woman cheats on the husband,
Nigerians brings the bible in and remind
you that the bible accepts divorce when a
partner cheats. But when a man cheats
on the wife and contact HIV from his
numerous lovers, Nigerians tell the wife to show him more love, they tell her
marriage is for better for worse, they tell
her to make love to him with a condom,
they tell her not to leave because God
hates divorce. Why are we like this nah?
why the double standards? what exactly is their offence in this country? Being
women? Jesus!!! .
What the fvck is all these?

crackhaus:

Even Miami11 knows I'm correct and just didn't know how to respond before trying to rigmarole.


Bill Clinton is the one that cheated, Monica Lewinsky is the one who got most vilified by the public.
Bill Clinton continues to travel the world while still repping the title of ex Mr. President, Monica Lewinsky is nowhere to be found and I doubt she has been able to find good work since after that saga.

Hilary Clinton is getting good raves and nobody even tries very hard to make reference to her being the wife of the president who cheated, at least to dumb down her chances of being elected.
On the other hand, should Monica Lewinsky try to venture into politics, almost everyone will still see the woman who sucked a president's c0ck in the oval office.

Bill Clinton has been forgiven, while the victim Monica Lewinsky continues to hide her head in shame and is still trying to buy public sympathy by writing articles here and there about her affair... then someone went and decided to start the topic Nigeria; A Country Were Men Are "Saints" And Women "Devils"

raumdeuter:


You dey mind dem. Most of those who say that rubbish have never been to the US or any western world. Na God say make some of us dey US else dem for tell us say na head dem dey use waka for Yankee

Hillary Clinton must have been a Nigerian wife for not divorcing her cheating husband

Nubian113:
Take responsibility for yourself. People treat you the way You allow them to treat you. Why blame men and 9ja lol blame yourself for allowing such treatment. Life is easier than we make it. But I'm not Nigerian so what do I know huh?

lovaleenny:

You shouldn't blame the men o but blame the women who allowed society to walk all over dem and dictate which is which...ever wonder why they say "there's no difference between the bully and the victim"...the day women stop allowing themselves to be victimized is the day they'll start enjoying the much needed emancipation.
We read countless of thread about women suffering alot in marriage when they know they can walk out if only they stop being a victim. Last two months an old thread resurfaced abt a woman who was married to a man who's a sex addict...after reasonable people advised her to leave while she still can...atleast to clear her head and figure things out she still didn't listen...now the update was she got infected with std...i saw it and i wasn't gonna give her my sympathy. As u lay ur bed kindly lie on it.
There are women who actually know what they want plus also know their worth and are wise in choosing a life partner and they are enjoying their marriage till date...whoever is telling a woman that she can't remarry after having kids is living in fool's paradise coz divorcees marry so where they get their facts beats me.
Point is: blame the women; they are the ones who forgot to raise their sons well but concentrated so much on their daughters; they are the ones who will advise their fellow women to stay in abusive marriage and with cheating horseband all in the name of not allowing anoda woman snatch ur man;please if person buy clothes and along the line it turned to filth wouldn't u stop wearing it and throw it away rather than walk the rest of ur life in filthy clothes or better still let someone else take it coz it sure won't do u good.
Am still gonna say it i will rather live a life of peace of mind and comfortability alone than stay in a broken marriage where ur partner doesn't respect u or give u the necessary dignity. Women should go where they are wanted, they should stop being a victim and take responsibility for their actions,stop allowing men walk all over you,know ur worth,stop blaming the men,and lastly find inner peace within yourself.
My 2kobo!

this is going to be good

Elosky20:

Genesis 3:16
To the woman He said, "I
will greatly multiply Your
pain in childbirth, In pain
you will bring forth children;
Yet your desire will be for
your husband, And he will
rule over you."

for a christian lady,not so. 2 Cor 5:17, Gal 3:13-14.' sides, he said husband not men.

Remember Gen 1:26-27, when God said let us make man... next verse says.. male and female He(God) created them. Man is male and female.
So, yeah.... it's my world

bukatyne:


We know she stayed because of her future political ambitions and I read she did not make it easy for him then.

johnson232:

story......

cococandy:
While you're right OP,
It is like that for those who want it to be.

If it was only in the case of cheating, it would even be good. There's active oppression of the female gender in Nigeria and only those who don't like the truth claim it is otherwise.
While the others will tell you it is supposed to be so. (According to their God of course) whom they've never seen but believe he endorses such.

Those who the status quo favor will look for every means and reason to ensure it is perpetuated with support form those who it doesn't favor but are too timid to go against the crowd.

That's why the debate fight will always go on until one there's equilibrium or one side gives in.

jashar:

So, yeah.... it's my world.

johnson232:


u want to collect this world from God almighty?

why are u saying it's your world?

na like this lucifer take start o...


See ya head. He put moi in charge here. I'm replicating His will down here.

bukatyne:


Story Story Story...

By PSquare

jashar:

See my small head like ant own we know...
He put moi in charge here. I'm replicating His will down here. tongue

greatness22:
Am not on that side who gives in just like that.

johnson232:

ohh..
u mean lucifer put u incharge?

congrats dear...

johnson232:
are u male or female?

Tallesty1:
So all these women that divorce their cheating husbands both in court and outside the court are foreigners?

bukatyne:

We know she stayed because of her future political ambitions and I read she did not make it easy for him then.

Also, the fact that there are laws doesn't mean people would follow it; Muslim wives are not to change their surname to their husband's yet I am sure most of them do

greatness22:
When a woman cheats on the husband,
Nigerians brings the bible in and remind
you that the bible accepts divorce when a
partner cheats. But when a man cheats
on the wife and contact HIV from his
numerous lovers, Nigerians tell the wife to show him more love, they tell her
marriage is for better for worse, they tell
her to make love to him with a condom,
they tell her not to leave because God
hates divorce. Why are we like this nah?
why the double standards? what exactly is their offence in this country? Being
women? Jesus!!! .
What the fvck is all these?