adekanmbi1986:


The guy never wished to marry her.

adapeter:
May U never find urself in a situation like this.How can I ask someone to sell his property,do u know how I discouraged him?did u read d part I said he had a business he was doing but it turned out to be lies.Calling me names wen u haven't been in my shoes.I pray u keep having a perfect life.Thanks all d same for ur words,it only made me stronger.Bad things sometimes happen to good people,am just unfortunate but its well.Godbless u

amunkita:


My friend stop soliciting for pity, who told you thingz re rossy for me, I almost sold a property too but when i told my brother, it was a stubborn NO!!!

Why Because he so cared...

If any gal accept we go nd dispose my property, I will do to her much more.

Unfortunately, u dated a Level 7 liar because u loved with ur heart..

amunkita:
Op,to an extent, u deserve ur predicament.

You planned with a man to dispose off his properties just to marry you, u even went as far as marketing the Ghost property.

Even if he had properties, why would a wife material give in to selling properties just to keep up with a wedding plan.

Infact, why would u even fork when u ain't married.
Nwanyi onye Uwa mmebi..

Sunnypar:

If I yarn they may ban me.

amunkita:


Then u re a newbie to be scared of ban..

adapeter:
Hello,thanks for this platform.please permit me to go straight to my chronicle as am not sure how long I can last.I am a lady of 27years,a graduate.I met a guy lastyear and we started dating.When I met him,he was having financial challenges as he was an importer and at some point his business folded.He had nothing but he was very nice with a good character.I saw the way he was struggling to find his feet again so I stood by him praying and trusting God. I was working then and earning little salary so I used that to sustain myself and my family. Towards the end of lastyear, he introduced some people to me as his family members.He equally proposed to me but I complained about his financial situation,and asked that we hold on a bit till we are stable but he then told me about some of his landed properties and things he has which he wanted us to dispose and start a life.I went with him to see some of the things as I didn't want to be rushed into a marriage.I saw the documents showing his name and all d necessary papers.Well,we put it up for sale and I even helped advertise them online.He also told me his business has kicked off again and I was happy for him.When it was September,  he came to see my parents and we did  our introduction and fixed wedding December.I took in after the whole introduction and I wasn't happy about it as we wanted it after the wedding proper but then I had to pull through as abortion wasn't an option since it was official we had fixed wedding.My problem started early january when the whole thing was dragging.He kept saying stories why we should hold on,meanwhile I had stopped work as I was so sick my job had to be on hold.I used up all my cash to sort my medical bills as it was so bad.Feeding became a big deal as no source of income.The height of it all is that his friends finally called to tell me dude has been lying to me about his status.I was told he had nothing,the house he lived in wasn't his,the people I know are friends not family,infact the landed properties were all falsified documents.The business he was managing was for his uncle.I got to realise that he has dual personality with dubious character.He even lied to my parents about his background,business,every damn thing,which is a big slap to me.I couldn't believe it and started making my research and its all true he lied to me about everything from the onset.I am broken and confused as I don't understand why he had to put me through this,he knew I wasn't desperate to get married yet he couldn't keep the relationship till he got stable.   I am in a big mess now, as my family have started asking questions, worse still I am 5momths gone and have no single source of income.My family used to depend on me so at the moment everyone is on hold.My family have accepted the situation just to help me come out of this sane,but I am stuck financial and an emotional wreck.I have reached out to him and he has been begging that his sorry and he lied because he didn't want to lose me.The marriage has been called off as my family insist I can't marry a lying criminal.For the past few days I can't reach him anymore as his phones are off and he is not within reach.I heard his run away for the meantime and I can't reach his immediate family because the people I know to be the family I found out were not related.Everything was just planned out but to what end?I am writing in now because am totally at a loss on what to do.I have been so down and haven't slept for weeks just staying up all night praying and asking God why me.I am frustrated,I have nobody to turn to.I am due for antenatal but can't go,I don't have a dime anymore as I have exhausted my savings on the survival of this innocent child inside me.My head is literally about to blow off with somuch thinking.I can't apply for jobs now because they won't employ me pregnant though I wish I can get a job because am very hardworking and have work experience,but I dont know where to start from.I am going through somuch challenge and begging someone out there to help me.I know many families are praying for kids,here I am pregnant with the devil trying to destroy me.I don't know if there is an organization that can help me keep the child when I birth so I can work and pay them for all the stress before taking the child.The baby kicks so happily and every time he does that I just cry because am confused.If I can't feed how do I pay for childbirth,upkeep and others.why are some men so wicked?if he lied this much is he even worth marrying anymore?pls I need help.kindly advise me but take it easy with harsh words as I am already inbetween life and death.I am so fragile now.pls save a soul.Thanks and God bless.Moderator pls help me push it out as am goin through trauma.

