pls guys help me...I met ds gal not quite long...we started as friends and by nd by we became close...she text me last night dat she tinks she is in love and dat she knows I am too...
nw ds s d big deal: she s a heart broken gal...her ex really broke her heart nd for d past 4 months she as bin leavin in dat pain...in fact wen she told me d whole story abt d heartbreak, she was sayin it out of pain...her friends who I eventually knew durin ds friendship period told me she started bcomin lively recently dat m I datin her?...
I v my gal friend nd we r in love bt rite nw, I dnt no hw to deal wt ds love my friend as for me...I dnt want to hurt her cux m in a relationship nd I no hw hurt she ad bin wt her previous ex...I v feelings for her bt m nt a player type of a guy...I dnt v heart to double date...Pls wat shld I do

...sorry for d long story..

Why will you get close to a girl you don't have feelings?

It's simple, if you loved your girl like you claim, all the lights you show that girl will not show.

My verdict is, you like her so leave your girlfriend if not you would not have gotten close.

Next post!

pls its realy hookin my neck nd I dnt want my gal to know abt it

What should u do?

since the days of john the baptise that has been the question on everyone's lips...

Answer : sell all u av and give it to the poor



@ Topic, seriously u will eventually break her heart whether u tell her now or later.. just tell her before the garri go swell pass the water..


Abi u considering double- dating ? don't try it

Secretario:
Why will you get close to a girl you don't have feelings?

It's simple, if you loved your girl like you claim, all the lights you show that girl will not show.

My verdict is, you like her so leave your girlfriend if not you would not have gotten close.

Next post!

we all v close friends nw...its nt like I program it to turn into love

my brother calm down..............sit her down and explain to her just the way you did here..........Trust me, she will be disappointed but believe me she will get over it.

Kayoski:
What should u do?

since the days of john the baptise that has been the question on everyone's lips...

Answer : sell all u av and give it to the poor



@ Topic, seriously u will eventually break her heart whether u tell her now or later.. just tell her before the garri go swell pass the water..


Abi u considering double- dating ? don't try it

I dnt no hw to doubel date cux I dnt no hw to hurt gals...I dnt no hw to tel my gal...cux I dnt no hw she wil take it...hw wil I even say it gan sef

cr80vity:


we all v close friends nw...its nt like I program it to turn into love

Brother that is how it happens.

If you want a girl, get close to her especially when she is weak and heartbroken.

You will get more than you bargained for.

If you don't want, it is better you speak out now!

for those sayin I shld tel my gal...hw wil I even start d story...plus both of us just settled a misunderstanding base on me goin for nysc service...I told her if God says she s d one no p bt if God dispose dat I cant risk disobeying him..na hw d tin turn into rough o...she tinks nysc gal wil carry me away

cr80vity:

I dnt no hw to doubel date cux I dnt no hw to hurt gals...I dnt no hw to tel my gal...cux I dnt no hw she wil take it...hw wil I even say it gan sef

mr I see no reason y u shd dump ur gf for the new girl.. There is a high possibility that the girl fell for u cos of the tender care u showed to her during her post break-up period ...she was vulnerable at that point she could fall for anyone even a "Hitler " as long as he could show care..

u've known this girl just over few months and u are considering dumping ur gf for her " cos if u aint considering u won't av asked us".

Do u even love ur Gf at all?

cr80vity:
pls its realy hookin my neck nd I dnt want my gal to know abt it

My brother in the voice of "Frank in who wants to be a millionaire" you have four options!
*A) you hook up with her and make her I side cheek(but you said you can't double date)
*b) you dumb your babe and start dating her(which you will be doing obviously out of lust and pity!)
*c) or you tell her you've got a babe and you're in love with your babe and not willing to dumb her!
*d) if you do "c" and she refused to back down, fleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!

Simple put ur self in ur gf's shoes den put ur gf in ur shoes ow does it fit?

One word u dont love ur gf period!

Estharfabian:
Why would You lead her on When You Obviously have a girlfriend!?


anyways... You claim You love Your girlfriend. good!
Tell her You're dating..She'll Move on.


it's Not Rocket science!
It might sting a little...Buh she'd definitely move on.

I let her know I v a gf bfor she sent me d text dat she's in love...

cr80vity:


I let her know I v a gf bfor she sent me d text dat she's in love...

Stoo decivin ursef u giving her a second thought means u dont love ur gf do u kno wat is love atall?

cr80vity:
for those sayin I shld tel my gal...hw wil I even start d story...plus both of us just settled a misunderstanding base on me goin for nysc service...I told her if God says she s d one no p bt if God dispose dat I cant risk disobeying him..na hw d tin turn into rough o...she tinks nysc gal wil carry me away

Its happening already she predicted it and its slowly happening so i guess ur gf wasnt wrong after all

cr80vity:
pls guys help me...I met ds gal not quite long...we started as friends and by nd by we became close...she text me last night dat she tinks she is in love and dat she knows I am too...
nw ds s d big deal: she s a heart broken gal...her ex really broke her heart nd for d past 4 months she as bin leavin in dat pain...in fact wen she told me d whole story abt d heartbreak, she was sayin it out of pain...her friends who I eventually knew durin ds friendship period told me she started bcomin lively recently dat m I datin her?...
I v my gal friend nd we r in love bt rite nw, I dnt no hw to deal wt ds love my friend as for me...I dnt want to hurt her cux m in a relationship nd I no hw hurt she ad bin wt her previous ex...I v feelings for her bt m nt a player type of a guy...I dnt v heart to double date...Pls wat shld I do

...sorry for d long story..

Dont date her, u don't love her, u are just having "pity" on her situation, that is not Love.

Please focus on your main babe, and forget this very babe,

Niggaz be putting themselves in complicated situation since adam...

Put urself in ur gf shoes & do the right thing. It takes guts to do the right thing, except u are a weakling.

Explain it to her in a good way and I'm sure she will understand

cr80vity:
pls guys help me...I met ds gal not quite long...we started as friends and by nd by we became close...she text me last night dat she tinks she is in love and dat she knows I am too...
nw ds s d big deal: she s a heart broken gal...her ex really broke her heart nd for d past 4 months she as bin leavin in dat pain...in fact wen she told me d whole story abt d heartbreak, she was sayin it out of pain...her friends who I eventually knew durin ds friendship period told me she started bcomin lively recently dat m I datin her?...
I v my gal friend nd we r in love bt rite nw, I dnt no hw to deal wt ds love my friend as for me...I dnt want to hurt her cux m in a relationship nd I no hw hurt she ad bin wt her previous ex...I v feelings for her bt m nt a player type of a guy...I dnt v heart to double date...Pls wat shld I do

...sorry for d long story..

the frank truth is that she is NOT in love with you
when a lady is heart broken often time she wants to fill in the vacum the ex left behind
without REALLY checking if this is want she wants

but in the long run if her wound have been healed, then youll know your place

for now just encourage her without having letting emotion get in between cos if you do

she will hate you for life

if this is true.

you're gonna cheat on your main chick soon enough... then she'd prolly discover.

the end game here is that you'd lose both girls..

you can stop this by telling your main about the side and telling the side about yourmain.

but but... you could as well scratch that and go about banging 'em both. depends on how much you love your gf. then again love is overrated so I'd suggest you bang 'em both.. thank you

is it a must my gf knows....I wil talk to my frnd nd slowly kill our closeness...instead of tellin my gf

r u sure wt u feel for d new gal is lv or pity...