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Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by Excellentmind: 2:38pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Now, Anita's request is granted like a child who patiently waits while his father eats to get a piece of meat and sleeps almost immediately after eating the meat. She is freed from the bond of responsibility. Old things have now passed away and everything has become new. Congratulations! But, it seems that this newness of everything doesn't include age and physical appearance, wow what an insatiable world! If she were going to get back her age and appearance, I would have supported her wholeheartedly. Oh! What an adult mistake! What is her benefit from this anger driven crass decision? Oh! God have mercy. 1 Like |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by thorpido(m): 2:40pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
blackpanda:Naaah.You have to provide statistics if you want to argue this point.Even when the parents are busy,they still come home to meet the children and spend the greater part of the day with them on weekends.It's not the same as single parenthood. Moreover,the psycho-social effects are not the same. 2 Likes |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by Nobody: 2:49pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Speechless3:And who made u judge on their divorce issue....learn to keep quiet when u hv nothing reasonable to say. |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by hamilton62(m): 2:51pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
ceeceeuwa:Yes you are right but do you recall the vow made on the alter during the holy matrimony activity? I take this man as my wedded husband through thick and thin, in good and bad time etc... The vow made on the chancel (fomerly called Alter) is between the physical and spiritual and God approves it... I know I am not in the marriage with them but she lost it at last that's the problem... We look at the big name of our trouble forgetting the might of the God we serve... Do you remember this A/M hymn: Jesu, my Lord, my God, my All Hear me blessed Saviour when I call. Hear me and from thy dwelling place. Pour down the riches of thy grace. Jesu, my Lord I did adore Oh make me love thee more and more. If she truly love God and seek Him, she would have won at the end but now she's a looser not because she is but because she became self-centre instead believing our God unconditionally 1 Like |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by blackpanda: 2:58pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
thorpido: Statistics?? Really Does anybody keep those in nigeria. Anyway, all these are hypothetical situations, there's no evidence to say that children of single parents are bound to be worse than both parents. Actually there are kids brought up in homes with both parents that turn out to be monsters e.g adolf hitler |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by great664(m): 3:00pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
floragregs:You are right marriage is not for everybody but somehow it is compulsory for everyone, you wont like to give birth without marrying, or be a single mum for the rest of your life. Kids need Dad,Mum and siblings while growing.. The fact is most people miss the most important thing to consider before saying I Do. They believe a respectable, rich, handsome, beautiful, sexy, hot , caring, loving man/lady will equall a better husband/wife. No! Those qualities are vital but what is more important is "FRIENDSHIP" Is he/she ur friend, when those qualities ain't there do you still consider him your friend? Money will stop to freak you, sex will someday be boring , romance will decline as year passby and that's when friendship comes in the only quality that never fades. Learn to marry someone you can call a friend, because that's the only thing that Sustain marriage when other things fail. They might be attracted to themselves because of their Faith but never Friend, like other qualities it fails too and can't tolerate or endure each other till love comes back in.... Your spouse might offend you and you will want he/she to say Sorry to you or you will be the one to say sorry because you want a peaceful Home but friends can move on with just looking/meeting each other and things click back to normal and lesson learnt. Don't know how to explain it more so if una understand learn to be friend before Love or marriage... 5 Likes |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by Mbkite(m): 3:01pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Demdem:Mr. Perfect! Understand that God is still God. Why should u address a MOG in that manner? Be careful. 1 Like |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by Forwetinnah: 3:05pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Oya Pastor Chris...coast is clear, go and marry your Indian bride. I know say na there your long throat dey now. |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by menxer: 3:06pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Finally, I hope this will give her the peace of mind money and fame couldn't buy. A lesson for us all.... nobody is infallible. |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by frithom: 3:20pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
THEY ARE ONLY SEPARATED BY MAN AND PAPER, GOD STILL RECOGNISED THE MARRIAGE IT IS FOREVER VALID IN THE LAW COURT OF GOD. 2 Likes |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by BuddhaPalm(m): 3:21pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Dirkcoyt: Aren't we back already? 1 Like |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by thorpido(m): 3:23pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
blackpanda:Actually, researches have been done to prove that children who grow with both parents are better than children who grow up with single parents.There was a thread where someone gave links to such researches. I'm lazy/busy to dig out links to show you.You can do a bit of google search to see if it's true.It doesn't mean that all children who grow up with both parents turn out well or that you don't have children raised by single parents who turn out well,it just means that there were more cases of delinquents in single-parent homes than where both parents are present. |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by somatrix(m): 3:23pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Tragedy.....i comment my reserve :-XTragedy.....i comment my reserve |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by ObaKlaz: 3:24pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Oh well... I've learned Pst. Chris's full, real name today! Lol 2 Likes |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by Nobody: 3:26pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
