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Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 7:46am On Feb 21, 2016 |
favoured234:thanks bae, will work on that tomorrow. Cos even ATM shez usin the light nw.. And Today's probably gon be her last day of usin free light.. |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by eyinjuege: 7:53am On Feb 21, 2016 |
Pls cut her off. Some people like freebies too much. It's even morally wrong to cheat others which is what she's doing and thinking you guys don't know about her scam. Do not hesitate to cut her off. Set the boundaries. It doesn't make you a bad neighbor but rather a responsible one. If she wants to tap light from you guys, let her ask nicely and also be ready to fuel the gen once in a while ! |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 8:01am On Feb 21, 2016 |
eyinjuege:U're on Point...Won't fail to do that tomorrow |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by cococandy(f): 8:09am On Feb 21, 2016 |
You don't owe her electricity. Disconnect it. Why are you even asking? 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 8:11am On Feb 21, 2016 |
cococandy:lol, i didn't want to look like that bad guy o |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by mulki: 9:01am On Feb 21, 2016 |
bigneorapz:remember to update us on how the woman died because u cut off her light supply....Since her life depends on it pls cut it off The air u are breathing is free, the soul u have is not urs so why cause problem where there is non, do u expect her to worship u.. U are acting like u have never been helped by another person... |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 9:08am On Feb 21, 2016 |
mulki: She will not die, she will only learn not to cheat people and form smart she will also learn gratitude to God and man or she will learn to work and get things she thinks she needs... I tell the tea-boy, cleaner, office boy thank you with a smile, they are paid for those services talk more of someone that gave me comfort at no cost Stop comparing the air we breathe to some someone having self-sufficient attitude..... 7 Likes |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by Sanchez01: 9:09am On Feb 21, 2016 |
Please cut her off. I see no reason why you should have kept quiet over the illegal connection in the first place. From her attitude, it shows she doesn't want it and is not in dire need of your generating set, else she would have come closer to you even just by greeting. She may not have the money to share in the filling of the fuel, but that is not to say she shouldn't put on some positive outlook. Cut her off. If she wants it desperately, she'd ask. It is only normal that you do so. I have a good neighbour who shares in mine but refused to connect our apartments together. He did my connection for my free of charge and I enjoy sharing the power with him without asking him to contribute in filling the tank. Why? He has played a vital role and I respect him for that. Although yours is a lady, she doesn't realize that what she is enjoying is as a result of a quiet fellow. Again, I say disconnect her wire from your generator. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by freecocoa(f): 9:16am On Feb 21, 2016 |
OP if I were you, I will cuuuutttttt her off without batting an eyelid and believe me, I'm the nicest person on planet earth, but being nice doesn't equal stupidity and as far as I'm concerned, it's gross foolishness to allow an ingrate continous favour. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by freecocoa(f): 9:17am On Feb 21, 2016 |
mulki:I'm sorry but you sound like someone who will be very ungrateful and entitled. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by mulki: 9:26am On Feb 21, 2016 |
freecocoa:And u sound like someone who u will want to be praised and worshiped for every little favour u do #wicked people everywhere, God help us |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by freecocoa(f): 9:49am On Feb 21, 2016 |
mulki:You see? shouldn't common sense tell one to be appreciative of favours received? Is it the lady's right to use OP's light? She can't even contribute and she's giving attitude, yet you don't see anything wrong in that, smh. 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 10:08am On Feb 21, 2016 |
mulki:well, evidently it seems u typin from ur sick bed. Or u're partially blind. Try to understand the content of a post next time before u jump to conclusion..just so u know, i've just disconnected her and thanks for y'all advice. I'll buy 18litres of fuel today and burn it till dawn just so she'll feel the anger more ![]() |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 10:13am On Feb 21, 2016 |
Sanchez01:i just did it boss..thanks alot. My main concern was for her to show appreciation like u stated there. Thanks yo |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by mulki: 10:18am On Feb 21, 2016 |
bigneorapz:U have done well, enjoy ur light while she suffers ..@23 u are still claiming ur mother's generator and even sharing her rented apartment..grow up , go out and fine job, u need to help ur mum out of poverty #wicked people everywhere, God help us.. |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 10:20am On Feb 21, 2016 |
freecocoa:muaah..thanks bae..i just did what u've said. Make she go sleep abeg. Wetin dey vex me be say, she go just dey carry guys come the house when i start my gen..and dem go enjoy for my gen..kai. The worst was when my gen developed a serious problem that i spent over 5k to fix it. Naso this girl come see as i dey suffer dey struggle to repair the gen. She just carry face for up pass without evenin sayin Hi. Naso my gen repairer notice her immatured attitude and ask me whether she no dey fit greet person..lol. The man bin vex eh.. Upon say i no even yarn am the main tori o.. Naso she come dey pass like that for almost 4times go sidon for varendah. As we repair the gen finish start am..naso this girl get mind pack her tinz enter inside go dey watch TV.. Can u imagin? ![]() |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by mulki: 10:22am On Feb 21, 2016 |
