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| Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by gformula: 12:41pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
I need advice to know what to do. I'm afflicted with a strange ailments that has not responded to medical treatment. I'm in a Church seeking spiritual healing. My mother just discovered that my best friend is now parading herself as my kids mom and my husband's wife. She now goes to my children School as my children step mother. |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by kestolove95(m): 12:50pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
She's helpin u and u complaining...nawa, nd u betr go village and see a powerful man of our ancestors b4 u die in dat church.. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by amunkita(m): 12:51pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
the onye ara above me ve said it all... go village quick... |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by PresVA: 12:52pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
Didn't you tell her to help you? Or did you leave your kids in the company of someone else? |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by Jackeeh(m): 1:01pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
gformula: Op the one behind your ailment has been revealed to you (allegedly) . She can't wait for you to pass on so she can take over your duties as wife and mother. Do the needful. 1 Like |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by worry359(m): 1:11pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
She is a witch and has cursed you to steal your husband and children. Is she pleasuring your husband in bed as well as well? White mans religion will not help you, you need a native priest and rituals. 2 Likes |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by prettysassygirl(f): 1:42pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
wahala dey |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by Acidosis(m): 2:02pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
Can you share more about your ailments? |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by Pineapp: 3:29pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
One thing is experiencing several unknown ailments and the church (which I know is white garment) is the nearest specialist hospital you can think of  .Another thing is being able to come file your report on nairaland even when you are allegedly sick  .Something else I don't understand is why that your mum prefers sitting and watching your"friend" do the things she's supposed to do as a mother  The last thing is how you managed to keep a traitor as a friend  6 Likes |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by supremepapey(m): 4:03pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
worry359: [color=#006600][/color]the way you jump into conclusion from your assumptions is indeed very scary. Haba |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by Miami11: 4:08pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
I think you need to go to a hospital first, you are obviously very ill and running to church God gives you the wisdom to think and in this case you need quality hospital care first to save your life first Let your mom watch your kids |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by Richy4(m): 4:19pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
For you to express your self in English shows that you are enlightened.... I might not be so sure though.. it could be that someone wrote it for you..... But You were sick, and the best place to go was church? Why are you trying to kill yourself? I do not really want to rubbish your faith here but let us look at it this way Say you have a house, and that house was built about 28 years ago... How do you think that house would be maintained when the roof is licking, the paint was no longer there and the rug was nothing to write home about etc....What will you do you in this situation....... pray? Don't you think maintenance will be the key? Like wise as you are growing and aging, your body needed some kind of maintenance and instead of going to where you will be maintained, just like the licking roof, you are going to church... that got nothing to do with physical maintenance but spiritual You were interested on stup!d matters when actually your life is in danger by staying put in that church......I do not care for now who is parading her self as what.... just get well first by going to a proper hospital... Then your friend story is secondary.... 3 Likes |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by haul: 4:31pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
You are an idiot! You are on sick bed and still monitoring who your husband fuucks with! Which should be paramount,your health or where he decide he shoves his dick? |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by gformula: 7:29pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
I'm thankful to all who have contributed objectively on this post may the good Lord help you. When the sickness started I went to hospitals. I had series of tests that came out negative. But my health was failing and I was losing weight. The hair on my head was also pulling off, that was when I was advised to seek spiritual help. Since I got to Church I started getting better. I'm well lettered but I had to ask a Church member who is on this forum to help me seek people opinions on my matter. 1 Like |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by Nobody: 8:16pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
gformula: Awww sorry about this. While ur praying, make sure u keep exploring other medical channels as well. Also there's a ton of info available on the internet. As for ur friend, I think u may have to put a stop to it and if she resists, then that should answer all ur questions |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by GodnGold: 10:50pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
Na wa ooo.
Please let your people take your children.
One mama has told me that they dash people that kain sickness.
Hope you have checked liver,kidney,ovarian cancer and cervical cancer.
It is not your portion.
May Jehovah El shaddai heal you for the sake of mercy and your kids.
Cry to the Lord using your kids,he is not deaf.
Shalom! 1 Like |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by Qualer: 11:02pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
prettysassygirl:
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| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by coldgate(f): 5:46am On Feb 26, 2016 |
My advice is that you find your way to the RCCG redemption camp ASAP. 2 Likes |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by Nobody: 5:54am On Feb 26, 2016 |
worry359:what proof do you have to label her such names... hmmm.. good morning |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by cococandy(f): 5:57am On Feb 26, 2016 |
Get well first. How many hospitals did you go to? And they those ones that can't diagnose anything else except malaria and typhoid? |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by thorpido(m): 7:47am On Feb 26, 2016 |
Did you ask her to help you out in the first place?She might just be innocently doing it. Your own family members ought to be around you taking care of your children. What tests have you done to conclude that they couldn't find anything? |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by worry359(m): 8:50am On Feb 26, 2016 |
You were sick when you were living there, but are feeling better now living somewhere else.  That sounds like you were being POISONED!Who could have been doing it? Could it be your husband, or the witch woman? You were sick and then a new woman moves in. It does not take much to work out that someone has use witchcraft against you. |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by gformula: 8:56am On Feb 26, 2016 |
I would have loved to give the details of how the whole trouble started but my Sister who is the one on this platform said I should summarize. When my ordeal started in June2015 that time my husband stood by me and the same friend was around and helping out. In fact that was why we agree to let her help us with the kids. She is a long time friend. Why I'm accusing her now is because she openly told my Mum and some of my other friends who tried to confront her that I'm not the only one destined for a good home. As for medical tests, I ran series of them I even tried the computer diagnosis all came out good. |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by Dheartless: 9:21am On Feb 26, 2016 |
sorry I am not too spiritual but I hope no be all thief thief church you Dey o I also don't suggest white garment find a well praying and sincere church mfm, redeem etc. (an effective branch o) (Abeg if I offend anyone with the above "church" post, just know It's my opinion and belief ) still try going for more test and seek medical help. I pray you have speedy and perfect recovery in Jesus name . amen see me don turn pastor sha. 1 Like |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by TheArchangel(f): 9:30am On Feb 26, 2016 |
gformula:What exactly were you being checked for that shows negative or " came out good". Do you have cancer or any other terminal illnesses? Do you bother to ask the doctors what your diagnosis is or what they are suspecting We Nigerians find it difficult to accept or verify ailments/diagnosis but prefer to go to churches for miracles.What test/ investigations were conducted please? This is more paramount than a nonentity claiming to be the main woman in your home. Sort yourself out before wielding your axe or contemplating on how to deal with the perceived intruder. 1 Like |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by Nkasiobi87(f): 6:27pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
gformula:OP I really understand you because I knew there husband snacthers type.she will come as a friend before you know it she will turn to you kids mother and take over your man, just take care of your health first if you have a sister you can send het to your house to stay with the kids.and be strong in praying God will see you through. get well soon. |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by Eteo: 9:53pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
Go to MFM's prayer city and spend just a week. Thank me after. |
| Re: Help A Desperate Friend Is Taking Over My Marriage by 4nobody4every1: 10:48pm On Feb 26, 2016 |
worry359:.....worry359, worry359, U worry alot, relax and calm down, U carry d mata for your head pass the Op, besides, who is the person on your profile and why are you hiding from your ex..wives...  |
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