This is why a couple should live together under the same roof. Their time apart should be temporary and short! Money, church, job, ministry etc should not warrant living apart especially for long. Too many negatives arise 5 Likes |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by pelij18(m): 3:27pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Davidovinci:In real christendom, this wouldn't have called for strict divorce. I'd love to hold a few hour meeting with some christ Embacy Members on nairaland, tonight at exactly 8:35 pm. Thank you. Did you notice something afore? The bolded (christ) is not really the Christ i use to know and habitually, read about. |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by ceeceeuwa: 3:29pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
hamilton62: 1 Like |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by joseph1832(m): 3:30pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Now seriously waiting for the next female pastor or member of Christ Embassy who will willingly jump on Chris' dick. Men they are so many. |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by blackpanda: 3:31pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
thorpido: Well I dont know about that phantom "research" but at the very least we both agree that marriage is not a criteria for bringing up kids. Cos whether the parents are married or not is not a guarantee that they will have good kids. Its great to have two parents living under the same roof as the perfect family, but there is nothing wrong with single parenthood. |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by ceeceeuwa: 3:32pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
hamilton62:You sound like you are so sure it is her fault. Can two work together except they agree? One hand cannot wash itself clean except with both hands! What if she has put more effort to make it work without a corresponding zeal from her husband. These are all assumptions, we don't know the details. Besides they are two adults who are verse in the word of God, so they know the implication of their decision. May God help the church and their children to go through this difficult time! 2 Likes |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by Nobody: 3:38pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
herbie27:And who made you a judge over my post? Goat. |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by Nobody: 3:39pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Another Christ Embassy member spotted on Nairaland. myners007: 1 Like |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by Boeing777pilot: 3:41pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by myners007: 3:45pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
TeOwl:You are wrong Bro |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by helovesme(f): 3:51pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Demdem: it shocking a 'whole' pastor chris nobody would have predicted this at all |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by Demdem(m): 3:56pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Mbkite: Are u ok? What's wrong with what I said? |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by hamilton62(m): 3:58pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
ceeceeuwa:I never dispute your side or perspective on this but in all I try to let you know something about marriage and men. Who is the owner of the home? Proverb 14:1 King James Bible Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands. In the family, a man is the head but what is the head without a neck? A man is just a Big head with a flexible neck that means the man has no flair and is 1-dimensional... The woman is the neck. The peripheral connections to the parts of the body moves from the head via the neck to other parts of the body... Marriage is never easy neither is it a bed of roses because we are two separate souls being one body in christ and it's only in this institution that the rule of Nature or science: 1+1=1 While in others it's 2. Marriage is an institution which you go in and your certificate is given to you when you are not through with the study of being married. Behind every successful man is a woman: she was generating her own pole of flux which produced current of happiness and marriage with the hubby but she lost it lately. Why I vehemently say she's the fault her is that she's the one who took the legal action of asking for divorce but that doesn't mean she's started it but because of that action the erring falls on her... If Pastor Chris had asked for divorce, him' Pastor Chris will then be faulted here instead of her... I wish you get my approach from the Bible. Luke 16:18 - Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from [her] husband committeth adultery. 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 - And unto the married I command, [yet] not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from [her] husband: Romans 7:2 - For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to [her] husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of [her] husband. Mark 10:12 - And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery. So who then should I blame with all these bible quotes and her action? |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by BoreholeEngr: 4:05pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Please I want to know, do they have any kids? |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by hamilton62(m): 4:08pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
BoreholeEngr:Yes, they do... I've read about a daughter though I don't know how many yields they got from the marriage... |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by menxer: 4:13pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
blackpanda: Hehehehehe I expected a Nigerian example but then you wrote Adolf Hitler. Pst Chris & Anita were a shining example of a christian couple and marriage until this divorce blow things sky high. They were my epitome of a couple... I am sad not for either of them but for them to confirm that marriage like every thing in life is not sacrosanct, and I have to grope my way around. Pls don't tell me to take it to God in prayer for I am sure they did in their case... which goes beyond preaching the "word of God" to the "experience of God", and this experience is way beyond the talk... 1 Like |
Re: Anita Oyakhilome Gets Divorce Certificate by Montaque(m): 4:14pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
vicky85: whatever u say cannot change the laws of Christ as per divorce. No adultery no divorce |
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