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Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by Sman37(m): 12:42pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Man i dont beleiv dis no1 oh cus if u ar after tru relation ship to marry dat no1 may do u no good but harm although i know u hav to do so many intrestin things to please or prove ur love bt not by over spendin on her cus what if she real dnt lik u and u av over spent on her while she go marry another man hann 1 Like |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by BrainnewsNg(f): 12:45pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
naijaboiy: Thank you! Pls help me ask them |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by tico1212(m): 12:54pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Only if you can repeat that number 1 100times. Snapshots of my experience on badoo yesterday . I was like wtf Like srzly you ain't selling a damn car neither we are pricing a land or house here. 1 Like
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Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by nnamdiosu(m): 12:59pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
naijaboiy: nothing good comes easy bro. if u really love someone...you'll wait. true love takes time. anything hurriedly done....will be carelessly done. 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by orla01(f): 12:59pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Captainmilk I disagree with u on d fifth point, cos most ladies can decipher wat comes from d hrt from "copy nd paste"...nd if we laugh/smile abt it, its cos we know its not from d hrt. |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by naijaboiy: 1:02pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
nnamdiosu:No! I won't wait. If i'm going to wait for any girl to love me back then she should give me a reason to. When she is totally stubborn and not opening up to my advances I definitely will not wait,i'll move on. My destiny is not tied to her. 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by nnamdiosu(m): 1:12pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
naijaboiy: bro calm down. see it from this aspect. I had a brother who normally steals from me. so as we grew up together, i always hid my money from him. Now during service, i got to squat with some guys who i didn't know from adam. Of course i was also hiding my money and suspicious of them. TILL AFTER A WHILE I GOT TO UNDERSTAND...EVERYONE ISN'T LIKE MY BROTHER. what im trying to say is...some girls (and guys) have been hurt many times by people they loved and trusted. this has led to distrust (or act stubborn, hard to get e.t.c) with any guy that comes their way. thats a natural human reaction. but when this guy stays, perseveres, acts understanding and maturely, they slowly begin to open up, love and trust back. Love isn't for teenagers or immatured people. no offense but from the way u replied....... i feel u fall into this category. NOTHING GOOD COMES EASY...HOW MUCH MORE THE HEART OF A HUMAN BEING? 4 Likes |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by Nobody: 1:16pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Hmmm. First of all, it depends on her reason for not warming up to you instantly. The most common reasons often include fear of being seen as cheap, fear of being used, abandonment issues, religious/moral inclinations, a genuine lack of interest, and inability to get over a breakup or an ex. So her reason for saying no should determine your next line of action, this is something most guys don't seem to get. She says no and you gear up into attack mode and start pestering the poor girl for sex. To a certain extent the points listed are somewhat valid, if slightly exaggerated. If you encounter a girl that is solely interested in money (i.e a hoe) then yes, make it rain. However, guys often mistake girl's craving to be special/loved/pampered, with throwing money around. When I was in college I wasn't exactly the Dangote of my contemporaries, but I always ensured I got my lady nice little thoughtful gifts. It doesn't have to be a bugatti, a teddy bear, a romantic/humorous card or even a hand band, necklace or earrings would do nicely. Just make it something cute, that shows her you care and think about her. But due to past experiences with hungry girls, coupled with some guys lack of creativity/backward mentality, they equate being caring with doling out wads of cash intermittently. Girls are wary of selfish/uncaring guys, guys that are only after sex and jerks. At one point in their lives, most girls fall for 'bad boys', but the novelty of the danger and excitement dies down eventually and they start yearning for nice guys. So when you come across a lady that wants to see if you're caring, she's not waiting for you to burst a bank vault (not all of them anyway), she's waiting to see if you're self-centered/selfish/uncaring or a user. That bit about poems is so 2004. When girls talk about grammar, they don't mean you should serenade them with corny cliches. There's character in speech, and good grammar just has a way of washing over the soul like a soothing wave. Plus introducing a guy to your friends and family may be awkward when he says stuff like "am pleasing to met you." Basically, all those point are just telling you to be a decent, refined and mature human being 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by macaranta(m): 1:18pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
We are talking money...you talking nonsense. |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by naijaboiy: 1:19pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
nnamdiosu:Bro that is your own opinion and I have mine. I won't be waiting for a girl to love me back. I am the type that believes she has to have at least a little thing for you as a guy before you move ahead. When I make my intentions known to her and she turns me down,i move on with life,if fate deems us to be with each other then it will surely come to pass. This is not about being a teenager or immature as I am none of the above. And no offense but you sound really narrow minded and myopic because you think everyone must have the same view as yours and so those who don't are regarded as "immature". I've been doing just fine with my own ideology on my approach to girls and i've not for once regretted it neither will I change my method. Never will I pursue a girl up and down because I want her to love me back. If she has been hurt in the past,she won't be the first and neither would she be the last. 5 Likes |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by latinoKingdom(m): 1:27pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
mbaka0433:I dey fear ham too lol |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by makabulchi(m): 1:40pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
HARRYzbrown:Wen babe use ur hart do selfie,u gats get sense by force. |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by Adeyinka1758(m): 1:52pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
BumBae:Hmm, i hear u |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by Adeyinka1758(m): 2:01pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
tico1212:that omo wobe part ehn btw dis one strong o |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by falseman(m): 2:03pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
In summary be a mugu |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by attah01(m): 2:03pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
O boi finally me I lyk stubborn gals lyk crazy, whn u follow dem crazzy Dats whn u get dem crazing. I bet u Dats whn dey luv u crazy Dat no1 is sumtin I do 4 d 1st impression #BELIEVE#
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Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by Deo1986(m): 2:04pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
How about telling them go to hell? 1 Like |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by Smellymouth: 2:04pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Nikita1:Ogini?? U want me to win ur hrt? |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by Smellymouth: 2:06pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
vicstar:I concur
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Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by Smellymouth: 2:09pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Shey na only d stubborn gehs punna dey dis world? Must I kill myself before she agrees to give me OBO?.. If she nor want, I will jejely move on to d next available t0t0...
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Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by Nobody: 2:09pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
orla01:Owww... thanks for your opinion dear |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by Nobody: 2:09pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Smellymouth: |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by tico1212(m): 2:09pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Adeyinka1758:No mind am jare |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by Smellymouth: 2:10pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Nikita1: U know how we roll na .. it's bin awhile, where hath thou bin? |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by Nobody: 2:13pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Smellymouth:They neva release me 4rm 'ban' ooo. I dey gentle naah hiding under dis moniker |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by Smellymouth: 2:13pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
captainmilk:captainmilk aka captainsp3rm, NO 7 is the koko.. But if she declines, t0t0 full naija, them nor tie her t0t0 to my head na After all, Rashida for Ketu dey gimme fvck anytime ,any day, anyhow... |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by Smellymouth: 2:14pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Nikita1:I tot as much, what did u do sef? And who be d mod when get liver to ban my precious love? |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by Adeyinka1758(m): 2:16pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
tico1212:Xo no deal ryte? |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by nicerichard05: 2:16pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Rrr |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by Nobody: 2:17pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Smellymouth:Thunder go fire the yansh of d mod, dey talk say I dey promote rape Is dat possible |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by BabiousBlog: 2:19pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
1.2.3.6 &7... So on point! 1 Like |
Re: 8 Ways To Win The Heart Of Stubborn Girls by Smellymouth: 2:21pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
this wan strong oo See why dem ban me some time ago.. It is well, Oya chop kiss joor Nikita1:
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