lezz:
Forgive my personal remark, since your handle has no letter indicator to ascertain your gender.......are you female or male?

Women aren't conditioned to feel stronger.millions of years of evolution made women to outlive and out-bear most tradegy men cannot bear.

Are you telling me women were conditioned to be something alien to their very nature for millions of years, by all cultures and civilisations known to men. Across all parts of the world wjo never share same culture or beliefs or ethics?

Give me a better excuse.

lezz:
A still wonder why women equate sex with love more than men do.


Remember sex takes place inside a woman, it means more to her than men.

A woman will consider _fucking randomly than would a man would because evolution ensure she's more picky of her suitor and mate.

akike:


What logic?


Stop trying to deceive yourself, we don't have a ratio of 2 women to 1 man and at most we will have 56 women to 44 men.

Also, men are living longer these days. That means in the next 20 years in developed countries, there will be an almost equal number of men and women (they are already approaching that mark ). We are going to reach that mark soon in developing countries. If a 30 year old woman is looking for a husband, ask her to go for widows, or single men of 40 and above. We have lots of them out there.




Now who the hell made you a women fighter/warrior? Who the hell ask you to fight on our behalf? What makes you think we are helpless? What makes you think we need your shitty help?

If you are interested in saving the world and putting smiles on people, move to Syria!!!

WORDWORLD:


I CAN UNDERSTAND YOUR PHOBIA FOR POLYGAMY. My dear its all about choice.

The little boy and his mother are happy in their new home.

akike:


We are not physical toughness. We are talking about emotional strength. Women are not built to be tougher. It is a fact not an opinion. The society not genetics make them tougher. Also we have different types of emotional strength however women do not have a natutal emotional strength to deal with a cheating partner. Men's brains are better suited for that.

akike:


Women are pickier however it does not mean that a woman cannot prioritise her relationships.

If a gf can have four stable bfs for different reasons, she can maintain her marriage and her infidelity . She can also prioritise her marriage over her lover . Women who cheat do it all the time. Women who wants to cheat but who don't cheat, do so out of fear

The fact that it happens inside her does not mean anything.

lezz:
And I wasn't making allusions to physical toughness. Women cry easily and relieve stress and emotional tensions.

Check your statistics for stroke and HPB between the sexes.

Widowers can hardly cope after the demise of their wives.

Widows cope better. There's no experience or statistics to support your argument.

You said it was societally conditioned and I have told you it is pure genetics by millions of years of evolution.

Why do you think evolution made women to be the one to conceive, carry the foetus for months, nurture and care for the child all through infancy?

It takes an emotionally powerful being to do that.

Men aren't built to withstand that kind of emotional pressure.

Quit this argument.

akike:


It is not a phobia. Just admit that you cannot defend your opinion. I have told you earlier that you have no case.

lezz:
@bolded is why I'm giving up the debate. How could you bring the notion of having different lovers as a credential for fidelity?

Really I'm lost to the rationale or logic of your postulation.

WORDWORLD:


I just told you its all about CHOICE. Its no case at all.

And there is nothing to defend more than the fact that instead of the Lady to be ALLOWED to have ILLICIT SEX and paid 10K. Another man sheltered her as a SECOND WIFE and not without the consent of the FIRST.

AND THE ARE ALL LIVE VERY HAPPILY.

Mind you, Monogamy is do suffer all kinds of TROUBLES too. BOTTOM LINE SINCERITY IS ALL THAT COUNTS BE IT POLY OR MONO.

Its about working as a TEAM.........and saving our society from all kinds of SHAME.

I DONT HAVE ANY CASE WITH YOU BECAUSE YOU READ THAT WRITE UP WITH YOUR EMOTIONAL DRIVE AND NOT WITH INTELLECT.

Typical of Phobia driven minds.

Stated clear. Ertiean may be a HOAX but lets look at the Logics.

WHICH IN TRUE LIFE DOES HAPPEN, IN WHICH THE OUT COME OF WAR PRODUCES SHORTAGE OF MEN.

Hence, Polygamy is a Solution, * A SOLUTION among others.

I dont fight for women. I fight for TRUTH and JUSTICE.

That is my DRIVING SPIRIT and not FEAR.

You can write your counter so that we can learn. The aim once again is solution seeking. JUST BE AS SINCERE AS POSSIBLE THAT ALL THAT COUNTS. And i will be willing to embrace your TRUTH.

Thank you.

akike:


We have different types of emotional strengths. Women do more empathy, men don't however men are more able to deal with situations than women. It does not make one more emotionally stronger than the other rather I see it as a compliment.

akike:


If a woman finds it easy to explode or change gear at every opportunity, my logic tells me that she shouldn't be trusted to forgive a cheating partner.

akike:


However if a man can move beyond emotions and deal with issues, he can definitely withstand his wife having sex with his best friend right in front of him.

akike:


[s]Your argument is based on the nurture not nature. If a widower is the first son of his family, he would cope because of his position however a woman will always cope because she has been nurtured to act that way. [/s]

akike:


I countered your arguments and you couldn't come up with anything.

