I got this Email from a lady friend of mine whose friend is seeking advice on whether she made a mistake leaving her husband of almost 15years for her lover. she wants to know whether to go back or whether she should stay as the new man seems not to have any source of income again! Please advice.

The 50yr old lover of a house wife named Mrs Abolore Abiola Remi-Louis, one "Otunba" Titilayo Oladimeji (aka Olusegun Ashogbon), is in court having been charged with threatening to kill the husband of her lover and father of three of her children, Mr. Aderemi Remi-Louis . Their romance has been blossoming without the knowledge of the husband, while the wife, Abolore Abiola was still living under the same roof with her husband and their three children.

Abolore Abiola later moved out of her matrimonial home at Akanbi street, close to Unilag, with the family's three children, the Toyota Camry car her husband (Remi-Louis) bought for her and moved-in together with her lover, Otunba Titilayo Oladimeji ( Olusegun Ashogbon) into a rented apartment at Awin street, Bariga from where the lover began threatening the life of the husband and father of her three children. She recently gave birth to another baby-boy, fathered by the 'elderly' Otunba Segun Ashogbon pictured below, after which they switched houses to an address at Adewunmi Street, in Ikorodu. The criminal charge of "threat to the life" of her husband, Mr. Aderemi Remi-Louis was carried in the Punch newspaper of Friday, November 6, 2015, as seen below.

'Otunba' Titilayo Oladimeji/ Olusegun Ashogbon, from Owo in Ondo State has no known visible occupation, parades himself as an "international businessman" but information shows that he is an "international fraudster" who eloped from and is wanted in the United States, uses fake names and identity, has a wife in the United Kingdom and is a fugitive from both American and British authorities.
Otunba Titilayo Oladimeji/Olusegun Asogbon has also tried to use the same Camry car bought by Mr. Remi-Louis for his wife, Mrs Abolore Abiola Remi-Louis, to run-over her lover's husband if not for the timely intervention of Police officers at Bariga Police station. he reportedly said "he will turn the husband's body to Suya after killing him"! These threats to the life of the husband, Mr Remi-Louis led the court to remand Mr. Titilayo Oladimeji /Olusegun Ashogbon at Kirikiri maximum prison pending bail, for which the mother of the housewife turned lover, Alhaja Modinot, who lives at 3 Afolabi Ekiypyo, Solebo in Ikorodu, came forward to stand bail for the accused, claiming that he, Titilayo Oladimeji/Olusegun Ashogbon, was her "son in-law" but as it is now, the legal marriage between Abolore Abiola and Mr. Aderemi Remi-Loius is yet to be dissolved and they are legally, husband and wife.

The wife, Abolore Abiola remi-Louis has also denied that Otunba Titilayo Oladimeji/Olusegun Ashogbon has married her legally though she had bore a child for him, the "marriage" picture shown below also gives credence to her mother's claim that Titilayo Oladimeji/Olusegun Ashogbon is her son in-law .
In an interview the wife, Abolore Abiola granted to the Yoruba Newspaper "Alaroye" of Jan 12, 2016, the wife (Abolore abiola) and her mother Alhaja Modinat claimed that Mr. Titilayo Oladimeji/Olusegun Ashogbon is the "substantive husband" of her daughter though one wonders how this is possible knowing that the former marriage is yet to be legally dissolved ?

Right now, Otuba "Titilayo" Olusegun Ashogbon says he has "claimed" the three children of the woman's husband and is now their father, while the runaway-wife herself insists the young children of Mr. Remi-Louis (a boy and two girls), call her lover, Otunba, who is pictured below in a traditional wedding picture with the her, ..their father, since she has filed for divorce from their real father!

Abolore Abiola and Aderemi Remi-Louis legally got married in 1999 and she moved out of his house im April 2014 after which she moved into another rented house in Bariga, with Titilayo Oladimeji/Olusegun Ashogbon and her husband's three children.

Should she go back? Would the husband accept her back now that she has a child for the other lover? Can the new lover take good care of her when he does not have a job or source of income?

Wants to know if she should go back to her EX like it depends on her

I dont understand a thing, can someone please summarize it?

Dis story na epistle o. Too long.

Well me no read am but make she just forget going back to a husband she escaped from..na mission impossible! Just stay with ur new no-income man dey endure till fate have its way. God go help u

ok

Did she not think first before making her decision to leave her matrimonial home?
What is she looking for, with another man, after three children?
Why did she even go to her lovers house with the three children of another man, what if the man begins to molest those girls, men of nowadays!

