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Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by braimeddy: 10:38am On Feb 24, 2016 |
Op abeg tell me the name of the 9ja movie make I rush go buy am. I don see say d movie go make sense die |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Chickychic(f): 10:43am On Feb 24, 2016 |
Exactly but what i keep asking myself is 'why on earth did he do that to her?, what was his intention in the first place because she was not spending much on him except her family' so people tell me what was his intentions for? when we say men are wicked, they say ladies are heartless but this story is one of the plenty reasons ladies to listen to men at all adekanmbi1986: 1 Like |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by amunkita(m): 10:52am On Feb 24, 2016 |
adapeter: My friend stop soliciting for pity, who told you thingz re rossy for me, I almost sold a property too but when i told my brother, it was a stubborn NO!!! Why ![]() If any gal accept we should dispose my property, I will do to her much more. Unfortunately, u dated a Level 7 liar because u loved with ur heart.. 4 Likes |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Sunnypar(m): 10:57am On Feb 24, 2016 |
amunkita:If I yarn they may ban me. |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Sammiel: 11:07am On Feb 24, 2016 |
amunkita:You are actually very correct but blaming her now won't help her situation because she's pregnant and there is no money to keep her up even as her supposed husband to be is currently on the run. 5 Likes |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by amunkita(m): 11:20am On Feb 24, 2016 |
Sunnypar: Then u re a newbie to be scared of ban.. |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Sunnypar(m): 11:44am On Feb 24, 2016 |
amunkita: ![]() |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by hysteriabox(m): 1:16pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
adapeter: Wow. It unfortunate. Well... If this story can be confirmed, I'll be willing to assist o. But I need full confirmation |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Nobody: 2:26pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
Did you say 'helped' him market his property for sale? Did you have to do that ![]() ![]() |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Chickychic(f): 4:09pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
come if you are not married then am sure you are not a virgin either and so that makes it known that you have been having sex with someone somewhere so you should not be in a hurry to say things carelessly. am also sure u know girls get pregnant with no plans(mistake pregnancy)plus some ladies life with guys that has not proposed to them, maybe you need to know that some ladies start living with their spouse once bride prize has been paid or the guy has gone to the babes house to say his intentions and that make some ladies start living with them so tell me why wont pregnancy occur? calculate before talking pls. toposi4naija: |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Nobody: 4:43pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
hysteriabox:Thanks,please if the moderators want they can verify me.I really do need help atleast for these remaining months,so once I birth oi will go look for a job to support. my child.I would really appreciate it as am fighting to keep this child alive.my mail is adapeter549@yahoo.com.I can give u any form of verification u want me to. |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Nobody: 4:51pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
chimkaire:my dear,he had already put up the. fake property for sale even before we met.I tried to discourage him and asked him to allow us start small as property is a good assets. he shudnt just dispose,he refused insisting he needed to use d money to. go back into his importation business.He kept. disturbing me to help him advertise it because I worked. online and was into advert placement too.When his pressure became too much,I discussed it to his so called brother and asked him to advise him but the brother said I shud allow a man make his decision.I never knew he was so fake.All the documents he brought were falsified,honestly the guy is just a fraudulent person but its a pity am in this mess already.I pray God see me through to birth the child.I equally want to say we. were already planning everything for d wedding I had to cancel it all.it can happen to anybody but like I said God knows best. |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Chickychic(f): 5:11pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
calm down my dear and always stay positive adapeter: |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Nobody: 9:14pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
Chickychic: Tanx a lot for the enlightenment......... I will qet my facts right next time 1 Like |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Saraha1(f): 10:19pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
shafanik: |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by ifyalways(f): 10:32pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
Yawns! People have told you where to go and get help so long as your story is true. You prefer opening threads on NLD because you think NLDers would hear baby/pregnancy and start dropping money. You are on a long thing. OYO. |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Dheartless: 10:33pm On Feb 24, 2016 |
https://www.nairaland.com/2932640/help...i-finished-contemplating-abortion-five this girl is a scam please guys click this link and go through all the coments and how she responded. she has this post on the 14th of this month here on nairaland and advices have been given to are even help on how to connect her to organizations that will take care of her pregnancy as she suggested but she gave dubious replies. I thought you said your dad have agreed to accommodate you and the only thing you need now is money, how come your post still solicit for an accommodation? |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by CoCoLav(f): 3:57am On Feb 25, 2016 |
Dheartless: how are you even sure it's a girl? The stories on nairaland these days though...everyone needs money. |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by lily12(f): 4:31am On Feb 25, 2016 |
