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Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Mayor101010(m): 11:01am On Feb 13, 2016 |
The only woman that'll love you unconditionally and will never let you down is your MOTHER... Forget the b**ch go listen to some Kanye west sh*t. 2 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Eleganza33(f): 11:02am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Die 4 a gal she wil cum ur burial wit anoda guy. I knw hw u feel dear pls delete al her contacts nd spend sum tym wit frndz dis wil help u get ova it soon awt of sight is awt of mind.trust me she wil regret it by then it wil b too late. she didnt do wel at al i knw its bc of wat frndz may say she want to please piple,am disappointed at least u r determined nd hardworking,she jus let go of sum1 who truely love her tomorrow nw she go cum say help my husband is a monster. Pls dnt die cheer up dear we love u |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by KangaIye: 11:03am On Feb 13, 2016 |
cherrymum: Hope you are not weeping daily again ![]() |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Modenzy: 11:03am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Decker: bro. You are right. Good advice, even to me. I had been dissapointed several times. |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Nobody: 11:03am On Feb 13, 2016 |
1st u are a man not a baby so quit been 2emotional abt it,like u rightly asked "what wld she do if u got married and then lost ur job"...or something worse?shes just narrow-minded so dnt regret losing her... Uve had her 4 7years ![]() Finally love urself 1st more than anyone if u want to live long n happy... 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by coachwilcox(m): 11:04am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Ive been in a similar situation before although I had a well paying job, despite doing my best to elevate this babe, she left me as soon as things began to look up for her. Where you goofed is where you got her a well paying job despite her not being your wife. There's a limit to what you should do for a woman who's not your wife. As soon as you feel impelled to do it, wife her immediately or use belle hol her down. No amount of begging will bring her back cause to her, you're not her level any more. It's either a woman loves you for who you are or she doesn't. She loved you cause you were seemingly above her in level. Just move on and leave her. She will regret it and honesty, most guys who never came for her when she was nothing and are now coming for her when you made her something usually end up not loving her as deeply as you did and she will always feel empty for the rest of her life. 2 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by hurting: 11:05am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Moz22:Lol, I created all this morning, when I couldn't sleep. 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by 2sex(m): 11:06am On Feb 13, 2016 |
freecocoa:lol. That ur sister wey u say e fine pass abi? If u can recall, I once jokingly say make u hook me up with her U ignore that comment like Egyptian plague ![]() See let me tell you the truth. Guys wey dey complain like I and the OP are one of the best they can ever wish for. But women, especially Nigerian women are just something else. What is money? What is money? Money that can come and go? Before I mistakenly burn almost 2milla, I know sef? I don't look at money same way people do. It can be lost and it can be made. When some kind sickness hold body an hin people go know say no amount of money is ever enough. In Nigeria, I am yet to see the likes of Elvina who built her man into the dream she desired. As in a rather timid, fragile and non-adventurous dude became a monster kick azz all by her effort. She saw mister wrong and turned him into mister right. How many Nigerian girls can do that? 3 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by almasterpiece(m): 11:07am On Feb 13, 2016 |
...suicide because of woman, pls think again. At this point you need GOD and that's all. I think its Ur first relationship that is falling apart. My brother we have seen plenty, from 2 yrs to 3 yrs to 6 months etc. but the one God has destined for u will surely come regardless of your economic status. Thank your stars that its happening prior to marriage, what if you had 2 kids and she leaves you? 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by victorking: 11:07am On Feb 13, 2016 |
hurting: |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by salvation77177: 11:09am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Bro.listen carefully to this piece of advice. The beautiful ones are yet not born, so says an author. No woman is worth dying for. God in His wisdom and infinite mercies may want to deliver you from a serious future event with lasting consequences which is the reason it happened at this earlier stage. You should be grateful to God and thank Him for what He has saved you from. Sometimes because of our shortsightedness we lament and weep over God's plan to save us from danger ahead. You want to commit suicide because a lady that isn't your wife decided to go out of your life. What will you do then if after legally married your wife divorces you for another man? Bro.be wise. How do you know this lady is God's will for you. You are looking at her external appearance but do know what is inside of her. Only God can know that. Stop getting hypertension for the sake of this disappointment, gather yourself together and move on. There are other more beautiful ones out there waiting for you. Lastly, I will advise you also to consider as a top priority in surrendering your life to the Lord JESUS Christ. Make that the first thing before marriage. Only Jesus can give the woman that is perfect match for you. I also passed through your experience in my earlier life as well but today when I look back l can't stop thaking God for saving me from the satanic trap called blind love. Remember the Story of Samson and Delilah in the bible and save your self every stress of disappointment. It's a blessing in disguise. Enough for the wise. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Btruth: 11:09am On Feb 13, 2016 |
