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Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Nobody: 8:37pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
QueenValerie: "does always" is a conditonal statement. Mean it may also turn into marriage. In this case it did. And so, what is wrong with such? THAT WHAT I WANT TO UNDERSTAND. |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Nobody: 8:39pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
WORDWORLD:With this particular case or all cases? |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Nobody: 8:41pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
QueenValerie: Sure this particular one. I dont UNNECESSARILY SUPPORT POLYGAMY too. |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Nobody: 8:45pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
WORDWORLD:Are you of any faith? I don't want ta get inta what is "wrong" here if it'll be we dismissed. |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Nobody: 8:59pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
QueenValerie: Talk objectively..........dont tell me you want to join the ranks of those who BLEAT, BLEAT, BLEAT and BLEAT about about the bushes. |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by lezz(m): 9:07pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
icedbeatz:It's possible, bro |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Nobody: 9:07pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
WORDWORLD: If you aint COMFORTABLE, case dismissed. And thank you for your time. |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Nobody: 9:09pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
WORDWORLD:Haha ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by wrongnumber: 5:01am On Mar 01, 2016 |
WORDWORLD: lol..see grammar |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by LordReed(m): 7:15am On Mar 01, 2016 |
icedbeatz: I apologize for misconstruing the intent of your post. 1 Like |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by LordReed(m): 7:35am On Mar 01, 2016 |
WORDWORLD: I got overwrought because I thought he was trivialising this matter. Sex is our biological inheritance and so we can't deny that we want it but it doesn't mean we need to be wanton about it. 1 Like |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Nobody: 6:15pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
LISTEN UP O! WOMEN, GIRLS AND LADIES............get this through your FEAR DRIVEN SKULLS. YOU DON'T OWN ANYONE IF YOU ARE NOT READY TO BE THAT ONE YOUR MAN WANTS TO SHARE AN INFINITE LOVE STORY WITH. One thing, I have never understood about MONOGAMY is the notion that one person could be EVERYTHING. It seems like a TALL ORDER to think that one person could be your everything. We mostly do not know how to remain the SAME when CHANGE sets in. To think that, that one person will always be your everything that you will always want, that you won't feel differently in ten years, is a little NAIVE. You don't know who you will be in the future. You only have a measure of control over the present. All these mismanaged 'OWNERSHIP', he is mine and mine alone in MONOGAMY is turning or has turned MONOGAMY into a prison where your partner is a warden and you are the one behind bars depending on the kind of relationship you want to have, the seed from which you grow, the foundation on which you are building as a fellowship in MONOGAMY. The TRUTH is, if we were all HONEST and operated from a place of INTERGRITY, rather than place of what you should do in order to align with MONOGAMOUS VALUES, your relationship will exist in TRUTH, not this FANTASY or IDEAL of one man one wife you women are so emotional obsessed about without owning up to MATURITY. If you want your MAN to yourself alone, then become a MATURED WOMAN and not a little baby that is always waiting to be pampered. Your man wants attention, to be appreciated, to be respected, to be cared for above anything else............ The moment a man gets married he forgets about all those 'LOVE' drama..............it is WOMEN, that love to be LOVED and want it more than anything ELSE. The want men to consistently tell them 1,4,3...I LOVE YOU every 24 hours. A lot of MEN who end up marrying more than one wife or keep mistresses are mostly pushed to doing so by their wife who thinks she own's him. ITS MONOGAMY!!! She exclaims. She thinks she can treat him with the uncaring power of OWNERSHIP as it is in our Co-operate world. Which is far from the TRUTH, so FALSE to a fault your thinking o! Women. That you won't respect your man, give him attention and care but always expecting the GIFTS to becoming, the words I LOVE YOU and your only role is to ENJOY yourself. Hmmmmmm!!! BIGGEST MISTAKE. That vaccum you created by yourself by not attending properly to his needs will be filled by someone else. You think that once RING is in his finget. Its the same as HAND CUFFS. You think that is all and you can relax and not nuture you once activated LOVE. BIGGEST MISTAKE!!! A lot of women are so guilty of this and when the vaccum is filled with that new one who can feel a his needs and provide them. WIFE BECOME SO TERRIFIED AND COMES HER ILLOGICAL DRAMA. So here is a true story. He married a woman who thinks she is like an egg. QUEEN, of the house. Will not cook, tidy the house, pay attention to her husband's need except watching SOAP OPERA..........chatting with friends on social media. And when the man demands INTIMACY she tells him to go on his knees before he can gain access. AFTERALL I AM THE ONLY QUEEN. THIS IS MONOGAMY. WE OWN EACH OTHER. What happened? He went out and searched for that ONE that can make life worth living. He married a second wife. The second wife already knowing the lapses of the first. Came into the house well prepared to avoiding her mistakes. She is the first person he hopes to see in the morning because breakfast is all ready, she has polished his shoes, chosen what outfit to wear, ironed it. Put water in the bathroom............................... She liked 'WORSHIPPED HIM'. She is ready to give him head without complaining, Dog style no wahala, quickees always at alert. First wife seeing that she has lost her OWNERSHIP decided not to lose it all. Her brain told her let us SHARE. In TRUTH that is what relationship is all about. One morning, this man came out of his car only to see his first wife, THE QUEEN, washing his car as an effort to winning him back. He could believe his eyes............and when he realised he wasnt dreaming. He help rushing to her and giving her a FRENCH KISS. IN THE END, SHE BECAME EVEN MORE CARING THAN THE SECOND WIFE. Both are always trying to be the best. Wife if you dont do the right things at the right time...........WELL A STORY HAS BEEN TOLD. Credit goes to Kelly Marceau, an insightful teacher. 2 Likes |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Nobody: 7:23pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
lezz: Yet you won't accept it if she bangs the next hunk that walks by her 2 Likes |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by akike: 7:38pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
Wordworld I was about to counter your points then I got to the Eritean example and I realised that you are so stupid. If you cannot tell that the Eritean husband news was a fabrication, you must be too thick for me to reason with. I can see why you are a fan of toks2008. 2 Likes |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by akike: 7:39pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