toposi4naija:
What I can't qet in the story...........if wah the op said is true......where on earth did yhu see money to buy airtime to qet data........ ................if it is true........why did yhu open up dah place for him to pour thinqs inside since yhu not married.....................

hysteriabox:


Wow. It unfortunate. Well... If this story can be confirmed, I'll be willing to assist o. But I need full confirmation

chimkaire:
Did you say 'helped' him market his property for sale? Did you have to do that

adapeter:
my dear,he had already put up the. fake property for sale even before we met.I tried to discourage him and asked him to allow us start small as property is a good assets. he shudnt just dispose,he refused insisting he needed to use d money to. go back into his importation business.He kept. disturbing me to help him advertise it because I worked. online and was into advert placement too.When his pressure became too much,I discussed it to his so called brother and asked him to advise him but the brother said I shud allow a man make his decision.I never knew he was so fake.All the documents he brought were falsified,honestly the guy is just a fraudulent person but its a pity am in this mess already.I pray God see me through to birth the child.I equally want to say we. were already planning everything for d wedding I had to cancel it all.it can happen to anybody but like I said God knows best.

Chickychic:
come if you are not married then am sure you are not a virgin either and so that makes it known that you have been having sex with someone somewhere so you should not be in a hurry to say things carelessly.
am also sure u know girls get pregnant with no plans(mistake pregnancy)plus some ladies life with guys that has not proposed to them, maybe you need to know that some ladies start living with their spouse once bride prize has been paid or the guy has gone to the babes house to say his intentions and that make some ladies start living with them so tell me why wont pregnancy occur?
calculate before talking pls.

shafanik:
If you're in Lagos, call Aunty Landa (Inspiration Fm):
0809 911 1919.


She's a councillor also provides some form of support. Hope it helps

Dheartless:
https://www.nairaland.com/2932640/help...i-finished-contemplating-abortion-five

this girl is a scam
please guys click this link and go through all the coments and how she responded.

she has this post on the 14th of this month here on nairaland and advices have been given to are even help on how to connect her to organizations that will take care of her pregnancy as she suggested but she gave dubious replies.

I thought you said your dad have agreed to accommodate you and the only thing you need now is money, how come your post still solicit for an accommodation?

Dheartless:
https://www.nairaland.com/2932640/help...i-finished-contemplating-abortion-five

this girl is a scam
please guys click this link and go through all the coments and how she responded.

she has this post on the 14th of this month here on nairaland and advices have been given to are even help on how to connect her to organizations that will take care of her pregnancy as she suggested but she gave dubious replies.

I thought you said your dad have agreed to accommodate you and the only thing you need now is money, how come your post still solicit for an accommodation?

Chickychic:
calm down my dear and always stay positive

CoCoLav:

how are you even sure it's a girl? The stories on nairaland these days though...everyone needs money.

lily12:


She probably just quickly copy pasted the original post to call attention to the story one more time. Give the lady a break.

ifyalways:
Lily registered Jan 2016 has become the OP's mouthpiece, mind reader and senior advocate. Hehehe.

Jokers.

Dheartless, why waste your time ? Not worth it biko

ifyalways:
Lily registered Jan 2016 has become the OP's mouthpiece, mind reader and senior advocate. Hehehe.

Jokers.

Dheartless, why waste your time ? Not worth it biko

Dheartless:

lol I saw that too
the op is just to suspicious
I will do as you have advice

Dheartless:

lol I saw that too
the op is just to suspicious
I will do as you have advice

ifyalways:


She carefully avoided links giving to her for organizations that would help her, why is that?

The times she's spent typing online is more than enough to go out and meet those organizations who have structures in place and means of helping her, if she's for real.