Abimbex007:

Babe, you're weeeeeeekeed

PresVA:
Judging her? Nobody's judging her... her action was useless .. why give approval earlier?
Don't worry, someone would show up at your wedding; distract your spouse and then make him/her cry.. right?
Cos that's d best way to heal...

nlfan:
This Is How I Broke Him Down After He Broke My Heart

I met this young man when i was 21 and he was 24 we dated 4 years, we were both struggling, we stayed with each other and help each other to grow.

We grow to become successful and i became very influential in my field and he was so proud of that.

Last october we agreed to walk down the isle, we were planning where we are going to stay after the wedding, he stays somewhere in Lagos mainland while i stay in the island. He told me that he will be moving somewhere in Mowe in Ogun State where his father built a house about 2 years ago.

I told him that will not be a good idea, going from Mowe to Victoria Island everyday will be terrible for me since we can afford a house in Lagos at least for now or we stay where he is staying currently, he maintained he cant change, we could not reach an agreement on that, the next thing i got a shocker, he traveled for event outside Lagos to the east, where he comes from, only to get attracted to a girl he met there and came boldly to tell me, if i cannot marry him and stay at mowe, there are so many good girls who will rush the offer and in annoyance i told him, have you found one please marry her.

To my surprise few days after i saw a photo of him and that girl he just met, less than two months all over social media, he has engaged her.

Initially i was pained, but let's face it he doesn't deserve my tears, his groups of friends started calling my line to ask when we stopped dating since we still stepped out recently to his friend birthday.

I didnt know what to say i asked them to ask him, things went that way and i started hurting, after he did official intro to the girl i knew it was over, i called him and told him i wish him happiness and best of luck with his wife to be.

He felt bad but said he knew i was a good person that he is not shocked i called, i ask him to keep me updated on wedding plans and he did and i told him i will attend he said he will be grateful.

On the wedding day, during the reception i showed up, i had gone to get a very flattering dress, i even paid for make up, i looked so beautiful i couldn't believe myself too

When i entered the room everybody went crazy, all his friends and associate knew me, some are even pained at what he did to me, i showed up all his friends rushed to greet me, it took over 30 minutes to cheek kiss all of them and hug a few, the few people who didn't know me was wondering who i was and why i am so beautiful

I went up to greet him, he almost fell down from where he was standing, i greeted his wife ( a village girl from akwa ibom lol - the way she pronounce the thanks for coming though )

I started catching fun and dancing crazy, my ex couldn't stand it anymore, he ask his wife to go inside the car only him came to greet his guys where i was seated, THEN BROKE DOWN IN TEARS

HE CRIED SO LOUD LIKE PEOPLE WERE SCARED, People will think that i will disappear from there scene since he was crying, i was still seated shaking body to the tune of music, he then told one of his friend, i don't know but i think i messed up - the guy was like you messed up big time, are you just realizing, then live with it the rest of your life, his wife rushed out of the car i guess he heard his prince charming was crying, he came and the moment she opened her mouth to ask daring wot isssit, guys had funny faces about to explode.

At that point he left and i continue hanging out with his friends before oping into my car to go home. He sent a touching sms yesterday.
Babe I luv u.u made my day.nice one dear

akike:


Dumb dumb

She has evey reason to be Proud arrogant

Deal with it

misspicy:

daddy it is educative biko....women should learn not to compromise their stand for a man that might end up treating them like trash,yes we should,a man that can leave a four years relationship and go marry within 2 months surely is arrogant and thinks the world revolves round him....how will she leave VI for Mowe,that could mean leaving her work,most every thing revolve round the man?

if th story is true though

akike:



She is innocent however don't forget that this is life!

How did she crash her wedding sef. Are you telling us that she knew her ex was going to cry?:?

Rollar:
I hate to be the charlatan in this lovely tale, but how exactly is this relevant to us? Is there a moral lesson here, some kind of educative/informative message passed across?
So I guess basically you're advocating for ladies to refuse to compromise their stances when issues come up in their relationships and go the extra mile by paying for makeup and wearing expensive clothes, just to show their ex that they're over him? You went through all that trouble to show your ex you no longer have feelings for him. The funny thing is that some guys actually find what you wrote logical and not at all irrationally imbecilic. Well cheers on moving on hun, you go girl

Cholls:
my sister look I don't know you from anywhere not until you came here with this story of your love life. so just accept my advice which ever way you like to see it good or bad............ back to the topic........one of the things I deduced from what you wrote is how proud and arrogant of a person you could be........thinking you're better than the lady cuz she couldn't speak English fluently.....and the one that annoyed me most was when the brother told you to move to Mowe with him you refused.......Damn! You are too proud for any man to marry.

icedbeatz:
female mainly hard hearted? Hell no unless she has childhood issues or some trauma that will affect her that way bc any girl that was raised up in a loving environment is going to have a soft heart, thats how females are built except the sad ones and ones with other negative influences.

chenor:
I have seen something like that happening. This one was less than three months. The meeting, intro, trad, white everything so I believe her

E383:


Hi mom.

akike:

MarieSucre:


This is HER story not every woman's story. You don't have to give it subtitle. And another thing, if the roles were switched and it was the man at the receiving end what would your comment be?

sinequanon:


The bit about the guy crying is obviously made up. This is how women try to get emotional closure.

