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Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by zemaye: 4:51pm On Feb 25, 2016
No be SIWES you say you dey do ni!
if you like am oya,
if not interested I dont see any problem with that because its just an Industrial Attachment that will be over before you know it smiley
Funkychic:
Barely a month i got employed in a Microfinance bank for my SIWES, and my boss seriously wants a relationship with me!. Though, he's cute and handsome, but i can't just imagine dating someone working in d same organisation with me, not to talk of my boss. I av turned him down severally, but he has refused to take MY NO for an answer. ...what do i do to wave him aside and it wouldn't affect my job? I seriously need ur suggestions pls
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by LastProphet: 4:55pm On Feb 25, 2016
tripplephi:

I didn't say I was. Your response shows you have no better answer.
is it only the men that enjoy sex? is it only men that use women?

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Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by barbychick2012(f): 5:19pm On Feb 25, 2016
Single or married?
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Luckygurl(f): 5:21pm On Feb 25, 2016
In a matter of months, you'd be out of the bank.
If you say yes to him, what's the gurantee you two will still be together after your SIWES programme.

Left for me, everything is happening too fast to be real.
Take your time so you won't end up heartbroken at the end of it al smiley

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Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by mikkyphp(m): 5:24pm On Feb 25, 2016
This is enough grounds to file a sexual assault charge. Report to your manager and cc HR. There must be decorum in a place of work.
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by refiner(f): 5:31pm On Feb 25, 2016
robosky02:

ok put your self in her office sorry her shoes
what will you do
how will I put myself in her shoe! I too big to enter inside her shoe nah!undecided
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Fourwinds: 5:43pm On Feb 25, 2016
Funkychic:


what descrption?....lol, abeg no fire me oo. I only wanted a suggestion(s) from those dat has experienced such
hmmmmm... ur boss wan chop ur kpomo..... stu..pid man.!!! dats how dey coerce ladies and lay with dem....foolish ladies dey hadly use their brain to get out of d web
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Fourwinds: 5:45pm On Feb 25, 2016
refiner:


how will I put myself in her shoe! I too big to enter inside her shoe nah!undecided
u better begin think how u can get out of such web or else ur boss go chop ur kpomo
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Fourwinds: 5:50pm On Feb 25, 2016
SexyStrawberry:
My dear go and straff him, gone are the days when I advise girls otherwise coz its even that girl who straffs him will last on the job not d holy one that tries to show modesty coz modesty has been flushed down d toilet, so go for it my dear, after all u said he's handsome! wink
hmmmmmm.....u self go dey bang men well well oooo
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by teechudleyy(f): 6:14pm On Feb 25, 2016
Funkychic:
Barely a month i got employed in a Microfinance bank for my SIWES, and my boss seriously wants a relationship with me!. Though, he's cute and handsome, but i can't just imagine dating someone working in d same organisation with me, not to talk of my boss. I av turned him down severally, but he has refused to take MY NO for an answer. ...what do i do to wave him aside and it wouldn't affect my job? I seriously need ur suggestions pls

He cannot sleep with you on the office desk with everyone watching. Therefore... Don't let ur relationship with him go beyond the office space. Avoid even going to his office. If he makes a joke in public. Dont laugh too much. And dont frown while others are laughing. Before people start suspecting what is not and ur reputation gets ruined whether u sleep with him or not. Unless u self wan do sha. Also get used to it its part of ur industrial training. You will continue to experience it. Harassment in Scl from lecturers, harassment at work from staff and bosses... Harassment from clients and future biz partners. Learn to deal with people now. As boldly as possible. If u say no nicely... They will never take u serious. The worst that can happen is dey keep finding faults.
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by ifeomaekol(f): 6:26pm On Feb 25, 2016
Aviero:
Description suits everything, including your pic.

It's funny you're seeing things the wrong way. You think it's just sex, right? Well, that's how ladies like you lose on what God has prepared for you, even after trying to put you in a win-win situation.

I also wonder why you had to bring a private issue to a public forum.

Don't bother coming around again. You're fired from here. We'll no longer accept you.
r u her boss ni? Pls if u r dnt take it like dt, biko. Dnt fire her, she's jux tryn to make d rite decision. U sef shuld kw hw to handle such matas, evn if u meant well for her, u shuld hv found a beta way to reassure her dt u wia real.
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by FuckTheMod: 6:28pm On Feb 25, 2016
Funkychic:
Barely a month i got employed in a Microfinance bank for my SIWES, and my boss seriously wants a relationship with me!. Though, he's cute and handsome, but i can't just imagine dating someone working in d same organisation with me, not to talk of my boss. I av turned him down severally, but he has refused to take MY NO for an answer. ...what do i do to wave him aside and it wouldn't affect my job? I seriously need ur suggestions pls
Lol!

Naija people sha grin

Ordinary siwes

When did that become a job
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by teechudleyy(f): 6:30pm On Feb 25, 2016
FuckTheMod:

Lol!

Naija people sha grin

Ordinary siwes

When did that become a job

Abi oo
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Aviero: 6:33pm On Feb 25, 2016
ifeomaekol:
r u her boss ni? Pls if u r dnt take it like dt, biko. Dnt fire her, she's jux tryn to make d rite decision. U sef shuld kw hw to handle such matas, evn if u meant well for her, u shuld hv found a beta way to reassure her dt u wia real.
Okay. I've heard you. So, will you take her place? Ayam single and ready to mingle.

