Ngenge:
As some people said, she went to the extreme level by coming back late, bringing a guy home and not cooking 4 the kids. If she cannot forgive, then both of u can seperate in peace. Two captains cannot rock d same ship but na u cause d wahala o

bardella1:
am sure if u were to catch ur wife cheating..u won't let her explain bfr u send her packing lol

uckennety:

OfcoursE she'll needs to go amicably! We can b frnds if sHE wants! !unless she v sometin on mE!den i'll chill!to gt bk @ her!i'll try to mk Her sister or cousin pregnant!so e go kill am!dts me oooo!b d man!unless ur nt d breadwinner!but dz case u bleeped up!nt dt u cheated!but u got caught!she is hurt no doubt!but dts not Enough to constitutE a nuisance in d family!

AfroKnight:
Look, this woman is taking things too far. After your apology she's now behaving like she doesn't need the marriage. You married a very foolish woman who thinks like a teenager. Her game will backfire and nobody will console her. What stupidity!

She is lucky she has a man that wants her. If she knew she didn't want the marriage any longer why did she come back? Why couldn't she stay in her father's to play her childish games. Rubbish.

At some point, revenge becomes senseless. Some women don't have sense.

iamrealdeji:
Mr,with due respect,admit it that you're an animal for cheating on the mother of your kids. Just try to show much love to her,try to explain to her that we men are naturally polygamous,let her know that she's much better than the concubine you cheated on her with. Let her know that konji in men is just uncontrollable at times and let her know that a lot of men are he-goats,you inclusive. Ask for her forgiveness and promise never to do it again. Make sure she forgives you wholeheartedly 

Joy1706:

Pls tell me what would ur reaction be if ur wife cheated? Women don't have a right to be angry ba?

Armanee:
U shuld ask Toks2008 for an advice. He goes around encouraging Adulterous men. Im sure he has a backup plan for all situations concerning men who cheat.

Adasun:
[b]hellow fellow,am in a big mess right now.



My pervetious heart lead me to cheat on my wife and unfortunately i got caught red handed.i woun't explain dat awkward experience for now.



My wife trusted me so much,but i broke those trust.now my own home is broken too.


When da deed happened and i was caught,she cried nd cried and later left my house.due to pleads frm those she respected so much because i ask them for help.she later came back to da hwz bt not in gud terms


we no longer greet,she hardly talks to me,she cook when she wants to.once she did not cook,i had to buy fud for da kids


most of all,she now started acting wield nd free.she picks suspicious calls right under my nose.laugh anyhow when charting.


When it first started,i thought it's just a plot to get me jealous so i dance to da tone.i use my body language to atleast show her am jealous and want her badly.


Bt it got worse,she now comes home late and even brought a guy home.and when i saw dis guy in da sitting rum,he introduce me as her cousing.


i was mad,but i myself i guilty.how do i show her dat am in charge when i myself was caught cheatingshould i send her out?on what ground

should i continue to make peace reign?bt i have tried my best.i need ur help my fellow landers.help a brother to make da right decision.


lalasticala do da needful.
Tanks[/b]

AfroKnight:


If she wanted to remain angry she should have stayed away. Not come back and be playing childish games like a foolish teenager.

Joy1706:

You've not answered my question. What would ur reaction to a cheating wife be?

Joy1706:

If I'm ur wife and u tell me this bull sheet, I swear I'll pour hot water on u. Are u freaking insane or sth?

Swissheart:
Not giving the kids food is totally bad and uncalled for.... .. We all sin and since you claim to have apologized and even repented she should get it go. I dislike ppl with you did and I do attitude. Anyways talk to her again and again. ..... Show her you won't ever do such again. Make her understand you won't like her bring problems home because of a sin you v repented over.

bebe2:


Men of these days are so Weak, so my husband cheated, so I will bring a strange man to his living room?

Or go out and come back late or neglect his kids?

Which day I start to fly? Well with some men u can get away with many things.

And all those saying she won't sleep with this or dat,
Pleassssseeee , take several sits. U don't know if she is or not.

Joy1706:
Personally I don't think I can forgive a cheating husband. If I decide to stay, be rest assured o will lose every respect,trust and love I had for you. I would probably do what ur wife is doing except id give my kids food and leave u to fend for yourself.
Honestly you don't come across as repentant to me. So u expected her to forget everything just like that. And u even have the nerve to consider divorce. Why did u beg her in the first place? Just get out a beg. If u like allow these single NL boys control u. Just get out pls

Sarang:


She won't because she's a good woman.
Your type are the people that remain in an abusive relationship for marriage namesake.
If my husband cheats on me,heaven knows thats the end.
That woman she has a kind heart and this husband of hers is just poo.

Im surprise to see some women still thinks themselves as nothing in this century.

bebe2:


Me think my self as nothing ? Far from it .

I have a man who adores me and has been doing dat for 20yrs. Treats me the same he treated me wen i was 17. There will always be issues, but one needs widom to handle it.

she has taken it too far. She had my sympathy until she brought a stranger to her matrimonial home.

For me dats a No No. On no account shud dat happen. That type of anger can make her sleep with someone else just to punish her husband . She is very vulnerable at this stage and men love that they will happily take advantage of the situation.

OK, wen all this dies down wat does she tell the stranger?

U live and learn, u dat is acting like untouchable, the day u hear ur husband is cheating on u , divorce him, take the kids and marry another man. Wen dat one cheats divorce him too, add the new kids to old from previous fathers. Search for another. Let's see how far that will take you.

Sarang:


She won't because she's a good woman.
Your type are the people that remain in an abusive relationship for marriage namesake.
If my husband cheats on me,heaven knows thats the end.
That woman she has a kind heart and this husband of hers is just poo.

Im surprise to see some women still thinks themselves as nothing in this century.

HopeAtHand:


Dangotes wife walks in and meets him in a steamy situation. Whay does she do??.. She simply asks if she shud join and make it a 3some.

Make money and cheat on anyone..

iamrealdeji:
madam,whats your business with my comment? So,you said I'm insane because I made a joke right there? Was I talking to you? Or you're trying to mention someone else? I won't argue much with you,you can call me whatever you like

bebe2:


Men of these days are so Weak, so my husband cheated, so I will bring a strange man to his living room?

Or go out and come back late or neglect his kids?

Which day I start to fly? Well with some men u can get away with many things.

And all those saying she won't sleep with this or dat,
Pleassssseeee , take several sits. U don't know if she is or not.

Joy1706:

Its obvious ur just a glorified maid who thinks herself to be a wife. Your husband must have really done a number on ur self esteem. Your comments disgust me

bardella1:
buh it's ok for a man to constitute nuisance in d family cos hez d breadwinner

uckennety:

Nooo dts nt wt am saying!exactly but He who plays d piper dictates d tune!i married her,she didn't marry me!marriage is not relationship!let her gt matured and deal wid it

xtervaganza:
She brought a guy home? Are you joking?



You have to be joking. I'm married and if my wife comes home with another man I'll kill the man 1st before throwing her out



I would never chest kn her though

uckennety:

Nooo dts nt wt am saying!exactly but He who plays d piper dictates d tune!i married her,she didn't marry me!marriage is not relationship!let her gt matured and deal wid it

bardella1:
let her get matured and accept the fact dat her husband will continue cheatin on her bcs he married her