I just want to let everyone know that to the best of my knowledge, this story is true. I took some time to get some info when the story was posted the first time. She is not lying at least about being pregnant and with no job. I suspect the man played her as well. Please let's help where we can. Meanwhile adapeter, HABA sis..you are not finished. The devil can never finish you. Not on God's watch. I will contact you today to explain a few things. Take heart, okay? It is important for you and the baby that you have a positive mindset and keep your faith up. Science has proven that babies pick up on the mother's mindset during pregnancy and it can affect them through life. Please be careful not to mentally reject the baby, try not to be depressed or bitter. I trust that you have removed the abortion idea from your head. Your God will surely come. Isaiah 35:4 |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by lily12(f): 4:33am On Feb 25, 2016 |
Dheartless: She probably just quickly copy pasted the original post to call attention to the story one more time. Give the lady a break. |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by lily12(f): 4:36am On Feb 25, 2016 |
Chickychic: |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by thelish(f): 5:05am On Feb 25, 2016 |
Were u guys able to sell d properties before picking a wedding date? Did u allow him return to his importation biz before accepting the introduction n pregnancy? Because u were keen on him being stable before marriage |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Dheartless: 5:47am On Feb 25, 2016 |
CoCoLav:you may be right , my exact thought |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Dheartless: 5:50am On Feb 25, 2016 |
lily12:what more does she intend from this post, a better advice ?? I don't think so . she wants money and that is why everything that was posted in the other thread made no sense to her . if you truely claim not to be an accomplice but that you are sure of the story and you really want to be of help to her then you have to find a way to present concrete proofs for verification. checkout this thread https://www.nairaland.com/2949413/please-save-sisters-life-story not just you but other well known nairalanders need to be involve and possibly if you can also give real proof to a nairaland mod, it means you need to convince these set of people using real and genuine proofs in other for your claims and hers to be rightly verified. untill then I will be far from this thread. someone that needs help doesn't want to reveal her state, not to talk of other important info to proof her geniuness . |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by ifyalways(f): 6:09am On Feb 25, 2016 |
Lily registered Jan 2016 has become the OP's mouthpiece, mind reader and senior advocate. Hehehe. Jokers. Dheartless, why waste your time ? Not worth it biko |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Dheartless: 6:13am On Feb 25, 2016 |
ifyalways:lol I saw that too the op is just to suspicious I will do as you have advice |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by lily12(f): 7:00am On Feb 25, 2016 |
ifyalways: You're the joker. I don't blame you... You are a veteran on Nairaland and are probably older than me as well so maybe you have seen more than I have and can justify your accusations. If you don't have anything positive to contribute, hit the X button or hop on to another thread. I think I've seen a few of your posts, didn't think you to be one of the bitter Nairaland women but then maybe I mistook you for someone else or wrongfully assumed you were among the levelheaded. |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by lily12(f): 7:01am On Feb 25, 2016 |
Dheartless: Yes o, please do as she "have advice" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Nobody: 7:03am On Feb 25, 2016 |
thanks to everyone that has taken their time to read and reply.Pls dont discredit me or call me fake when u have no proof.I posted it on family section but since I didn't get much response I was thinking of anywhere to post cos am desperately seeking help.I read the advise of going back to my dad,and telling my family which I have done.I am home now but my challenge is still finance and how best to go about dropping the baby and seeking for job after I birth.I gave out my information on the page and said am in Lagos.The few persons that called are probably the ones sticking and believing me.My dear nairalanders,I am not a fraud,I am just a lady who got played,made mistakes and now seeking for help the only way I can just to stay strong for the sake of this child.Abortion is ruled off as most pple advised against it and I know is wrong.pls I am open to any form of veryfication.I have written to mods severally to pls verify me even if it means going to their office,or them coming to check me and even talking to my dad.I can't imagine why I would wake up type a long epistle to be lies and wishing myself such evil.The fact is some men act and treat women so bad that the story do sound hard to believe.Thanks lily and others who understand my plight.You may not have money to give but prayers,love and advise can save a soul.I have been near suicide because my once ok life is turned upside down.it takes the grace of God and it is that grace that is keeping me.Thanks and Godbless |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by ifyalways(f): 7:18am On Feb 25, 2016 |
Dheartless: She carefully avoided links giving to her for organizations that would help her, why is that? The times she's spent typing online is more than enough to go out and meet those organizations who have structures in place and means of helping her, if she's for real. |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by dabimzy(f): 7:19am On Feb 25, 2016 |
You need good people around you now,that will help and support you. I pray they locate you,please be strong for the sake of your child. God! Give me the strenght to support the needy and the resources to help them. |
Re: Help...i Am Finished!the Devil Has Ruined Me. by Dheartless: 8:00am On Feb 25, 2016 |
ifyalways:I have followed her first thread closely and made conclusions that she ain't genuine I know you have involve in helping people online on a good number of occasion and therefore you've also been a victim of fraud at some point . but I know if It's genuine the likes of you and some others still won't hesitate to help if you can . she ain't real . |
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