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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by godofwar666(m): 1:19pm On Feb 10, 2016
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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by josiah74(m): 4:41pm On Feb 10, 2016
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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Youngmila(m): 8:46pm On Feb 10, 2016
bros Teddy plz I need ur advice.....
I met dis beautiful babe last yr December, I collected her number dat day. bin callin frequently but she neva cal for one day...I take her out last 2week we talk and laugh wit som touchin she was so comfortable wit me and I told her last week dat i want to tel her somtin she said no problem dat we wil see on sunday which is valentines day....
plz advice me on wat to discuss cos I want to tel her hw I feel abt her....
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by petux(m): 9:50pm On Feb 10, 2016
[quote author=xxxtedyxxx post=20742850][/quote]

bro, i have diz qirl i really love nd we attend d same church buh d girl holy diee, she doesnt tlk to boiz........hw can i. tlk to ha dat she will consida me n wont feel bad aqainst me
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Kunlexic(m): 12:29am On Feb 11, 2016
Am a ghost reader on this thread...this thread is kinda interestin

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Arlexxx: 1:48pm On Feb 11, 2016
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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 3:39pm On Feb 12, 2016
Arlexxx:
Although am a learner buh atleast I still hav some little experience...baba don't do d mistake of pouring ur mind out to a girl, ur story wud be like a film that is watched from the back...As per what to discuss wt her on sunday Bros Teddy unto u...Pls don't ignore his post just as u ignored mine.
lols bro, good advice there. I didn't ignore your post oh. I try as much as possible to reply all.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 3:46pm On Feb 12, 2016
petux:


bro, i have diz qirl i really love nd we attend d same church buh d girl holy diee, she doesnt tlk to boiz........hw can i. tlk to ha dat she will consida me n wont feel bad aqainst me
u really love and she doesn't talk to boiz?? Wow, that's serious. Don't love a girl u know nothing about. The only way to talk to her is to approach her. Go with a fun carefree attitude. Don't be focused on the outcome, focus on d process of chatting her up and breaking her resistance. You will need some humour to achieve that. Gauge before u approach. U don't wana approach when she is tyt or busy. A simple.


P.S a simple situational opener should get u started. Or " hi, av seen u around, but we avent met...cos ur never smiling and always boning your face like a robot..anyways...am blah blah, what's ur name".. Say it in a homorous way. That's your passport.

When she eventually smiles ....den say " oh, so ur not a robot afterall...how ws d service(or any other blah blah situational stuff u can add)"

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 8:44am On Feb 13, 2016
There is a girl in my school, she and i have been friends but i liked her and i asked her out. She told me its not possible because she loves me as friend. Though since then i stopped calling her because i dont want to look desperate but she sometime calls me. Please should i bring up the topic before her again or i should free her and continue been friend with her??
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Aspireahead(m): 9:56am On Feb 13, 2016
Junathy1:
There is a girl in my school, she and i have been friends but i liked her and i asked her out. She told me its not possible because she loves me as friend. Though since then i stopped calling her because i dont want to look desperate but she sometime calls me. Please should i bring up the topic before her again or i should free her and continue been friend with her??

Welcome to the friendzone. how may we be of service?

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 9:39am On Feb 14, 2016
Junathy1:
There is a girl in my school, she and i have been friends but i liked her and i asked her out. She told me its not possible because she loves me as friend. Though since then i stopped calling her because i dont want to look desperate but she sometime calls me. Please should i bring up the topic before her again or i should free her and continue been friend with her??

Bro, you want to continue being friends with her?
That's not too big of a deal. But what might be a big deal, is your MINDSET.

You see, Junathy, being friends with a girl is not a problem, at least you can't start pumping, pumping, pumping every girl you meet. Some you might sleep with them immediately, some others, tomorrow, other ones, maybe next month, some might even be a year.

A Self-made Billionaire, Brian Tracy once said and I quote,
“There is nothing constant in his world, but the only constant thing in this world is YOU and CHANGE.”

But like I said earlier, you being friends with a girl is not a big deal, at least you're good looking as a guy, the only problem there is the mindset that goes with it.

Is your mindset, "Oh, let me be friends with her, do things for her, be nice to her, take her on dates, cinemas and movies, so that she'll enjoy herself and consider liking and loving me back".

