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Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by 4X4: 5:25pm On Feb 16, 2016
Zceesneh:
Nigerian Girl Gets Blasted For Saying, At 25, No Guy Should Be Staying In Their Parents’ House
The guy was pained…Lol. Do you support the girl’s opinion? Read below;
She's probably a LovePeddler that sucks dicks and anuses
Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by seangy4konji: 5:25pm On Feb 16, 2016
Majority of Nigerian girls and ladies are generally foolish.

They usually think from their anus.

I have nothing more to say to her.

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Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by Nobody: 5:25pm On Feb 16, 2016
I no blame u, cos most gals does not tink at all...FOOL
Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by Sultanchidi(m): 5:25pm On Feb 16, 2016
cruzita:
I think she is right, some guys even find it hard to stay in their parents house even at the age of 21.they start looking for where to stay for more freedom because they can't get it in their parents house.
u think she is right,wat abt guys dat got admission in higher institution at around age 20 and u expect him 2 b independent at 25 with d current state of our nation.

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Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by doomsdayII(m): 5:26pm On Feb 16, 2016
Strahovski1:
She is right.

23 is even late undecided

That guy who commented is broke, jobless and pained
If I interview you by asking why you left your parents house, how convenient will it be for you to say "because I'm 25 years old."
Your reply is lame Bro

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Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by emijo(m): 5:26pm On Feb 16, 2016
She is seriously seeking for attention.
D gal bu onye iberibe.
Mtchew

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Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by Alexk2(m): 5:27pm On Feb 16, 2016
Girls and their brain sha... I wonder why some people will just think everything must be as it is in their family without considering what others are Facing...no wonder they say "it is not real until it is personal"
Even the so called ajebos/wealthy are feeling the heat of unemployment in the country. Do you expect a guy that can't afford recharging his phone to feed himself let alone paying the rent?...
Even if the guy is working and his only reason for leaving his parent's house is for freedom sake, them he isn't mature/ready for the challenges that'll follow.

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Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by Nobody: 5:27pm On Feb 16, 2016
MrsPhyno:

Lol how very patronizing of you. I mean to each their own, but like I said it's not real about forming big boy or whatever. To me, it's about doing the right thing at the right time and I just fundamentally disagree with the idea of anyone who's over 30 living with their parents. Unless for some particular unique reasons. Thank goodness your friend eventually got married, he was pushing the "limit" o IMO
He is a wise man. I don't see a reason why I should move out when my parents own a home. When I can comfortably stay with them and my kids till I save to get mine. Well it depends on the location. Like your opinion are location based(nigeria). But in US here, we don't have a problem with it. If you do then you might as well start giving them money for apt
Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by Nobody: 5:30pm On Feb 16, 2016
What if the guy is upgrading his education and needs to save money for tuition fees?

What if one of his parents needs support due to old age?

What if the guy is saving money to launch a business?


And then, what gives the girl the right to tell people how to live their lives?

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Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by AfroKnight: 5:30pm On Feb 16, 2016
EnigmaticEnigma:


I disagree with you here bae, unless you just wanna keep up with the joneses undecided

I had a friend that was 33 and lived with his parents at that time.

he used to earn about $3,500 every two weeks after tax and would save a whole paycheck at once and use the other one to help out in the house.

now, he is married, drives a G37s and paid for his house cash, from all the savings.

yes, u may not have your privacy, but you'd have money in the bank and lots of it

unless of course the guy just wants to move out so he can be fvcking at will cheesy

Gbam! I won't advice any father to chase his son out. Instead he should stay to be able to save money since he won't be paying rent and other bills. When it's time, he'd get a decent place (or even build a house), get married and move.

Accommodation gulps a lot in this Lagos. We know how much is left after paying rent every year. Which time boys go build house?

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Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by Alexk2(m): 5:30pm On Feb 16, 2016
=Adanna86Some guys are lucky mehn, my mother sent me and my siblings out, of the family house at 18 lol.