lezz: Some reason like women do not cheat. Your wife is still going to bang your gateman ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by akike: 7:40pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
wasak: Another feather brained weasel ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Nobody: 7:49pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
akike: Did you also read where i wrote in Bracket the Eritean story as ( Perhaps a HOAX but lets look at the logics) Before writting this piece i honestly check their recent census which doesnt depicts shotage of Male. But men? its another statistics to verify. Thank you for your remarks i truely appreciate. 1 Like |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by lezz(m): 7:49pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
neoapocalypse:My mind is like an open highway!!! And I'm open to the possibility of the worse in life. The ego in a man like me might suffer more from the act of betrayal, perhaps, more than my sense of being cheated on. But then again, sex for most women isn't bang and go!!! |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by lezz(m): 7:51pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
akike:Depending on a whole lot of factors! |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by akike: 7:57pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
WORDWORLD: What logic? ![]() Stop trying to deceive yourself, we don't have a ratio of 2 women to 1 man and at most we will have 56 women to 44 men. Also, men are living longer these days. That means in the next 20 years in developed countries, there will be an almost equal number of men and women (they are already approaching that mark ![]() ![]() Now who the hell made you a women fighter/warrior? Who the hell ask you to fight on our behalf? What makes you think we are helpless? What makes you think we need your shitty help? If you are interested in saving the world and putting smiles on people, move to Syria!!! ![]() Wordworld, this was my argument ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by akike: 7:59pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
lezz: I don't think so sir. If she wants to cheat, she will cheat. There are lots of interesting characters out there to make her feel on top of the world. Yours might just not be enough for her. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Nobody: 8:01pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
lezz: It would surprise you that on average the ego of the woman is bigger than that of a man as it is more difficult for a lady to walk away from betrayal but most men quickly adjust to life and what it throws at us. You look at it from an African point of view where the woman is suppressed in every way imaginable , I have met white ladies who would put a bullet in your skull if you cheat on them , in fact it is more likely with a white lady than with a white man. 2 Likes |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by lezz(m): 8:11pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
neoapocalypse:OK, females do not as much as shadow men in the ego contest. That's a marked feature of males, for his good and undoing as well. And I think women are built tougher than men to handle some aspects of life. Cheating, betrayal, emotional tumoil. Western women who shoot their cheating partners are suffering from hyper-active personality disorder. And they are in the minority. |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by lezz(m): 8:17pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
akike:lolz, I don't want to take the route of my personal experience as this convo is thus inviting. But a cheating wife takes a whole lot of factors. A girlfriend can cheat...easily. A cheating wife takes more, either baggage of the past, E.G ex's or the complete emotional, sexual and financial abandonment of the husband. Beleive me, it's a touch decision for a wife to make. A man on the other hand can bang the _pussy just for the fun of it. |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by akike: 8:21pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
lezz: Banging a pussy for the fun of it sounds emotional and sexual to me Having sex with another man for adventure or sexual satisfaction also sounds emotional to me. It won't stop her from loving you and her children ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by akike: 8:22pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
lezz: Women are not built tougher. They are conditioned or asked to be tougher yet they still call them emotional beings ![]() What an irony? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by akike: 8:29pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
lezz: You convince them that they have no choice. Men are not liekly to get married to divorcees or single women with children. You ask them whether they intend to have sex with every dick and harry when they need sex. You ask them to consider the effects on their children etc etc etc Basically, you make them feel helpless and hopeless. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by lezz(m): 8:41pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
akike:You mean single men are not likely to get married to divorces and single mothers. akike:You lost me here sincerely, you care to rephrase? But if I guess correctly, you seem to be making a conclusion that African women are still subjugated. They are not!!! This isn't 1935. Today's women in Nigeria are sexually liberated more than most women in Asia and south America. akike: ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by Nobody: 8:44pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
LordReed:its all good bro, there's nothing wrong in expressing yourself or dropping your opinion. |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by lezz(m): 8:45pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
akike:Forgive my personal remark, since your handle has no letter indicator to ascertain your gender.......are you female or male? Women aren't conditioned to feel stronger.millions of years of evolution made women to outlive and out-bear most tradegy men cannot bear. Are you telling me women were conditioned to be something alien to their very nature for millions of years, by all cultures and civilisations known to men. Across all parts of the world wjo never share same culture or beliefs or ethics? Give me a better excuse. |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by akike: 8:46pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
lezz: That was a sarcastic reply. ![]() I was listing reasons why women are believed to be able to endure a cheating and abusive spouse ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Pillar Of Truth Behind the Truth On Polygamy. by lezz(m): 8:56pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
akike:A still wonder why women equate sex with love more than men do. Remember sex takes place inside a woman, it means more to her than men. A woman will consider _fucking randomly than would a man would because evolution ensure she's more picky of her suitor and mate. |
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