If that is your frame, which I'm having a feeling it is, you're losing your own game to yourself already. And that frame is what we call the LBF...
The Little Bïtch Frame. We don't make use of the little bïtch frame on Team Diamond.

When guys on Team Diamond meet a hot girl now, we're not really impressed. Because there are a lot of hot girls. Big Fvcking Deal.

Don't vibe with the little bïtch frame, cos that will land you PERMANENTLY in the deadly Friendzone. Because right now she has Friendzoned you, but you're not inside fully.

I'm sure in your mind right now, you'd be asking, Djboosting, what do I do?

This is it...
From now on, you'll start DOING THE OPPOSITE of what you've been doing before.

Maybe you've been laughing around her alot, you will tone the laughter down.

Maybe you've been the recharge card donator, no more donation anymore.

Maybe you don't touch her before, start touching her now, you have nothing to lose.

Maybe you've been acting nice around her, stop acting nice. Start flirting with her.
If she's putting on a yellow color, tell her “she doesn't look good in yellow, that had it been she put on a pink color, you'd have given her a kiss because she looked more cute in pink color”.

If you are her Samson or bodyguard, stop it, be her Peter... Deny her of things you've been doing before.

If she ask why you don't call her again, tell her you're busy making some new friends, that's why you don't have much time.

Start doing the opposite of what you've been doing before. Stop the “I'm a nice guy” bullshit.
It drives girls away.

Girls are like strings, push them away, they'll come back, pull them closer they'll go away..

Don't fall into the Friendzone, be friends with her if you want, but start doing the opposite.
She wants fun and sex... But she doesn't want to open up.
Flirt with her, and if the chance for you to have a fvckey-fvckey with her is there, go for it.
After sex, she'll be the one proposing to you.

That should be your priority, not some fake love-me love-you relationship proposal.

I'm sure you've been following this post, read from page 73 till recent.... There has been a lot and much of badass awesome advice from Xxxtedyxxxx and gurus.. So read that.

Try to visit www.joshuniverse.com
to read more and subscribe.

I love you Junathy, but I love me too.

I'm Out....
Peace.
JD.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by fortune98(m): 11:38pm On Feb 15, 2016
pls help me...she says am too dull and boring and not romantic... DT if nt fr d love she has fr me she would av gone her wag
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 7:43pm On Feb 16, 2016
fortune98:
pls help me...she says am too dull and boring and not romantic... DT if nt fr d love she has fr me she would av gone her wag
eya. Then u need to improve ur game bro, read from pages 1 -9
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nastydroid(m): 1:00am On Feb 18, 2016
*chewing popcorn*
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by authecosta911(m): 4:53pm On Feb 19, 2016
@djboosting, bro i need ur straffing line and also how do u create rapport wit a gal dat won't look lyk an interview to her, am currently using oga Tedy rapport tip (very effective) but am open to learn more...Thanks.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Eleniyan15: 11:48pm On Feb 19, 2016
Teddy,djboosting and co

#teamDiamond


omo I never get tym continue where I stop since we don resume oooo

I bin get one issue original olohun

e get one shima oooo wey I like, my rapport with her it cool...but she's dis shy tym she has changed though anytime we are together she doesn't talk much...(alwz smiling, hit me on my chest and Co sha) I don reason am she talk say ehn she aint ready for any shi #shesSingle

the issue b say she knw person wey I dey date but em no dey rapo...just HI things
now dunno mak I giv am space #NEGging but she noticed it and she no like am

But dis girl get gre oooo omo o.t wan finish for my hand oooi

Remember say o.t no dey full basket







wetin I fit do?? help ooo
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 3:52pm On Feb 21, 2016
Back

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Aspireahead(m): 7:10pm On Feb 21, 2016
xxxtedyxxx:
Back
can a broke guy get a babe? Here in Nigeria i mean.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by diggy4real: 9:26am On Feb 22, 2016
How can I build a rapport with a chick I just met thru calling ....she said her phone is bad now....so doesn't chat....I am not good at calling ....how can I get her invested..... Within a WK so I can bleep asap.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 6:43pm On Feb 22, 2016
diggy4real:
How can I build a rapport with a chick I just met thru calling ....she said her phone is bad now....so doesn't chat....I am not good at calling ....how can I get her invested..... Within a WK so I can bleep asap.
keep the bleeping aside, your focus should be on how to make her susceptible to bleeping. Follow the usual. Know d stage ur in with her first...1 2 or 3? Small talk and acting like a bf already while talking/behaving like you have known her for months will do just fine. U need need to do the calling since she doesn't chat dat much.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 6:47pm On Feb 22, 2016
Aspireahead:
can a broke guy get a babe? Here in Nigeria i mean.
yes sure. I started that way.

