1. A Man That Does not Love & Respect His Mother
There is a thin line between a mommy’s boy and a man who genuinely loves his mom. A man should love his mother and respect her even when he disagrees with her. If a man doesn’t respect his mum, what makes you think he would respect you? He shouldn’t be a mommy’s boy with no backbone but he should respectfully disagree with her if the need arises.
2. A Man That Beats His Sisters
Forget that he is the older one or that his parents approve of it. There is a natural imbalance of strength between a man and a woman. A man that feels it is okay to beat his sisters won’t think twice before hitting you. His sisters are his blood relations and yet he hits them, how much more you? If he cannot protect his sisters, what is the assurance that he will protect you?
3. A Man That Is Money Conscious
This type has only one thing on his mind, ‘make money’ by whatever means whether good or bad. In the long run, he would probably do something that will embarrass your family. He also believes his money should earn him your respect irrespective of his character.
4. A Man That Cannot Cook
Just ask yourself some simple questions. What will happen to your kids or even to you if you are sick and bedridden? What will happen to your kids if you happen to travel? What will happen to your kids if by nature of your job, you close later than your husband? Finally, what will happen to them if peradventure you die untimely? Will they starve? Or will your husband replace you immediately even if the new mother is not a good person?
5. A Man That Will Not Cook
This is quite common in our society. He can cook but he chooses not to because they find it quite demeaning. Truth is, this says a lot about how he sees you. If he believes only you should do the degrading chores around the home, it is because he believes you are a lesser human than him. Even if you are dying, this one will rather buy food than cook o. Run.
6. A Man That Believes You Owe Him
This type thinks he is doing you a favour by marrying you so he obviously won’t respect you and expects you to take anything he dishes out to you.
7. A Man That Carries Kids For The Gram
There is a new trend lately of men with children all over social media. They are usually all lovey-dovey with them but don’t be deceived. People ooh and aww at pictures like that only because we are not used to that kind of image in our society. Half of these men probably don’t know how to change diapers so once again the pressure is on you to always make the children look good or you will hear it.
8. A Man That Believes it is Natural & Normal for Him To Philander
It is not and will never be normal to cheat. It is a lie from the pit of hell that so many believe and so many more perpetuate. If you agree with this, then you agree that every man has a place in hell already which we know is not true. What is wrong is wrong and everybody doing it will not make it right. If you marry someone with this mentality, you know what to expect.
9. A Man Who Cannot Answer To You
Wo, this one will show you pepper in marriage. A fi mu e fon fere. You cannot question his actions or inactions o. He will not be accountable to you on how he spends money, where he goes, what time he comes in, etc. He will make and take decisions that affect the family without consulting you and without giving any tangible or logical reason. Awon team ‘I Will Because I Know I Can’ leyi. He will wake up one morning and tell you to change the school your children attend and you will be there wondering what went wrong. Stay far away from them.
10. A Man Who Doesn’t Take The Issue of Rape & Child Molestation Seriously
Just take note of your conversations with him when the issue of sexual assault arises. If he is the type that always finds a way to blame the victim, either male or female, you should have a rethink. He is not a qualified father material. It will be dangerous for him to bath your kids. Forget that they are his kids too, we hear stories na.

There are many more things to look out for like his tolerance level, humility, religious beliefs, gene compatibility, level of responsibility etc. There are really no fast rules to this and you will probably never meet a man that will not fail in one or two of the categories listed above. Just decide within yourself which flaws you can live with. Selah.

Sorry! All dis joke nor dey Niagra girls dictionary. When money speak, all thing fall yakata

Funny

Yeah 1,2.3 and 5 sopoted!!

Most men possess some of this traits....If our gelz don't marry them, who will they marry then?



Angels

OK I won't!!

Very true write up

Kenzico:
Most men possess some of this traits....If our gelz don't marry, who will they marry then?



Angels

Did you read my last paragraph?

This is nice.

Hahaha you go old o walahi!

Choi! Op no wan marry!!

I just don't know why all this nonsense get to FP easily when there are more useful threads in different sections.

PLEASE, I ask
When will all these RUBBISH end.?

Every tom dick and harry just comes up with anything his tiny mind thinks of as reasons not to do this or that.

1. U can hardly c a man dat dos nt love ha mother
As sum certain age u got 2 make ur decision nt ur


If u love n respect ur mother so much dey wl say

Ur parent is controllin u



2.If u sista reaches sum certain age dem no born u well 2 touch ur filty hands on ha talk more or beatin





3. If u are nt money conscious gals go like u die and dat is a very golden opportunity 4 u 2 b magalised



I can't cook dos nt make me a badman

Ok poster i won't especially no6.

DOUBLEWAHALA:
1. U can hardly c a man dat dos nt love ha mother
As sum certain age u got 2 make ur decision nt ur


If u love n respect ur mother so much dey wl say

Ur parent is controllin u



2.If u sista reaches sum certain age dem no born u well 2 touch ur filty hands on ha talk more or beatin





3. If u are nt money conscious gals go like u die and dat is a very golden opportunity 4 u 2 b magalised



I can't cook dos nt make me a badman

Never referred to anyone has a bad man. I gave logical reasons why it is necessary for a man to know and be willing to cook. Cooking is basic survival instinct. My advise for you is to learn. You can be prudent with your spending without making everything about money. A real an should know where to find the balance. Do this for yourself, don't make decisions based on what girls will or will not do.

matrix199:



Every tom dick and harry just comes up with anything his tiny mind thinks of as reasons not to do this or that.

Did you find the post logical or not? Anyway, thanks for the comment though. It means a lot.

I agree, I will run and my two legs won't touch the floor if I come across such a man

missKiffy:
I agree, I will run and my two legs won't touch the floor if I come across such a man

then u won't stop running.

Hmmm



A man would surely possess one or two of these, there isn't a perfect man you know.

k

Ok

Hmmmmm...

All in the name of front page u decided to come up with these bobo.... SMH.

Back to work before I get queried.

All of the above except for number 4

I am not quite sure about that

okay.. but most of these things are discovered after marrying a man.
OP how our sisters go do?

OK.

you make some points

Nonsensical philosophies that won't ever work here in Nigeria, maybe outside Nigeria it could,but here,let the man be sad day hussein, as long as he can pay there bills they will endure,no be 9ja girls shio