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Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by cutetopsey(f): 7:56pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
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Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by dammytosh: 7:57pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Get a job. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Nobody: 7:57pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Let me tell you something, Op and everybody. Masturbation is a bad habit I suppose, and like every bad habit, it feeds on mindset and willingness to indulge further. My story! Last year and upwards I was a big time agnostic. This means I strongly doubted God and his existence and that doubt gave me the needed freedom to explore life. I felt the need to live limitlessly since I'd conquered God and his caging dictates. I was happy and free of all "indoctrination". I womanized, by the way that was my major. I found it hard to sleep alone and I rarely did, and none of the females knew. I was living the dream. I had everything smooth, academics and all. I lived like this till December last year, an upwards of 4years. Stopped going to church and when I did go, I only sat there challenging the gospel in my head. However, as with all agnostics, I still had this feeling that God still is. I had always known that these were all bad habits and the pleasure derived therefrom was overrated but the issue was getting myself to stop. Nonetheless I made commitments to stop on several occasions but failed in all. The urge was enormous, especially when you are alone. To cut it short, on 31st December last year I made a pledge to myself and to God (The Creator of heaven and earth, in His existence and wherever He is) that I was going to stop. It felt good but I fell again on 1st/2nd night. Nobody will deliver you, nobody will pray for you. It is a decision that you and you alone will take. You dont need to open all your doors and windows and avoid being alone as many will advise. I felt very bad after this last experience and decided this time to end it. I didnt cut off anything, I didnt stop talking to girls, though I got it minimized and strictly in line. By the way, the first set of things I did were delete my porn collections, reorientate myself to the fact that breasts and behinds were nothing but parts of the body. Then begin to see these girls in the same way that you see your sisters. Sex is overrated. I've been there unfortunately, and there are times I just wish I never had sex for the first time You can stop any bad habit. Just make up your mind to stop, and with conviction and determination. Nobody is clean enough to advise you against your habits. #peace for now.. Let me also correct something I've read from many people here. Having a girlfriend who lets you have sex with her or getting a prostitute as backup will only increase your chances of indulging again (whether masturbation or outright sex)....you will always say stuff like "sin is sin, if I can have sex, why not I just masturbate? Or If I can masturbate, why don't I just have sex?" Plus having sex increases your chances of masturbating when she is not with you. That 5 seconds over hyped urge can always make the weak reach or for a phone or an option. The advice is STOP, not substitute. 48 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Nobody: 7:57pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
They say it causes back pain. 1 Like |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Nobody: 7:57pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
@ Op, you haven't conquered nada! You stopped masturbating just a month and half ago. Chill till 2017 before you share testimony....lol (by the way, you got your dates mixed up). 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by onetrack(m): 7:58pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
englishmart: Because it is a proper scientific term and not a slang word. Would you rather have a silly euphemism like 'self-service'? 8 Likes |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Nobody: 7:58pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
I AM STILL ONE OF THE MEMBERS OF MASTURBATOR ASSOCIATION OF NIGERIA AND I AINT PLANNING TO QUIT! ! It's better to masturbate than fuccck around like a rabid dog. If my hubby in future do shakara with him prick, I will stretch my legs around him a d masturbate to high heavens! !! I WILL LEAVE HIM IN SHOCK! IF HIM NO FIT FUCCCK ME, I FUCCCK MY SELF BY MY SELF, bath go sleep! !!!! One good thing about masturbating is you can fucck just ANY BODY! !! I may decide to do Idris Alba today, and tomorrow I may reluctantly choose TOM CRUISE But seriously, why porn dey disgusting immediately after masturbating?Devil get power sha!! 48 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by freezze(m): 7:59pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
adren: I agree with a couple of your points. But I'll advise whoever is battling with it to start by taking a hard decision on yourself to say NO I won't do this again. I was into it for over 9 years and by the grace of God it's a thing of the past now. Secondly you need to STOP PORN..... It's very important. Look away from or avoid anything that arouses you aside from your normal morning hardness. Do t let anything that'll make you hard come in co tact with your eyes. Then thirdly pray to God to give your the grace to stop it and love a holy life. If you are in the marriageable age bracket and you have the wherewithal please do. God bless and thanks. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by deebsman1(m): 7:59pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Lubbish |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by doctokwus: 7:59pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
