QueenValerie:
Didnt have to. Friendships don't always turn into marriages,as you well know.

WORDWORLD:


"does always" is a conditonal statement. Mean it may also turn into marriage.

In this case it did. And so, what is wrong with such? THAT WHAT I WANT TO UNDERSTAND.

QueenValerie:
With this particular case or all cases?

WORDWORLD:


Sure this particular one. I dont UNNECESSARILY SUPPORT POLYGAMY too.

QueenValerie:
Are you of any faith?
I don't want ta get inta what is "wrong" here if it'll be we dismissed.

icedbeatz:
lol yes sire and i totally understand your stand, its is one of the hardest thing for a man to do but its not impossible atleast for a certain number of years especially when the wife is still fresh but if one has the fear of God they can do it and leave the world smacking only their wife's puna i.e from when he got married.

WORDWORLD:


Talk objectively..........dont tell me you want to join the ranks of those who BLEAT, BLEAT, BLEAT and BLEAT about about the bushes.

WORDWORLD:


Talk objectively..........dont tell me you want to join the ranks of those who BLEAT, BLEAT, BLEAT and BLEAT about about the bushes.

Haha ......you!! That guy with the love for goats!!

WORDWORLD:


LordReed i am so glad that we are starting to understand one another on the LEVEL i recommended which is being 'INTELLECTUAL'.

At first read it sounded like 'PRIDE' or as you once said 'EGO'. But the TRUTH is God created all of us to be INTELLIGENT that is why we are SUPERIOR to animals. So, why ask for LESS. The IRONY and the TRUTH is that in our today's world is HUMANITY has become so DEHUMANIZED by systems and technology that we by ourselves created without putting HUMAN VALUE above the VALUE OF GOLD.

"Once we disconnect from the bullshit narratives that are forced down our throat by the mainstream media, as well as many out-dated cultural influences, we can better focus on AUTHENTICALLY LIVING IN HEALTHY, HAPPY AND HONORABLE WAYS"

I love to discuss with people who always have to think of earning their respect by respect others. And today, with your view not just because it is so TRUE but because its free of any words that will create energy wasted friction between us. I HAVE ALOT OF RESPECT FOR YOU. YOU EARNED IT!

We are all changing, we are all evolving. we are all at different stages from different back grounds, with different philosophy, with different perspectives. BUT ALL WE NEED AS HUMAN BEINGS IS THE HONEST QUEST TO UNDERSTANDING ONE ANOTHER.

Thank you very much for spending your precious time and making an HONEST CONTRIBUTION that futher teaches the world that privileges comes with alot of responsibilites.

ALL THAT THE WORLD NEEDS INORDER TO PROSPER IS SINCERITY.

The story of the TRADER is based on Kind heartedness, not on lust and on SINCERITY to marriage vows and not becoming a slave to INFEDILITY.

ONCE, AGAIN. MY REQUEST ON INTELLECTUAL DISCOURSE IS SO BECAUSE SOLUTIONS TO PROBLEMS CAN BE ARRIVED AT. WE MUST ALWAYS HAVE PRIORITIES THAT ARE OUTSTANDING.

Honestly its all about an 'INTELLIGENTSIA' on NairaLand as a priority and gratitude to God for making us Human beings and not Animals.

I hope i have tried to explaining the philosophy behind my request.

Thank you and i wish you good health and abundance of wealth and a heart that is kind.

icedbeatz:
nigga you take everything too serious. I respect the union called marriage a lot that's why i'm still testing, observing and doing all i can to sieve the one from them all. If you happen to marry a wonderful lady that appeals to your heart, body and soul then pussyy won't be a problem bc pussi is not the foundation of the relationship and if you really love your wife like crazy the thought of hurting her won't allow you to fk around bc you can't look into her eyes without your conscience stabbing you bc of the wrong you've done to her you feel me?

WORDWORLD:


I can see and thank you.

Well even animals have SEX too, but RESPONSIBLITY is for mostly humanbeings.

So those who do otherwise know where the belong. SHOULDNT THE WORLD BECOME TIRED OF MEANINGLESS SEX?

Its obvious that his choice is not POLYGAMY hence it doesnt appeal to him. He prefers as stated by him. WHEN ONE CAN BLEEP WITHOUT RINGS IN HAND.

lezz:
You mean seared conscience from religious tenets and moral obligation!!!

Men will worship the ground their wives walk and bang the very next pusssy that probably doesn't measure up to their wives.