It doesn't work, and they don't realize that us men have seen it soooooo many times that we just dismiss it as part of female antics.

Mrbigman1:
U re a bery wicket EX!!!
Buhari must hear this.

icedbeatz:
neither did i type that men are hard-hearted, females are very emotional and fragile and needs to be handled with care. The ones that acts tough are the insecure ones, hurting, hrtbroken, bitter and so on who feels like they have to prove something which really makes no damn sense. Case file, the op. She felt she had to dress up and pay for makeup artiste or someone to make her look very pretty so that she can go and showcase and prove to their friends that she wasn't hurt and she actually feels great and shitt when she really isn't i guess maybe she still cries about losing the mofo but just gotta pretend to herself, living in denial. Its 4years ffs a player would feel something let alone someone you claim you love and been hustling with. I bet her defence is up like a mofo against guys but she is delaying her healing process thereby hurting herself more and as for you, you can relate to her situation thats why you feel the need to defend her like a lioness or something y'all need to forgive them niggas and not let the bitterness linger. The world is too beautiful for one to waste time on shitty things.

sainty2k3:

hello op.(don't tell me you are not we all know with the way you are jumping all over replying and attacking people.)

pleas take Note.
what you had at your ex wedding was a show of shame born out of hurt and broken heart. when you recover from the hurt you will deeply regret ever going so low to that extent.

your ex was stupid for ever shedding a drop of tear. if that's part is not cooked up .
you sound very proud and arrogant, no man will ever marry you with that attitude.( reasons- you feel your beauty or figure is enough to make him miss you, you think you av more worth than the akwaibom babe. you think guys only want pretty face, so you left your heart unkept with arrogance and proud)

move on with life. make sure you learn as much as possible from this mistake or else you are not far from having another ex

sainty2k3:

hello op.(don't tell me you are not we all know with the way you are jumping all over replying and attacking people.)

pleas take Note.
what you had at your ex wedding was a show of shame born out of hurt and broken heart. when you recover from the hurt you will deeply regret ever going so low to that extent.

your ex was stupid for ever shedding a drop of tear. if that's part is not cooked up .
you sound very proud and arrogant, no man will ever marry you with that attitude.( reasons- you feel your beauty or figure is enough to make him miss you, you think you av more worth than the akwaibom babe. you think guys only want pretty face, so you left your heart unkept with arrogance and proud)

move on with life. make sure you learn as much as possible from this mistake or else you are not far from having another ex

Abimbex007:

Babe, you're weeeeeeekeed

Eliba:
you did that just to mock at him and make him feel bad. It's OK just know that what wasn't meant for you, is not for you no matter how u force it

DeMekus:

Mumu, are you not supposed to be a mother yet? Keep living in delusion, MENOPAUSE awaits you.

Acidosis:
You've seen a better man already, right?


Please let him be, don't crash his marriage. Whether the girl is a village girl from Akwa Ibom or not, the truth is that she had something you didn't have (its not your fault). The lady is ready to move to Mowe, while you're not ready for such.

Only a lady who has seen another man ALREADY will do all you did. Mind you, he has been dating that lady for years. No man, I repeat no man will meet a new girl and get married to her within a space of 2 months. It will never happen in Nigeria.

Your storyline is sweet, but it takes a culpable, fickle, gullible and predisposed mind to believe your story hook line and sinker. Something is missing in your post and I know it.

Alezy:
Who is this, what's up with ur deal with it replies up there??

so what the op did now is just very correct to u right??

fitinwell:
[size=18pt]Nigerian single ladies..I hope watching too much of Hollywood movies... Won't finish your lifes[/size]

akike:


My mother first

MarieSucre:


Are you a female? No. so how can you say for certain that females are not hardhearted. Here women are telling that they can be hardhearted you're still arguing blindly. Its just like arguing with a Chinese man whether Chinese are hardhearted or not? Are you Chinese? let the experts who have been female all their lives teach you. humble yourself and learn.

DeMekus:

Did rape my mother?