adren:U wud continue till 2016.U haven't stopped then. 4 Likes |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by freecocoa(f): 8:00pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
People in relationships masturba.te too, you know? Mqsturbatio.n is perfectly healthy, just have to have control, as too much of almost everything is bad. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Nobody: 8:01pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
thaoriginator:You must be one of the team vaseline people, please just c.u.m on this thread, na beg i take beg you. |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by YonkijiSappo: 8:02pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Advising people to go and pay for Oloshos Are you out of your mind? Isn't Masturbating in the peace of your room better than going out there to sleep with disease banks? 12 Likes |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by englishmart(m): 8:02pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
onetrack:that has been the case for a long time 1 Like |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by MrTeCO(m): 8:02pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
To be Honest, i masturbate all the time. Every day infact. I started in my SS3 back in 2010 while i was still in the Seminary. Am trying hard to stop cos its making me feel like i don't need any gurl to satisfy my sexual urge. I don't even put much effort to toast a gurl. Once she starts doing shakara to give me the Koko i jeje leave her n do ma tin. I hope i get to stop this soon cos am not rili hapi abt masturbating all the time. Thanks 4 d post though. 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Ruman(m): 8:02pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Na God which kind of badluck is this, my first ever post on nairaland is on masturbation i hope all is well 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Harmored(m): 8:03pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
A word is anough for the wise and lemme add to it any useless thing u use to do it just make sure u don't. See it like disposing them am sure it will help LEG OUT |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by abere888: 8:03pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
The best way to stop masturbating is to accept Jesus Christ as ur Lord and saviour. Confess ur sins to him, ask him for forgiveness, wash urself with the blood of Jesus and ask for strength from Jesus to overcome d temptation to do so; isaiah 40 vs 29-31.quote author=adren post=42944865]i stormed on one guy's post asking to be saved from his guilt.. people never took him seriously.. someone went as far as suggesting he cut off his hand (just like wright's mom did on instagram).. NL can make you want to co.mit suicide without killing yourself.... lolssss to everyone, this might be funny and hilarious but it is a thorn in a masturbator's flesh.. i want to share this solutions because i used to be one prominent member of the "masturbators association of nigeria- MAN" myself ( i was about to be voted as the vice president before i resigned).. trust me, experience is the best teacher.. some would ask you to pray about it, some would even ask you to give your life to jesus .. bitter truth is, i once saw a painting of the mother of jesus- Mary, i found it sexy and i got a hard-on from it.. i had to masturbate at the next chance i got.. so.. this is about personal issues.. it is a disgrace because you don't wanna be caught by someone else (your prick go calm down instantly).. enough of the stories.. these are what i did to stop it.. it wasn't easy but i am a living proof.. 1. avoid been alone when you feel Hot: boys naturally have high libidos.. except one is impotent.. unless, it is bedtime, you dont wanna be caught left alone.. there is this spirit that pushes you to do it and you would have cvmmed long before u get back to your senses.. the best solution to this is looking for a public place with lots of crowd to interact with.. even the devil cannot give you enough liver needed to masturbate in public places.. go to a football viewing centre, a gaming centre, a bar etc.. 2. desist from porn: the last time i masturbated, (30-12-2016).. i was feeling lonely, idle and 'single'.. imagine a 23 year old without a gf!! so.. i switched to my favourite porn site to watch the only thing that can satisfy my urge and get me so high to think masturbation is the only thing that could get me out of my fantasy.. i masturbated as usual but it was not business as usual.. then i thought to myself 'o boy, is this how you would keep living till the end of your days?? is this how you will continue into 2016?? at 23, you don't want to get a life?? mind if i tell you my readers, that my masturbation act got so bad that i could masturbate in an uncompleted building.. i'd just bend down like i want to defecate but emmmm... so.. it was the last day i watched porn.. 3. drink lots of water and pee everytime: for guys, peeing has a way of suppressing erections.. i need not talk much about this but it is the best and the most proven strategy to help stop it only if you want to.. when you feel that the devil is about to make a workshop out of your hand.. stand up almost immediately and go pee.. force out the pee if it won't come.. it is a sure bet that your joyatick is going to take a chill pill (500mg).. 4. get a girlfriend or pay for a one-night stand/quickie (olosho): this is a long-term solution.. i know myself.. even if i tried to stop masturbating, and i do not find a long term solution to my problem by looking for a "LASWMA" to leave my 'trash' for, my case might end up been like that girl in the bible whose demon was cast out and the demon went to invite seven others.. masturbation has a way of torturing sex freaks.. fortunately for me, i went to a party the first week of 2016 and that was where i met this fine girl.. she is from ondo and they are only second to calabar girls on "baddest nigerian babes list." if such thing exists.. on a final note.. i have only written this to inspire those who are battling with masturbation issues.. i dont know if ladies can utilise my 'tested and trusted' methods but i can use ayilala to swear that this will work for you 100%.. if you are bold enough.. without feeling stigmatised, share how u conquered it. you would be helping a thousand others who are dying in silence.. and if you want to start stigmatising, think again because your relative is doing that shiiii right now.. and to etc.. this is plagiarism free and not "oyinbo man" recommended.. their ways are different from ours.. hope this helps!![/quote] 2 Likes |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Nobody: 8:03pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
adren:Don't be too sure you have stopped it yet 1 Like |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by iPrevail(m): 8:03pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Two sure ways of suppressing sexual urge and the desire to self-service. 1. Take a cold bathe. This is really effective. The cold water will help cool down the "heat". 2. Exercise. Whenever you feel the urge just engage yourself by exercising (15 press ups will do the trick). Exercise will secrete some hormones that will counter the urge. Trust me, this one is really effective. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by NovusHomo(m): 8:05pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
UrbanMystique: Or, you become a rapist. You see, masturbation has its own positive side. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by happney65: 8:06pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Anything you do that makes you relieve tension is good and not Bad..For those that masturbate,It's a good thing..As for Sex,me like it like Mad..Cos its gives me happiness and Joy..Whatever rocks anybody's boat.. |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by RichYoungNigger(m): 8:06pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
MrTeCO: Chidubem |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by stevenson007: 8:07pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
what is masturbation please |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by xclusiveguy4(m): 8:08pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Gf helps |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by FTBOY: 8:08pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
there's only one solution i know and it is... get a girlfriend who can give you a mind-blowing sex. a girlfriend who can suck your dick and go down with you any style you want....you'd find your hands doing more useful things than masturbating 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by UrbanMystique: 8:09pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
NovusHomo:in fact I encourage people to masturbate. The positive far out weighs the negative. |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Nobody: 8:09pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Nche95: So u did not bookmark the website¿ 1 Like |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by ilyas26(m): 8:09pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
hungryboy:, guy you are so funny. Even your signature is something else 1 Like |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by Bluezy13(m): 8:09pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Hmmmm... I'm yet to find a cure. Though I believe determination and getting your thoughts occupied with other things such as reading or playing games or meditating constantly on God's principles helps. And more also, developing the mentality that God tends to withdraw favour and Blessings from you each time you masturbate will constantly make you scared. Also taking into consideration its adverse effects...particularly hair-loss and unnecessary headache, not counting emotional guilt that follows, When you awaken your conscience and learn to be scared of the above, that's the beginning of you actualizing self confidence and serene...peaceful aura mentally seasoned with happiness. ...as I'm currently experiencing. I pray God helps me and "us" all the strength to avoid circumstances that will lure us to masturbation. 10 Likes |
Re: How To Permanently Stop Masturbation (lessons From An Ex-chronic Masturbator) by happney65: 8:09pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
freecocoa: Abi jare..Dont mind those hypocrites..I once caught a girl which I knew her boyfriend masturbating and I helped her by giving it.to her like its hot..Whatever makes you happy,go ahead.. 1 Like |
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