It is a painful reality. The average men don't equate _fuck with love.

And ass comes shaking with a nice curve, only my religious beliefs will stop me from banging the stars out of that ass. And the love of my wife won't even be dampen one bit.

lezz:
You mean seared conscience from religious tenets and moral obligation!!!

Men will worship the ground their wives walk and bang the very next pusssy that probably doesn't measure up to their wives.

It is a painful reality. The average men don't equate _fuck with love.

And ass comes shaking with a nice curve, only my religious beliefs will stop me from banging the stars out of that ass. And the love of my wife won't even be dampen one bit.

wasak:
This is just beautiful, when I try to encourage people to see the deeper truths of the world, they come off to me as shallow and incapable of such.
What annoys me more, is the response of men who are serial cheats, trying to uphold monogamy under the pretext of appearing civil, liberated or intelligent while believing their lies to be true.

akike:
Wordworld

I was about to counter your points then I got to the Eritean example and I realised that you are so stupid. If you cannot tell that the Eritean husband news was a fabrication, you must be too thick for me to reason with.

I can see why you are a fan of toks2008.

neoapocalypse:


Yet you won't accept it if she bangs the next hunk that walks by her

akike:


Some reason like women do not cheat. Your wife is still going to bang your gateman. She doesn't need to have lots of extras. Another one to switch the flavour is all she needs.

WORDWORLD:


Did you also read where i wrote in Bracket the Eritean story as ( Perhaps a HOAX but lets look at the logics)

Before writting this piece i honestly check their recent census which doesnt depicts shotage of Male. But men? its another statistics to verify.

Thank you for your remarks i truely appreciate.

lezz:
Depending on a whole lot of factors!

lezz:
My mind is like an open highway!!!

And I'm open to the possibility of the worse in life.

The ego in a man like me might suffer more from the act of betrayal, perhaps, more than my sense of being cheated on.

But then again, sex for most women isn't bang and go!!!

neoapocalypse:



It would surprise you that on average the ego of the woman is bigger than that of a man as it is more difficult for a lady to walk away from betrayal but most men quickly adjust to life and what it throws at us. You look at it from an African point of view where the woman is suppressed in every way imaginable , I have met white ladies who would put a bullet in your skull if you cheat on them , in fact it is more likely with a white lady than with a white man.

akike:


I don't think so sir. If she wants to cheat, she will cheat. There are lots of interesting characters out there to make her feel on top of the world. Yours might just not be enough for her.

lezz:
lolz, I don't want to take the route of my personal experience as this convo is thus inviting.

But a cheating wife takes a whole lot of factors. A girlfriend can cheat...easily.


A cheating wife takes more, either baggage of the past, E.G ex's or the complete emotional, sexual and financial abandonment of the husband.

Beleive me, it's a touch decision for a wife to make.

A man on the other hand can bang the _pussy just for the fun of it.

lezz:
OK, females do not as much as shadow men in the ego contest. That's a marked feature of males, for his good and undoing as well.


And I think women are built tougher than men to handle some aspects of life. Cheating, betrayal, emotional tumoil.

Western women who shoot their cheating partners are suffering from hyper-active personality disorder. And they are in the minority.

lezz:
OK, females do not as much as shadow men in the ego contest. That's a marked feature of males, for his good and undoing as well.


And I think women are built tougher than men to handle some aspects of life. Cheating, betrayal, emotional tumoil.

Western women who shoot their cheating partners are suffering from hyper-active personality disorder. And they are in the minority.

akike:


You convince them that they have no choice. [s]Men are not liekly to get married to divorcees or single women with children.[/s]

akike:



You ask them whether they intend to have sex with every dick and harry when they need sex. You ask them to consider the effects on their children etc etc etc

akike:


Basically, you make them feel helpless and hopeless.

LordReed:


I apologize for misconstruing the intent of your post.

akike:


Women are not built tougher. They are conditioned or asked to be tougher yet they still call them emotional beings.

What an irony?

lezz:
You mean single men are not likely to get married to divorces and single mothers. You lost me here sincerely, you care to rephrase? But if I guess correctly, you seem to be making a conclusion that African women are still subjugated. They are not!!!
This isn't 1935. Today's women in Nigeria are sexually liberated more than most women in Asia and south America. Your postulation is ridiculously misplaced.

akike:



That was a sarcastic reply.


I was listing reasons why women are believed to be able to endure a cheating and abusive spouse. And I know I am spot on, ask Toks2008, his cohorts and other traditional men and women.