misspicy:

God bless you for this comment.....

the hell is wrong with some men self,I have seen women leave their life behind because of marriage and have themselves to blame,no one should run into a marriage just to satisfy a man,because most times its not worth it.

Nifan your man is on his way,and please don't compromise your standard for any man.

akike:

Cry cry baby

akike:


Cry cry baby

nlfan:
This Is How I Broke Him Down After He Broke My Heart

I met this young man when i was 21 and he was 24 we dated 4 years, we were both struggling, we stayed with each other and help each other to grow.

We grow to become successful and i became very influential in my field and he was so proud of that.

Last october we agreed to walk down the isle, we were planning where we are going to stay after the wedding, he stays somewhere in Lagos mainland while i stay in the island. He told me that he will be moving somewhere in Mowe in Ogun State where his father built a house about 2 years ago.

I told him that will not be a good idea, going from Mowe to Victoria Island everyday will be terrible for me since we can afford a house in Lagos at least for now or we stay where he is staying currently, he maintained he cant change, we could not reach an agreement on that, the next thing i got a shocker, he traveled for event outside Lagos to the east, where he comes from, only to get attracted to a girl he met there and came boldly to tell me, if i cannot marry him and stay at mowe, there are so many good girls who will rush the offer and in annoyance i told him, have you found one please marry her.

To my surprise few days after i saw a photo of him and that girl he just met, less than two months all over social media, he has engaged her.

Initially i was pained, but let's face it he doesn't deserve my tears, his groups of friends started calling my line to ask when we stopped dating since we still stepped out recently to his friend birthday.

I didnt know what to say i asked them to ask him, things went that way and i started hurting, after he did official intro to the girl i knew it was over, i called him and told him i wish him happiness and best of luck with his wife to be.

He felt bad but said he knew i was a good person that he is not shocked i called, i ask him to keep me updated on wedding plans and he did and i told him i will attend he said he will be grateful.

On the wedding day, during the reception i showed up, i had gone to get a very flattering dress, i even paid for make up, i looked so beautiful i couldn't believe myself too

When i entered the room everybody went crazy, all his friends and associate knew me, some are even pained at what he did to me, i showed up all his friends rushed to greet me, it took over 30 minutes to cheek kiss all of them and hug a few, the few people who didn't know me was wondering who i was and why i am so beautiful

I went up to greet him, he almost fell down from where he was standing, i greeted his wife ( a village girl from akwa ibom lol - the way she pronounce the thanks for coming though )

I started catching fun and dancing crazy, my ex couldn't stand it anymore, he ask his wife to go inside the car only him came to greet his guys where i was seated, THEN BROKE DOWN IN TEARS

HE CRIED SO LOUD LIKE PEOPLE WERE SCARED, People will think that i will disappear from there scene since he was crying, i was still seated shaking body to the tune of music, he then told one of his friend, i don't know but i think i messed up - the guy was like you messed up big time, are you just realizing, then live with it the rest of your life, his wife rushed out of the car i guess he heard his prince charming was crying, he came and the moment she opened her mouth to ask daring wot isssit, guys had funny faces about to explode.

At that point he left and i continue hanging out with his friends before oping into my car to go home. He sent a touching sms yesterday.

akatekpe:
Thanks bro..i wu rather go to the most interior of my village to get a wife than marry one lady who can't take order from me. It' obvious she is the proud type and wouldn't pipe low for her man. She never loved the guy in the first place. And tha dude too is a disgrace, shielding tears on his wedding day cos of thesame lady he dumped.

Eliba:
admire what?that she spoilt someone's wedding day. I know is painful but the girl is innocent

DeMekus:

Keep hiding your pain behind that Nokia screen. Better go and marry.

Bigcake:
Do i look like your playmate?

HIV1:
The guy don chop your pomo tire, go get new and better orisirisi and you are here feeling proud. You sold yourself cheaply living with a guy who had not paid your dowry. You need to pray very well to get husband on time. Besides what makes you think you are better than the other lady. I will rather marry a woman who cam pound yam than one who is fluent in English

akike:


Have you even considered her professional life? It would be very daft of her to leave her job because of a free house.

You also forgot to consider the fact that this guy might not be the only child. Therefore you cannot call it a ‘free' house, if she left Lagos, she will be moving into a worse situation. A woman with no job living in her husband's family house. That sounds like something I will NEVER do!!!.



She is 25 and she has suitors.

Cavenchy:


Lol the guy was shedding tears cos he felt the lady came to crash his wedding by dancing erratically and unconventionally in front of his esteemed guests. The lady is lucky the bride didn't have a crazy bridal train, they would have bounced her the 1st 5mins of her display if they knew who she was and her mission that day.

morganacanta:
But he left you for that local akwa ibom girl?
Your ppoint?

safarigirl:
so all the people living in Mowe are jobless?

Did she seek some transfer or check for available job options there or was she more concerned about her status of 'working and living on the island' being depleted?


Anyway, the man is now married to the village girl who doesn't mind living in Mowe and she still has her job so I guess everyone is contented

Like I said, having suitors is one thing, but going by our Island big girl's standards, having eligible suitors will be another for her.

Stevebamdex:
What's the name of this movie?
If this story is true then you get mind no be small. weldone

nlfan:
This Is How I Broke Him Down After He Broke My Heart

I met this young man when i was 21 and he was 24 we dated 4 years, we were both struggling, we stayed with each other and help each other to grow.

We grow to become successful and i became very influential in my field and he was so proud of that.

Last october we agreed to walk down the isle, we were planning where we are going to stay after the wedding, he stays somewhere in Lagos mainland while i stay in the island. He told me that he will be moving somewhere in Mowe in Ogun State where his father built a house about 2 years ago.

I told him that will not be a good idea, going from Mowe to Victoria Island everyday will be terrible for me since we can afford a house in Lagos at least for now or we stay where he is staying currently, he maintained he cant change, we could not reach an agreement on that, the next thing i got a shocker, he traveled for event outside Lagos to the east, where he comes from, only to get attracted to a girl he met there and came boldly to tell me, if i cannot marry him and stay at mowe, there are so many good girls who will rush the offer and in annoyance i told him, have you found one please marry her.

To my surprise few days after i saw a photo of him and that girl he just met, less than two months all over social media, he has engaged her.

Initially i was pained, but let's face it he doesn't deserve my tears, his groups of friends started calling my line to ask when we stopped dating since we still stepped out recently to his friend birthday.

I didnt know what to say i asked them to ask him, things went that way and i started hurting, after he did official intro to the girl i knew it was over, i called him and told him i wish him happiness and best of luck with his wife to be.

He felt bad but said he knew i was a good person that he is not shocked i called, i ask him to keep me updated on wedding plans and he did and i told him i will attend he said he will be grateful.

On the wedding day, during the reception i showed up, i had gone to get a very flattering dress, i even paid for make up, i looked so beautiful i couldn't believe myself too

When i entered the room everybody went crazy, all his friends and associate knew me, some are even pained at what he did to me, i showed up all his friends rushed to greet me, it took over 30 minutes to cheek kiss all of them and hug a few, the few people who didn't know me was wondering who i was and why i am so beautiful

I went up to greet him, he almost fell down from where he was standing, i greeted his wife ( a village girl from akwa ibom lol - the way she pronounce the thanks for coming though )

I started catching fun and dancing crazy, my ex couldn't stand it anymore, he ask his wife to go inside the car only him came to greet his guys where i was seated, THEN BROKE DOWN IN TEARS

HE CRIED SO LOUD LIKE PEOPLE WERE SCARED, People will think that i will disappear from there scene since he was crying, i was still seated shaking body to the tune of music, he then told one of his friend, i don't know but i think i messed up - the guy was like you messed up big time, are you just realizing, then live with it the rest of your life, his wife rushed out of the car i guess he heard his prince charming was crying, he came and the moment she opened her mouth to ask daring wot isssit, guys had funny faces about to explode.

At that point he left and i continue hanging out with his friends before oping into my car to go home. He sent a touching sms yesterday.

akatekpe:
I tell you. The last tin I wu do on my wedding day is to give any serious attention to an ex on my wedding day. Infact, I wu ensure I let my men keep eyes on my exs to avoid any drama

akike:


Your mother first

Cavenchy:

True that, this is why a man should always inform his wife to be of any crazy exes that might show up that day. This whole show could have been averted with one prepared bride and her team. It's her wedding day too, no one has the right to ruin another woman's biggest day in life. Same goes for ladies and gents.

nlfan:
movie kee, i am telling you it happened last weekend and you saying movie, why cant nlers believe true story for once

icedbeatz:
why do you have to involve his mom in this when he never mentioned your family? Why?

nlfan:
over hill wetin? i had loved him for 4 years but it stopped the moment he did intro with that babe, it doesnt mean i dont have suitors, it is even because of him im not married yet and yes, very soon im gonna be very happy with my own husband too, very soon and i will announce on NLer