Stop sounding daft, please!

lezz:
[s]Because men are more prone to logic and less with emotion.
Women do more empathy because it's in their genes. Biologically implanted by evolution to nurse the baby and surprisingly the man himslef Because the emotions of women is like a faulty fuel gauge of a car. They rant out of jealousy which is agsin doused by the sweet pleadings of the cheating partner. Nonetheless, ranting about it doesn't mean not being able to deal with it. Ego stands in the way. Your logic is spectacularly off mark!!! Absolutely no bearing with facts and logic.

Please answer the question I have asked; if women are conditioned or nurtured by society to be how they are, is it a coincidence that for millions of years in all human societies women were so conditioned?

This has reached the path of vain banter, bro.

I'm calling it off and putting a permanent lid on it.[/s]

akike:


What is so hard for you to understand. Let me break it down for you

My argument:


A woman is very emotional that is why she cries etc etc but the type of emotional strength she has is for empathy.

A man's brain is not for emotional empathy, he can deal with issues therefore he should be allowed to deal with emotional issues. Is that so hard for you to grasp? If men can deal with situations, shouldn't they be considered emotionally stronger than women? Shouldn't they be allowed to deal with emotional situations?


The society's and yours:

A women is very emotional therefore she is emotionally weak but not weak to stay with an abusive or cheating partner=she is emotionally strong to deal with a cheating partner.







There are societies where polyandry is practiced although they may be few but it proves one thing. It proves that women are capable of having as much sexual and emotional relationships as posiible






Your widower vs widow argument was so irrelevant, you should be glad I addressed it but here is a complex but simple reasoning.

Do most women have a job and maintain their home at the same time? Yes


Are most men the same way? No, they go to work and come back, sometimes they run a few errands at the behest of their wives.



So it is common sense when a woman who is used to running both fronts to easily move on than a man who thinks it is a woman's job to maintain the home. Don't put it on emotional strength, blame it on experience and the society.




My society tells me to be independent and also be a ‘good wife', my husband only needs to be independent. I didn't choose it, it chose me. I have been told by virtually everyone on earth to learn how to run two different lives. Most Nigerian women love their lives based on it.

lezz:
[s][/s] Tried as I did, I couldn't sieve out your overlapping, leaking emotions from the point you're straining to make.

You needn't write a long epistle to pass the point. You tried 4 times earlier and you didn't scale through. Sorry.

akike:


Nah, you need to learn how to learn to reason logically and rationally.

I forgot to tell you a lil bit about my profession. Logic is what I do .


Admit that you are poor thinker, I might just be willing to teach you some tricks

daretodiffer:
@le.zz

Mention this moniker when you learn to use logic to analyse issues

lezz:
Oh, anything goes here, lad. Wake me up when you learn to separate your opinions from facts.

Oh, and stop hiding behind the curtains of nairaland with bogus claims. Sounds so darn insecure.

And no one really gives a good goddamn about a logician ---that's judging by your display so far

lezz:
What's up hun? Beleive me, I don't waste time with logic with women; It's a waste of time, I like the look of your eyes already. And I want to share your bed not logic.

daretodiffer:


It is not an opinion

In psychology, they are referred to as cognitive emotion and emotional empathy. Google is your friend


Admit it, you don't know what you are saying

daretodiffer:


I should stop arguing with you. I don't like men who cannot use their brains. They nauseate me



The day you share my bed is the day I die

lezz:
And what is it I'm trying to say, sweetheart?

I'm trying to see if you bed can offer something so contrasting to this weather.

Cognitive emotion with women aren't in dispute and I actually don't care to take you on that. I'll easily floor you.

What I'm interested is your choice of undies during this heat.

It tells alot about a lady

daretodiffer:


Actually, cognitive emotion is to men as emotional empathy is to women. I have floored and I will always floor you






Do you have a death wish? I do. I'll like to know how your

lezz:
And what is it I'm trying to say, sweetheart?

I'm trying to see if you bed can offer something so contrasting to this weather.

Cognitive emotion with women aren't in dispute and I actually don't care to take you on that. I'll easily floor you.

What I'm interested in is your choice of undies during this heat.

It tells alot about a lady

lezz:
I won't take the bait, babe!!! Very tempting, but I won't bite.

You can only floor me if you can last 3 rounds of sweat-dripping sex with your legs arched apart and allow pelvics level penetration without the hindrance of your thighs.

Toks2008:
I just dey onserve from page one...

wordworld i respect your grammertical prowess and intellevtual capability..not because your opinion tallies with mine but i just love your analysis.

Akike please try as much as you can not to use any form of hateful word cos from wat im reading from you,its apparent that you are capable of holding intelligent arguementd but try not to take them personal.

Nack to the sideline.

PunterTim:

daretodiffer:
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Go FVCK yourself