What's your number? tongue
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by sluk(m): 6:45pm On Feb 25, 2016
Next time, go to work late and walk straight to him and apologise to him for being late, with the excuse that you went for some medical tests for some infections that you have been battling with for about 4 months now. Am sure this will scare the hell out of him and save you the stress.
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Funkychic(f): 7:02pm On Feb 25, 2016
FuckTheMod:
Lol!
Naija people sha grin
Ordinary siwes
When did that become a job
What u do to earn salary is called what?
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Funkychic(f): 7:04pm On Feb 25, 2016
teechudleyy:


He cannot sleep with you on the office desk with everyone watching. Therefore... Don't let ur relationship with him go beyond the office space. Avoid even going to his office. If he makes a joke in public. Dont laugh too much. And dont frown while others are laughing. Before people start suspecting what is not and ur reputation gets ruined whether u sleep with him or not. Unless u self wan do sha. Also get used to it its part of ur industrial training. You will continue to experience it. Harassment in Scl from lecturers, harassment at work from staff and bosses... Harassment from clients and future biz partners. Learn to deal with people now. As boldly as possible. If u say no nicely... They will never take u serious. The worst that can happen is dey keep finding faults.

highly appreciated dear
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Funkychic(f): 7:06pm On Feb 25, 2016
Fourwinds:
hmmmmm... ur boss wan chop ur kpomo..... stu..pid man.!!! dats how dey coerce ladies and lay with dem....foolish ladies dey hadly use their brain to get out of d web

lolz....he then have to rethink
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Funkychic(f): 7:08pm On Feb 25, 2016
dancok:
see ur laps, how he no go wan fu.. .ck u, me too I feel like fu.... Cking the day light out of u.

Gerrarahere mehn!
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Funkychic(f): 7:09pm On Feb 25, 2016
marlockj:



Girls!!!!hmmmmm

Show him d road to your father then you will see him run for his dear life...

He will tell u to date 1st Atleast get to knw u...once you let this that's d end of the beginning....


Na so....me no be a learner nah
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Funkychic(f): 7:12pm On Feb 25, 2016
richard870:
Pls be sincere to yourself. Do you like him? YES or NO?

Thats all!
liking someone is of two meanings.....so, just like him d same way i liked every other staff....no strings attached
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Funkychic(f): 7:14pm On Feb 25, 2016
Laredojohn:

If am right SIWES is more or less like an industrial Training (IT) to be fair with you , i doubt if his show of love and affection is true, if i may ask is the man in question single, if yes , is he professing true love of he just wants to taste out of the ''honey pot'' if i would advise you as a sister , i would suggest you dnt let intimacy get into it , because its going to affect your job that cant be zeroed out of it....all d best sha, just be wise and dnt fall cheaply because in most cases the lady suffers more than the guy in a failed relationship . All d best

You're right....thanks dear

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Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Funkychic(f): 7:16pm On Feb 25, 2016
Truckpusher:
Fucck the hell outta his mind and give him something to remember you for the rest of his randy life.

Who sleeps around with an employee working under you ? You're playing with your business or your job .

lolz....baddo!
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Funkychic(f): 7:17pm On Feb 25, 2016
Justicealh3:
Are U sure E never got anytins 4rm U

Nah nah, bro
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Funkychic(f): 7:18pm On Feb 25, 2016
100Cents:

He wants to take advantage of you.
Tell him, that you are engaged to be married in the next 6 months.
lolz....ok oo, thanks
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Funkychic(f): 7:19pm On Feb 25, 2016
stubbornman:

"though he's cute and handsome". you don gree finish..wetin you want make I talk again nah??

being cute or handsome is never my prioty in a guy, bro
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Funkychic(f): 7:34pm On Feb 25, 2016
justiz5:


Na u funny pass

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Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by nicolosam(m): 7:35pm On Feb 25, 2016
tripplephi:

Are you so dumb. Are all pastors fake. Going to a pastor is for counselling. If I know how spiritual she is then she has to go a mountain and pray fire upon the man. You don't have a better suggestions and yet you face me just because I mention pastor.... Why are you so myopic. God will judge you.... I don't care what pastor has duped or offended you.... We overcome evil with good. If you cannot bring light don't curse the darkness. I pity your destination.... So because there are fake pastors we should not serve God again ba Or we should not go to church... And allow the devil Deceive us that Christianity is in the heart.... My dear God will fight you. You must be proud and hurt. I am no pastor but fake will always prove that there are real ones somewhere. Mtchew

Why have u taken this issue personal? Is going to church a must? What is ur definition of a church? U can on any confusing issues of ur life right there in ur room! Brother, no need to curse ur fellow man by saying God will fight him. Too harsh of you. However, the young lady knows what she want and should take a decision and bears the aftermath of her decision
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Funkychic(f): 7:36pm On Feb 25, 2016
DeeTus:
Hehehe. Ask him to pay your bride price first if he really likes you.

I hate men who can't keep away from asking young girls out.

Alright....copied
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Funkychic(f): 7:39pm On Feb 25, 2016
WebSurfer:

After sleeping with him like a slut since you are already having thoughs of his looks, also come back to tell us how many times more he continued to enjoy that kitty cat until he was done , and how he dumped you afterwards... Educated illitrate. I wonder who wasted money sending you to school.

Hello!....was i ur ex gf dat jilted u recently??
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by sladimeji(m): 7:51pm On Feb 25, 2016
post his pinshure before I comment.....
Re: My Boss Is Asking Me Out On A Date by Laredojohn(m): 7:55pm On Feb 25, 2016
Funkychic:


You're right....thanks dear
Uwc

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