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Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by 2sex(m): 11:16am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Btruth:did you see the difference? Our Nigerian ladies are just pathetic. I have to be frank with you, I have been nursing the idea of marrying outside the Nigerian race, a foreign But I won't if freecocoa can give me her sister and promise she won't break my heart like others have ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by kaziblake(f): 11:17am On Feb 13, 2016 |
2sex:Not all nigerian girls reason and behave's like the Op girlfriend. I have seen countless nigerian girls who suffered with their boyfriend's till they make it. It's loves that matters not money. 2 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Kenchukky(m): 11:18am On Feb 13, 2016 |
God just removed the evil on your way to mega breakthrough and you are here complaining. 3 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by 2sex(m): 11:19am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Btruth:abeg hook me up with anyone in their 20s cos me I be natural lover boy but I can't express myself freely to Nigerian ladies without ending up hurt. Hence I am often forced to hide my truth identity. Imaging hidding whom God created you to be? 2 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by athorello(m): 11:19am On Feb 13, 2016 |
I don't think I'm alone. Winning a girl back ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by VISTIN(m): 11:20am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Did I hear you say "commit suicide"? No, she's too small to determine what your future will look like Don't you think God doesn't want to give you a good job until she leaves. Yes, it's extremely painful but I've seen people who moved on for better. I was "nothing" financially when I proposed to my wife. Today we are happy with 3 kids. So, any relationship that is based on job capacity isn't worth keeping. God will give you the grace to move on. But, you must do one "difficult" thing: forgive her. That will open plenty doors for you. We love you so much and wish you a better future. Happy Valentine's day. 2 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by tunnyl(m): 11:20am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Why do I have a funny feeling of doubt about the op. However, my advise is that you boost your search for employment. |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by 2sex(m): 11:20am On Feb 13, 2016 |
kaziblake:I have heard that several times and even seen an advocate of your premise still abuse it. Nigerian girls are same abeg. 3 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Heineken(m): 11:22am On Feb 13, 2016 |
laprince:I like this talk... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by multicolored(f): 11:24am On Feb 13, 2016 |
She may not be as faithful as you are hammering sef.... 3 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Mackson01: 11:25am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Move on with your life. Life is sweet and don't do anything stupid. You will laugh last. Josesp was rejected a d sold out into slavery but things worked for his good. U are only a failure if you stay down. |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Gkemz: 11:25am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Well, since she has moved on, all you gotta do as fast as possible though it won't be easy is secure a meaningful job if that's all it takes to win her back. Otherwise you have to move on with your life. Everything happen for a reason. Maybe she's not meant for you. You have to figure it out. |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Nobody: 11:25am On Feb 13, 2016 |
KangaIye: I'm still weeping o. i thought i was moving on to better things but mehn it's best to stick to the satan u know o than the angel u dont know. the grass always looks greener on the other side but when u get to that other side e no green anything o. if i can do anything to get my good ex back. i'll do it! I wish i just shut my eyes to the world and stuck with him. I would have been a queen by now. God knows best. 3 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by kaziblake(f): 11:26am On Feb 13, 2016 |
2sex:A nigerian girl must have broken your heart. If you say so.... |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Nobody: 11:27am On Feb 13, 2016 |
This is that time in your life that will determine if you would ever become great or forever remain a misery. It's yo turning point. Don't be deceived, you will never ever get over this, this is such an event fate has designed to change your perception about life and the people that lives in it. You'll find it really hard to love, trust and stay faithful. These are Tbh, good things the pain you're in now will teach you if you care to listen and make the best use of this adversary. If you decide to give in, give up and allow this pain to use you, you'll end up a total failure for life! Nigg, it's time for you to get up, dress up and fall in love with your life and what you can still do with your life. You're a man for a reason, don't allow life situations to pull you down, tie you down and waste you like a used rag. Believe! , better days are coming, the chick that left never deserved to be in your glorious future, she just part of the BIG plan, she's fulfilled her own part of the assignment and she's honourably took to the exit. Let better hands come in, don't allow the loss of the milk teeth aggravate you I say, hold up, the Permanent set is on its way! Have a nice Saturday ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Nobody: 11:27am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Nigeria's population is over 150 million... dont worry, you would easily get a replacement for her if you get your act together. 2 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Btruth: 11:27am On Feb 13, 2016 |
2sex: Will talk to my younger brother for you. Or, you wait till when I visit sometimes this year. But just always keep in touch. 3 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by durasome(m): 11:27am On Feb 13, 2016 |
