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Are Relationships Pointless? by Nobody: 3:05pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
First of all I am a healthy, attractive 22 year old male that has lived a pretty ordinary life without too many highs or lows in general, I guess you could say I've glided through life without experiencing much happiness or sadness which has caused me to become very complacent or well just neutral I guess? I did fairly decent in school with mainly B's in all of my classes because I never went beyond what was necessary to pass... anyways moving on... I have dated 8 girls since the age of 14 but I never really cared enough to ask them out, they took the initiative instead and i was like uhm, ok, why not? But after a week or so I would break up with them because I never cared enough to call somebody every day and I like my space, I mean hanging out/dating is okay but doing it more than once a week is just a bummer in my opinion, it's just such a drag. I also have pretty much no interest in sex at all, I mean it's O.K once in a while if a girl wants too but I don't enjoy it enough to actually go out of my way to have it if you catch my drift? It's definitely not worth working for it at all, I would rather just drink a couple beers and meditate under the sun or read a good book, maybe even take a jog for a half hour or something lol. I just think it's funny when girls are trying to be flirty around me or call me hot/cute or whatever and I'm more or less just zoning out and nodding my head to them and wondering what I'm going to do after lectures so I can escape my colleagues/people in general. 2 Likes |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Nobody: 3:08pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
I think about the way I am and notice how different I am from most guys, I mean I do produce normal amounts of testosterone and have facial hair/muscles so it's not any imbalance I'm sure. Now that i look over it I guess I just hate having any responsibility and prefer to be free from any schedule/ duties, I mean I have always wanted to be a bird as far back as I could remember I just love the idea of having wings and being able to fly wherever I want without any constraints, I really envy them to be honest which might sound funny to others lol. I just don't see a point in having a social life when it just means you have to talk to them once in a while to keep the friendship/ relationship from dying off so I don't even bother starting them in the first place, I mean now I know why people are always saying "YOU'RE AFRAID OF GETTING CLOSE TO OTHERS!" to me all the time, I'm afraid of the worthless commitment and I'd rather just do my own thing, so in a sense I'm not afraid at all I just don't care, isn't that funny lol? I pretty much just typed all of this so I could get your opinions on my personality, I don't need help or anything I just would like to know if it's normal, and if other people are like me. I'm actually glad I don't suffer from negative emotions like other people and am able to enjoy the simple things in life like bird's chirping in the morning or a beautiful cool day,(too bad it's harmattan) ![]() I just think that relationships are a waste of time because people are so misguided and get too caught up in the pointless things in life like their job or boyfriend/girlfriend that they don't realize everything has passed them by until they are retired, the thought of that makes me sad, the world is a cruel place and humans are the only animals that intentionally kill one another for trivial reasons, they just need to step back and get in tune with reality instead of religions that speak of peace and love but in truth just promote bloodshed for the god they worship in a cloak and dagger method, lol anyways sorry about all that I was letting my mind wander a bit so yeah. Hope u liked it ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Royle2014(m): 3:17pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
OP... I just finished reading one hefty chapter of my biopharmaceutics text nd I cant read dis ya long epistle gan... Summary abeg |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Ginaz(f): 3:18pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
All this episodes are for what? ![]() |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Rone16(f): 3:18pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Lol your reading of books is really rubbing off on you which is both good and bad.I think you're just in your own zone and you never want to leave there.Sometimes you have to step out of your comfort zone to grow and experience things.Even birds fly out of their nests,they just don't stay there throughout their entire life because it's comfy.My opinion though ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Nobody: 3:21pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Yes o relationship are pointless since i started dating my gain has been NOTHING! |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Nobody: 3:21pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Yes o relationship are pointless since i started dating my gain has been NOTHING! Nd op YES u are normal! |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by kibzz(m): 3:22pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Hey ginaz sup Ginaz: |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Nobody: 3:25pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Rone16:lol thats a funny opinion and a bit contradicting too. At the end of the day, comfort is what everyone's after |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Nobody: 3:26pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Rone16: why are u hiding your face? are these guys sending u countless pm's too? how was your val? Did you made love that night? ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Nobody: 3:30pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
sickstars: lol your comment gives me the impression you don't plan to stop dating anytime soon. 'since i started dating' but what is it you look for in relationships you can't get at home. Is it the constant sex? Cause if its comfort and emotional attention i think oursiblins and parents have that covered. Things like this bother me. |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by cruzita(f): 3:31pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
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Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Creamish(f): 3:31pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
U are still very young...it's pointless for you now. Wait till u get to ur 30s..then it would make sense. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Rone16(f): 3:32pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
irunooboo: Lol I just felt like hiding it.No they aren't .It was cool and no I didn't.How are you? |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Nobody: 3:33pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
mayonnaise: ![]() I join the single's club jamming single ladies by beyonce |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Rone16(f): 3:34pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
mayonnaise: Yeah I guess But still.. |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Nobody: 3:37pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Creamish: getting married. That's a bridge i'll have to cross. Understood. I hope i'l meet a lady that sees the world the way i do. But, dating so many people as is the trend now is pointless or so i believe. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Creamish(f): 3:38pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
mayonnaise: It's only a matter of time. |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Nobody: 3:39pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Rone16: fine ![]() |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Nobody: 3:44pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
sickstars: easy to say. |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Nobody: 3:45pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
mayonnaise: mayonnaise: Open a diary ![]() |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Rone16(f): 3:45pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
irunooboo:Yeah I am.No |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Nobody: 3:50pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
mayonnaise: How? |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Nobody: 3:52pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Rone16: but still...."socialise" right? Lol. |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Nobody: 3:58pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
sickstars: well you're a lady. You were brought up to find prince charming. It won't be easy. Not as easy as it is for most men. |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Nobody: 4:00pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Suigeneris93: it'll be boring. |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by yinkeys(m): 4:01pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Relationships ain't pointless if you're with the right one. Symbiotic relationships are d.ope. Just be patient, you don't know what it feels like to find a diamond in this filthy world. ![]() My experience: I've briefly being with someone that has everything I need in a woman, a good head on her shoulder, a good christian,she's genuine,really real, a motivator, i dont know how she does it but she tends to subconciously give biblical answers whenever i ask for her opinion on stuffs, all pretty & all brains too, a summa cum laude for that matter. I left because I wasn't financially ready for marriage. I'd run back whenever I'm ready hopefully she'll still be single 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Nobody: 4:02pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
mayonnaise: ![]() ![]() I dont even care bou prince charming but sumone to love me in d right way |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Nobody: 4:03pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Rone16: Where |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Rone16(f): 4:03pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
irunooboo:Abj |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Rone16(f): 4:04pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
mayonnaise: Yeah...You necessarily don't have to get a gf |
Re: Are Relationships Pointless? by Nobody: 4:05pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
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