... And you think she's right?
Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by Nobody: 5:31pm On Feb 16, 2016
Sitting in your own comfortable zone without having a clue of what it's like on the other side, To some LIFE is an 'ALREADY MADE' Lemonade, To others life throws LEMONS et them, so they strive to make LEMONADE.

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Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by suwalee(f): 5:34pm On Feb 16, 2016
EnigmaticEnigma:


I disagree with you here bae, unless you just wanna keep up with the joneses undecided

I had a friend that was 33 and lived with his parents at that time.

he used to earn about $3,500 every two weeks after tax and would save a whole paycheck at once and use the other one to help out in the house.

now, he is married, drives a G37s and paid for his house cash, from all the savings.

yes, u may not have your privacy, but you'd have money in the bank and lots of it

unless of course the guy just wants to move out so he can be fvcking at will cheesy
my dear u said it all tnk U

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Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by XBLadez: 5:34pm On Feb 16, 2016
I started living on my own since I was 19. I'm not a Yoruba boy!

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Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by executioner27: 5:35pm On Feb 16, 2016
ChappyChase:

You took the word right out of my mouth bro..
But there are some exceptions, like as a guy at 25 you should minimise the way you depend on your parent, we know country bad but at least you should be seeing making attempt. To me its wrong for a guy at 20 to still depend on his parent for pocket money to buy little things like recharge card, cloths, phones and some other little little things. try and minimise your dependency level to only shelter, food(which might not be always) and school fees if your are not yet through with school...
With these above points you're sure to avoid embarrassment!

You and umehj are correct. Its the system. Abroad and here have different motivating factors. Our parents sef...r they ready to let go? For one to go hustle, he will get his hands into illicit things. If still in school or yet to go in...the hustling fit change am for you. no more school. If you are in school, strive to liv off-camp and make there your home. That way you have indirectly left your parents home. i did that when i was in school. i only went home during Xmas. Easter i form we have exams immediately, so no need to come home. holidays or strike period, i form another thing. in fact by the time they see u r cutting them off,they wont bother u as such esp if u r not always going to ask for money. though not asking could make them wonder how u survive. if you school in d same town they liv in...try and get an accommodation near the school.bottom line...its true what she said but its not that easy. our system does not support it. its not that the guys r lazy nor broke. its just the system.

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Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by mimibright(m): 5:36pm On Feb 16, 2016
I left home At 22
Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by Trapnews: 5:36pm On Feb 16, 2016
MrsPhyno:

Lol how very patronizing of you. I mean to each their own, but like I said it's not real about forming big boy or whatever. To me, it's about doing the right thing at the right time and I just fundamentally disagree with the idea of anyone who's over 30 living with their parents. Unless for some particular unique reasons. Thank goodness your friend eventually got married, he was pushing the "limit" o IMO
Madam abeg go attend to your pikin.... I wonder how else you want the guy to explain to you undecided

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Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by eedel(m): 5:36pm On Feb 16, 2016
Am almost 25 nd i dnt evn see myself nt eating my mum's food nd sleeping under my dad's roof at dat age nd evn beyond. Nd wat does she evn knw sef, she's jst a hole afterall. It's easier for a lady to become olosho at 20 nd leave in her own apartment dan a guy to av his at 27 undecided undecided

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Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by adsami1: 5:38pm On Feb 16, 2016
Zceesneh:
Nigerian Girl Gets Blasted For Saying, At 25, No Guy Should Be Staying In Their Parents’ House
The guy was pained…Lol. Do you support the girl’s opinion? Read below;

I honestly tink the best response wud hv bn no response at all 2ds her 'idea'.......or let her tell us at wot age shud a girl, responsibo nd irresponsibo one(as som guys also irresponsibo, jus2balans the talk), leave her fadas house.........put in mor points cos rite now ur talk is plainly baseless and almost clueless..........no be insult bt gv ur reasons. Den dats wen pple shud now respond. Well dem don answer u sha. Happy
Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by ebukav(m): 5:38pm On Feb 16, 2016
ChappyChase:

You took the word right out of my mouth bro..
But there are some exceptions, like as a guy at 25 you should minimise the way you depend on your parent, we know country bad but at least you should be seeing making attempt. To me its wrong for a guy at 20 to still depend on his parent for pocket money to buy little things like recharge card, cloths, phones and some other little little things. try and minimise your dependency level to only shelter, food(which might not be always) and school fees if your are not yet through with school...
With these above points you're sure to avoid embarrassment!