hurting: Hurting, you really need to take it easy oooo...... See what Mel got to say to you too. 1 Like
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Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by 2sex(m): 11:09am On Feb 13, 2016 |
hurting:Eyah. You will be fine bro. Mine happened years ago. Losing a dear mother and experiencing a heart break at same time so u can imagine where I was. I almost developed respiratory problems except for God's grace who sent a U-turn thought into my mind. Then I realise if I died, life will go on and she will enjoy life while I rotten in my casket. So bro, see it same way 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Hitunnu(f): 11:10am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Remember ur parent, siblings and relatives that u will cause pain, if u commit suicide. Especially ur mother. How extend have U satisfy ur mother that u wnt to die cos of a lady who don't believe in you. With time, you will get over her. If u r finding it difficult, spend time with ur mom, siblings, friends and get busy. 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by fflamingo(m): 11:10am On Feb 13, 2016 |
hurting: |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by 2sex(m): 11:11am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Btruth:bro, that person in the snapshot isn't NIGERIAN and can never be. So you see? Do you see how their reasoning is when compared to our girls down here? 2 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by kaziblake(f): 11:11am On Feb 13, 2016 |
freecocoa:Exactly! After 7yrs...she would have just endure. 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by salvation77177: 11:12am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Bro.if you more counselling and a real life experience as it happened in my own case, and how I overcome it you can call me on 08063958676. Thanks |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Candybob(m): 11:12am On Feb 13, 2016 |
OP, your mumu dey smell! You want join the list of men wey don kpai over love (na toto last last)? How many women you fit call wey don die on top love matter? Yet anytime you hear 'heartbreak', 100% of the time na from woman mouth! Instead of you to come and do thankgiving now that you have been liberated! You are here crying she be good girl, she be nice yansh, this that. Ol boy go buy urself fish pepper soup and one bottle of origin joor! 3 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by hulega(m): 11:12am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Man's device of self deception is vast. Love, religion are clear examples. The real world thrives on exchange of value, and to her, you have lost value. Good looks, money, height, intelligence etc are some of the things that determines your value in the dating market. You can scream love all you want, but she was with you all this while because of the value(most likely monetary) you gave, and you were with her for something she gave. Then she starts getting money, and you became valueless. She moved on, it's the most logical thing to do. It doesn't make her a bad person. It's just the way the world works. Get rich, read broadly, look good and go back to the market. Live wisely. 5 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by themanderon: 11:12am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Op, one thing I want to tell you is this, she doesn't deserve you lf she does not love you the way you are. She was only keeping you as an option. It's good she brought out her true colours now. You would be making a grave mistake if you go back to her cos she will only abscond with the next available person so be wise. She aint worth the stress not now not ever. So for me its good riddance to bad rubbish. Some of em' girls don't really know what they want. So pick yourself up there are many good girls out there that deserve a hard working guy like you hope you find one soon. 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by victorking: 11:13am On Feb 13, 2016 |
@Hurting. Sory bro, i wish i can feel ur pain but i cant. Dont usually comment but pls if u want to kill ursef, kill ursef cos u dont have money not cos of a babe my guy. Na beg i dey beg u. No babe is worth dieing for. Its painful but its the truth. I Swear if u make d mistake of marrying dat babe wtout money, u will have a very miserable life. She is gone, dont ever try to win her back, just wish her the best and move on. Marriage no be play play o. 3 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by rubyradiance(f): 11:14am On Feb 13, 2016 |
If this your touching story is real or true then I congratulate you that that girl has left your life,,its obvious u are still trying to tag her decent & defend her but my dear I am a woman & I can tell u that she's a gold digger 100%,,how dare she judge u by what u earn when it is not constant? Pls praise ur God and get back to life,you will see a woman that God created for you soon & she won't judge u base on ur pocket but by true love..a love that appreciates u for better things and for whom you are. 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Ucheosefoh(m): 11:14am On Feb 13, 2016 |
