This is a very disturbing feat these days, every now and then you hear news of broken marriages, cheating, and lack of commitment.
During the olden days when the process of marrying a wife was quite diffrent and achaic they stil last longer and hardly divorce, bt these days we have marriages breaking before it even begins and what have you.
So ladies and gentlemen what do you think is the cause of failed marriages in this present time. . .?

Cheating partners
Aggressive wives
Constant nagging between partners.
Domestic violence.
Irreconcilable difference.

Na wa o,
This ur question xo, I remember it came out during Jamb 1987, question 62, In Civic education.
Xo if you ask me, the matter for ground, na who I go ask?

Only ur English sev for the title fit make marriage scatter

Love Machine:
Cheating partners
Aggressive wives
Constant nagging between partners.
Domestic violence.
Irreconcilable difference.

No woman is ever aggressive if not been triggered by d man

because we are always looking for what we will gain and not what we can give. (selfishness)


Marriage is meant to be selfless.



Both men and women are guilty of this, but our women are in high proportion owing to their love for materialism.

chigoizie7:
because we are always looking for what we will gain and not what we can give. (selfishness)


Marriage is meant to be selfless.



Both men and women are guilty of this, but our women are in high proportion owing to their love for materialism.

materialism ko commensalism ni

sickstars:


materialism ko commensalism ni

More of parasitic from female folkx.



Don't mention me again, maka ipia gi utari mmuo

You really want to know?? I will tell you!!

Too much of Hollywood films and trying to copy American lifestyle.

I heard a girl saying... "Why should I be in a Marriage that I am uncomfortable with" that was when I knew we are in for a long thing in this Generation!

If it were when being Divorced was a Bad as committing Adultery with the chief priest, people of nowadays will know that Marriage is sweeter as the years roll by.!!

Source: My Mum.

chigoizie7:


More of parasitic from female folkx.



Don't mention me again, maka ipia gi utari mmuo

excuse me?

Did i insult u?
Hain

Money is the root of all evils even in marriage.
If the man has money, he becomes a womanizer, if he is poor, he becomes a nagging and insulting husband.
If the woman is richer, she looks down on the Husband. If she is jobless, then the man's daily activities becomes her assignment.

sickstars:


excuse me?

Did i insult u?
Hain

Did I say otherwise?



I never said u did, just flow with the fun sweetheart.

Because both of them don't really know what they want.Some marry out of lust thinking its love at the end they discover that they don't actually love him/her while some marry cos of material thing

chigoizie7:



Did I say otherwise?



I never said u did, just flow with the fun sweetheart.

Tank u

divinehand2003:
Money is the root of all evils even in marriage.
If the man has money, he becomes a womanizer, if he is poor, he becomes a nagging and insulting husband.
If the woman is richer, she looks down on the Husband. If she is jobless, then the man's daily activities becomes her assignment.

u are xo on point man

Aristotle96:
Only ur English sev for the title fit make marriage scatter

pls correct where am wrong einstein

Aristotle96:
Only ur English sev for the title fit make marriage scatter

pls correct me where am wrong einstein

kestino:
Na wa o,
This ur question xo, I remember it came out during Jamb 1987, question 62, In Civic education.
Xo if you ask me, the matter for ground, na who I go ask?

jst me thinkin out loud

Deejay1000:
This is a very disturbing feat these days, every now and then you hear news of broken marriages, cheating, and lack of commitment.
During the olden days when the process of marrying a wife was quite diffrent and achaic they stil last longer and hardly divorce, bt these days we have marriages breaking before it even begins and what have you.
So ladies and gentlemen what do you think is the cause of failed marriages in this present time. . .?

Two pilot in one ship...wot a man can do a women can do beta , civilization, men getting too careless....

Smartguy001:


Two pilot in one ship...wot a man can do a women can do beta , civilization, men getting too careless....

yea bro, btw how come marriages olden days last longer whn there was'nt actualy love attached to it

Lack of forgiveness. No body gets it right.
For example:
If he/she cheats will you forgive, NO
If he/she spends your money until you both broke do you forgive and continue to stay in the marriage, NO
If children are not coming do you forgive and understand that it's nobody's fault, NO
Forgiveness is the reset button of marriage that when things start to go crazy or not the way you want it to, if used can take you back to the beginning when you meet your spouse and a fresh start.
But people don't like to use this reset button and allow things to get crazy enough until there is no turning back.

Deejay1000:


yea bro, btw how come marriages olden days last longer whn there was'nt actualy love attached to it

Der was no love yeah, but strict rule in each community against certain behavior n grave consequences if u violent dem n wit time dey loved demselves, but church don come nah, am not saying is bad, but it created too much slack for women n men 2 misbehave witout consequences ...dats wot brought us here oyibo lifestyle

Smartguy001:


Der was no love yeah, but strict rule in each community against certain behavior n grave consequences if u violent dem n wit time dey loved demselves, but church don come nah, am not saying is bad, but it created too much slack for women n men 2 misbehave witout consequences ...dats wot brought us here oyibo lifestyle

the simple fact is the more civilized we are, the more morally corrupt we become...

kateskitty:
Lack of forgiveness. No body gets it right.
For example:
If he/she cheats will you forgive, NO
If he/she spends your money until you both broke do you forgive and continue to stay in the marriage, NO
If children are not coming do you forgive and understand that it's nobody's fault, NO
Forgiveness is the reset button of marriage that when things start to go crazy or not the way you want it to, if used can take you back to the beginning when you meet your spouse and a fresh start.
But people don't like to use this reset button and allow things to get crazy enough until there is no turning back.

i totally agree wit you. They cnt be forgivenes without love thouqh .

Deejay1000:


the simple fact is the more civilized we are, the more morally corrupt we become...

Yea civilization creating too much slacks

Deejay1000:

i totally agree wit you. They cnt be forgivenes without love thouqh .

When you really love somebody, you will forgive them their shortcomings. You forgive because you love. The two go together.

kateskitty:

When you really love somebody, you will forgive them their shortcomings. You forgive because you love.

truth, most marriages these days are nt centered at love ..bt other tinz

U could have used why doesn't marriages last long this days... D do and doesn't u used was jess like Biafra and APC dey keep causing wahala

Blame it on 9ja men. They seem to be only interested in sex and not true luv.

Deejay1000:
This is a very disturbing feat these days, every now and then you hear news of broken marriages, cheating, and lack of commitment.
During the olden days when the process of marrying a wife was quite diffrent and achaic they stil last longer and hardly divorce, bt these days we have marriages breaking before it even begins and what have you.
So ladies and gentlemen what do you think is the cause of failed marriages in this present time. . .?

because ur written English is a disaster.

publicenemy:

because ur written English is a disaster.

correct my errors then

publicenemy:

because ur written English is a disaster.

yea bro, correct me then