hurting:.dear fellow nairalander.it's sad that your girl of many years left,and I personally do understand how you feel right now.I think the right thing to do now is to move on.since she has made up her mind to go,plus dont waste any of ur precious time to try to win her back cause she is gone and will never come back unless it was destined to be so.and if she will eventually come back,it's not gona be now.to forget about her u must try and morn her exit in your life cause it requires almost that long period it takes the love to grow for the heart to also gradually get rid of it.she left because she thinks you can not give her the kind of life she wants.so rather than kill yourself,please try and improve on self, get a better job.its not just the end of the road. or wouldn't you want to surprise and prove her wrong in life??stuffs like this happens so cheer up bro. |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by cedargroove: 11:28am On Feb 13, 2016 |
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Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by monamiehady(f): 11:31am On Feb 13, 2016 |
This reminded me of the time I broke-up with a guy I was planning to marry, it was difficult holding the tears, but these were the steps I took; -I accepted it in my heart & checked why it happened that way. -I told my family about it & I got all the emotional support I needed. -I traveled out so I don't see things that will remind me of him. -I told my Pastor & she gave ma a book (Lord heal my hurts) to read. -I prayed fervently for a person 10times better than him. -Lastly I devoted my time to my studies (then I was a student nurse) Fast-forward 2yrs, I met someone 10times better than he was, completed my studies, got a job, got married to him & we're hoping to have triplets soon. when I look back I can only say 'Lord thank you for breaking us apart! ' Cheer-up bro, she was not meant for you! 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Teespice(f): 11:31am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Dreamflyin: aptly said. |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by emerged01(m): 11:32am On Feb 13, 2016 |
@ hurting, Pls let her go. What if you get a good job and things turn sour,she will divorce you. Someone better than her will come your way. You need a supportive wife,and not every lady can play that role. She cant....that is why you must let her go. I'm in the same shoe with you but my wife have been very supportive. And I do everything in own my way to keep her hope in me that I will be that man she truly deserve. 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by 2sex(m): 11:32am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Btruth:Thanks. Will follow you now. |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by chiefolododo(m): 11:33am On Feb 13, 2016 |
What a pity! |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Nobody: 11:34am On Feb 13, 2016 |
you want to become like searchiing4love - the guy has abandoned nigerian ladies for foreign ones. 2sex: 2 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Heineken(m): 11:34am On Feb 13, 2016 |
Op this kind of situation ain't really easy. To me, I used to take ladies seriously but I realised they don't really worth it. I remember during my nysc days when a girl I loved so much then started misbehaving. Mehn, I no fit chop I confuse. With time I later turned badoo with girls and got over her once. My advise is this, don't call her again and delete any thing relating to her. Work hard too and always believe in yourself. 3 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by KELECHUKWU89: 11:36am On Feb 13, 2016 |
KILL URSELF NA WETIN CONCHAI ME..PIPO WEY DIE U BETTER PASS DM..U WAN COMMIT SUCIDE MTCHEEEW |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by 2sex(m): 11:36am On Feb 13, 2016 |
kaziblake:truth is irrespective of the fact that many will say they want a loving and caring dude, if that was the case, that's my personality but the reality on ground shows otherwise. Nigerian girls are no respected of broke azz niggazz, even you won't touch such with 10 foot pole, no matter his love for you which is very obvious. I have seen it all. Forget that shiiit! 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by 2sex(m): 11:39am On Feb 13, 2016 |
TeOwl:Bros, Nigerian girls are very inconsiderate and unappreciative, whether you believe it or not. People don't just speak without reasons. 2 Likes |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Richy4(m): 11:39am On Feb 13, 2016 |
I know it hurts.... But I equally know you will be fine with time.. And I know your situation will turn around and she will come begging for you to take her back.. and next time you try to share your stories, NL members will be asking you what movie was that? ... was the girl Rita Dominic and the man Ramsey Noah... ![]() I do not know if you have ever been to a Nigerian funeral when a man lost his wife..... You will see him threatening to jump into the grave to join the wife..but.... Just give him three years or more, he will plan to remarry slowly but surely ..... not that he doesn't love the wife but time has healed his wounds... and there are certain wounds that time heals.... yours is included..... I fear for your girl friend though..... because I discovered in life that what someone fears the most always hunt him or her....In her case the fear of financial loss, poverty, lack of money etc was her biggest fear in life.....some rich people some times find themselves bankrupt or something.... I am not praying for that but what if such situation occurs when she gets married? I am happy it happened now.... because assuming it happened before you get to know her phobia, you wouldn't have forgiven yourself... 1 Like |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by Adasun(m): 11:40am On Feb 13, 2016 |
the problem is after all this the op might still be tempted to call her on an occation just to hear frm her.dats da logic.all this advise would only make him stop the suicidal thought.but to leave the girl would take months,if possible years.and also a big annoying behaviour frm the da gal would finally turn him off. My advise are these (1)sleep early at 9it because dat is when da temptation to hear frm her is high (2)be busy all da tym,try do something to upgrade not to show da babe but for ur own benefit (3)lastly,have these in mind dat she left the best man. Know dat it takes time tho ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by kaziblake(f): 11:40am On Feb 13, 2016 |
2sex:calm down! Don't generalise it...my friend suffered with a broke azz nigga,when the money came he dumped her saying she wasn't up to his standard. It's vice/versa. |
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