Baba how do a student avoid nt to depend on his parent 4 pocket money.
Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by nwakibie3(m): 5:39pm On Feb 16, 2016
And she also forgot that at same 25 no girl should be in her parents house too...

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Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by tosyne2much(m): 5:40pm On Feb 16, 2016
I don't know if I'm the only one that thinks this is senseless


All fingers are not equal.. It's not a curse but every guy is not destined to be financially stable at age 25
Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by fineyemi(m): 5:41pm On Feb 16, 2016
rheether:
At 25. some guys are still looking for admission.
You are ryt bro. And for u to be finacially incline, you need to have a certificate on field and have knowledge of if in your head

Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by mimibright(m): 5:41pm On Feb 16, 2016
umehmj:
the girl forgot this is naija and not Yankee. It's easier in Yankee and almost impossible here in naija. now let's say a guy got admitted in school at 19 and spends another 4 or 5 years or even more in school. automatically that adds up to 25 or more. the ones that go into apprenticeship spends even longer period. the ones that dares to leave home at tender age are the ones you see street hawking, sleeping under the bridge and thugs at motor parks. naija hard. only very very few makes it out of home before 25
wrong analysis bro!!
Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by mimibright(m): 5:43pm On Feb 16, 2016
umehmj:
the girl forgot this is naija and not Yankee. It's easier in Yankee and almost impossible here in naija. now let's say a guy got admitted in school at 19 and spends another 4 or 5 years or even more in school. automatically that adds up to 25 or more. the ones that go into apprenticeship spends even longer period. the ones that dares to leave home at tender age are the ones you see street hawking, sleeping under the bridge and thugs at motor parks. naija hard. only very very few makes it out of home before 25
wrong analysis bro!! At 25 I was an employer of labour able to foot the bills and make a good living so its very possible.
Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by UyiIredia(m): 5:44pm On Feb 16, 2016
The girl sure lives in Wonderland. I won't wait for her to get back to reality.
Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by Abukc(m): 5:46pm On Feb 16, 2016
Then which age ladies should leave there fathers house? Oya answer me, mo n ngbo
Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by fineyemi(m): 5:48pm On Feb 16, 2016
XBLadez:
I started living on my own since I was 19. I'm not a Yoruba boy!
liar
Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by hedonistic: 5:48pm On Feb 16, 2016
Patented:
Everybody's situation is different and you have no idea what the next person is passing through or has passed through. I really hate it when people sit in their own 'lil' corner of the world and make General statements about the rest of Humanity.

This is really profound. I like people with perspective.

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Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by yinmi: 5:49pm On Feb 16, 2016
She made a point but am not sure she is a member of this society.
Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by belloabd1914(m): 5:51pm On Feb 16, 2016
Imagine leaving second school at 18, stay at home for two years seeking admission, finally decide to run a diploma program for anoda two years, = 22, gets admission to d uni tru jamb 4+1 of strike =26 wait anoda 1year to serve=27, without stealing or been a street thug how won't he be in his father's house?

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Re: 'At 25, No Guy Should Be In His Parent's House' by Nobody: 5:52pm On Feb 16, 2016
Patented:
Everybody's situation is different and you have no idea what the next person is passing through or has passed through. I really hate it when people sit in their own 'lil' corner of the world and make General statements about the rest of Humanity.
I like ur comment, no mind the yeye girl she thinks say he easy for everybody out there, 30 no money no work.

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