I guess her eye don begin open now or why is she even thinking of going back?

Anyway, make she just remain because the other man would feel very angry right now!

let her find work for her new man.... did she not know he is a con-man before or why does he bear so many names including "aka"?


I cant laugh o!

Na wa o ..u left a marriage of 15 yrs just BC of a lover,who u don't even know what he is cabable of doing next....Now dat he doesn't ve money again u want 2 leave him.
Speaking of u hubby accepting u back with d kid, I don't think it will b easy BC u ve broken his trust and love,also u ve ridiculed him. U re yet 2 dissolve ur first marriage, yet u went and did traditional marriage with ur lover. Which is not legal . how many men will swallow it and open his arms and welcome u just like dat ( u use juju).
My dear,it is ur greed.... dat kept u in Dis position. Try ur luck,beg ur hubby and ur in-laws. U never can tell.....only God can help u out. Seek is face first.
Op,tell dis 2 ur lady friend, friend * abi*

Kai! this Otunba na bad guy him mouth must sweet well well the woman sef what was she thinking. I just hope otunba the fraudster will not use her for rituals as well .

She should try her luck and beg her husband she can claim Otunba used jazz for her after all he is a fraudster.

That "otunba" fraudster man does not even look healthy at all!

I hope he does not die ontop of her kpekus, one of these days!

Women sha, be like say they like to suffer themselves.

Make she just return her husband children to him and she can continue her harlotry, as much as she like.
Nor be by force naa!

END-TIME WIFE!



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She should return the children to her hubby, and move on with her otunba, wish them well, cause the hubby won't accept again oo,





END TIME WIFE

aunty, una don move from Ogun state (primary school matter) come land for Ondo state again?

what's the correlation?

check here:


https://www.nairaland.com/2781422/what-ur-take-inter-tribal-marriage

who wan give am advice?before she elope she ask for advice?lubbish

i know d lady in question personally...all this post was fabricated by the x-husband... all the family members concerned would soon start to pour in with their comments...
this is all false. the former husband is pain and loss and trying to drag drown d x-wife too. she is happily re married now.the divorce case is still in court. the x husband has done so many unexplainable harmful things to his x-wife, she really endured so much before leaving. THIS IS A TOTAL FALSIFICATION.

Fuadudeen:
i know d lady in question personally...all this post was fabricated by the x-husband... all the family members concerned would soon start to pour in with their comments...
this is all false. the former husband is pain and loss and trying to drag drown d x-wife too. she is happily re married now.the divorce case is still in court. the x husband has done so many unexplainable harmful things to his x-wife, she really endured so much before leaving. THIS IS A TOTAL FALSIFICATION.

So, what should we do now?

Look for or fabricate more stories and post them here?

The husband of this woman is the devil's incarnate. Please ladies if you see this man, RUN! Aunt Abolore, as I usually call her, is my sister's friend. All the 15 years of marriage she had with this man were pure hell, he would beat her black and blue, he treated her so badly that I wondered how she survived, she endured it all silently. This man called Lewis not only enslaved his wife physically but spiritually as well. He used all forms of demonic power to tie down her financial breakthrough. He assaulted her many times even in front of the children. He forbid her not to work or do any business because that will reduce his own wealth. With so much prayers from spiritual leaders, Aunt Abolore was able to start her own business which started blooming immediately, this caused a decline in the husband's demonic wealth. He started threatening to kill her, that's why she ran away from home with the kids and she has no intention of going back. Even the kids love her so much and would always support their mother because she has suffered a lot. Her business is doing very well now. As at the time she left her husband she was not dating anyone. She only met Otunba who is a perfect gentleman two years after she left her husband. Otunba is a good and responsible man with a good income. And he is taking care of her and the kids. This so called husband of hers is a demon, he concocted this false story to get people's pity. He even lied to the police to get Otunba arrested. This man is very dangerous but God will conquer him. Their divorce has not been finalized and that's why he's using legal means to try and destroy Sis Abolore's life once again. She is trying to live a normal life but he won't let her. I have never seen such evil. She would never think of going back to him.

LoL

Devil dey learn work for where this Remi Man dey😂💔... I worked under Him for few months and I smell wetin pass pepper🥱