ShakurM:
Incase you didn't read all

She married him because he(the pastor) claimed God chose him for her amongst her other 3 suitors which she was to seek the pastor's answer on whom to choose

"Unknown to her (Udoka), the biggest attraction was her lucrative career at the time. Just within a space of twenty months, a car was bought, a landed property and a shop was paid for all in the name of the husband Pastor Mark Chukwudi Etiti.

Fast forward....After she lost her job, she was beaten and hospitalised, The mother in law threatened her to leave the son or her corpse would be carted away, she refused

Her own family members planned to move her after she sustained the first cutlass injuries, she refused.

It's painful she had to leave this way, a bad case of following your pastor's decision in your life. Ladies,physical abuse shouldn't be tolerated or endured , it's better you flee while you still have air in your airbags

myfantasies:
Y did she stay after he has hit her d first time

Most ladies dat find themselves in such situation r d architect of their own misfortune.

If a man insults u for the first time just walk away from such relationship, cos it will get to a stage where d insults won't satisfy him anymore den he will retort to beating, don't stay thinking dat u will change such a man, he is a beast.

efilefun:
Hope when this dude is being sentenced to death no group of people will come tell us the nation got nothing to gain from executing this murderer. If this man can't be a pastor then what of rev King?
Lots of fake pastors everywhere and you won't hear Muslims call Christianity names but if it were to be the other way round this thread would have been flooded with "Islamabad"

nbright:
@ bolded, Muslims started it here, they verbally attacked Christians.

meimoks:
This is becoming something else

tityboi:
Beware....all these so called pastors and hard core so called christians are the most wicked in Africa. They are also the most corrupt stealing tithe payers money using it to acquire wealth.in the case of core Christians .they preach all around but they never practice it.their heart is filled with evil deeds .may God help us.follow your heart .just do the right thing .your salvation is not in any pastors hand .pray on your own .do it right thing.make move ,take chances and that's the only way out of poverty. God will never come down to do anything for you.he only said he will bless your handwork and not through a pastor .

It's so sad poverty has made most Nigerians gullible when it comes to religion .

Akkord4gov:

These fake pastors as u called them are even worse than Boko Haram and Muslims will help you to call them fake too without abusing the religion,but if it in the other way round,no fake muslims but Islambad etc.

Some Christians need to reset their brain and know that no religion teaches us to be bad,but it is an innate of some people to be bad no matter their religion
Thanks



AKKORD

Alejhandro:


My joy, my love , my beauty, have i insulted u before? No. Yet u still want to walk away from me. Pls don't dont...am on my knees begging

I will neva insult u let alone hit u. Instead of me to hit u, I hit myself

godfrey01:
The family had actually concluded plans to forcefully relocate her and her children after so many refusals from her before the brutal murder of Udoka by the same man who she gave three beautiful children."


she is the cause of her own pains..... wish she has listened to them and moved far away from Him she would have still be alive today..


FEMALE nairalanders and other women out there, why do you still love that man/boy that use you as a punching bag? if you have such, better move far away from him and break that relationship becuase the man does not deserve you...

Adaowerri111:
Who is to blame, skipped 3 suitors for a lunatic, women and their choices

obie206:
This is a clear indication that women have no sense, there is nothing like 'woman's intuition', they are useless in decision making! They are born masochists! They love lies, drama and mistreatment, ALL of them, any idiot treating them nice is just a FOOL!

They love lies, drama and mistreatment.........

ready2learn:
Lord have mercy. How will the children be ever sane again? This man and his mother should be tried. Lesson to all those seeking prayers in strange places.

GodwinTobi:
DEDICATED TO ALL BATTERED WOMEN..........I got
flowers today! It wasn't my birthday or any other special
day. We had our first argument last night; And he said a
lot of cruel things that really hurt; I know that he is sorry
and didn’t mean to say the things he said; Because he sent
me flowers today. I got flowers today! It wasn’t our
anniversary or any other special day; Last night he threw
me into a wall and then started choking me; It seemed
unreal, a nightmare, but you wake up from nightmares;
And I woke up this morning sore and bruised all over—but
I know he is sorry; Because he sent me flowers today. I
got flowers today! And it wasn’t Valentines Day or any
other special day; Last night he beat me and threatened to
kill me; Make-up and long sleeves didn’t hide the cuts and
bruises this time; I couldn’t go to work today because I
didn’t want anyone to know—but I know he’s sorry;
Because he sent me flowers today. I got flowers today!
And it wasn’t Mother’s Day or any other special day; Last
night he beat me again, and it was worse than all of the
other times; If I leave him, what will I do? How will I take
care of the kids? What about money? I’m afraid of him,
but I’m too scared and dependent to leave him! But he
must be sorry; Because he sent me flowers today. I got
flowers today…. Today was a special day—it was the day
of my funeral; Last night he killed me; If only I would have
gathered the courage and strength to leave him; I could
have received help from the Women’s Shelter, but I didn’t
ask for their help; So I got flowers today—for the last
time. SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENC