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HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by cr80vity(m): 8:59am On Feb 16, 2016 |
pls guys help me...I met ds gal not quite long...we started as friends and by nd by we became close...she text me last night dat she tinks she is in love and dat she knows I am too... nw ds s d big deal: she s a heart broken gal...her ex really broke her heart nd for d past 4 months she as bin leavin in dat pain...in fact wen she told me d whole story abt d heartbreak, she was sayin it out of pain...her friends who I eventually knew durin ds friendship period told me she started bcomin lively recently dat m I datin her?... I v my gal friend nd we r in love bt rite nw, I dnt no hw to deal wt ds love my friend as for me...I dnt want to hurt her cux m in a relationship nd I no hw hurt she ad bin wt her previous ex...I v feelings for her bt m nt a player type of a guy...I dnt v heart to double date...Pls wat shld I do ...sorry for d long story.. |
Re: HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by Nobody: 9:04am On Feb 16, 2016 |
Why will you get close to a girl you don't have feelings? It's simple, if you loved your girl like you claim, all the lights you show that girl will not show. My verdict is, you like her so leave your girlfriend if not you would not have gotten close. Next post! 1 Like |
Re: HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by cr80vity(m): 9:07am On Feb 16, 2016 |
pls its realy hookin my neck nd I dnt want my gal to know abt it |
Re: HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by Kayoski(m): 9:07am On Feb 16, 2016 |
What should u do? since the days of john the baptise that has been the question on everyone's lips... Answer : sell all u av and give it to the poor @ Topic, seriously u will eventually break her heart whether u tell her now or later.. just tell her before the garri go swell pass the water.. Abi u considering double- dating ? don't try it |
Re: HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by cr80vity(m): 9:08am On Feb 16, 2016 |
Secretario: we all v close friends nw...its nt like I program it to turn into love |
Re: HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by Cholls(m): 9:11am On Feb 16, 2016 |
my brother calm down..............sit her down and explain to her just the way you did here..........Trust me, she will be disappointed but believe me she will get over it. |
Re: HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by cr80vity(m): 9:11am On Feb 16, 2016 |
Kayoski:I dnt no hw to doubel date cux I dnt no hw to hurt gals...I dnt no hw to tel my gal...cux I dnt no hw she wil take it...hw wil I even say it gan sef |
Re: HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by Nobody: 9:11am On Feb 16, 2016 |
Why would You lead her on When You Obviously have a girlfriend! ![]() anyways... You claim You love Your girlfriend. good! Tell her You're dating..She'll Move on. it's Not Rocket science! It might sting a little...Buh she'd definitely move on. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by Nobody: 9:12am On Feb 16, 2016 |
cr80vity: Brother that is how it happens. If you want a girl, get close to her especially when she is weak and heartbroken. You will get more than you bargained for. If you don't want, it is better you speak out now! |
Re: HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by cr80vity(m): 9:17am On Feb 16, 2016 |
for those sayin I shld tel my gal...hw wil I even start d story...plus both of us just settled a misunderstanding base on me goin for nysc service...I told her if God says she s d one no p bt if God dispose dat I cant risk disobeying him..na hw d tin turn into rough o...she tinks nysc gal wil carry me away |
Re: HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by Kayoski(m): 9:19am On Feb 16, 2016 |
cr80vity:mr I see no reason y u shd dump ur gf for the new girl.. There is a high possibility that the girl fell for u cos of the tender care u showed to her during her post break-up period ...she was vulnerable at that point she could fall for anyone even a "Hitler " as long as he could show care.. u've known this girl just over few months and u are considering dumping ur gf for her " cos if u aint considering u won't av asked us". Do u even love ur Gf at all? |
Re: HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by ChappyChase: 9:21am On Feb 16, 2016 |
cr80vity:My brother in the voice of "Frank in who wants to be a millionaire" you have four options! *A) you hook up with her and make her I side cheek(but you said you can't double date) *b) you dumb your babe and start dating her(which you will be doing obviously out of lust and pity!) *c) or you tell her you've got a babe and you're in love with your babe and not willing to dumb her! *d) if you do "c" and she refused to back down, fleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!! |
Re: HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by Nobody: 9:25am On Feb 16, 2016 |
Simple put ur self in ur gf's shoes den put ur gf in ur shoes ow does it fit? One word u dont love ur gf period! |
Re: HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by cr80vity(m): 9:27am On Feb 16, 2016 |
Estharfabian: I let her know I v a gf bfor she sent me d text dat she's in love... |
Re: HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by Nobody: 9:30am On Feb 16, 2016 |
cr80vity: Stoo decivin ursef u giving her a second thought means u dont love ur gf do u kno wat is love atall? |
Re: HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by Nobody: 9:32am On Feb 16, 2016 |
cr80vity:Its happening already she predicted it and its slowly happening so i guess ur gf wasnt wrong after all |
Re: HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by chigoizie7(m): 9:32am On Feb 16, 2016 |
cr80vity: Dont date her, u don't love her, u are just having "pity" on her situation, that is not Love. Please focus on your main babe, and forget this very babe, |
Re: HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by gabinogem(m): 9:47am On Feb 16, 2016 |
Niggaz be putting themselves in complicated situation since adam... Put urself in ur gf shoes & do the right thing. It takes guts to do the right thing, except u are a weakling. |
Re: HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by cruzita(f): 9:53am On Feb 16, 2016 |
Explain it to her in a good way and I'm sure she will understand |
Re: HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by robosky02(m): 10:15am On Feb 16, 2016 |
cr80vity: the frank truth is that she is NOT in love with you when a lady is heart broken often time she wants to fill in the vacum the ex left behind without REALLY checking if this is want she wants but in the long run if her wound have been healed, then youll know your place for now just encourage her without having letting emotion get in between cos if you do she will hate you for life |
Re: HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by kowalsky: 12:39pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
if this is true. you're gonna cheat on your main chick soon enough... then she'd prolly discover. the end game here is that you'd lose both girls.. you can stop this by telling your main about the side and telling the side about yourmain. but but... you could as well scratch that and go about banging 'em both. depends on how much you love your gf. then again love is overrated so I'd suggest you bang 'em both.. thank you |
Re: HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by cr80vity(m): 1:57pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
is it a must my gf knows....I wil talk to my frnd nd slowly kill our closeness...instead of tellin my gf |
Re: HELP: A Lady Is In Love With Me But I'm In A Relationship by beautylaurel(f): 2:55pm On Feb 16, 2016 |
r u sure wt u feel for d new gal is lv or pity... |
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