bigneorapz:U only want her to be all jovial and friendly towards u, she refused to acknowledge that u exist.. eya!, the tin pain u well ko, jealousy go kill u She did well by showing u the need to fine ur own apartment.. #wicked people everywhere! |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 10:26am On Feb 21, 2016 |
mulki:hahahahaha.. Am not 25 o and Itz actually my Gen and a big one for that matter.. . Ewo! E pain am
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Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by mulki: 10:31am On Feb 21, 2016 |
bigneorapz:hahahahahahaha...ur problem lies there before u , a woman dealing with u mercilessly. She has enjoyed ur gen free of charge, there is nothing u can do about it now. it's funny the woman is not even aware u having ill feelings towards her.. |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 10:38am On Feb 21, 2016 |
mulki:she'll be aware now..thanks for ur support ![]() |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by mulki: 10:49am On Feb 21, 2016 |
bigneorapz:Thanks for listening to words of advice...The disconnection won't add or reduce u, punishing her won't make u rich/poor, it will make u bitter, especially if she neglects ur game.. Doing something good to people and expecting reward or appreciation is not good at all...Those evil people above, who gave u that advice want to see u miserable.. #follow ur heart |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 10:55am On Feb 21, 2016 |
mulki:ok, i followed it and the disconnection was done successfully ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by freecocoa(f): 11:13am On Feb 21, 2016 |
bigneorapz:You are funny o. ![]() Anyways, whether she greets you or not shouldn't be that big a deal as no one actually has the monopoly of greeting, you can greet her first too, You know? But as a human being, I completely understand your angle, it's annoying when people behave the way the lady described does. It's good you disconnected her, now just mind your business and forget about how many guys she brings into her house, as that shouldn't be your concern, cheers. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 11:14am On Feb 21, 2016 |
mulki: What is your problem. Do you know the lady? . What was she doing before they brought thier generator?. If she is in dire need of gen use, she can come to the OP and ask him nicely. If you do not have, you have to be humble. I do not know why Nigerians always expect people to 'help' them. This is a woman he does not know from Adam. He has no obligation to her. 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by An0nimus: 11:21am On Feb 21, 2016 |
Funny enough I have a similar case but I let it slide. She's friendly and greets but doesn't contribute zilch to the gen. I'm not much a fan of who greets me or not though I recognize she's taking the favor for granted. She'll leave the apartment soon so no need thinking too much. |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by mulki: 11:33am On Feb 21, 2016 |
fem29:-he can disconnect his generator anytime, any day but giving such reasons before disconnection has no justification..... -The op has not told us the relationship of the nebo to his mother, the problem is between him and the woman who is like 4-5 years older than him... -It's possible the woman is not even bothered by the generator light, so why will she contribute kobo for it....She never ask them to connect her in the first place.. -He claimed she closes herself in her room every time the generator is on, he assumed she goes inside to enjoy his light..She may be running away from the noisy generator and also from the fume comming from the old gen.. -His generator may be offensive to her, she may just be keeping quiet and tolerating it for peace to avail. |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 11:40am On Feb 21, 2016 |
freecocoa:okay o..lol |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 11:43am On Feb 21, 2016 |
An0nimus:if my own dey greet dey smile with me.. E for better, but this one just dey dier dey form james bond for hin head ![]() |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 11:55am On Feb 21, 2016 |
mulki: Well I'm sure if she had a great relationship with his mum, he would have noticed. It is only human for him to be a bit miffed if she shows no appreciation. In life anything you do not appreciate will be taken from you. Actually what you said about maybe the fumes and noise of the gen maybe disturbing her. Maybe that is what you should have said to the OP instead of insults. He may not have cut her off if that was the case |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 12:26pm On Feb 21, 2016 |
fem29:fem29 pls don't mind that guy.. He's actually sufferin from schizophrenia..just glad that people like u understood my annoyance. As for the ungrateful lady, she has a sound relationship with my mum. They greet and discuss issues with eachother well ..and maybe she wants to take that as an advantage which is non of my business though. My problem is she doesn't act like she's benefittin anything from us. How can a sensible person that shares free light from my Gen sees as am sufferin to repair my Gen.. Will just ignore and pass without even carin to know what the problem might be. I no want her fuel..but for da fact say she dey take us as mumu dey vex me die.. When she sees me she go just do like say she no even sabi me.. Tell me how that kind tin no for vex u ![]() |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by LaShawn: 12:58pm On Feb 21, 2016 |
Nigerians and their entitlement mentality.... |
Re: How Can I Handle This Issue With My Neighbour? by Nobody: 2:01pm On Feb 21, 2016 |
LaShawn:ur signature says it all.. So what did u say? |
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