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Having An Orgasm Every Time You Have Sex Might Be Bad For Your Relationship by KingRex1(m): 1:07am On Feb 12, 2016 |
When it comes to sex, we tend to think the more orgasms, the better. And why not? Orgasms are great. They’re a sign that you’re having a really, really great time. But according to research, hving an orgasm every time you have sex might not be such a great thing –for your relationship or your sex life. You see, if you have an orgasm every single time you have sex, you’re going to start expecting them to always happen. This can lead to viewing or gases as a sign that you’ve been 'successful’ at sex, leading to pressure not only to make sure you climax, but also to ensure your partner achieves orgasm. If they don’t, you can end up feeling like a failure. The resulting belief that orgasms are an essential part of sex – and that if you don’t achieve one, you’re doing it wrong – is called the ‘orgasm imperative’. Scientists argue that this is a very, very bad thing because of all that negative pressure. The orgasm imperative can actually have negative effects on your relationship, as it makes couples likely to view sex as a goal-driven activity. Which it’s not, FYI. It’s something to be enjoyed. And on the sexual side, all the expectation can make it harder to relax and climax. Oh dear. So, in short: relax. Try to give each other loads of orgasms, but don’t expect them. And remember, most importantly, that good sex without an orgasm is still good sex. |
Re: Having An Orgasm Every Time You Have Sex Might Be Bad For Your Relationship by Drift: 1:09am On Feb 12, 2016 |
Snooping... 1 Like |
Re: Having An Orgasm Every Time You Have Sex Might Be Bad For Your Relationship by hercatonchires(m): 1:40am On Feb 12, 2016 |
Good write up but contradictory context. You're supporting and at the same time opposing. Now ask yourself, does a guy ejaculate everytime he has sex? A reasonable amount of them do(yeah), then why shouldn't gals too orgasm whenever they get laid? You made mention of negative pressure (that I reckon with) All they need do is understand themselves better and it'll come normally. Mind you, circumcised gals might find it challenging to have that experience (sowi). What I expected to see when I read ur topic, I thought you'd relate early orgasm and relationship. It's synonymous to guys premature ejaculation. Enough said already. 1 Like |
Re: Having An Orgasm Every Time You Have Sex Might Be Bad For Your Relationship by khristals(m): 2:59am On Feb 12, 2016 |
KingRex1: ...now why would I dig if I ain't looking for gold |
Re: Having An Orgasm Every Time You Have Sex Might Be Bad For Your Relationship by chriskosherbal(m): 3:25am On Feb 12, 2016 |
Real gist. 1 Like |
Re: Having An Orgasm Every Time You Have Sex Might Be Bad For Your Relationship by Akposkool(m): 3:49am On Feb 12, 2016 |
I thought orgasms are suppose to be the reason for sex. It's the height of it. Don't preach contrary. If you cant have an orgasm whenever you have sex then you have a problem |
Re: Having An Orgasm Every Time You Have Sex Might Be Bad For Your Relationship by cruzita(f): 5:53am On Feb 12, 2016 |
KingRex1:that one no concern me,I NEED ORGASM |
Re: Having An Orgasm Every Time You Have Sex Might Be Bad For Your Relationship by Nobody: 7:03am On Feb 12, 2016 |
KingRex1:Noted but wait ooo who told u that I'm looking for orgasm |
Re: Having An Orgasm Every Time You Have Sex Might Be Bad For Your Relationship by wordbank(m): 7:05am On Feb 12, 2016 |
cruzita:E dey even show for ur face |
Re: Having An Orgasm Every Time You Have Sex Might Be Bad For Your Relationship by KingRex1(m): 8:01am On Feb 12, 2016 |
hercatonchires:Yeah well said. I'm simply sayin u shldnt always xpect the best cus it cant/maynt get better only bad. Leavin u unfufilled. |
Re: Having An Orgasm Every Time You Have Sex Might Be Bad For Your Relationship by KingRex1(m): 8:05am On Feb 12, 2016 |
khristals:look for diamonds or crude oil then |
Re: Having An Orgasm Every Time You Have Sex Might Be Bad For Your Relationship by KingRex1(m): 8:07am On Feb 12, 2016 |
HateU2:all romancelanders want a serious orgasm.. esp ladies. True or false? |
Re: Having An Orgasm Every Time You Have Sex Might Be Bad For Your Relationship by KingRex1(m): 8:17am On Feb 12, 2016 |
wordbank:She think say na food |
Re: Having An Orgasm Every Time You Have Sex Might Be Bad For Your Relationship by Nobody: 12:12pm On Feb 12, 2016 |
KingRex1:False |
Re: Having An Orgasm Every Time You Have Sex Might Be Bad For Your Relationship by KingRex1(m): 1:05pm On Feb 12, 2016 |
HateU2:Lie mohammed! |
Re: Having An Orgasm Every Time You Have Sex Might Be Bad For Your Relationship by Nobody: 5:24pm On Feb 12, 2016 |
KingRex1:I mean wats s*x witout 0rgasm? |
Re: Having An Orgasm Every Time You Have Sex Might Be Bad For Your Relationship by KingRex1(m): 8:00pm On Feb 12, 2016 |
naughtynaughty:It can be jst a lovely moment. Get a a plateau nd chill, dnt have to reach the mountain peak |
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