However, the state of being broke shouldn't show in the guy's appearance I.e it shouldn't give him off. The rule is. U don't av to be good loooking, just be looooking gooood. Package ur sef, proper hygeine, clean haircut, dress sense, grooming etc. The rest should fall in place. All in all, always have a goal. A goal that will get you a better life and destroy the status of being broke. For this kind of game to work..u need to be swift with words. U must learn how to ply the route of female emotions with ease.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by diggy4real: 11:11am On Feb 24, 2016
xxxtedyxxx:
keep the bleeping aside, your focus should be on how to make her susceptible to bleeping. Follow the usual. Know d stage ur in with her first...1 2 or 3? Small talk and acting like a bf already while talking/behaving like you have known her for months will do just fine. U need need to do the calling since she doesn't chat dat much.

Do call her shall...buh she atimes hang up n ask me to call her back.....buh if she picks.....d convo doznt get long......how often shud I even call her?....so it won't look like I call too much...I text a times in d morning..how often shud I do DT......b4 talking of seeing her again?....her phone is bad.....she doznt chat cos her phone is bad......thanks
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 8:59am On Feb 26, 2016
Oga Tedy $ Djboostinq....

Abeq how I feel knack babes without telling her to be in relationship in first instance? I need the game, many babes around but it's not possible to ask of them out before knacking..
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 1:02am On Feb 28, 2016
Pharmumar:
Help ooooo...Am 22 but have neva had a gf...I believe no girl will fall for me because of my luks. Am not bad nor very good looking but I always have dat believe.

All I see here is an handsome badass running back into a fake shell because of self limiting beliefs..

Your solution is this....

http://joshuniverse.com/2016/02/18/how-do-you-see-yourself/
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by authecosta911(m): 1:39pm On Mar 01, 2016
authecosta911:
@djboosting, bro i need ur straffing line and also how do u create rapport wit a gal dat won't look lyk an interview to her, am currently using oga Tedy rapport tip (very effective) but am open to learn more...Thanks.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Djboosting: 5:02am On Mar 02, 2016
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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by martoz(m): 9:13pm On Mar 02, 2016
kudos to d badass n d hause...HV bin using some tips here,about acting as a bf potential,HV been usn it for a particular girl NW,I gv ha nickname,calling ha babe and xo on,buh e be lyk say she no vibe wit it..buh am Tinkin maybe am it showing too much of d bf potential.... and Na here I learnt say giving too much concentration z not d rules...a beg Hw can I step tinz up nw....moreova we meeting wen we finish our exam...how can I can I step am on d date....possess help ooooo
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by diggy4real: 10:22pm On Mar 02, 2016
diggy4real:


Do call her shall...buh she atimes hang up n ask me to call her back.....buh if she picks.....d convo doznt get long......how often shud I even call her?....so it won't look like I call too much...I text a times in d morning..how often shud I do DT......b4 talking of seeing her again?....her phone is bad.....she doznt chat cos her phone is bad......thanks


Being calling and rapporing with this babe for almost a WK now.....we are getting on well buh she is yet to call me......wen she sees my missed calls .....she just tell me that she saw my missed calls earlier...shud I still continue d rapport tin on calls? How can I make her invested now?.....so I can ask her about our meeting? She is in Benin....while am in warri.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by diggy4real: 11:24am On Mar 04, 2016
Nobody to reply?
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by diggy4real: 11:26am On Mar 04, 2016
diggy4real:



Being calling and rapporing with this babe for almost a WK now.....we are getting on well buh she is yet to call me......wen she sees my missed calls .....she just tell me that she saw my missed calls earlier...shud I still continue d rapport tin on calls? How can I make her invested now?.....so I can ask her about our meeting? She is in Benin....while am in warri.

Nobody to reply?
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by lippincott(m): 2:47am On Mar 06, 2016
Theres this girl I've been chatting with and calling for 4 months now. whenever I try to hint her that I like her on chat she just says lol or acts like she didn't see the message while continuing the chat like nothing happened.... I like her but I don't know what to do anymore.

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