AreaFada2:One of the reasons why I vow not to spend more on any girl than what I will spend on my sister, except she is my wife. This year I decided to stay single and focus on making money cus I don't want stories like this 2 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Ekebest: 11:14am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Bros, Jesus Christ is the ANSWER. It is appointed onto man once to die and thereafter then, JUDGEMENT. If you decide to kill yourself in the name of love, WHAT WILL YOU TELL GOD? God will not give you any award for living in FORNICATION in disguise of dating for over 7yrs. GOD HAS OFFERED YOU A SECOND CHANCE IN TIME PAST WITHOUT YOU ACKNOWLEDGING HIM IN YOUR LIFE. TODAY, GOD IS OFFERING YOU ANOTHER CHANCE FOR YOU TO RECOGNISE AND ACCEPT HIM IN YOUR LIFE AS YOUR LORD AND SAVIOUR. My bros, please accept JESUS today in your life for man is of a fewer days on earth. What shall it profit you if you win back her trust and then LOSS your soul in HELL! JESUS STILL CARES AND HE IS THE ANSWER YOU SEEK. 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by scantee(m): 11:14am On Feb 13, 2016 |
@op check out my last thread on Nairaland, i understands how you feel right now because mine just happend last month...few months to our Traditional Marriage, just be a man and ignore her for weeks, don't call her, if she does call ans her @ times...if she ask about your activites don't update her let her know ur always busy these days, she will start wondering what ur up to lately, she will start trying to figure it out by coming more closer to you, then you will start feeling more better & on top of ur world. That will help you get over it asap...jst take her as a friend whenever she calls and do not let her know you still feel hurt, pretends as if you no send am again. Mine is over me now begging me to take her back, but she has given me the opportunity to notice that there are more beautiful gals out there. NO ROOM FOR BUSHIT AGAIN. 5 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by omron(m): 11:15am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Brother, the choice of your girlfriend does not worth your blood, you are a man and whatever happens to man in life should be accepted in good faith, okay let's assume she got married to you and she had an accident and died(God forbid) but what will you do? Everybody just saying you should leave her and move on its not easy to forget someone you have been together for long I understand your plight but to make the matter easier Let me ask you some questions 1.do any of her family member knows you? 2.do u any of your own family member knows her and knows you both together? If yes it would be the best way to solve the issue Send someone to her to talk to her and the person should let her knows how much you love her from your action and that you could not eat since she broke the news to you She will feel remorse for you But if she doesn't then leave her on her own May be you both are not meant to be together U know what I mean? Destiny will take its course See there are millions better ladies outside there better than her Killing your self is not an option If you die she will leave her life and you become a looser..... While she becomes a winner And many women will step on your grave ..... My advice for you still try your luck but if she insist pls and pls don't beg her... She will belittle you..... Let me share my own past with you.. There was this lady I was dating 6 years back She loves me so much that at times she sacrifice a lot to make sure I get what I don't have, she is a lady from a rich background and one day she told me it's over Not that I don't love her but when she told me I accepted it and didn't even go to her doorstep to beg her. I only call her on phone why she decided like that and she said she prefer someone with job to date and I said OK that I wish her well Today After 6 years from that time She is married and am married But what I have now her husband does not possess..... I pray God gives u good job And she will regret later for her Bleep up Stay calm okay 2 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Btruth: 11:15am On Feb 13, 2016 |
2sex: .....that's is white heart for you. To her, she found it very impossible, that because of a job, a lady will dump her man of 7 years. 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by coachwilcox(m): 11:15am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Oh. And one more thing. The beautiful ones are not yet born. Dude. In 5 years when the 17 year old babes become 22/23, you go ask yourself why you dey worry yourself over one babe all that time past. Cause then, hawt girls go dey flock you when you get thay well paying job. Relax and cheer up bro. Me na beer I use die the pain sha. 2 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by kenneth14(m): 11:15am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Wizzz: |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Nobody: 11:15am On Feb 13, 2016 |
cruzita:good counsel, but no see ya pls ![]() |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Emasky4real(m): 11:16am On Feb 13, 2016 |
This incident can be a very paintful one . However you have to accept it as part of life if you must get over it. Above all, always have it in mind that "what happens to you is not what determines your outcome in life, but how you respond to it." Anytime the thought of suicide comes to you, always remind yourself that ONLY COWARDS KILL THEMSELVES. I can feel it within that this event is going to mark the beginning of greatness in your life. Some years from now, you will think of this event and thank your maker for bringing it your way. NEVER GIVE UP ON YOURSELF. |
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